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Comment by NitaSewBee on April 18, 2011 at 11:13pm

 Thanks for saying that. I only wrote from gut reaction myself. and after I wrote it, I wonder'd if you would get mad at me for what I said." No one  knows what goes on behind  closed doors." Its  the name of a song by George Jones I think. But it is true. Appearances may say alot, but even  if a couple seems to have a happy life, doesn't make it so.. Life can be a real eye opener.at times. and things happen to snap  you back to reality. We only get mad at what we don't understand. I  hope things look up for her, and I hope God uses this for good. like maybe now her relationship with her hubby  will have to be  looked at closer. MAybe  he didn't realize just unhappy she really was, and maybe  she couldn't  talk about  things deep inside because she didn't want to be judged. HAve patience, she will turn to you  soon. Maybe she couldn't tell you what was going on because she was afraid of your  reaction.  I can relate to her story in alot of ways.  Because in a past elationship long before I met my hubby I was engaged. Well  my ex fiance thought he was all that, was only  concerned with appearances, very judgemental, worried about what other people thought. after a while, started to take me for granted, Meanwhile I was working in a  institution for the mentallly disabled. It was a very stressful job, and there was  a guy there who became my friend. Nothing happened between us, we were just friends. He understood me  in a way that no one else did. Well  my boyfriend found out because i told him , we broke up.He thought I was cheating on him for sex, but I wasn't.. My emotional needs weren't being met, I needed support, and my ex was  was judgemental. He wanted me to be prim, proper, right thing at the right time. Heck i am almost 54, I still don't always do the right thing at the right time. why change now. But everyone  thought our relationship was so  great. but something was missing. I was "looking for love in all the wrong places. "Johnny PAycheck MAybe  this is what happened with your friend. If she loved and believed  in herself, she  probably wouldn't have  gotten steered the wrong direction, or perhaps  she was trying to  help another person and got caught up in the  process. I hope everything works out for  your friend.

Comment by Carol on April 18, 2011 at 10:47pm

wow marcy that is such a sad story, but i will pray for all involved, now she really is gonna need someone for sure to help her out of this whole tragedy , i hope she will seek some kind of help, she will need to for sure!!!!!! wow alls you can do now for her is just to be there for her, and pray real hard!!!!! just make sure she gets some help, really to carry all the burden s will be real hard for her, wow this is a real hard thing to deal with, i fell bad for her and all involved, not an easy time for anyone, its a tradgey on both sides!!!!

Comment by Marcy on April 18, 2011 at 4:38pm

No Nita, you are right in so many ways. She use to date this guy along time ago when her and I use to be single. Apparently she has never gotten over him.. I feel so bad for the 2 men that died, for their famlies too. One was only 33 and the other 47. The 33 year old was on Megans law and not that that makes it right either but who knows if they were drinking too. They did a toxicology test on them too so if they were drunk as well it work in her favor but who knows. We will find out and she will need all of our support and love. SHe is so worried that we are all mad at her. No, well maybe a little but like I said before it is disappointment more than anything. Thank you for your opinion it is well appreciated. You are right too she must have been missing something in life to do this. Only time will tell.

Comment by NitaSewBee on April 18, 2011 at 3:03pm

 Prayers for your friend and her family. This is hard to handle. We think we know what is going  om but we find out  how wrong we can be. The fact she was with someone who is far down in character leads me to believe she felt she didn't deserve all that she had. The fact that 2 men died  because of this is even sadder. I pray that  in time, things will heal. The hubby , all though he seems  like he could be everything, may be  that, or perhaps so much more, something has got to be wrong that she  lower'd herself to  such  a level, or perhaps she felt like  she wasn't needed, and that this druggiy  needed her, anf she got attached to him. No one really knows for sure, just that this is a huge wake up call here. I hope God can heal the brokedness,  You say  you are disillusioned in it, I doubt  you can begin to reach  what she has to be feeling. She will have to deal with the result of her actions for a long time to come. Its going to be a rough ride for all involved. If this sounds brutally honest, I am sorry, She is gonna need your friendship.

Comment by Marcy on April 18, 2011 at 1:34pm

Oh my gosh where oh where do I begin. It has been a crazy weekend here at the home front. My cousin who is like sister to me was in a serious car accident on Friday night. Her husband was at fishing camp with her son and she was out and about. Well her and a 'Friend" were coming home from a bar and crossed the center line and wrecked into another car. The other car burst into flames and they 2 men died. They were trapped in the car and couldn't get out. She is banged up pretty good and is going to be hurting in so many ways now. Let's just say she was cheating on her husband and has been for a while. Ya know I thought I knew her and she knows she can come to me for anything. I can't understand why she would do something like this. She had it all, a great husband, 4 wonderful kids, and a great teaching career. I keep trying to make rhyme or reason out of it and I can't, no one can. I know no marriage is perfect but I looked up to her for what she had and at one time before I met my husband wanted to clone hers so I could have what she had. I guess she wanted her cake and eat too. I am just beside myself and so is the rest of the family. Her husband is soooo torn up about it and he said it is over between them. The sad thing is the guy she was with is a druggy and drinks all the time. I know her husband is not perfect but come on she had everything but apparently not enough for her. She is coming home today and like I said she is like a sister to me and always will be but I am so angry and disappointed in her, everyone is.

I hope you all had a good weekend though.

Comment by Marcy on April 16, 2011 at 9:12pm

That sounds so wonderful Blondie. That would be a fun to do.

 

Comment by Marcy on April 15, 2011 at 2:43pm

That is so wonderful Blondie

Comment by Marcy on April 15, 2011 at 9:15am

You are right Blondie, media is not our friend.

I was reading on Japan moms and went back just 3 pages and saw your pictures of the Lions and Tigers. Does your son work there at the Zoo you said? I would love to work with the lions and tigers, I love them. When we go to the Pitts. Zoo I could stand there and just watch them all day. They are such beautiful animals. The one Lion at the Pitts. Zoo was just put down not too long ago, he was really old and had some sorta sickness too. He was beautiful though.

Comment by Marcy on April 14, 2011 at 10:43pm

About the baby thing, I was looking at a magazine tonight at Walmart and it said about that teen mom show that is on. I dont' know about you guys but that is just glorifying the teen pregnancy thing to me. I have never personally watched that show and don't care to. That is a dumb show to me and they need to take it off the air.

Comment by Marcy on April 14, 2011 at 10:41pm

Well, I didn't do very well on my test last week but some of the people who usually do very well didn't do good either. The girl that sits beside me, Becky, missed 11 and thought oh my there isn't noway I got my usual -12. Well I got -21 instead. Not happy but not fretting over it either. I have gotten all "B's" on my test so that is good. I will pass either way and we have our final to go so I will do great on it and get a B in the class, crossed fingers there.

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