Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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  • Michael

    From what I was told you can't get your ID until you get the form from your husband and that's usually the 6th week or so. Anyone else got a better answer
  • NavyWifey1018

    Ohh okay, thanks! So the form letter is not the letter you receive with the graduation info?
  • Ladybug613

    NavyWifey1018-My husband is in bootcamp right now and I just got my ID yesterday.  At about week 5 I got a letter and a form that he filled out.  I had to find a place locally that did them (I just looked online) and I made an appointment.  They gave me the ID right on the spot.  My husband is now week 7 in bootcamp.  Hope this helps!  Let me know if you have any other questions!!

  • Ladybug613

    NavyWifey1018--also, the form letter that everyone talks about is the letter with all the graduation info, but that letter has nothing to do with the form you receive to go get your ID...the form for your ID will come at a later week and is completely separate.

  • Anti M

    The form for the ID card is a DD-1172.  It will look like this:

    http://www.cac.mil/docs/dd1172-2.pdf

    Do not print that out, he has to send a signed one to you.

    How to find where to go get the ID card once you have the form, use RAPIDS:

    https://www.dmdc.osd.mil/rsl/appj/site?execution=e2s1

  • Bronco14

    Hi ladies, Tricare/pharmacy question here. I typically get my prescription medicine delievered by Express Scripts through Tricare with their home delivery service at no cost. There was an issue with that this month and I've had to resort to my local pharmacy where I have to pay a co-pay. If I choose the on base pharmacy instead is there no co-pay? Thanks in advance!
  • Anti M

    No co-pay on base!

  • Bronco14

    I knew I could count on your Anti M! Thanks!!
  • Anti M

    The base pharmacy I go to is AF, and they are giving out three months at a time on maintenance meds now. Love it.
  • Paige

    Hi you all, does anybody know how many times an E-1 gets paid during A school, I know my husband gets his E-1 pay, but does he only get it once a month or will he get the E-1 on the 1st & 15th.? Thanks!
  • Anti M

    By the time they finish boot camp, they should be paid on the 1st and the 15th, or the business day before if that falls on a weekend or holiday.  BAH also is split between the two pay days.

    Remember, his base pay is taxable, so factor that into the amount deposited.

  • Paige

    Okay, so technically he will be getting paid roughly $3000 a month during A school.? If he gets paid $1500 on the 1st & the 15th.?
  • Michael

    I don't know what pay scale you are looking at E1 does not make that much
  • Michael

    E1 makes $1500 a month
  • Paige

    My husband told me that he gets paid $1500 twice a month during A school, plus the separation pay & bah.! Is that information accurate?
  • Michael

    Just google military pay. His base pay is 1546 a month. Plus whatever his BAH is dependent where he is based
  • Michael

    Separation pay is only when they are deployed and that's $300 a month
  • Pobs

    Separation pay is $250 a month if you are apart for 30 days.
  • Michael

    But you won't get all the bah as he needs it for his housing if your not going with him.
  • Anti M

    He's in A school, he will not be authorized to use the BAH, so it will be for her, based on her zip code.  He is required to turn it over as part of the responsibility of having a dependent. Once he gets to his first command, the zip code changes to that area, and they decide as a couple if she will move there, and what his living situation will be.  As a junior sailor, he wouldn't even see BAH until he makes E-5 if he were single.  She deserves that allowance, not him.  He can live on the ship.  I've had to counsel my junior sailors for not supporting their dependents, including the fact that a spouse in entitled to 50% of base pay according to the Navy.  How individual couples want to divide it up is their business ... unless no support is being provided. 

    http://www.defensetravel.dod.mil/site/bahCalc.cfm

  • Michael

    Thanks Anti M I knew you would know more
  • Michael

    She was informed wrong on base pay
  • Michael

    Anti M. But someone is miss informing these spouses that they make all this money when they don't. I mean you can live but I remember living on base with my father. We never had money because they were never paid that much until later years. I know I don't know everything that's why in on here to learn too and glad your here
  • Michael

    E3 is still JR I think. lol.
  • Anti M

    2016 pay scale (do not forget taxes).  Each paycheck is half base pay, plus allowances.  Allowances are not taxable. Do not forget, the sailor may be enrolled in a savings plan, or contribute to the GI bill (I don't have current options at my fingertips, just be aware of deductions when calculating a payday deposit).

    https://www.navycs.com/charts/2016-military-pay-chart.html

    E-1 = $1450 first four months, $1567 after.

    FSA is $250 after 30 days, and can be pro-rated for partial months.

    http://www.dfas.mil/militarymembers/payentitlements/fsa.html

    BAH during training is based on the dependent's zip code.  Once the sponsor is at a command, BAH shifts to the zip code for where the sailor is stationed.

    BAH calculator:

    http://www.dfas.mil/militarymembers/payentitlements/fsa.html

  • Anti M

    So an average paycheck for an E-1, not counting FSA and BAH, would be about $750 every two weeks.  Deduct taxes, could be even less.  

  • Michael

    I feel for paige as that's a far cry from $1500 every two weeks she thought she was getting.
  • Anti M

    Indeed!  New sailors often do not grasp the reality of pay the first time it is explained to them, or they drop the ball when trying to communicate it themselves.  The LES can be daunting for people new to it.  Some younger people have never handled their own finances before, which is why the Navy offers so many free classes about it.

  • Megs2447

    My fiancé just graduated! Can someone please reassure me that he WILL be able to go with me tomorrow and Sunday and does not have to be with a parent?!?! I know I've asked before but I am really worried about this.
  • Michael

    He will have to be back on base by 9pm every night
  • Megs2447

    9pm is fine, just so I can be his Liberty buddy and not a direct relation.
  • Michael

    Yes you can as far as from what I heard. He just can't spend the night
  • Megs2447

    Thanks Michael. I'll take whatever time I can get!
  • Michael

    Megs2447. Not a problem. My husband graduates at the end of April I got a hotel to maximize my time with him
  • Lizzie_Corpsmanwife

    Hey everyone.  My husband has been in the Navy for 2 years now and boy has it been crazy.  We went from California to San Antonio and back here to California in San Diego.  He is going on a deployment in May and of course I'm going to be a hot mess.  We have a 7 month old and she is our little world, enjoys San Diego of course.  If you are new to this journey know this journey is amazing and we can encourage our men and women by being supportive of their decision.  :)

  • Wildcat_girl

    Ladies if you don't don't to spend a lot of 'alone time' with your man over PIR it's ok. At least you get to see him.
  • NavyGirlfriend

    Hey guys please answer my question if you have any experience with this. My boyfriend is getting surgery next week and his doctor told him he could get convolescence leave so my boyfriend got the chit filled it out , his chain of command accepted it & he bought his plane ticket. He comes to find out today during a check up his doctor wants him to stay for his convo leave .. Doesn't make any sence because nobody will be there to take care of him. If his chain of command already accepted it , what's more likely to happen?
  • abuon18

    NavyGirlfriend - convalescent leave is given after surgery as recovery time, its5not charged against their earned leave time. Usually they have to stay because they have follow up doctors appointments and depending on the surgery mught not even be fjt to travel. When he submitted his chit to his command did he include his travel plans? Ultimately he will have to ask his command because they are the only ones who can tell him if he can go or not, no matter what any one else has experienced or been allowed to do.
  • NavyGirlfriend

    @abuon18 his doctor told him his next appointment is 2 weeks after his surgery and it's a phone call he doesn't have to go to the hospital. & yes he already told his chain of command his travel plans he was suppose to get 14 days but he's only getting 9. His petty officer told him it got approved already and he bought his plane tickets.
  • Anti M

    I was on convo leave twice while active duty.  The doctor has to give permission for travel, in addition to the command approval.  The leave is given by the doctor, and approved by the command.  I did travel to the US for one of the convos, to stay with family, but my doctor approved it.  

    He needs to talk to his doctor, find out if he can do follow up at a military clinic near his family.  Explain the situation.  But the doctor has the final say, and can cancel convo leave completely.  

  • Navywifejac

    Paige you get separation as long as you are separated for 30 days he does not have to be on deployment and housing and food and separation is all in the 1st check. The second check will be just base pay. I know because I have received pay and that is how it was calculated and put into our Checks Housing is base on where the dependents are!
  • Michael

    Navywifejac. Thanks. But her husband was mislead which made her mislead thinking he made $1500 two times a month plus bac and separation pay. I did learn something because our recruiter told me I did not get separation pay until he was deployed. The one thing I want to know is how does spouses get money out of there spouses accounts to pay for bills because it just has his name on it
  • abuon18

    Michael, your recruiter was mistaken. Separation pay is paid any time your spouse is separated from his/her family for 30 days or more, whether it is deployment, boot camp, training immediately following boot camp or throughout his/her career, if he/she is temporarily assigned orders to a different duty station that does not allow for a PCS move so the family cannot go. As long as the separation is related to his/her military service they will get separation pay. It is paid on the check after 30 days apart has been completed and will be retroactive from the time the left, and will be prorated, for example if they are away for 40 days, you will get 10 days of prorated sep pay.
  • Michael

    Thank you. Also do the sailors just put the bank account in there name or can they have it in there name and spouses name?
  • Kelsie

    My husband and I opened a joint bank account before he left and filled out his direct deposit form to take with him.
  • Michael

    What about navy federal??
  • abuon18

    You're welcome! Unfortunately I don't know the answer to the question about bank accounts - my husband used our existing bank account. We opened a Navy Fed account after he was out of boot camp. I'm sorry, but I'm sure someone here will be able to answer that for you
  • Navywifejac

    Micheal you guys have to have done a power of attorney before he left. And with our bank not sure about every bank you have to have a joint accounts meaning being on each other accounts but that with our cu. and your welcome every recruiter says something different I only know because that's exactly what was given to us on payday. They also told the recruites in basic because my husband wrote me about it.
  • Anti M

    Good morning!

    We've been with NFCU for decades, since the 70s.  Michael, if he did not put your name on the account, NavyFed will be a bitch about it if you do not have a POA.  But if he gets the account info to you, including the online access number and password, you can just do online banking easily enough.  

    During boot camp, there is a lump sum BAH payment initially, but once the pay settles out, it should show half in each check.  FSA is for any time the Navy separates a sailor from their families for more than 30 days, whether training or deployment.  BAS is only when they live with their families and do not eat in a galley, so don't plan on grocery money when they are in bot camp or deployed.  BAS and FSA are like flip sides of a coin.

    Base housing is not always on base. In some cases, yes, but when you get to place like San Diego, it is all privatized neighborhoods. Some are a hefty commute away.  If BAH is being used for privatized housing, it looks like they take it all at once, but if you are receiving the full amount to pay for a private rental, you have to budget ahead.

  • Michael

    I have two power of attorneys one from the military and one with our state. I made sure I was covered. I just was not sure why my name was also not on the account. Not sure if he knew or if he could not put my name on it