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How do you deal with less-than-supportive relatives?
Hi Arwen, I know this topic oh so well because I am living this situation right now. I have signed all the paper work to leave in May and my mother is the biggest opposer of them all. What makes matt…
Tagged: grandma, anti-war, relatives
Replied Sep 26
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Hi Luvyezika, I'm here for you if you need to talk. luv ya your friend Pam (A's step-mom)
Hi Arwen,
I know this topic oh so well because I am living this situation right now. I have signed all the paper work to leave in May and my mother is the biggest opposer of them all. What makes matters worst is that she had to signed for the custod…
Everyone-- I just talked to the recruiter today and I start my trainings next month in October once a month so I have to give it my best.
Bea S. -- My babies are 8 and 3 and my mother signed the paper work for them to stay with her. --Julie -- Maybe my mother has the same concerns as you and this is the reason why she does not want me to join.
I agree with Anti M because I read somewhere on this site that this is not the place to put up names, or any information that can pin point your sailors identity to anyone. This is why I have posted a pic of a bell and not of me. I don't agree with…
How old are the kids? Who will have custody?
I was that mom With the country being at war the last thing I wanted was for MY children to be in the military. I was so scared that I would lose them. My son has been in about a year now, and it was truly the best decision he ever made. Now I am de…
I will mention to him the web page but he is not computer savvy so I or my brother will have to sit down with him. Thank you so much.
You mention your Dad supports you...there is a site similar to this for dads it is called navydads.com. Have him check it out. My husband joined that site not long after I joined this one. He really enjoyed reading about what was going on and he can…
I.Y.A.O.Y.A.S. -- Yes I am going in as an E-3 in the reserve. I chose reserve because I am cutting into my masters courses when I leave in May and I want to finish my classes before I enlist full time. I also have a mortgage that I want to get rid o…
Thank you everyone for your support and inspirational comments. You guys are the best support system. I am still trying to muster all my thoughts and courage to speak to my mother and really tell her how I feel. She is very judgemental and maybe tha…
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I need some support
Hello all this is my first blog and I hope someone will confort me and guide me.
I have been wanting to join the military since high school but my mother did not approve and since I was young I did as she told me which was to go to college and get a degree. While in college I had my first son and I was so determine to keep going further not to dissapoint my mother and to be able to provide for my son. I put the military to the side and most of my friends joined or got married to someone in the m… Continue
I have been wanting to join the military since high school but my mother did not approve and since I was young I did as she told me which was to go to college and get a degree. While in college I had my first son and I was so determine to keep going further not to dissapoint my mother and to be able to provide for my son. I put the military to the side and most of my friends joined or got married to someone in the m… Continue
Posted on September 21, 2009 at 9:45pm — 21 Comments
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- At 12:14am on September 23, 2009,
Barbara's Page said…
- Dear luvyesika,
God bless you, your still taking up college courses. This will all benefit you when you in the Navy.
You poor thing, that's difficult, studying while your sons are still so young.
I did it too, but my children were a little bit older, when I returned back to school. It was still hard, working full time, homework, dinner and racing out for classes. Can't forget about finding time to study! UGH!
But, it's all worth it, in the long run.
Let me run. Good writting to you again.
Take care and God bless,
Barbara
- At 11:22pm on September 22, 2009,
Vickie said…
- LOL I wish you all the best!!! Just remember that as mothers we have to make very tough decisions and then stand by them. Your mother may not come around to the Navy thing but you will always be her daughter and she will love you just for that reason alone.
STAY STRONG!!!
- At 11:07pm on September 22, 2009,
Barbara's Page said…
- Dear luvyezikia,
How are your doing today? I hope all is well.
After reading your blog, you have done great, good for you. Like I said, you'll never regret your education. You'll have that to fall back on.
You wrote that you have always wanted to enlist in the Navy, do it. That's where your heart is. As long as your mom has custody of your sons, that's one less thing for you to worry about.
This is for you, you need to follow your heart, if you don't then you'll have regrets later in life.
My prayers are with you.
Take care and God bless,
Barbara
- At 5:11pm on September 22, 2009,
A's step-mom said…
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- At 12:23am on September 22, 2009,
Barbara's Page said…
- Dear Luyvezika,
I wrote on your blog.
My prayers are with you.
Take care and God bless,
Barbara
- At 2:58pm on September 21, 2009,
Barbara's Page said…
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Feel free to write,
Take care,
Barbara
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