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I am here to support or represent my:
Robben
Stage of (Sailor’s) Navy Career?
Enlisted
When I heard “Navy,” I:
Was concerned or afraid, Needed to learn more about it, Was proud
From my experience with the Navy, the most important thing I learned was:
He's warm, he's fed, and he's getting paid, knowing he's ok!
Through this Navy experience, I now believe:
The Navy has a lot to offer, This was the best decision he/she could have made

*********************************HOOYA ! SAILOR****************************************************


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At 12:36pm on December 15, 2008, Laura Cardona said…
Hey Tammy! I didnt know your son is a BM, I saw your picture in the group for Boatswain mate lol... where he is stationed?
At 3:48pm on November 17, 2008, carols_kitchen said…
Hi--how's Robben doing these days? Andy had a big final exam today and I'm waiting to hear how it went. My fingers are crossed. If all went as expected, he should earn his 4th stripe this week. We are excited.
At 8:12pm on October 25, 2008, Laura Cardona said…
No he hasnt PIR yet..he will Nov.7th :) I cant wait for it!! Only 12 days ... it seems so long he was held back 2 weeks because he had to take a FAST class for his reading skills so he was mad about that at first but its all good now.. so BC will be 11 weeks total for him seems like forever lol... he is gonna be a boatwain's mate will do A school there at GL.
At 8:42pm on October 23, 2008, Laura Cardona said…
Hey Tammy, we're in between Monterey and San Jose California
we are CenCal- Norcal lol .... thanks for the info on the cadences love it!
At 3:26pm on October 21, 2008, Laura Cardona said…
Hey Tammy, Im from the Monterey Bay Area... Love your cadences where did you find them would love to put them on my page lol
At 8:49pm on October 10, 2008, Francine said…
Love your cadences!
At 2:33am on October 6, 2008, Tammy, Robbens mom said…
tracy isn't too far away from me, I drive for an auction and we take cars, and pick up there almost every day!!
At 3:01pm on October 3, 2008, carols_kitchen said…
I always swore that when we had a kid, I would never fight about hair. Long hair on guys was such a fight in the 60;s & 70's. I said if it's clean that would be good. So what do I get? A son with gorgeous hair who always wore it really really short. The few times he grew it out, it was golden with a light wave to it.
Of course, I thought having a son would mean an easier job sorting socks--was I mistaken!
At 2:52pm on October 3, 2008, Angie F.- WA: HM mom said…
Hey Tammy, no worries, please don't feel bad! Just wanted to clarify what you actually meant. I didn't have the benefit of seeing your whole note or knowing about the specific situation that proceeded it. We just need to watch what we write, because once it's posted, it's there for everyone to see, now and in the future. Don't want to freak out brand new moms! :)

As far as follow up, my plate is rather full with homeschooling three kids, plus I started a sponsor a Sailor effort on the Wa/Ore moms site and I follow quite a few groups and threads. So, I'll let you and the other Moms you know who would be interested take the lead on this one. I'll be standing by ready to assist. Make a friend request if you need to share any sensitive info and I'll respond. Hope you're feeling better, I got hit with a nasty bug last weekend myself. :( I'm still coughing but after three days in bed, I'm so glad to be up and about. My poor neglected house looks like a bomb went off, especially the kitchen, (kids made dinner etc.) so I'd better go turn my attention elsewhere. On second thought, maybe I'll just go take a nap! :-) Keep in touch.
At 4:57pm on September 29, 2008, Angie F.- WA: HM mom said…
Hi Tammy, I was dropping in to see if you had found out anything helpful for Mrs. Jackson, when I noticed your comment to our Admin. CC re: Boot Camp, specifically Suicides. I have some knowledge of the topic and would make myself available to discuss it with you, but I am concerned at some of your word choices. I'm curious what you meant by "beatings"? You are aware I hope that the RDCs and other officers are not allowed to touch the recruits in an assaultive manner? Also the phrase "ripped from their Mother's arms" seems rather emotionally charged and is not reflective of the "adult" choice each recruit makes to join the Navy and serve in the US military. I would agree at times it does feel as if our hearts are ripped out, but we must be careful not to project that upon them. :-)

Remember that part of the BC process is to take civilian kids from all backgrounds and walks of life, some with major "it's all about me", backtalkin' attitudes and chips on their shoulders, some who have been lazy and indulged and in 8 "short" weeks, break them down to build them back up into unselfish young men and women who are team players and ready to serve. They have to make them dig down deep to see what they are made of, to push them to and sometimes just beyond their limits, but never to a dangerous emotional breaking point. Some RDCs are better and more mindful of that I'll grant you.


Many kids come in emotionally wounded and weak, and only under the intensity of the BC experience, do issues that were previously hidden and perhaps ignored or somehow managed come to the surface. How trained the officers are to spot the signs, I don't know, but I do know that the Chaplains are available 24/7 to any recruit who needs them. They just have to ask, I'm sure many don't. The loss of even one is a tragedy and I share your concern. Just be careful to be objective and check your emotions and your facts.

Moms can advocate and make a difference. Things are getting better on Ship 17, largely I suspect because a group of vocal N4Ms and others demanded accountability and change. Perhaps the time has come to address this concern as well. Where or from whom did you "hear"about the three incidences? Do you have other Mom friends who would like to help with your inquiry and draft a plan to address this horrible situation? Sorry this post is so long! Let me know.
 
 

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