DEP-Leavin' for bootcamp in December

This group is for N4M members that have a loved one leaving for bootcamp in Dec..I will leave the year open so that even future Deppers leaving in the month of Dec of any year can join...Lets share stories, information, concerns, and questions

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  • KimR128

    Thanks lemon elephant, for explaining possible PIR dates. My son left the 2nd and my daughter is due to have her first baby all around that time period. Praying that it will all work out, do not want to miss either
  • MirandasMem

    Well ladies, yesterday was our day.  My daughter shipped out in afternoon and I received the call around 9pm.  I am crying at the drop of a hat still and having trouble focusing on work and other things that really need my attention.  I am grateful for this site - everything has happened like the comments here have said it would.  It seems as if the things we were told by the recruiting team are off a bit.  I started my first letter this morning already ... can't wait for February and my chance to see her.

  • Cherie Ship 12 Div 082

    I just watched the live stream of today's graduation ceremony (my son just left for boot camp last week) and it was truly an amazing thing to watch.  Dry eyed until the very end when they call Liberty Call!  Then you see all of the sailors hugging each other and then looking for their families and then seeing the families running to them.  Can not wait for my day to be there for my son!!

  • Cherie Ship 12 Div 082

    Hi

    My son left on Dec 3rd and the box came on Dec 8th and the letter today on Dec 11.  My understanding is the days in between each event can vary.  But I hope this helps!!!

  • Jake's Mom (Shell1970)

    Mom4Sailor, the address is on the second page of the form letter. :-)

  • Jake's Mom (Shell1970)

    Mom4Sailor, they are very strict on attendees; however, a great idea would be to take a laptop to the hotel, the twins can watch livestream ... then, if he has liberty, he can visit there.  :-)

  • Elizabeth

    I'm still patiently awaiting the form letter. He shipped on the 3rd, hope to have it very soon!
  • Cherie Ship 12 Div 082

    Elizabeth it should be there in the next day or so.  Its so nice to finally get it.  I just got mine today and already mailed 3 letters today!

  • Elizabeth

    I have 7 letters waiting! Hahaha! I've been busy! Can't wait to get that form letter!
  • Cherie Ship 12 Div 082

    Elizabeth I love it!!!!!

  • Elizabeth

    :) he's going to have a novel by the time he is out of boot camp!
  • jodil

    Got my letter today.  My SR is in Ship 14 Div 079!!!  PIR January 29th.  Anybody else have a SR in that Division?

  • Gwizmom

    Anyone have a sailor leaving December 15?
  • NYmomof2

    Hi to All, My son left yesterday 12/10 to GL. 
    Any moms from NY area with the same date?

  • jmom

    Hi nymom, mine arrived on the 8th. We're from ct
  • lemonelephant

    I have let ellen and FTLW know that form letters have been received for the 01/29/2016 PIR date. Keep watching PIR 01/29/2016 TG 12 and join when it is up.

  • lemonelephant

    Here is the current PIR group for the December shippers:

    PIR: 01/22/2016 TG 11 - at least 13 Divisions (069-078, 805, 806, and 911) 3 guests. (Divisions not confirmed by the RTC.)

    Click on the date and join to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • lemonelephant

    If your future Sailor has yet to ship, be sure to check out the discussion, Things to Do in the Last Month before Your Future Sailor Leaves for....

    If you have not yet joined Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones), now is a good time to do so (especially if you have a recruit at the RTC) and to begin checking out the Pages (found under the pictures of the Members) starting with OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) (some of you have changes that you need to make--at least change 3; make change 4 if your profile pic includes your future Sailor or recruit) and then go on to Arrival and What Happens at the RTC.

  • jmom

    Nik77... My daughter shipped on 12/8 as well her SIR is 1/29
  • Akmomto3

    Her boxes are packed and we are celebrating Christmas tomorrow and dropping her off at the hotel. Flying out on Monday. I'm dreading tomorrow. Any last minute advice for this anxious mom in the last few hours I have with her besides hugs and kisses every hour?
  • Elizabeth

    Quick question all, my recruit arrived on 12/3 and I didn't receive a form letter yet :( should I stay patient or call his recruiter and ask for information?
  • Cherie Ship 12 Div 082

    Akmomto - hugs and kisses and lots of encouraging words is the top thing you can do.  Let her know how much she is loved, admired and respected for her decision to serve her country.  Remind her she is strong and capable and that she "has this"!  I also made sure my son had a phone card, tons of stamps and some addresses and a few phone numbers written down in his wallet.  Also make sure you have her best friends numbers so you can text them updates and her address once you get it so they can write.  One question I did ask my son based on what was listed on this site under the prep for their leaving was: "In the event there is a death back here what do you want to be notified of" and I truly left the decision up to him.  I know this is an motional and difficult time, just had my son leave last week (and believe me all I did was sob, couldn't even cry, I sobbed) all day every day, but they have to know we will be ok and we help them with that my reinforcing to them that they are amazing and selfless and we could not be any prouder.  Then hug them non stop until the moment she is pulled away to head to the airport.  Sending you love and hugs from one sad and proud Navy mom to another.  XOXOXOXO

  • Akmomto3

    Thank you Cherie. We are now down to the final hours before we drop her off at the hotel. And I'm already hiding in the bathroom so she won't see me cry. Urghhhh. This is truly the hardest thing ever.
  • mykidsmom4

    My son arrived on the 8th and I have not received his box either Justrunit88mattsmom.

  • jmom

    My daughter (Jess) arrived on Dec 8th, we received her box yesterday.  

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups for the December shippers:

    PIR: 01/22/2016 TG 11 - 13 Divisions (069-078, 805, 806, and 911) 3 guests. (Divisions not confirmed by the RTC.)

    PIR: 01/29/2016 TG 12 (to be updated; begins with Division 079 and contains Division 912) Loved ones are reporting 3 guests

    NO PIR 02/12/2016 or 02/19/2016

    Click on the date and join to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • MirandasMem

    My recruit arrived last Thursday the 10th and the box just showed up!  I was a bit surprised as I wasn't expecting it this quickly.  Must be karma that I was home today as I'm usually not.  Everything inside was as expected, including the rolled up pant legs.  Just when I was beginning to feel a bit more stable; this just makes me sad all over again thinking about how much I miss her.  Well onward we go ... form letter next!  Thanks to all on here - you are wonderfully supportive and I appreciate it.

  • MirandasMem

    Lemonelephant - I noticed in your comment with the latest PIR dates that you skipped a week - 2/5/15.  I assuming that has not been announced yet?  I'm also guessing that No PIR on 2/12 and 2/19 are because the RTC does not process for the last two weeks in December?  I'm hoping that my recruit will be in the 2/5 PIR.

  • mamastephs

    My son also arrived on the 10th, my husband just text and said the box arrived today!! He's waiting for me to get home to open it up as a family!! I'm so happy but so sad, made me cry again!!
  • amysue

    My son left on the 10th and I got his box today. When I opened the door I could not hold back the tears. The young Fed Ex boy about my sons age gave me a big hug after I signed for his box. He as no idea how much that hug meant.

  • Lori

    My daughter's box arrived today. She arrived on the 9th.  Still waiting for the letter with contact information.

  • joyful1

    My son's box arrived today. He shipped on 12/8. No contact info included. I have to believe that no news is good news.

  • NYmomof2

    My son arrived on the 10th also, should receive the box today but missed delivery because of work, got the delivery notice.

  • lemonelephant

    MirandasMem, there will be a PIR on 02/05/2016, but the group has not been created yet since ellen and FTLW wait to create the PIR groups until someone receives The Form Letter.

  • lemonelephant

    Here are the current PIR groups for the December shippers:

    PIR: 01/22/2016 TG 11 - 13 Divisions (069-078, 805, 806, and 911) 3 guests. (Divisions not confirmed by the RTC.)

    PIR: 01/29/2016 TG 12 (to be updated; begins with Division 079 and contains Division 912) Loved ones are reporting 3 guests

    NO PIR 02/12/2016 or 02/19/2016

    Click on the date and join to connect with others with loved ones training with your recruit.

  • lemonelephant

    If your future Sailor has yet to ship, be sure to check out the discussion, Things to Do in the Last Month before Your Future Sailor Leaves for....

    If you have not yet joined Boot Camp Moms (and loved ones), now is a good time to do so (especially if you have a recruit at the RTC) and to begin checking out the Pages (found under the pictures of the Members) starting with OPSEC and PERSEC (Making Changes to Your Profile) (some of you have changes that you need to make--at least change 3; make change 4 if your profile pic includes your future Sailor or recruit) and then go on to Arrival and What Happens at the RTC.

  • JoAnn

    My recruit left out on Dec 7th I received my box on Friday and was so happy to receive my form letter yesterday. He is graduating a week early 01/29/15 ship 03 Div 085. I am so excited because I miss him so much.
  • Elizabeth

    Is there anyone else that had a recruit ship on 12/3 that still did not get a form letter? Am I the only one? I see now that recruits that shipped later now sent out form letters. I feel like I will never get his information :(
  • Nik77

    My son shipped out 12-08. Recived the box 12-11, and form letter today with PIR date of 2-5. So blessed and excited! He even wrote I love you mom With hearts
  • amj510

    So happy for you moms that have the form letters.  Waiting on mine, I hope it is soon.  I want to send my son my letters.  Missing him TONS.  :)

  • Momma Bear

    My son arrived on Dec 7th, and I got his box rather quickly, but still no form letter. I was really hoping it would come today . . . I'm a little disappointed, but I'll wait a few more days before I check with his recruiter. I'm anxious to send him letters and book my flight and room for his PIR. I'm a single mom and he's my only child . . . The separation and lack of communication are really difficult. I just keep reminding myself how proud I am of his decision to serve his country.
  • Akmomto3

    Just got the "call". I'm assuming she's putting her phone in the "box" as I'm writing this. I'm glad I found this site and was able to educate myself on what she's doing and the timeline of things. I look forward to being here, surrounded by other moms that are in the same "ship".
    May God bless all our recruits.
  • lemonelephant

    I've let ellen and FTLW know that form letters have been received for the 02/05/2016 PIR date, keep checking PIR 02/05/2016 TG 13 and join when it is up.

  • proudmom

    My son shipped out today. I know he landed at o'hare But I haven't gotten the "call"??
  • middlemom

    My son shipped out today. Haven't gotten the call yet....
  • Cherie Ship 12 Div 082

    middlemom - have that phone glued to you!  It will come and be prepared it will be beyond quick and very scripted.  So let him speak and say his words and then very quickly get in a We love you be strong! 

  • Kellis

    Proudmom, when my son landed at O'hare at 9pm (dec 1)I did not get a call until 130am!
  • Mattsmom

    My son shipped out yesterday.landed at 720. I got the call at 1100.
  • middlemom

    Just got the call. It was so quick. He sounded so tired.
  • rgmac4

    My son shipped 12/15, had a delay due to snow in Denver. They landed at 11 and I got the call about 12:30.... He sounded good, just going to miss him a lot. I'm confused about PIR his recruiter told us 02/12/16 but I'm seeing on here there is no PIR that date