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Call about past medical record....
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I understand exactly what you are saying. My son went to basic last year in August and had the same issue. He is now trying to go to community college but struggling. He is trying to find a job without any luck however. My biggest concern now is try…
Our son is home now. I was just overwhelmed when I saw him. I was just laughing and crying when he jump off the bus. I just could not believe the handsome strong young man that is my son! He is wearing the attractive eye wear that the Navy gives you…
Well I hope you and your daughter are enjoying each other now! Tell Shai I'm glad she's home and I am still very proud of her. I have learned that God has a purpose for all of us and he has something really good planned for her! I am counting down t…
Okay...I am breathing now! Update: I called the transportation number today (Thank you so much for the numbers!) and explained our son's problem. He told me that since he is going to go by bus home, he does not need his ID! I was so relieved to hear…
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Our son is supposed to leave Friday. But, they are saying he needs an ID to board the bus. They took his meps id and also took his military id. His license is here at home. Does anyone one know if Greyhound will take a photocopy of his license? They…
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He is a true hero and will be missed. God bless you all.
Our son is supposed to leave Friday. But, they are saying he needs an ID to board the bus. They took his meps id and also took his military id. His license is here at home. Does anyone one know if Greyhound will take a photocopy of his license? They…
I seem to recall others who are still in who had taken those meds in their early years. Document everything.
Tell him his best "revenge" is to succeed as a civilian. He should get his college degree and maybe he re-apply as an officer (if that's wha…
Best of luck to you and your son, Robyn!!!! : )
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- I am a mom of a discharged sailor. I am a stay at home mom and I do pastries and cakes on the side. I am here for some help dealing with the whole Navy life and what I can do to help. I am a really good listener and will help anyone. My son and I are really close and I am taking it a little hard but, I am so excited and proud of him. I have a very weird sense of humor and I love to make people laugh.
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Hardest blog I've ever written.....
I am writting this blog with the heaviest of heart. I got the call today that our son is being discharged out of the Navy. The past medical was he had taken adderol and paxil when he was in 4rth grade. They decided he cannot serve in the Navy. I am writting this with tears and heartache. He sounded so crushed on the phone. He has tried so hard and didn't have that much time left. I just posted that he was finally doing well and was his old self again. He was so excited.... He was so heartbroken.… Continue
Posted on September 24, 2009 at 8:54pm — 14 Comments
Roller Coaster ride we call BC...
There are so many ups and downs with our son in Boot Camp. One letter and phone call things aren't going so great. Then YOO HOO, GOOD LETTER! Last I had wrote we had the whole medical thing to worry about. Well, I think everything is back on track! I got a GREAT letter yesterday! He was his old crazy joking self again. 3 weeks and 3 days left till GRADUATION was the first thing on his letter. That told me YEA things are getting better! But, he said the 4rth week is hell week.. Sorry but thats th… Continue
Posted on September 24, 2009 at 11:09am — 2 Comments
hard day today...
Okay, I know that we all have really hard days... Today is one of mine. I feel so helpless. I cannot write Robert because I haven't recieved his new address. He was transfered to a different Division and ship. He only had time to give me Ship 13 Div 365. I want to tell him its going to be alright. I just want to get his medical taken care of . Today is hard, I can't stop worrying or crying... I have been doing alright because I had that outlet of writing him. Eighteen years I have had with this… Continue
Posted on September 21, 2009 at 3:34pm — 7 Comments
Got a Phone Call...change in PIR date.
My phone rings.. there is a young man on the line... It's my kiddoe! I just felt some much happiness and was wondering who's voice this actually is..not my kiddoes...no, this is a grown up..lol Mom, I have had a set back. I had some problems with some guys in my division and I am going to another class to help me through my problems. I was so heart broken that he was having such a hard time. His PIR date is now, OCT 16th...one more week added. He said this class would help him so, I was glad it… Continue
Posted on September 8, 2009 at 1:29pm — 6 Comments
No "3 line" yet..:(
I jump up every morning and run to the post office to see if MAYBE there might be a special letter there... I know, they are really busy the first week with medical and paper work... But, I have already sent out letters to my son (other people too!Yay!) and his buddy from DEP and is having BIG HOPES he got it! Yesterday was my 9th annual 29th birthday (haha) and it was really sad because my son always was so funny and tacky about my birthday! We always had fun together! I am very anxious to hear… Continue
Posted on August 27, 2009 at 11:33am — 2 Comments
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- At 9:39am on October 14, 2009,
stanford66 said…
- Well everybody, our son is home! He looks great and the glasses are very interesting..lol I just laughed and cried when I saw him and hugged him for a good long while... Dad and his brother was right there.. we all just held each other. He is okay just getting used to not waking up and running and standing at attention or doing the turn thing. He did break down when we got him home and just explained some of his problems while he was there. I really think this was all for the best. But, we get him home Saturday and I "mommy" him by having his room ready for him, clothes clean, breakfast Sunday...etc... and then one of his friends show up Sunday afternoon... We have not seen him since. We had his phone turned back on. I get calls ever so often. We are a little hurt that he has not spent any time with us. I have been doing research for grants for school,had a good job lined up for next week for him to have time to decide what to do next. I just don't know what to think... Am I reading too much into this? I know, he is an adult now and he has to do stuff for himself. I just wanted to make things a little easier for him. I am worried that some of these "friends" are just going to bring him down. I hate being like this but I want just the best of future for him. Maybe I thought things would be different...I don't know what to think, now.
- At 3:00pm on October 9, 2009,
Bea S. said…
- Please tell your son that even though he is no longer "in active service" you and he are still part of the Navy family. His desire to serve his country is valued. My older son graduated from college, then joined the Navy as a nuke officer. My younger son was at West Point for two years. He discovered he and the military were not compatible. West Point kept him at the post for two long months. My husband and I thought it was ludicrous and stupid. This son is doing just fine going to college. It will take time to adjust (possibly even a year) but everything will be OK. If you need help, please contact me. "Friend Request" me and send me a private message if you prefer.
Regards, Bea
- At 1:44pm on September 29, 2009,
Nate's Mom (Wendy) ;P said… - Just popin in to see if your doing okay and if your son is doing okay too. Hope you both are!!
- At 12:05pm on September 27, 2009,
A's step-mom said…
Hi my friend, Glad you are staying on. I would miss you alot. Keep me informed how he is doing. Tell him everything happens for a reason. I know he is down now, but things will turn around for him. He has alot of life to find out what he wants to do. It seems bad now but he will be just fine. God has another plan for him, and he will be great at it. How are you doing, you are a tuff women you will make it threw this. I'm here and all of the other moms to help you. If you need to vent, you can vent to me. I won't ever turn you away, you are my friend. When A leaves for BC I will need you too. Will you have a nice Sunday and take care of yourself. luv ya your friend Pam (A's step-mom)
- At 11:14am on September 26, 2009,
A's step-mom said…
- Hi Stanford66, Are you going to stay on N4M's? I sure want you too! Doesn't matter if he has to have a discharge. Everything happens for a reason, God has better plans for him. Hang in there and I'm here for you. luv ya your friend Pam (A's step-mom)
- At 8:47pm on September 25, 2009,
Rose R said… - Welcome to Moms of discharged sailors. sorry to hear about your son's story. Recruiters guiding young people to withhold info is a old story. Many of the Separated recruits have similar tales. Write to your son and encourage him to focus on a new plan, Life is full of unwelcome surprises. read the info at the top of ship 17 Moms also, lots of discharge info.
- At 8:13am on September 25, 2009,
D's Mom-Lori (ship10div367) said… - I just came accross your blog post. I am so sorry to hear this. I would try checking in to this legally as someone stated above. Take care, and I will pray for you and your son.
- At 9:11pm on September 24, 2009,
Nate's Mom (Wendy) ;P said…
- Your blog broke my heart. But I wanted to tell you and your son to not hang your head down. Right now scuttlebutt (rumors) has it that the navy is so over manned that by the end of the year they need to let go 40k Sailors. I mean there are alot of Sailors discharged for things that are just plain stupid. It is NOT because of you or your son. It is the sign of the times right now. He has NOTHING to be ashamed about. I dont know if he is able to enlist at another time or not. But just by the sear fact that he was willing to do what he had to do and to do it so unselfishly, I am sure alot would agree he is a HERO in my book. I am soo sorry for your heart ache and for his. No words can take that sting out of it but I hope continues to follow another dream. I dont know why the good Lord close certain doors but it is true he never closes them that one doesnt open instead for him. I hope that after this economy takes a swing on the other side he might think about joining again. He is certainly someone I would not have a problem serving right long side my Sailor. The best of luck to you both. I will keep you in thoughts. Just keep in mind it is because of economy and NOT him!!!!
- At 11:06pm on September 22, 2009,
JaLeDu Mom said… - Would your son like a letter from a boy scout? We did letters to the guys when they were in boot camp and I have a straggler request.
- At 7:13pm on September 21, 2009,
Angela Rose said… - Thanks I am so proud of her the navy has really matured her, but we do miss her so much. I hope everything works out well for your son. If you don't mind keep me updated on how things go for him.
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