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I'm an Army brat and a Navy veteran. I served eight years around Desert Storm. My husband is retired Navy. When my one and only son stated at 13 that he wanted to join the Navy (Special Forces) we were not surprised, but doubtful. I imagine it's much like your child stating they want to be the President or an astronaut. "That's nice dear." we said out loud but secretly had our doubts he would stick to any commitment. To our amazement, he proved true to his goal over the next five years, training himself in everything he could to prepare himself. He excelled in the martial arts and when all his high school classmates were getting their drivers liscenses, he was running to school every day with his overloaded backpack (you know the one ladies, full of 50 pounds of books, ipod, cd's etc.) and ankle weights. Everyone, including his classmates all thought he was a bit tetched in the head and then finally graduation was here. He came to his father and I with the paperwork to sign because he was only 17 and what choice did I really have? To hold him back til he was 18 and resented me for it? I signed them believing the recruiter who told us we would have him for the summer at least. Being ex military, I should have known better because he left less than 2 weeks later. My baby, my only child, into the military in the worst political climate I could have imagined. I cried every day and then boot camp was over and off he went onto the next phase of his training. He called not long ago, still getting through yet another phase of his training and thanked his father and I for raising him so well, sounding so mature, admitting we were right about so many things I'm still gobsmacked with shock. "Who is this?" I said, "and what have you done with my son?" while wiping away tears of pride. I'm still waiting for the aliens to return my turkey. He didn't make it through training for the special forces. Physically able the instructors said, mentally... maybe bit off too much, too young. He's ok with that. He's an Aviation Rescue Swimmer now. Think Ashton Kutcher in The Guardian, with hopes of going back in a few years to BUDS. I'm so proud of him and the choices he has made and the Navy for completing the job of making him the young man he has become. Like so many proud military moms...wish the military would slap some of those recruiters around tho. Ever hear the term "full disclosure". Some of the turkeys friends joined the military as well and ohhh the horror stories of promises made. Some of these recruiters should be ashamed of themselves. My sailor is on his way tho.
I am here to support or represent my:
Turkey
From my experience with the Navy, the most important thing I learned was:
How to create my own MySpace page to communicate more frequently with the turkey.


My son.

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Don't forget me cause I need you...

...and since I just found you rockin moms on this site a few weeks ago, I've become addicted and needy for your support and understanding! So, as I spend the next two weeks with family visiting, and helping me take my mind off my emptynest syndrome, don't forget about me, because I'll try to pop in as often as I can and I will be back! XOXOXOX

Posted on November 3, 2008 at 2:59am — 2 Comments

politelytwisted

It's Xbox revenge isn't it?

So just as I'm feeling a bit down that I haven't heard from the Turkey in a couple of weeks, he phones me this afternoon. As usual, every question, thought, story of things happening here at home, everything, flies out of my head in my happiness that he has phoned. I find myself repeating every word of his news like I've just learned the english language and need confirmation of what he has said. Do they make a pill for this stuttering, mind stumbling affliction? It's no wonder he gets me on the… Continue

Posted on October 26, 2008 at 11:09pm — 3 Comments

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At 8:39pm on March 4, 2009, Under the Radar Mom said…
Hello,
Dropping by to say hello, and to see the progress of the Turkey. My Beast is waiting to class up.
At 9:47pm on November 27, 2008, Linda J said…
Hi Politelytwisted, just wanted to stop in and say "happy Thanksgiving" How is everything going? Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday, but not really this year. I am very sad for some reason. I shouldn't be, I have everything in the world to be 'thankful"for. My son called me to wish me a Happy thanksgiving,,I guess you just have days like this,but I don't like them.
At any rate, I did not come by to complain...I love reading your stuff, you are a very good writer.Have a great night
At 1:20pm on November 4, 2008, Sherry James said…
Hi Politelytwisted,

Wow, sounds like your son "Turkey" is perhaps the third generation military in your family! Congratulations and thank you all for your service to our great country. Feel free to drop by my page when you can, Sherry
At 3:14pm on November 3, 2008, Under the Radar Mom said…
Hi Turkey Mom,
We had the same conversation about not getting bullied into something he would hate. He spent about 3 weeks thinking about his options, and went in on his own and said what he wanted to do. I know he will like his choice, and it sounds like he will get some transferable skills too.
At 6:56pm on November 2, 2008, Under the Radar Mom said…
Hi There Twisted Turkey Mom,
I enjoyed your page and reading about "The Turkey". My son will soon be moving to Fl for rescue swimmer. His dad and I are excited that he got such a good rate after dropping from BUD's.
At 9:22am on November 1, 2008, Heloisa/N's mom said…
What tv comercial? I must be missing something... Is it still running? Can you tell me what station, or chanel? I have Directv.
At 12:28am on October 27, 2008, Dolores said…
I am sorry ... not the Illinois Moms but the Rescue Sailor group ... either way you deserve a big thanks!!
At 12:27am on October 27, 2008, Dolores said…
Thanks for the offer ... my son has lived in Bremerton since 2006 and will not be able to come home for TG. I don't know what his plans are but I greatly appreciate your offer on Illinois moms!!
At 10:47pm on October 26, 2008, Cora-Brooklyns Mom said…
Yea I know what you mean about how women were treated however my daughter gave them a little taste of what she is about when she went to MEPS and they wanted to try and talk her out of the rate she chose and tried to get her to take one in which she basically would be a mech helper she used another word for it which I will not repeat here! Well she proved them she could pass and score high enough to get what she wanted and shocked them all! Her Recruiter was Proud of that! He knew she could do it! She won't let them walk on her! She could probably teach them a few things! LOL
At 10:02pm on October 26, 2008, Cora-Brooklyns Mom said…
Wow!! My Son to will be 20 in jan!! On the 21st!! he is not the one in the Navy though. My youngest daughter is the one who joined this past summer. She is in Pensacola waiting to start A School! She was suppose to start Nov now it has been put on hold till Jan. She is so bummeed over it! She went in to be AM and while in BC at GL they changed her rate to AD. She doesn't mind though. She just wanted to be on Flight Deck instead of Hangar Bay but she will live with it for now she says. yes message everyday on myspace peobably is to much if he uses it to talk to his friends! LOL But I know how you feel. I would be the same way!! Letters in the mail I think are the best because they are written and something they can reread through the years and hold on to and treasure!! They may not think some things we Moms tell them now make sense but down the road they will wake up and say Wow mom was right!! I have letters my father wrote me and I treasure them. They mean so much to me as he is no longer around and has been gone from my life since I was 25. The letters helped me through the years! Your letters will help your Son too!!
 
 

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