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At 9:03pm on September 3, 2009, two sons I love said…
My youngest who is in the DEP program (delayed enlistment) has a friend who just found out he has to have eye surgery also. He will also have to wait for a while before he can have the surgery. I am not sure what "job" he will be doing when he first joins. He was pretty devistated at first. He is committed to being in the Navy and doing whatever it takes to become a SEAL. I can ask my son more details to give you more information. Your son's situtation sound almost exactly like what happend to my son's friend.

I never thought I would have two sons in the military. Fortunately, the oldest is the only one currently in BUDS at this time. My youngest will go to basic next summer. I have had time getting used to the possibility of both of them some day being SEALs. I look at it in terms of what they want to do with their lives. They both feel a strong sense of duty to their country and feel vey passionate about serving. It is not about me. This is their dream and I ultimately want what will make them happy and I want to be supportive. I am happy that they both found something that they want to do. So many young people do not know what they would like to do with their lives. Am I scared--of course. I can only think about the dangers of it all in very small increments--plus I pray a lot!
At 7:54pm on September 1, 2009, two sons I love said…
Sorry I have been out-of-touch. am just getting back on the Navy site. My oldest son joined the Navy last May. He went thru boot camp and the 14 week prep course after boot camp to get ready for BUDS in CA. He is in CA now in BUDS training. My youngest son just joined the Navy this past August. He is in the delayed enlistment program. He will leave for boot camp next August. He just signed his SEAL contract last week. You will be amazed at what your son will be able to handle. What specific questions do you have? Are you afraid of anything in paticular? we have been on this journey since November and we felt clueless as well--not too much anymore. I hope I can help.
At 12:07pm on August 25, 2009, Ronnie said…
Hello, lol, we all learn from experience I'm sorry to say.
After he rang the bell he was in limbo for quite some time. He had no other job or contract as he went in on a SEAL contract. So my son had to pick another job and sign a new contract. He picked rescue swimmer. Before he went to Florida for this school, he basically sat around and did nothing which is very sad as it gives them time to think about their decision. They have to wait two years before trying for SEAL again which will probably mean signing another contract.
My son was told he needed the surgery and he had no choice. Personally he would have loved to wait for the surgery and begin BUDS when he was scheduled. He feels the long wait to begin BUDS was his downfall although he really isn't sure. While healing they really don't encourage you do much. My son says he sees better now then when he had his contacts in but he still would have rather waited but he had no choice.
I will be happy to answer any question you have if I can. Kimandtheboys is a fountain of knowledge so reach out to her too.
Enjoy the day!
Ronnie
At 9:07am on August 23, 2009, Ronnie said…
Hello and thanks for the message. I'm afraid I haven't been on this site in quite a while. I had been sick for a long time and also suffering with leg pain after a surgery and finally after almost a year I'm feeling myself again.
My son rang the bell. To this day he doesn't understand why he did it. He said it was like an out of body experience he had no intentions for quitting, he loved it. He took it badly but he finally accepted what happened. He just completed A school and will be going to VA. He is counting the days till he can try for SEAL again (you have to wait 2 years before trying again). He lives for the day he becomes a SEAL, he will make it the next time.
Good luck to your son, let me know how he does, tell him to stay focused, the team is everything the pain temporary. God bless him and all the sailors, HOOYAH!
Ronnie

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I'm a single Mom with a son who gave up all he had going for him to try for the Navy SEALs. I'm proud of him, but also scared and new at this. He is the only one in entire family that has chosen this path. Looking for support.
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It was positive and maturing. Our relationship has grown stronger.
 
 

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