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planning in joining the Navy Reserve?
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Started this discussion. Last reply by GERI Jan 27.
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IF they give you the waivers, and let you join, it still would be less impactful than being active duty, in the long run, on your young family in terms of how much time you would be absent from them, depending on what rating you choose. Some go overseas more than others. Many just backfill positions stateside for Active Duty Sailors that are deployed.
Of course, as Hoppi pointed out, you still have to carry your own medical and though you would get a sign on bonus and be eligible to use the GI Bill, (for schooling, housing etc) the long term benefits are less. BTW: Its also very hard to change from Reserves to AD if you decide it's not the right fit for you, could take up to 2 years! Be sure what you choose is the path you want. If you really want it, then jump though every hoop you need to to get in. Be persistent, the squeaky wheel, there are always exceptions to the rules, but be willing to follow through on the opportunities 110%. You can't change your mind half way through. It's Honor, Courage and Commitment all the way.
As a Reservist, you still would have to go for 7-9 weeks of Boot Camp, with very little communication (letters from home, one letter a week from you, 2-5 phone calls total) followed by "A' school, (cell phones and laptops ok) the length of which varies, again depending on your rating. Your family would most likely not follow you there and your first leave home would probably be after you complete that training. That's a long time away, be sure you and they are emotionally prepared! You hand over control of your life when you raise your hand and make that oath, it's a serious commitment, AD or Reserves. The "Need of the Navy" will dictate what happens from there, not you or your families needs or wishes. Not trying to deter or discourage you, just trying to give you a realistic picture, since this choice is not just about you. You should think long and hard about this, it's very hard on marriages and families anyways, be sure you and your spouse are in total agreement and that you have a good support system to help when you are gone. That's IF they let you in. Let us know what you find out and how it goes. God Bless and best wishes no matter what path you chose. :-)
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