DEP-Leavin' for bootcamp in June

This group is for N4M members that have a loved one leaving for bootcamp in June...I will leave the year open so that even future Deppers leaving in the month of June of any year can join...Lets share stories, information, concerns, and questions

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  • Marchella

    The box came, kind of emotional but its one step closer!! now just the form  letter and I can send him all the letters.

  • soccermom19

    Thank you everyone for the support!!! 

    I am so grateful for this site.  I don't know how I would manage emotionally without everyone here.  :)

    It's great to have someplace to go where everyone understands and cares.

  • bonnieg

    This is my third in 3 years. It's hard but time will fly waiting for details.
  • Tracy1120

    Hello everyone!  I'm a newbie to the site.  My daughter left on June 28th and I just got her box delivered today.  I was sad because I thought the letter with her mailing address would be in the box. :(  After reading around on this site and FB, I see that the letter comes separate.  Anyone else with a son or daughter that left on the 28th?  This site is just wonderful and has so much information.  I'm hoping it will help me during this time.

  • Marchella

    Tracy1120 Yes my son left on the 28th as well, got his box today hoping for the letter by Friday. This site has helped me so much every day- I have been a mess and this has helped so much

  • Tracy1120

    Marchella, oh me too.  My daughter is the oldest (22) and my son is 20.  He moved out and into his first apartment exactly a week before my daughter left for BC.  We have only one 15 year old left.  This empty nester thing is TERRIBLE.  I've been a hot mess, my poor husband. ;) Crying daily, yesterday was pretty rough.  I just wish I knew how she was doing.  I think that's the hardest part. 

  • Marchella

    This was my youngest that left, we are such a close family I literally felt broken when he left, I know that sounds dramatic- at times I would tell myself to snap out of it but its how I felt. I am getting better, on a positive note this Friday is Friday #2, I have found that counting Fridays seems to be easier than thinking weeks. I am guessing our kids PIR date will be Aug 25, thats 9 Fridays but wont know for sure til we get that letter.

  • himom88

    Hang in there. The hardest was the first week when we didn't hear anything. But then the box came followed by the form letter. My son left on June 20th so it looks like we are a week ahead of you Marchella and Tracy1120. Everyone says that no news is good news so I keep telling myself that. The best thing that I did was sign up for informed delivery with the USPS. They send a snapshot to your email address of the letters that you will be receiving that day. Best of all it is free. You just need to creat an account with them. Also it takes a couple of days to get it "connected". The first notification I got included the snapshot of my son's form letter. Sat there and cried. I could already see a change in him. His handwriting used to be a disaster and the letter was in all caps which I know they require and it was neat! Now we are waiting for his personal letters and hopefully a phone call.
  • Tracy1120

    himom88, Wow, thanks so much for the info on USPS!!  Keep us updated on when you get a phone call. I've been wondering if it will fall on a Sunday.  I just keep walking around my house wishing kids were still with me. It's very hard, but just another stage of life. Hugs to all of you mommas!! :)

  • jennifer

    Tracy1120...I'm with you. Totally not productive! Not sure what to do with myself. All 4 kids pretty much gone. 1 left who is a senior now but she is out and about. Its strange. Plus you can't just pick up the phone and call our SR's. Maybe we all should have had more kids! Tee hee...tee hee...just kidding. My box is in the same spot because I can't empty it until I see him. Silly for sure.
  • himom88

    jennifer - OMG I thought I was the only one who had a box in the corner that I can't seem to empty.  My husband keeps asking when I'm going to wash his clothes.  LOL!  He thinks I'm being lazy but I just can't bring myself to empty it yet. Maybe after I hear his voice.  Has anyone out there used the Sandboxx app to send them letters?

  • TAT'sMom

    HiMom88, I used sandbox recently. I'm waiting and hoping my son will let me know what he thinks of it. The app is easy but I could only send one pic.
  • Tracy1120

    TAT'sMom, when did your son leave?

  • Em's Mom❤️⚓️❤️

    What is Sandboxx?
  • Christynavymom

    I have heard we shouldnt use sandboxx
  • Christynavymom

    Something about once they have your info you cant delete it .plus third party is writing your letter .there is a feed about it so i figure just to be safe i will stick to pen and paper
  • Christynavymom

    I seen this on another navy boot camp site
    ** ATTENTION ON DECK **

    Subj: SANDBOXX App for Sending Letters

    Families and friends. Occasionally we'll see posts or comments about using an APP called SANDBOXX to send letters to your Sailors. Let me be clear about a few things:

    1. Using the app requires you to provide to them sensitive information about your SR/Sailors. That includes their full name, duty station, and mailing address. This in itself is a violation of PERSEC (Personal Security). Additionally, depending on where the military member is stationed / the unit they're assigned to, it may also be a violation of OPSEC (Operational Security).

    2. You do not know who is operating this APP, where the company is located, or what other businesses (if any) they are operating

    3. Once you provide this sensitive information to a third party company, you immediately lose control over it. You have no way of preventing them from providing it to anyone else, or using it to target marketing or any other activity which may or may not be malicious

    4. The minimum package price for the APP is $8.00. For that you get three letters, with a 3,000 character limit and one photo. Typing, printing and mailing a letter yourself costs $0.49/ea. You don't get a character limit, nor are you limited to the number of photos you can print and send with your letters. Oversized envelopes may cost a few cents more. You can send 16 letters for the cost of sending three using the app.

    We as an admin team are advocates for you, your Sailors and everyone's privacy. Therefore, we DO NOT recommend the use of this app. Contrary to what you may read on other forums, letters sent using the app are not delivered any faster than if they were mailed from home.

    Protect your privacy and that of your Sailor/Recruit. Type / print and mail the letters yourself. Don't provide their sensitive information to a third party.

    That is all. Carry on.
  • Christynavymom

    I copied and pasted so yall could read it
  • TessaNator⚓️

    I'm not worried about using Sandboxx for boot camp.  I do however, think it should not be used while sailor is deployed.  

    For me now, it is great.  I'm in Hawaii and can send a letter and a pic at a moments notice from my iphone.  My son told me about app, he invited me so I can send letters.

    Being at boot camp is not a problem, everyone knows where boot camp is.  The app does not ask for any info on him other than his name and temporary address. 

    I will be using pen and paper after I am done traveling.  He is a Nuke, so I will not be using it after BC.

  • Butterball

    Do not use Sandboxx, it is against OPSEC and PERSEC regulations keeping our loved ones safe, as well as the home families. Third party, which you have no control over, will have all of your recruits personal information, and that could be a bad thing. Please reconsider and DO NOT use it.

  • Butterball

    Thanks for the info lemonelephant, either way, I am going to steer clear. Saw from Admins' posts, not a good thing to utilize. 

  • YankeeRose

    We missed his phone call because my husbands phone was on silent and it's never on silent. :'( The only good thing is we finally got some letters from him so that helps but it stinks we won't get to talk to him until 2 weeks from now.

  • sherrifm

    Hi.  New here.  Both my son and daughter will head to boot camp in late June.  1 week a part actually.  Excited and proud of them both.  Any chance they might end up training together?

  • Phoenixmom

    SR. stands for Seaman Recruit

    TG stands for Training Group

    A division is approximately 88 recruits who live and train together. There can be as few as 55 to as many as 100 in a division. 

    Sometimes a division fills and there are only a few recruits remaining from the arrival group; they are held as the first recruits for the next division; or there is a division that is not quite filled and they must wait until the next group of Recruits arrives to fill the division.

    More info on this site

    Ship/Division--How it Works

  • CPATM2015

    Son #2 will be leaving for BC at the end of June!  Even though I have been through this once already.  I'm feeling a little nervous again.  LOL!

  • rhat562

    CPATM2015 this is also my second child leaving for BC.  Son #1 graduated last September.  Nervous but also looking forward to the end of August.  If the time line pans out Son #2 might go through PIR on his birthday :)

  • Phoenixmom

    rhat562 welcome to BCM nice to have you along, andbest wishes to Son #1 and #2. What a Bierthdat wish that would be.

  • 4GensOfSailors

    Hi everyone! My daughter leaves for BC 6/19 and will be the 2nd child to go. My son graduated April 2017. I am nervous and so proud all at the same time! If the timing is right, PIR for her will be on his birthday!! He is kind of excited about that :)

  • Phoenixmom

    Would like to welcome all of you New Comers, Glad to have you along for the first or second time. Please post any questions you may have and it is Wonderful to have you here.

  • Phoenixmom

    here is a site for you all to get familiar with what happens.

    Arrival and What Happens at the RTC within Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones) will let you know what is happening and what to expect.  

  • Phoenixmom

    Here is also some good information.

  • lemonelephant

    Check out the discussion, Things to Do in the Last Month before Your Future Sailor Leaves for..., and to start discussing some of the things there with your future Sailor such as how to handle bad news and who will get the tickets for PIR.... 

    If you have not yet joined Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones), now is a good time to do so (especially if you have a recruit at the RTC) and to begin checking out the Pages (found under the pictures of the Members) starting with OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) (some of you have changes that you need to make--at least change 3) and then go on to Arrival and What Happens at the RTC. 

  • Phoenixmom

    Good afternoon New Comers, want to start getting you ready as to what to expect when your Loved one leaves to Boot Camp. LemonElephant has given you some sites below, also you will see how to prepare yourself what to expect. I will also put some sites down for you to read. Once your Loved One has entered BC please join Boot Camp Moms and your concerns and questions will be answered. I want to let You all know, it will be a very Emotional ride for some and then maybe not. Just know you are never alone and we are here every step of the way. so do not hesitate to reach out. Welcome Again!

    See Arrival and What Happens at the RTC and Ship/Division--How it Works.

     Phone Cards and Phone Calls.

    A Breakdown Of Navy Boot Camp At Great Lakes Recruit Training

  • Phoenixmom

    I will be posting this site down this is very important the standards have change and your Loved One needs to start preparing and train. this must be passed to continue on with BC. Many are coming in with no training or fitness training. Please have them read this as well and start Running, Swimming, and doing the push ups, sit ups, curl ups.

    Navy Sets New Physical Fitness Standard to Start Boot Camp.

    See Physical Fitness Assessment (PFA) and Fitness Improvement Training ... for more information.

  • Patricia

    My son is leaving June 14th for BC. They advised us that he needs a calling card.  I am not finding any. Can’t someone help me with this??

  • Phoenixmom

    Good Morning Patricia, calling cards can be found at walmart, CVS, Walgreens even best buy. Usually they can purchase one at the NEX at Boot Camp. But just make sure it is activated for use so he wont spend time having to activate. many get them online also, that is a preference up to you. Welcome and Best wishes to your Son!

  • Phoenixmom

    Folks I am going to be posting some sites for those that are new as your Loved one. the Standards have changed as far as PFA. I will put the site down so you can read up on what is tested and what will happen if failed, this is something that needs to be read and understood from both the Parent and your Loved One before they enter into BC. So Many are not passing and this requirement needs to be passed in order to go on with BC. It is very Heartbreaking for the parent/s when this is happening but also a devestated feeling for our Loved Ones. I believe this should be started in a Recruiters Office but I cannot say that it is or isnt being done. So Please if you have a Loved One coming into BC soon get them to start running and meeting the standard not only that they have to swim and be able to pass the three tests, and the prone float is one test so have them start practicing. Push ups, curl ups, sit ups they have to do so many in a matter of 2 min.

    See Navy Sets New Physical Fitness Standard to Start Boot Camp

    See Physical Fitness Assessment (PFA) and Fitness Improvement Training ... for more information.

  • lemonelephant

    I have left info on some of your My Pages about your recruit's (or future Sailor's) rating (job/occupational specialty) or field and "A" School. If anyone else needs this info, leave a comment on my My Page with the rating or field and I will comment back on your My Page. I have info on every rating and field. I also have that info for the PACT programs. 

  • lemonelephant

    If your future Sailor has yet to ship, then be sure to check out the discussion, Things to Do in the Last Month before Your Future Sailor Leaves for.... 

    If you have not yet joined Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones), now is a good time to do so (especially if you have a recruit at the RTC) and to begin checking out the Pages (found under the pictures of the Members) starting with OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) (some of you have changes that you need to make--at least change 3) and then go on to Arrival and What Happens at the RTC. 

  • Noabre2025

    Patricia we got my son a calling card at CVS. it’s a Pennytalk one. I wasn’t super happy because of the per call charges ($.99) but it’s refillable so I can go online and check his balance and add to it as needed. 

  • Noabre2025

    Good morning everyone! My son leaves for BC on 6/25. He was supposed to leave in May but there was a delay in his paperwork so it’s been pushed back. I’m so glad to have a bit more time with him though. 

  • Jeff

    My son left 6/4/18, in RTC now any body else with someone in boot now, just starting?

  • J4bber

    My son left 6/5/18. 

  • Phoenixmom

    Welcome Folks Glad to have you along, you can also find info on Boot Camp Moms, just let it be known what kind of info you may be needing or where to find and someone will assist.

  • J4bber

    Got my son's box today. I teared up a little. Now just waiting on the letter. Can't wait to find out how he is doing and be able to write him.

  • Phoenixmom

    J4bber thats great you received the box, I cried not tear up, I missed my Son So bad I felt I was mourning. No one could say anything that could make it better. But you are on the next step which is the next step. Just remember you are not alone.

  • HDragonfly42

    My son leaves for BC tomorrow 6/12/18.  Anyone else have someone shipping out then?

  • Phoenixmom

    HDragonfly42 Welcome to Navy Moms, there is much information, if you have any questions please feel free to reach out. I help out on Boot Camp Moms so please come join. And Congratulations on your SR. (Seaman Recruit)

  • Phoenixmom

    For those that are just beginning this breaks it down from when they get there and P-days this was my go to when my Son had left, this showed me what exactly what was going to happen when he arrived. you can find this under,

    Survival Guide for Navy For Moms Newbies

    Boot_Camp_Processing_Days_P_days.pdf   (71 pages)

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups for the June shippers: 

    PIR: July 27, 2018 TG 38 - 10 Divisions (291-298. 819, and 938) 

    PIR: August 03, 2018 TG 39 - 7 Divisions (299-304 and 939) 

    Click on the date of your recruit’s PIR and join the group to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit. 

    Additional groups will be added as loved ones receive  The Form Letter and/or divisions are posted for the PIR dates in http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/tg_grad_dates.html