This site is for mothers of kids in the U.S. Navy and for Moms who have questions about Navy life for their kids.

FIRST TIME HERE?

FOLLOW THESE STEPS TO GET STARTED:

Choose your Username.  For the privacy and safety of you and/or your sailor, NO LAST NAMES ARE ALLOWED, even if your last name differs from that of your sailor (please make sure your URL address does not include your last name either).  Also, please do not include your email address in your user name. Go to "Settings" above to set your Username.  While there, complete your Profile so you can post and share photos and videos of your Sailor and share stories with other moms!

Make sure to read our Community Guidelines and this Navy Operations Security (OPSEC) checklist - loose lips sink ships!

Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

Format Downloads:

Latest Activity

Navy Speak

Click here to learn common Navy terms and acronyms!  (Hint:  When you can speak an entire sentence using only acronyms and one verb, you're truly a Navy mom.)

N4M Merchandise


Shirts, caps, mugs and more can be found at CafePress.

Please note: Profits generated in the production of this merchandise are not being awarded to the Navy or any of its suppliers. Any profit made is retained by CafePress.

Navy.com Para Familias

Visite esta página para explorar en su idioma las oportunidades de educación y carreras para sus hijos en el Navy. Navy.com

Badge

Loading…

Today is my day to cry for no reason

For a Mom who is always the strong one who everyone else leans on in hard times today is that day that nightmares are made of.  I am so emotional for absolutely no reason. My SR has not given any indication that anything is wrong there, my other children and grandchildren seem to be happy and healthy but I simply can not go ten minutes without crying.

I really just want work, people, traffic.....well, everything to just go away. I know that this is not helpful to me or any of my kids who are missing their sister but I can't seem to help myself.  I cry because people write about getting "The box" and I know that it came but it went to her Dad's house and I did not even get to see it.  I cry because people talk about getting that form letter and finding little notes written by their SR and I will never see mine because it went to her Dads house.  I guess today is just my day to have a pity party but it is just really not fun.

I know that I am not alone in feeling lost.  I guess what bothers me is that I have never been the clingy mom who cried because her children were spreading their wings and testing out their place in the world. but today I just wish that I could move them all back home with me and have it go back the way it was before their were these awesome young adults who make me so proud.

Views: 172

Comment by proudmoas ship03 Div 354 on July 26, 2013 at 8:34pm

I feel your pain.. I cry every time someone ask me about him, every time I look at his pictures, everytime I think about him etc... .  I also think about how I want things to go back to the way things used to be. I hope you feel better know that you are not alone .

Comment by Flo'sMom on July 29, 2013 at 11:40am

BR549, I can not even imagine a year without seeing one of my kids.  I am in hopes that no matter where she is stationed or deployed I will have the option of at least going to visit for a weekend but I have no idea of the rules on that type of thing.  I hope your son and his fiance are able to get some time together and that they are able to get some time with you.  Thank you so much for your support it means the world to me.

Proudmoas, I feel much better knowing that I am not alone and I hope that it is a comfort for you as well. I have a great support group at home that reminds me often that she is following her heart and that I should not try to control or change it but to just accept it and be supportive.  I am so proud of her for her strength and I am thankful for each an every son, daughter, brother, sister, mother and father that is out there doing this because they and their families are sacrificying so much for us.

Comment by Patty on August 1, 2013 at 7:55pm

I am crying now, just reading everyones post. I feel for each and every one of you. My oldest daughter who will be deploying with the Marines in 23 days will be gone for a year, I will miss celebrating her 21st birthday. My youngest and last daughter left for navy boot camp on July 2nd, I am still trying to get use to the empty nest. Though I am very proud of them both, I miss them so much that I too sometimes break down and cry. I hope all of you are doing well, and staying strong.

Comment by jean uffalussy on August 1, 2013 at 9:18pm

Sometimes crying is just what is needed.  If you need a shoulder, I will listen or cry with you.  

Comment

You need to be a member of Navy For Moms to add comments!

Join Navy For Moms

© 2024   Created by Navy for Moms Admin.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service