This group is for N4M members that have a loved one leaving for bootcamp in May...I will leave the year open so that even future Deppers leaving in the month of May of any year can join...Lets share stories, information, concerns, and questions
My daughter leaves May 18th. We are having her party on May 15th. As this time is drawing closer, I find myself shedding more tears. So many emotions... I just try to hold it together when I am with her, embracing every moment. I know I will see her again, the same, yet different.
My son leaves for Meps may 17th. May 7th, we have a low key family and friends dinner in Seattle, then mother's Day brunch and off for a fun afternoon of Parasailing weather permitting. i have been working out with my son six days a week....love the time with him but have to say I won't miss the work outs ! : ) Happy mothers Day to you all, I get the gravity of this one.
I spent the day with my daughter yesterday. Just kinda hangin out. Looking for some stuff for her farewell party. Found a cute little coffee shop and had a little heart to heart talk. Yes, there were tears. :(
sounds great, except tears.... my daughters party is Friday.. WE have not spend one on one yet, or had heart to heart talk, but probably should.. Ugh haha so bitter sweet .. We are both ready ( well me sorta)
Yes, from different locations, but will end up at the same place. We have little talks here and there. I am very excited for her, but at the same time nervous, a little scared, a little sad, only because I will miss her so much. She is excited for this next chapter in life. She admitted a little nervous too. These girls are very brave!
OMG they are.. I am not sure if I could of done this alone.. My daughter and I feel the same way.. My daughter is 19 she will be 20 in Sept. We have had many talks since Dec. I feel I am almost talked out.. Yes she did admit she was nervous too.. I just pray for them and that they dont get hurt or ill and that they make it through all their tests and stations.. I worry about my daughters PT's
My daughter just turned 19 in March. I am not too worried about PT. I think Em is pretty ready physically. She was in cross country and soccer for many years in school. I know she is mentally strong, but I am pretty sure she will probably have to endure more than she is used to. I will be doing a lot of praying for her.
Hello Ems mom, my so is also leaving to boot camp same day as Your daughter and will also go to MA school in San Antonio, Texas when done w/BC. We are from Fresno, ca
My son is leaving to boot camp on 5/19/16 and once boot camp is done he then goes to San Antonio Texas. He's excited, but sorta nervous, I think. I keep talking to him a lot about it.
Everyone, Make it a habit to check your My Page regularly. You may have messages and not even know it if you have turned off Notifications.
You will see that I tell people "Check your My Page." Reasons for that are most often that the member has their recruit's (future Sailor's or Sailor's) picture as their profile picture; the member's Username and/or the URL to their My Page includes what appears to be their last name; or I have left info for them of some sort related to what they have posted.
So, if you haven't checked your My Page today, Check your My Page. If you have a message concerning changes that you need to make, take the time to make them since they will increase PERSEC for you and your loved one.
I have left info on some of your My Pages about your future Sailor's (or recruit's) rating (job/specialty) and "A" School. If anyone else needs this info, leave a comment on my My Page with the rating or field and I will comment back on your My Page. I have info on every rating and field. I also have that info for the PACT programs.
If you have a future Sailor who is going to be in an 800 division, let me know in a comment on my My Page or in a PM (or comment in a friend request) and I will connect you with others with loved ones who will later be in the same division. DON'T openly post your future Sailor's contract or division number. Those with a future Sailor (or recruit) in a regular division or 900 division can post the division number and can post the contracted rating or field unless it is for one of the Spook ratings, but those with a loved one with a special ops contract should NEVER post that openly. See OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) and 800 and 900 Divisions.
If you have not yet joined Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones), now is a good time to do so (especially if you have a recruit at the RTC) and to begin checking out the Pages (found under the pictures of the Members) starting with OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) (some of you have changes that you need to make--at least change 3; make change 4 if your profile pic includes your future Sailor or recruit) and then go on to Arrival and What Happens at the RTC.
Tricia, although EM leaves at the same time as your future Sailor, she does not have a contract for MA unless her contract has changed. Recruits with similar contracts do ship around the same time, but there will also be others with a variety of other contracts.
Well, he's off to the Recruiter's office. The good luck party was Saturday night and lots of fun. Today I let his Dad, GF and a friend take him to the recruiting office. Tomorrow we will go down to MEPS and watch the swearing in. After all these months its finally happening. I waited until he left before I sat down and had my cry. I know always felt bad when my Mom cried when I left so I wanted to spare him that. Too much emotion and nerves already with all of us. I told him no matter what happens I'm proud of you and I'll see you in July. Now comes the worry and the waiting.:( But its all good.. so happy for him to have a path that he is excited about. Thanks for listening.
awww New2Navy hugs to you.. My daughter leaves next Tuesday to MEPS then swears in Wed.. We will go stay over because its 3 hours each way. Its so bitter/sweet that is for sure..
A little over a week, and my daughter will be on her way to BC. I am so glad I have her party to focus on. It's a good distraction, until I stop and realize how quickly time is flying by. I guess this Wednesday we get to meet with recruiter, which is good. I still have many questions.
When does she leave Em's mom? My daughter heads to MEPS on the 17th and ships out 118th.. yep went fast. If you have any questions we can help you with fire away
Well, it's done. My husband & I spent the day at MEPS yesterday with our son and watched him swear in. He got on a plane this morning and is on his way to Great Lakes. I was blessed to enjoy some special times with him over the last few months and hope that those memories will see me through these next 2 months. Praying for all of you who are traveling this journey with me.
Thanks to all for your prayers and support. For those who ship out later in the month, don't expect much from the "I'm here" call after they arrive. My son's call was a rushed 15 seconds tops. :) Guess I will wait for the box and letter...so begins life in the military!
ya Shannon that is what I hear.. All I am going to say is I love you and I am proud of you.. I know what she is going to tell me anyways.. as long as we say love you to eachother :) then we wait
Due to the Fourth of July holiday weekend, Pass-In-Review/Graduation will be held on Thursday, June 30.
We have been made aware that some recruits may have sent home form letters stating July 1 was the graduation date. That is incorrect. Recruits set to graduate that weekend will do so on Thursday, June. 30.
Recruits staying in Great Lakes for "A" School will have liberty Thursday through Monday evening and they must return to the base each night.
Recruits going out of state for "A" School will have only Thursday for liberty or, if there is an issue with ticket availability, they may have Friday. They will not know until they receive their orders during their final week of training, and only they may give out their itinerary details.
If you have not yet joined Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones), now is a good time to do so (especially if you have a recruit at the RTC) and to begin checking out the Pages (found under the pictures of the Members) starting with OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) (some of you have changes that you need to make--at least change 3; make change 4 if your profile pic includes your future Sailor or recruit) and then go on to Arrival and What Happens at the RTC.
Ok my son ships out on the 24th. Bumped up from August. He took the week off from work so we could spend some time together. This site has definitely calmed my nerves. While I am a nervous wreck I am at least a controlled nervous wreck. lol! I have to have a plan to feel comfortable. Before finding this site I had no clue what to expect. Now I do. Thank you for everyone who helps makes us newbies feel better!
didntcthiscoming - I take solace in the thought that the time that our kids are away at boot camp will go quickly too. I'm only one week in - but that's a week closer to see my Sailor.
If you have a future Sailor who is going to be in an 800 division, let me know in a comment on my My Page or in a PM (or comment in a friend request) and I will connect you with others with loved ones who will later be in the same division. DON'T openly post your future Sailor's contract or division number. Those with a future Sailor (or recruit) in a regular division or 900 division can post the division number and can post the contracted rating or field unless it is for one of the Spook ratings, but those with a loved one with a special ops contract should NEVER post that openly. See OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) and 800 and 900 Divisions.
Edwards19, my daughter leaves FOR MEPS today. We are taking her there and spending the night in a nearby hotel. We are only an hour awsy, but I don't want to take a chance getting stuck in traffic and missing swearing in ceremony tomorrow morning. Feeling very anxious!
For those of you whose FS is swearing in today - I am praying for you and your families. Enjoy each moment and send him/her off with as much love and pride as you can pour onto them. And then wait expectantly for the quick call, their box (which I got yesterday - less than a week) and their form letter. God bless you!
I am so grateful and thankful that I witnessed my son's swearing in ceremony. He's on the bus to the airport. The waterworks keep coming - I am so proud!
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Em's mom
Apr 26, 2016
didntcthiscoming
My son leaves for Meps may 17th. May 7th, we have a low key family and friends dinner in Seattle, then mother's Day brunch and off for a fun afternoon of Parasailing weather permitting. i have been working out with my son six days a week....love the time with him but have to say I won't miss the work outs ! : ) Happy mothers Day to you all, I get the gravity of this one.
Apr 27, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
Em's mom my daughter leaves May 18th also
Apr 27, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
Well its our month :) :(
May 2, 2016
Em's mom
May 2, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
sounds great, except tears.... my daughters party is Friday.. WE have not spend one on one yet, or had heart to heart talk, but probably should.. Ugh haha so bitter sweet .. We are both ready ( well me sorta)
May 2, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
I believe my daughter leaves the same day as yours
May 2, 2016
Em's mom
May 2, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
OMG they are.. I am not sure if I could of done this alone.. My daughter and I feel the same way.. My daughter is 19 she will be 20 in Sept. We have had many talks since Dec. I feel I am almost talked out.. Yes she did admit she was nervous too.. I just pray for them and that they dont get hurt or ill and that they make it through all their tests and stations.. I worry about my daughters PT's
May 2, 2016
Em's mom
May 2, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
that is good.. yep lots of prayers :)
May 2, 2016
thinkhappystuff
May 4, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
Hi Cruzr are they going to be Masters at Arms?
May 4, 2016
thinkhappystuff
May 4, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
Ya I had to stop talking to my daughter haha My daughter leaves on the 18th from Az, then to Tx for MA schooling
May 4, 2016
thinkhappystuff
May 4, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
ya I think EM leaves on 18th.. They should all be together then off to MA school
May 4, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
Im here in Az too, not too far from Calif
May 4, 2016
lemonelephant
Everyone, Make it a habit to check your My Page regularly. You may have messages and not even know it if you have turned off Notifications.
You will see that I tell people "Check your My Page." Reasons for that are most often that the member has their recruit's (future Sailor's or Sailor's) picture as their profile picture; the member's Username and/or the URL to their My Page includes what appears to be their last name; or I have left info for them of some sort related to what they have posted.
So, if you haven't checked your My Page today, Check your My Page. If you have a message concerning changes that you need to make, take the time to make them since they will increase PERSEC for you and your loved one.
May 4, 2016
lemonelephant
I have left info on some of your My Pages about your future Sailor's (or recruit's) rating (job/specialty) and "A" School. If anyone else needs this info, leave a comment on my My Page with the rating or field and I will comment back on your My Page. I have info on every rating and field. I also have that info for the PACT programs.
May 4, 2016
lemonelephant
If you have a future Sailor who is going to be in an 800 division, let me know in a comment on my My Page or in a PM (or comment in a friend request) and I will connect you with others with loved ones who will later be in the same division. DON'T openly post your future Sailor's contract or division number. Those with a future Sailor (or recruit) in a regular division or 900 division can post the division number and can post the contracted rating or field unless it is for one of the Spook ratings, but those with a loved one with a special ops contract should NEVER post that openly. See OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) and 800 and 900 Divisions.
May 4, 2016
lemonelephant
If your future Sailor has yet to ship, be sure to check out the discussion, Things to Do in the Last Month before Your Future Sailor Leaves for....
If you have not yet joined Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones), now is a good time to do so (especially if you have a recruit at the RTC) and to begin checking out the Pages (found under the pictures of the Members) starting with OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) (some of you have changes that you need to make--at least change 3; make change 4 if your profile pic includes your future Sailor or recruit) and then go on to Arrival and What Happens at the RTC.
May 4, 2016
lemonelephant
Tricia, although EM leaves at the same time as your future Sailor, she does not have a contract for MA unless her contract has changed. Recruits with similar contracts do ship around the same time, but there will also be others with a variety of other contracts.
May 4, 2016
New2Navy
Well, he's off to the Recruiter's office. The good luck party was Saturday night and lots of fun. Today I let his Dad, GF and a friend take him to the recruiting office. Tomorrow we will go down to MEPS and watch the swearing in. After all these months its finally happening. I waited until he left before I sat down and had my cry. I know always felt bad when my Mom cried when I left so I wanted to spare him that. Too much emotion and nerves already with all of us. I told him no matter what happens I'm proud of you and I'll see you in July. Now comes the worry and the waiting.:( But its all good.. so happy for him to have a path that he is excited about. Thanks for listening.
May 9, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
awww New2Navy hugs to you.. My daughter leaves next Tuesday to MEPS then swears in Wed.. We will go stay over because its 3 hours each way. Its so bitter/sweet that is for sure..
May 9, 2016
thinkhappystuff
May 9, 2016
Trojans12
May 9, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
Hugs to you Trojan12 hang in there ..
May 9, 2016
Em's mom
May 9, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
When does she leave Em's mom? My daughter heads to MEPS on the 17th and ships out 118th.. yep went fast. If you have any questions we can help you with fire away
May 10, 2016
ShannonM
Well, it's done. My husband & I spent the day at MEPS yesterday with our son and watched him swear in. He got on a plane this morning and is on his way to Great Lakes. I was blessed to enjoy some special times with him over the last few months and hope that those memories will see me through these next 2 months. Praying for all of you who are traveling this journey with me.
May 11, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
ShannonM hugs to you, I have one week to go before my daughter leaves.. Prayers for your son..
May 11, 2016
thinkhappystuff
May 11, 2016
ShannonM
Thanks to all for your prayers and support. For those who ship out later in the month, don't expect much from the "I'm here" call after they arrive. My son's call was a rushed 15 seconds tops. :) Guess I will wait for the box and letter...so begins life in the military!
May 12, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
ya Shannon that is what I hear.. All I am going to say is I love you and I am proud of you.. I know what she is going to tell me anyways.. as long as we say love you to eachother :) then we wait
May 12, 2016
lemonelephant
Due to the Fourth of July holiday weekend, Pass-In-Review/Graduation will be held on Thursday, June 30.
We have been made aware that some recruits may have sent home form letters stating July 1 was the graduation date. That is incorrect. Recruits set to graduate that weekend will do so on Thursday, June. 30.
Recruits staying in Great Lakes for "A" School will have liberty Thursday through Monday evening and they must return to the base each night.
Recruits going out of state for "A" School will have only Thursday for liberty or, if there is an issue with ticket availability, they may have Friday. They will not know until they receive their orders during their final week of training, and only they may give out their itinerary details.
May 12, 2016
lemonelephant
If your future Sailor has yet to ship, be sure to check out the discussion, Things to Do in the Last Month before Your Future Sailor Leaves for....
If you have not yet joined Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones), now is a good time to do so (especially if you have a recruit at the RTC) and to begin checking out the Pages (found under the pictures of the Members) starting with OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) (some of you have changes that you need to make--at least change 3; make change 4 if your profile pic includes your future Sailor or recruit) and then go on to Arrival and What Happens at the RTC.
May 14, 2016
didntcthiscoming
I was counting the months, then weeks, then days and now it's almost down to hours ? How did that go soooo fast ! ? May 17 MEPS, May 18 Bootcamp !
May 15, 2016
Ckers94
Ok my son ships out on the 24th. Bumped up from August. He took the week off from work so we could spend some time together. This site has definitely calmed my nerves. While I am a nervous wreck I am at least a controlled nervous wreck. lol! I have to have a plan to feel comfortable. Before finding this site I had no clue what to expect. Now I do. Thank you for everyone who helps makes us newbies feel better!
May 16, 2016
ShannonM
didntcthiscoming - I take solace in the thought that the time that our kids are away at boot camp will go quickly too. I'm only one week in - but that's a week closer to see my Sailor.
May 16, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
Good Morning, Can they bring a purse or something to carry their wallet, bible, etc in , and then ship it back at BC?
May 16, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
didntcthiscoming my daughter MEPS on 17th and leaves to BC on 18th also
May 16, 2016
Snake91
May 16, 2016
Edwards19 ( Tricia )
Thank you Snake91
May 16, 2016
lemonelephant
Here are the current PIR groups for the May shippers:
PIR: 06/24/2016 TG 33 - 7 Divisions (227-232 and 933) 4 guestsPIR: 06/30/2016 TG 34 - 11 Divisions (233-242 and 934) 4 guests (Note: PIR is on Thursday.)
Click on the date and join to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.
May 16, 2016
lemonelephant
If you have a future Sailor who is going to be in an 800 division, let me know in a comment on my My Page or in a PM (or comment in a friend request) and I will connect you with others with loved ones who will later be in the same division. DON'T openly post your future Sailor's contract or division number. Those with a future Sailor (or recruit) in a regular division or 900 division can post the division number and can post the contracted rating or field unless it is for one of the Spook ratings, but those with a loved one with a special ops contract should NEVER post that openly. See OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) and 800 and 900 Divisions.
May 16, 2016
Em's mom
May 17, 2016
ShannonM
For those of you whose FS is swearing in today - I am praying for you and your families. Enjoy each moment and send him/her off with as much love and pride as you can pour onto them. And then wait expectantly for the quick call, their box (which I got yesterday - less than a week) and their form letter. God bless you!
May 17, 2016
Sosayit
May 17, 2016
lemonelephant
Everyone, Make it a habit to check your My Page because you may have comments from Members and not even know it if you have the notifications turned off for comments on your My Page. To reply to someone who leaves a comment on your My Page, click on "Comment Back" or "View Thread" (you will have to do that if the person has their profile set to "Just My Friends") below the comment. Also check in the upper left to see if you have Friend requests or any new messages in your Inbox.
May 17, 2016