When my son left for Boot Camp, we were able to go down the night before and spend dinner with him. Then the next day, we were able to see his swearing in and then it was a quick goodbye. Kinda of like ripping off a band aid. But from what I have read from others, each MEPS can be different. So I would talk to her recruiter. Another bit of advice I would give you with her leaving in Feb. Have her running now and do the physical aspects. It seemed when my kiddo went through (His PIR was 10/11/19) that it was the physical part that held up people the fastest. So if she is practice to get up to where see needs to be it will be a cake walk once she gets to Boot Camp.
thank you for the info-I wish she would take the getting in shape more seriously-she is finally running in the 18 minutes-thought she would never get to that!keeping my fingers crossed!
thank you for your advice and my thoughts are with you as you are going through this difficult transition-keep the faith and I hope you hear from your son soon!