Hello ladies! i thought it would be a good idea to make a group for Submarine girls, just because it takes a special kind of girl to be a Submarine,girlfriend,wife or fiancee :)
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Okay, so my husband got his orders today. We are going to be headed to Bangor, Wa. I can't believe it, we are from SC. I don't even know where to start! We would like to live off base if possible, any suggestions? Also, we had Kings Bay as our first pick but this will due (ha has to). Any WA wives? Is it nice? Do you enjoy Bangor? I'm going to miss super hot weather but o well!
My boyfriend just arrived at Groton for A school. Still new to this Navy thing. Just trying ti figure out different things like if and when we should get married and when should the boys and I move there. Still unsure of alot of things. Thank you for any info and help.
How long will he be here in Groton!? We have been here since April and my husband is about to finish his A school and we will be moving to Kings Bay GA! I would really get married before he even gets close to get his orders so they will pay for your big move to his station place! I will try to help any I can!
I'm unsure he just got there Saturday. I would like to get married soon. We have been together for seven years and we have a child together. I am in GA right now that is where we are from.
I will be there on the 22nd of Nov! LOL! Everyone that doesn't get married in time has a lot of problems when moving time comes! If you plan on getting married anyways I would at least do a quick little wedding till you can have your bigger one later on! We moved here on our own and will be here almost 8 months but will not get paid back because we didn't get the truck weight when we moved! We have been together as long as you both and have 2 girls ages 3 and 4! If you are still there when we get there we should have a play date!
I have a seven year old from someone else. That is what we were planing, but you know that you really can't plan much with the Navy. Things change all the time. What rate is your husband? My boyfriend is MM-Sub I think is what it is called.
Speaking from experience, I would do the same thing and get married way before he has his orders. My husband and I got married while he was on leave between sub school and his duty station. Because he already had his orders when we got married, the Navy refused to pay for me to move and and it was such a hassle for everything.It is definitely easier and better to get married before hand to make it less stressful on both of you in the long run. Good luck and I hope everything works out no matter which you choose.
I agree with the others...we were already married when my husband enlisted so that part was easy, but it would probably make sense to get married after BESS (Basic Enlisted Submarine School). They kind of frown on the guys doing anything before they finish BESS but after that it should be simpler. And also even if you don't move to be together until after he finishes A-school (which I think for MM's they don't pay for a move to Groton because the school isn't long enough, but the bright side is you won't be waiting for long, whereas my husband is FT so when he graduates he will have been here a year (almost a year for us, we joined him 2 months after he got here).) Also after you get married he will start getting BAH (Basic Allowance for Housing) to cover your rent/housing expenses while he lives in the barracks. If you get married before he starts the MM A school you should have plenty of time before he gets his orders.
MamaMiri- Your story sounds a lot like mine! We are here in Groton/New London for my husbands school too and I got here 2 months after he did too! Plus he is about to graduate too! Where are you off to for your 1st duty station and when!?
He doesn't have orders yet- should get their picks before Christmas from the sounds of it. He graduates and we will be off wherever we're going in February. We have our fingers crossed for Bangor!
wow haven't been here in a long time glad to see it still going.. and welcome to all the new members... my name is jen been a navy wife for 7 almost 8 yrs currently stationed in guam where my hubs is on the uss buffalo :).. see a lot of wives are in kingsbay hope you like it we liked it for our first duty station we were also in bangor wa so if any 1 need any info on these areas feel free to ask.. hope everyone is doing well and good luck..
I know here at the Sub base families can sign up as well as sailors and you get to have them in your home for thanksgiving dinner and xmas ... I didn't need to sign up since I feel like I've adopted my husband's friends..LOL.. I have about 6 of them coming over for Thanksgiving..So if you guys can adopt a Sailor.. Lots of them can't make it home for the holidays and its a nice way for us to give something back :)
No. We only have one car between us and that's workable but tough. It's a big hassle to coordinate with my husband's schedule if I need the car. I can walk to base (about 15 minute walk just to the gate, more depending on where on base), the corner gas station, the dolphin mart, and the parks in housing but that's about it. Also the road to base can be a bit on the dark side at night (which is after 4:30ish in the winter) and there is no crosswalk/walk signals at the intersection to the road to the gate so not all that safe. There doesn't appear to be much of a bus system. I save most of what I need to do for when I can have the car, and it's tough in some ways to be stranded at home all the time with a toddler. But we can't afford a second vehicle right now, so I pretty much just suck it up and hope we get to move somewhere with better transportation next year.
I'm stationed in Kings Bay GA and I just became a Passion Consultant and I'm having an Open for Business Passion Party at my house on Sat. at 6pm if anyone lives close by and wants to come! If you don't live close but would like to buy something you can on my website at www.lindseyblue.yourpassionconsultant.com
Love trying to find an apartment 3,007 miles away, when we dont know when we'll be able to move in && know absolutely nothing about Washington. Thank you Navy!! (sarcasm)
@mrschelsea - I hear that! We moved from SC to WA in October. I wasn't thrilled but we are here now and making it work. Message me if you need any info...
Hello, hello! Hubs just arrived in groton yesterday, though bess doesn't start for another week. Just poppin' in to say "hi" as I pilfer through the old discussions. haha
Okay I think it's time again...COMPASS, a course for military life! Want to learn more about this military life we live? Meet some new friends and build a network? Learn what's okay or not to say and do? Come join us for our next session of COMPASS on July 17, 18, and 19 from 9 am to 1 pm at the Fellowship Hall at the NSB Kings Bay Chapel. Experienced spouses will teach you about Navy mission, organization, tradition, and etiquette, benefits and services available to families, how to read an LES, what is there to do in Kings Bay?, and maybe most importantly for Kings Bay...OPSEC. NCIS comes in to each session and defines OPSEC and answers questions. Babysitting, brunch, and all course materials are provided free of charge. New to this session...a kid's COMPASS curriculum for school age children! Preregistration required at www.gocompass.org
Lost in this Military Life?...Let Us Guide You In The Right Direction! COMPASS is a 12-hour program taught in three four-hour sessions where mentors act as discussion leaders.
Participants are encouraged to ask any questions they may have in a non-judgmental climate.
Participants are introduced to many aspects of the Navy.COMPASS is a standardized Team-Mentoring program developed BY SPOUSES FOR SPOUSES.
EverAster- sorry to hear that. :( Did he at least leave a message so you could hear his voice? If so, hope you saved it! I know when hubs was in basic I had a voicemail from him saved so I could listen to it whenever I wanted to hear his voice.
He was only gone a couple weeks, and it turns out he was in port for longer than just that day, so we have gotten to talk on the phone, and even skype! :) I have voicemails and voxer messages saved so I can hear his voice while he's underway.
Glad to hear you got to talk! :) My hubs is still in BESS, so I have yet to endure the "fun" of being without any contact for extended time. Used to not seeing him for long times (not our first time, or even second, having a "long-distance relationship"). But can only imagine how hard it can be some days.
We tried the skype thing a time or two since he's been in Groton, but our internet connection where we are is so slow and intermittent that all he sees of us is a badly pixelated pic. :\
Still kinda new to the area. Looking to make some new friends. We have two boys (8 & 2). My husband is on the USS Newport News. Is there any other SO on the same boat?
I was wondering if any of you would know if after boot camp when my SR goes to groton will he be able to talk to me daily like in A school or is it like boot camp?
skyler: after bootcamp, when he gets his phone back, you will be able to talk ehenever he has free time:) my boyfriend is in groton too, so excited to go visit him in a couple of weeks
Anybody have suggestions for places to eat in Providence? I'm flying into there to visit my boyfriend in A school, and he said the one thing I need to decide is a place to eat when he picks me up from the airport! Any help/ideas are greatly appreciated!
HI, my husband has been fast attack for all his military career so far. However since we have had 2 little ones he is considering switching to Boomer as he heard its better for family life. Can anyone tell me which ports have boomers? i know of georgia and washington do but i was wondering if there was anywhere else?
Hi everyone, My boyfriend is currently in boot camp and will be going to sub school afterwards. I was wondering if anyone here had information on being a missile techs wife/ gf that they would be willing to share. I'm very anxious during this time and I am looking for as much information as I can!
hi everyone, my name is Kelli. we will be relocating to our first duty station (Kings Bay) in June. I'm kind of nervous and excited at the same time. One of my best friends is already down there and I'm looking forward to seeing her again but nervous for our first deployment.
Mrs. Coop: Yes Kings Bay GA and also Washington state have boomer bases, as well as Norfolk VA I believe.
Dagmar: It's nice to meet you! My fiance is FT, but if you have any general questions about boot camp or sub school I'll be happy to help if I can:)
Kelli: That is super exciting, we will hopefully be joining you down there in August, we should know for sure in a couple of months. If we do I'd love to meet up!
Dagmar: Fire Control Technician :) and trust me, neither am I!! I learn more every day and know I will REALLY be learning a lot after we get married this summer, LOL.
Navychick5690
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Aug 24, 2011
Babyryin (Mandy)
Little help with question/info on the USS Maryland (SSBN-738)_ Blue Crew.
We just got our orders to report 10/31/11!
Anyone there I can talk to?
Aug 25, 2011
NavyWifeTrivette
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NavyWifeTrivette
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Oct 15, 2011
My sailor's ladybug (356)
Oct 31, 2011
BearyBlueNavyWife!
Nov 1, 2011
My sailor's ladybug (356)
I'm unsure he just got there Saturday. I would like to get married soon. We have been together for seven years and we have a child together. I am in GA right now that is where we are from.
Nov 1, 2011
BearyBlueNavyWife!
Nov 1, 2011
My sailor's ladybug (356)
I have a seven year old from someone else. That is what we were planing, but you know that you really can't plan much with the Navy. Things change all the time. What rate is your husband? My boyfriend is MM-Sub I think is what it is called.
Nov 1, 2011
NavyWifeTrivette
Nov 1, 2011
MamaMiri (FT)
Nov 1, 2011
BearyBlueNavyWife!
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Nov 1, 2011
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Nov 1, 2011
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Nov 6, 2011
Laney (Ship 03 div 005)
Nov 7, 2011
BearyBlueNavyWife!
Nov 7, 2011
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Nov 8, 2011
Ari♥
Nov 8, 2011
Zahi Merz
I know here at the Sub base families can sign up as well as sailors and you get to have them in your home for thanksgiving dinner and xmas ... I didn't need to sign up since I feel like I've adopted my husband's friends..LOL.. I have about 6 of them coming over for Thanksgiving..So if you guys can adopt a Sailor.. Lots of them can't make it home for the holidays and its a nice way for us to give something back :)
Nov 8, 2011
Laney (Ship 03 div 005)
For anyone living in Groton:
Would it be easy to lvie there without a car? Where I'm at now I can either walk to the grocery store or take a bus but IDK how that works there.
Nov 26, 2011
MamaMiri (FT)
No. We only have one car between us and that's workable but tough. It's a big hassle to coordinate with my husband's schedule if I need the car. I can walk to base (about 15 minute walk just to the gate, more depending on where on base), the corner gas station, the dolphin mart, and the parks in housing but that's about it. Also the road to base can be a bit on the dark side at night (which is after 4:30ish in the winter) and there is no crosswalk/walk signals at the intersection to the road to the gate so not all that safe. There doesn't appear to be much of a bus system. I save most of what I need to do for when I can have the car, and it's tough in some ways to be stranded at home all the time with a toddler. But we can't afford a second vehicle right now, so I pretty much just suck it up and hope we get to move somewhere with better transportation next year.
Nov 26, 2011
Laney (Ship 03 div 005)
Wow thanks MamaMiri. That sucks. I don't have a license or a car, so without a bus system or cheap taxi I'd be stranded at home with my baby too.
Nov 26, 2011
BearyBlueNavyWife!
I'm stationed in Kings Bay GA and I just became a Passion Consultant and I'm having an Open for Business Passion Party at my house on Sat. at 6pm if anyone lives close by and wants to come! If you don't live close but would like to buy something you can on my website at www.lindseyblue.yourpassionconsultant.com
Jan 18, 2012
mrschelsea
Love trying to find an apartment 3,007 miles away, when we dont know when we'll be able to move in && know absolutely nothing about Washington. Thank you Navy!! (sarcasm)
Jan 20, 2012
SubWife2010
Chelsea if you need help or ideas I can help I am in WA and have been for almost a yr :)
Jan 20, 2012
RaeEli
@mrschelsea - I hear that! We moved from SC to WA in October. I wasn't thrilled but we are here now and making it work. Message me if you need any info...
Jan 28, 2012
KikiOtter
Hello, hello! Hubs just arrived in groton yesterday, though bess doesn't start for another week. Just poppin' in to say "hi" as I pilfer through the old discussions. haha
May 13, 2012
Mrs. Bonds (007)
Jul 6, 2012
Mrs. Bonds (007)
Lost in this Military Life?...Let Us Guide You In The Right Direction!
COMPASS is a 12-hour program taught in three four-hour sessions where mentors act as discussion leaders.
Participants are encouraged to ask any questions they may have in a non-judgmental climate.
Participants are introduced to many aspects of the Navy.COMPASS is a standardized Team-Mentoring program developed BY SPOUSES FOR SPOUSES.
http://www.gocompass.org/
Jul 9, 2012
EverAster
I just missed a call from my boyfriend at his first port of call. I'm so bummed.
Aug 27, 2012
KikiOtter
EverAster- sorry to hear that. :( Did he at least leave a message so you could hear his voice? If so, hope you saved it! I know when hubs was in basic I had a voicemail from him saved so I could listen to it whenever I wanted to hear his voice.
How long has your boyfriend been out to sea?
Aug 29, 2012
EverAster
He was only gone a couple weeks, and it turns out he was in port for longer than just that day, so we have gotten to talk on the phone, and even skype! :) I have voicemails and voxer messages saved so I can hear his voice while he's underway.
Aug 29, 2012
KikiOtter
Glad to hear you got to talk! :) My hubs is still in BESS, so I have yet to endure the "fun" of being without any contact for extended time. Used to not seeing him for long times (not our first time, or even second, having a "long-distance relationship"). But can only imagine how hard it can be some days.
We tried the skype thing a time or two since he's been in Groton, but our internet connection where we are is so slow and intermittent that all he sees of us is a badly pixelated pic. :\
Aug 30, 2012
My sailor's ladybug (356)
Still kinda new to the area. Looking to make some new friends. We have two boys (8 & 2). My husband is on the USS Newport News. Is there any other SO on the same boat?
Sep 19, 2012
skyler(ship14 DIV 368)
I was wondering if any of you would know if after boot camp when my SR goes to groton will he be able to talk to me daily like in A school or is it like boot camp?
Oct 3, 2012
ZAM's Mrs-to-be
skyler: after bootcamp, when he gets his phone back, you will be able to talk ehenever he has free time:) my boyfriend is in groton too, so excited to go visit him in a couple of weeks
Oct 3, 2012
ZAM's Mrs-to-be
Anybody have suggestions for places to eat in Providence? I'm flying into there to visit my boyfriend in A school, and he said the one thing I need to decide is a place to eat when he picks me up from the airport! Any help/ideas are greatly appreciated!
Oct 15, 2012
MrsCoop
HI, my husband has been fast attack for all his military career so far. However since we have had 2 little ones he is considering switching to Boomer as he heard its better for family life. Can anyone tell me which ports have boomers? i know of georgia and washington do but i was wondering if there was anywhere else?
Jan 16, 2013
Dagmar (Ship 03 Div 143)
Hi everyone, My boyfriend is currently in boot camp and will be going to sub school afterwards. I was wondering if anyone here had information on being a missile techs wife/ gf that they would be willing to share. I'm very anxious during this time and I am looking for as much information as I can!
Feb 17, 2013
Kelli_wife of JP
hi everyone, my name is Kelli. we will be relocating to our first duty station (Kings Bay) in June. I'm kind of nervous and excited at the same time. One of my best friends is already down there and I'm looking forward to seeing her again but nervous for our first deployment.
Feb 23, 2013
ZAM's Mrs-to-be
Mrs. Coop: Yes Kings Bay GA and also Washington state have boomer bases, as well as Norfolk VA I believe.
Dagmar: It's nice to meet you! My fiance is FT, but if you have any general questions about boot camp or sub school I'll be happy to help if I can:)
Kelli: That is super exciting, we will hopefully be joining you down there in August, we should know for sure in a couple of months. If we do I'd love to meet up!
Feb 24, 2013
Dagmar (Ship 03 Div 143)
Thank you ZAM. What is FT? Im not up with all of the lingo yet although I am trying.
Feb 24, 2013
ZAM's Mrs-to-be
Dagmar: Fire Control Technician :) and trust me, neither am I!! I learn more every day and know I will REALLY be learning a lot after we get married this summer, LOL.
Mar 11, 2013