DEP-Leavin' for bootcamp in May

This group is for N4M members that have a loved one leaving for bootcamp in May...I will leave the year open so that even future Deppers leaving in the month of May of any year can join...Lets share stories, information, concerns, and questions

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  • Carla

    I read somewhere that he would have to stay in a hotel but he never told me that for sure he had to be in a hotel. I'm just feeling like I'm thrown for a loop when I'm already so emotional. Regardless, I will enjoy every moment with him.
    I grateful to already have you wonderful moms so we can help each other stay strong.
  • Carla

    Shaula-Thank you for the information. We live in San Diego and will be at MEPS tomorrow to see him swear in so I will be able to see him before he leaves.
  • VeganMom

    My son had to be at recruiters office @ 12. We were not allowed in. He goes to MESS today..hotel over night..great lakes in the morning.
  • DonnaEricsMom

    Okay Lady's my water works have begun : (   I am so thankful for all of you and all the information and support that you provide.  Does anyone know if I can call my son tonight at the hotel? 

  • lemonelephant

    Eric's Mom, yes.

  • lemonelephant

    Yes, all future Sailors stay in a hotel the night before going to MEPS to be sworn in before leaving for the RTC. Be sure to check out Things to Do in the Last Month before Your Future Sailor Leaves for.... There may be some things you can take care of before your future Sailor ships.

  • VeganMom

    Im from PA
  • 2boysandamom

    Thank you navy moms for helping me understand that it's ok not to go to the airport to see my son leave. He told me last night that it would just be so hard to say goodbye there and prefers to do it the night before. If it wasn't for everyone else's thoughts on this I think I would be very hurt. I will admit that for just a minute though I was thinking I could go and just watch him walk into the airport and not let him see me but then I would probably want to jump out of the car and run and give him one last hug. I won't though but how tempting is that. Anyone else feel that way?

  • therevbev

    2boysandamom - Wait until the first time he's home on leave and you find yourself peeking in the bedroom while he sleeps just to see him some more... We ALL know how much we want to hold on for just a moment longer, but THEY are learning to trust themselves and we Have to go along and help them. Praying for all the moms who say good-bye this week (my week is coming).

  • Carla

    2boysandamom--I feel the same way that I would continue to want to just get another hug. There would never be enough hugs. We just left my son at MEPS after his swearing in and as I walked out I kept turning to see him up to the very last second. I've never wanted time to go fast as much as I do now waiting for PIR.
  • lovemysailor

    My son left this morning, got my first phone call!! He sounds OK, so great to Hear his voice.
  • Carla

    VeganMom and lovemysailor--glad to hear about your first calls:-)
  • Carla

    Shaula--great news on your phone call and that you will have a second call. Anxiously awaiting my call as my son should be arriving in Chicago any minute.
  • Carla

    I just received my call! He sounded good:-D
  • VeganMom

    Me too it was the best and most reassuring sound ever!
  • VeganMom

    Ladies let's all hold on to that call for awhile. It may be awhile before another our a call. Listening to the voice message he left when i need to smh...I didn't a lot of time in his room yesterday. Take care ladies!
  • therevbev

    Whoa - May is running way too fast. The 11th will be here before I can blink. Even after doing this with my eldest who is a Marine, it isn't any easier the 2nd time around!!!!

  • DonnaEricsMom

    My son called me early this morning from the airport, they were waiting for some others to arrive then they were heading out to BC.  It was so great to hear his voice, he sounded good.  He had a long day traveling yesterday, lots of delays, but he's at least in Chicago now so that's a good thing.  Congrats on all the phone calls from your kids, it's wonderful to know they're ok isn't it.

  • therevbev

    QUESTION?? What are 800 and 900 divisions? (Watching a PIR online and not sure what it is referring t.

  • give them wings

    I agree revbev it doesn't get easier with the second one. Mine leaves on the 12th, they pick him up at the house but I decided I wanted to watch swearing in so I will goto same hotel so I can hang out with him for a few extra hours that night and then again in the morning at Meps. As I recall there was about another hour or so to chat before the swearing in.
  • VeganMom

    Nothing compares to the sound of your child's voice.
  • therevbev

    Wendy - since obviously our SRs will be together, it's nice to connect. Mine will be at GL early on the 12th... hope he doesn't get too bored all week waiting for Friday. (We live within 2 hrs of base.) We COULD drive down to Waukegan on Monday to see him arrive, but THAT seems way to 'out of bounds" LOL!

  • DonnaEricsMom

    We finally got the scripted call, well his dad did.  At least he's on base now so that at least makes me feel better.

    Shaula I'm glad you got your call and feel good about it.  It does help to hear that confidence in their voice.

  • Carla

    Eric's Mom, VeganMom, lovemysailor, and Shaula--I hope your all doing well.

    I'm going through times where I'm ok then I realize I can't just talk to my son right now and I am so missing him.
  • G'smom

    Wish I could talk to him. Wish I knew what he is thinking-feeling. Feeling blue.
  • VeganMom

    I am not crying anymore but I spend a lot of time in his room and bed. I write a letter daily. So glad I can hear his voice on the message he left telling me thanks for everything and being his mom. How is everyone holding up? Thanks for asking and all the support ladies.!
  • DonnaEricsMom

    Carla, I feel exactly the same way.  I get sad knowing I can't just pick up the phone and call or text him.

  • Carla

    VeganMom--it's good that you can go in his room. I still have the door closed to my son's room. I have heard from many current and former military members that mail call is like winning the lottery if they have their names called so I too have written a letter daily. It actually is therapeutic to write the letter.
  • lovemysailor

    I am doing OK.... Just find my self wondering what he is doing, and wishing I could just call and check on him.
  • therevbev

    One more week before I join the Boot Camp moms... Wow, this has gone fast. I am trying NOT to miss him before he actually leaves on Sunday. Hanging on.

  • Psalm150.1.6

    My son`s recruiter took him to a hotel near MEPS this afternoon. He called me at 3:30pm telling me he was on his way. He will get a mini physical and swear in tomorrow morning. He is bunking with a gentleman who has enlisted with the National Guards. He sounds tired.

    When I came home from work, his room door was open and it was immaculate! I knew this was final. I cannot phantom not speaking to him everyday. I `am so sad! I asked him to call me in the morning before he leaves for MEPS and when we is on his way to the airport.

  • Carla

    Therevbev--I was sort of the same way before my son left. Now that I look back instead of missing him while he was still with me, I wish I had spent more time in the moment before he left. I suggest focusing on spending every second and getting every hug in that you can get before he leaves.
  • Dajam5

    Tough Day for us today, my son left to go to the hotel for his swear in tomorrow... I think the hardest part is knowing I can not speak to him everyday, his younger sister and brother are torn up about him leaving... Ugh this is harder then I thought.

  • Rho1

    Our son just left for Great Lakes this afternoon. Let me just say it was incredibly difficult and we shed many tears. Looking forward to hearing from him tonight when he lands.

  • 2boysandamom

    Said goodbye to my son tonight after watching him get sworn in this morning. Fly's out early tomorrow morning. So hard to leave him and wanted that hug to last a little bit longer. Thanks for the advice on holding it together until after we left him- I think it made it easier for him. Feeling very proud of him.
  • therevbev

    Hang in there Tammym. My son leaves Sun/Mon. Everytime I look at him, I see that little boy barely walking (and he's 22!). I know the mixed emotions right now... we will do this - for them!

  • Beaus mom

    Our son arrived in Great Lakes last night about 9 pm PST.  I was shocked it was so early, I was expecting it to be much later.  He was lucky to be on a nonstop flight from Sacramento to Chicago.  Said he slept the whole way :-)  He called me from Chicago and said it would the last call :-(  The scripted call was tough but I did slip in an I love you and he was able to say I love you back albeit kind of quiet.  I said everything ok.  He said "yep".  Had a tough time last night.  Didn't sleep much.  Finished his laundry out of his hamper today and that was tough.  Room needs cleaning but I'm not there yet.  Hope everyone else is doing ok.  

  • Dajam5

    My Son also arrived in Great lakes last night, he flew out of Sacramento but had a lay over and we got the call around midnight that he made it there safely. I also got a text from his recruiter today with a mailing  address and a graduation date for him.. Not sure how accurate that is? all the things that I have read say not to believe it until it comes in the letter. My Son was able to text us during the day and keep us informed of his day, he made a phone call on his walk to the bus and then we got the call when he arrived. Tough night for sure.  

  • Razorbackfan214

    Our son arrived at Great Lakes late Tuesday night.  He had not slept much before he left, so that was his biggest concern.  As soon as they were met they were told they would be up all night. He sounded good during his scripted call.  He kept telling me not to worry.  I miss his crazy sense of humor.  I really miss being able to tell him random stuff I come across during the day.  I'm praying for our boys and for all of us.  We've got this! 

  • 2boysandamom

    Waiting anxiously for "the phone call". I know he made it to Chicago since he called when he landed and was getting something to eat. Driving me crazy wondering what he is doing and how he's doing. This is going to be so hard!
  • Psalm150.1.6

    I received my call at 1158 Tuesday night. My son sounded a little tired.He left his room immaculate. That told me he knew he would not be there a while. Normally, he is a slob! 

    We stayed in contact Monday when he left for MEPS until Tuesday when he arrived to the airport. My next to the last call was in Detroit during a stop over.

    I washed his clothing that were in his hamper. Trying to get used to him not being here. I`am at a point when the box and the letter comes, I deal with it. I want him to get through boot camp! I know everything else will be alright!

  • therevbev

    Well, tomorrow is the day. Since we're fairly close (less than 2 hour drive from RTC), he won't be calling when he arrives. Tomorrow the recruiter comes, Mon. AM we'll watch him be sworn in and mount the bus for Gurney, IL. I really thought this would be easier this time - 2nd son serving, 22 years old (not 19), US Navy - NOT Marines. Gotta say, it's no easier. Oh, I know this is the best for him, it's what he wants... just harder on Momma than I expected.

  • lemonelephant

    therevbev, I hope that he does call. If he takes a cell phone he will be able to make the "I'm here!" call. The info in Arrival and What Happens at the RTC will tell you what will soon be happening.

  • lemonelephant

    Silverlyn, there is info for you in Recruit Petty Officer Positions. High ASVAB scores and/or perfect scores on the PQS multiple choice test are often how recruits are chosen for REPO.

  • lemonelephant

    If your future Sailor has yet to ship, be sure to check out the discussion, Things to Do in the Last Month before Your Future Sailor Leaves for....

    If you have not yet joined Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones), now is a good time to do so (especially if you have a recruit at the RTC) and to begin checking out the Pages (found under the pictures of the Members) starting with OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) (some of you have changes that you need to make--at least change 3) and Arrival and What Happens at the RTC.

  • give them wings

    My son is scheduled to be picked up by his recruiter tomorrow and onto great lakes Tuesday. He has a bad case of pink eye, we are both so worried it will keep him from leaving. Does anyone know if it will?
  • peggysuecory

    Happy Mothers Day to all of you wonderful Navy mothers. To all of you who now have a son/daughter in boot camp, just know they are in good hands! We Navy moms rock! Celebrate and enjoy the Navy family as we have so many Navy sisters who are awesome!  :-)

  • ellen0502

    Wendy, Sorry to disappoint, but it probably will delay him.

  • lemonelephant

    The default Privacy Setting on N4M is "Anyone." That means that ANYONE with access to the web has access to everything on your My Page. To change that, make change number 3 at the bottom of OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile), While you are there, read the Page and see if there are other changes you need to make.

  • therevbev

    Well, he's enlisted. It was great to see him sworn in this AM. It did NOT feel like 7 years since we had done that in the same place with his Marine brother!!! He and one other from MKE are probably on their way south to Illinois. God bless our future sailors.  See you in the Boot Camp Moms....