I know that my son would have rather been active, but he's ok with being reserves. His friends that are active don't care if he's active or reserves. The worst part is his trying to find a job now that he's done schooling and only doing his weekend thing. Prospective employers are not saying that is the reason, but they are definitely hinting at that. And I do know that a few people that have been hired for a job he interviewed for are not as qualified. He does say that when he gets a chance he will try to go active!
My son is toying with idea of going active after he gets his BA too.. I heard it's very difficult to go from reserves to active. Does anyone know if that's true?
My son has been calling and texting me this weekend. It's the same old hurry up and wait weekend for him (1st duty weekend which is indoc). He's waited over 4 hours for a physical. They sent him to get his "reserve" id and then wouldn't give it to him because his paperwork that he was "active" and now "reserve" hadn't gone through yet. (They said it could be Feb before it all goes through?) His "active" id expires on the 20th of Dec, so has to stay an extra night to see if he can get this straightened out (at his expense). He's the only 1 in his indoc group that is fresh from bc and A school, the others have been active and are now going reserve. They are spewing acronyms at him and he's not understanding a lot. He's sooo frustrated. I told him to raise his hand and stand up and tell them that he's not "getting" everything because he has only been in the navy for 9 months! He's really not happy right now. He just vents to me (that's what us mama's are for), not expecting me to come up with the answers that's for sure! Haven't heard from him for awhile, so must have finally gotten in to see the Dr. He will need his flight physical in January and he was told that he'll have to come up on his own dime and get it when it's scheduled. He's not happy with that either. Thanks for listening to me vent a bit!
Hi ladies. I'll also ask this question in the GF/wives forum, but am curious if maybe one of you can help me.
My BF is currently at RTC. He is E-2 but says that it's possible he'll make it to E-3 before the end of BT. His PIR is 1/18/2013, at which point he'll be going to San Antonio for Corpsman training and then C school in North Carolina (FMF is in his contract). He should be home at the end of summer.
We plan on getting married sooner rather than later and when we spoke on Friday, he told me that one of his RDCs suggested we get married while he's still in A school so he collects benefits sooner (BAH, etc). I'm having trouble finding info about this for reservists online. I did read that those benefits aren't available unless they get deployed, but this was anecdotal, so I'm not sure if this is accurate or not.
Can any of you explain this to me? As a reservist, what are the exact benefits he'll be eligible for once getting married? I am totally new to the military, so don't know much about this or who to talk to for answers.
I just went through this with my now husband. We were originally told that we wouldn't receive any BAH or separation pay if we married in A school but we went ahead and got married any way and we are now getting BAH and separation pay so don't let them tell you that you won't receive it. We didn't find out until after we were married. I flew out after he had been in A school 2 weeks and we just went to the court house and got married. He asked his chief and all she said was I can't stop you from getting married so there was no chit or classes or anything for us but I have heard of others having to do those things. Your SR would just need to talk to his school chief and barracks chief as soon as he got there to find out protocol for that base. If you have any more questions you can add me as a friend and I'll help where I can from what just happened with me.
Our son, Benjamin, just signed up with the Navy Reserves. He has been in the U.S. Navy Sea Cadets for a few years and this is his next step. He begins the processing this week and will attend boot camp after he graduates in mid-May. He will continue his Criminal Justice education (has attended career center for 2 years in Criminal Justice) to get at least a 4 year degree. The Navy has been his dream for years, especially since that tragic 911 day. By joining Navy Reserves, he will be able to get his education taken care while serving his Country where needed. He scored excellent on his ASVAB and hopes to follow the MAA Navy career along side of Criminal Justice. I am SO appreciative of this site. CJ
@zaksmom - my son has been in the reserves since end of November when he finished A school. He has yet to find a job. He's out looking as I'm writing this. It's not supposed to matter (legally) about being hired, but I'm sure that is why he's not been hired. We've witnessed some of the "clowns" that were hired for a job he'd applied for....He was much better qualified...But that's my opinion.
Hi Moms, anyone in/near R.I. that has someone going to Chicopee Mass for drill this coming weekend, my son is in Narraganset, R.I.. and needs a ride to drill this coming weekend.
To cjacks, The Navy Reserves only pays tuition after the Reservists has been deployed for at least 90 days. Otherwise, they only get a monthly allowance through the Montgomery GI Bill for select reservists. You can access info at www.gibill.va.gov. Very disappointing news when my daughter was told by her recruitor that she would have 75% of the cost of her education paid for and it wasn't true.
Hi NavyMomofOnly1girl...and everyone else...Seems like that is a common tale the recruits hear about tuition being paid for. A shame as these kids want to do the right thing and make educated decisions. My son is almost done with A school for Intelligence Specialist (IS), C school next, we hear that IS is almost never deployed. Guess tuition will never be a benefit...? Very disappointing. My son's spirits are still up, I hope they stay there.
THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! I am NOT going to be one happy Navy Reserve Mama!!! I am going to follow up, but he has already sworn in...bootcamp in August and then A School for MAA after that. Thanks!
Hi, my son Nick joined the Navy Reserves and left for boot camp on Wednesday, 1/23/13. He left from Boston, since we lives in RI. He also joined because of being told about the college tuition program. Anyone else in the RI area who wants to chat, I have brand new to the Navy Reserves. Thanks everyone, this website has been so helpful already!
Basic training and A school don't count a active duty when it comes to the GI Bill.
Judy, what is your son's rate to get tagged for deployment so fat? Glad his schooling is going well, what is his degree going to be in? Does he enjoy the monthly drill he participates in?
Regarding the tuition, the Navy recruiter strung my son along for a while saying there weren't a "good jobs" right now. Then is convinced my son that enlisting in the reserves was a great option and they had "good jobs". Since the eduction benefit was one of the reasons my son was interested in joining, I investigated and told him that the only education benefit for reserves (who aren't deployed at least 90 days) is the GI bill and it only pays about $323 per month if you're enrolled full time. He told his recruiter and his recruiter said he wasn't aware of that and he'd look into it further - what a bunch of bullsh*t! My son is at Corey in A school right now and still thinks he'll be able to go "active" if he does well in school. Well, if what I read is right, that's a bunch of bs too. I am so angry and disappointed but it's done now and was his decision.
My son is in VA Beach, VA and is about ready to graduate A school. He was told when he signed (he signed with a bonus) that they would pay his last year of college. (He has 1 year to complete). So far he's not complained about not getting his college paid for. The Navy won't pay for the 3 he's already completed, but told him they would pay for his last year. Had your son already started college? I'm concerned now.
Does anyone know when the reservists receive their w-2 and where they will be sent? Will they be sent here to their home? I have to have my daughters before I can file my own. She just graduated A-school on Friday.
My son had 3 years of college before he joined. He wants to eventually finish his degree - not sure when. If the Navy told your son they'd pay for the last year, I hope it's in his contract.
debzz3-I haven't received my son's w-2. By law, they need to be mailed no later than January 31st.
My son left for Chicago on Jan. 22. What would be his graduation date? I want to plan my trip as soon as possible. He's Division 122 (Ship 14). I appreciate your answers. Also I am not a traveler and need some advice on the least expensive, but closest hotel to the Naval Training Base. Any suggestions? Thanks.
Thank you all so much! I will look up the Navy Lodge. How far is it to the Navy Lodge from the Amtrak Station, which is how I plan to get to Chicago? Is there a bus available, or do I take a taxi, or is it walking distance?
ddotstef2003- welcome! I suggest waiting for the form letter from ur SR to get the correct PIR date. Some advise to wait until the 5th week to book travel plans. U should receive the form letter 2-3weeks from the date ur SR arrived at RTC. I stayed at the Red Carpet Inn. It was $49/night, the closest to base (straight shot) that I could find, & offered free shuttle to PIR from the hotel. U can google map to determine distances btwn various places u need. :)
My son finally got assigned to a squadron this week. He'll start with them in March! Finally a little movement! AND he finds out if he has a part time job on Monday. Interview went well, just need manager there to give final approval. Of course he had a 4 day weekend! lol! So a little more waiting - but maybe life is coming together for my boy!
Yes! My son finally got his part time job! It took quite a while! They are still processing him. I had to laugh when they asked him if he was worried about the drug test or background check! He said Nope, the Navy checked me out real good and I'm ready to go. It took 1 day for background check! LOL! They couldn't believe it came back so quickly!
My sailor is currently in A school, heading home in April. Her plan was to take FTS (Full Time Support) positions as a reservist. Does anyone know how available these FTS jobs are to a Builder rate? Or how many FTS options are available on a regular basis? Thank you!
I believe that I heard that Reservists go under a different "envelope" of money and it's different at each base to what they have to spend on Reserve training. Sure not what we were told it would be, that's for sure!
Hello group! I'm new to the Reserve section of this website. I have a SR who is currently at RTC who is active duty going Nuke. His twin brother just came home from MEPS today after signing his contract for Navy Reserves. His contract is for HMFM and he leaves for boot camp June 19. I'm looking forward to getting to know what there is to know about the reserves.
I am a new Reserve Mom. My daughter is at RTC and has PIR on Apr 5 and will then go to A School in San Antonio at Lackland AFB. Anything specific I need to know about the Reserves or A School? Any info will be helpful :)
Hi MomToSR-Roberts and PIR12513 - my son is also a Reservist. Graduating from boot camp next Friday and heading to TX for A school and then hopefully C School in CA. Any info. you can share with me would be great, new to this life! Thanks, Tammy
My Son signed up for the Navy Reserves in January. He went to Boot camp 3/14/13. He is a Utilityman(UT). He wants to go active as soon as he can. We are excited for him to begin this phase in his life, it helps because he was so ready to start.
My son leaves for bootcamp 3/26/13. I was so happy with the amount of information I found on this site. I look forward to talking with everyone in the future.
My daughter is to graduate April 12th. She set me up on this site before she left. The last letter mailed asked if I had talked to other mom's so now I can tell her yes. This is my first time commenting. I am so proud of her. She will be Virginia beach for A and C school for the summer. 7 hour drive for me. Can not wait. She plans on finishing her Neuro Science degree after C school. Wondering if that will still be the plan after C school. She will be trained as an Intelegence Specialist. The last letter also mentioned she has been really sick and wont go to sick what ever because they are in the final weeks and she does not want to delay graduation. I have not had a phone call from her in over 2 weeks. I keep the phone close waiting.
Mamma your daughter will graduate one week before my sailor son #1 does. You probably won't get a call until the I'm a Sailor call comes after Battlestations 21. We are also in the "no call zone" now too with our divisions since they entered week 4-1 (aka hell week). I can only hope for detailed letters :) But like they keep telling us..no news is good news in the Navy :)
I am a new Navy Reserve mom:) My son is at RTC and his PIR is 4/5/2013! Really excited for his phone call, hopefully soon! He will be going to San Antonio for his A school. Learning as I go here...this website is great and appreciate any info:) Any reserve moms going to sarge's meet & greet on the 4th of April?
Is there anyone who has a loved one that is FTS and in Aircrew ? My son is and is going thru NACCS right now. He is being told he will be a sky train flight attendant. Does anyone know what that is?
My son has been in since 5/09. And was stationed in Japan. He just PCS'd back to the states back in August. He re-enlisted while in Japan and went FTS as a "AT".
flgirltwo
I know that my son would have rather been active, but he's ok with being reserves. His friends that are active don't care if he's active or reserves. The worst part is his trying to find a job now that he's done schooling and only doing his weekend thing. Prospective employers are not saying that is the reason, but they are definitely hinting at that. And I do know that a few people that have been hired for a job he interviewed for are not as qualified. He does say that when he gets a chance he will try to go active!
Dec 14, 2012
dana
My son is toying with idea of going active after he gets his BA too.. I heard it's very difficult to go from reserves to active. Does anyone know if that's true?
Dec 15, 2012
flgirltwo
My son has been calling and texting me this weekend. It's the same old hurry up and wait weekend for him (1st duty weekend which is indoc). He's waited over 4 hours for a physical. They sent him to get his "reserve" id and then wouldn't give it to him because his paperwork that he was "active" and now "reserve" hadn't gone through yet. (They said it could be Feb before it all goes through?) His "active" id expires on the 20th of Dec, so has to stay an extra night to see if he can get this straightened out (at his expense). He's the only 1 in his indoc group that is fresh from bc and A school, the others have been active and are now going reserve. They are spewing acronyms at him and he's not understanding a lot. He's sooo frustrated. I told him to raise his hand and stand up and tell them that he's not "getting" everything because he has only been in the navy for 9 months! He's really not happy right now. He just vents to me (that's what us mama's are for), not expecting me to come up with the answers that's for sure! Haven't heard from him for awhile, so must have finally gotten in to see the Dr. He will need his flight physical in January and he was told that he'll have to come up on his own dime and get it when it's scheduled. He's not happy with that either. Thanks for listening to me vent a bit!
Dec 16, 2012
mzungu
My BF is currently at RTC. He is E-2 but says that it's possible he'll make it to E-3 before the end of BT. His PIR is 1/18/2013, at which point he'll be going to San Antonio for Corpsman training and then C school in North Carolina (FMF is in his contract). He should be home at the end of summer.
We plan on getting married sooner rather than later and when we spoke on Friday, he told me that one of his RDCs suggested we get married while he's still in A school so he collects benefits sooner (BAH, etc). I'm having trouble finding info about this for reservists online. I did read that those benefits aren't available unless they get deployed, but this was anecdotal, so I'm not sure if this is accurate or not.
Can any of you explain this to me? As a reservist, what are the exact benefits he'll be eligible for once getting married? I am totally new to the military, so don't know much about this or who to talk to for answers.
Thanks!
Dec 17, 2012
autibug
I just went through this with my now husband. We were originally told that we wouldn't receive any BAH or separation pay if we married in A school but we went ahead and got married any way and we are now getting BAH and separation pay so don't let them tell you that you won't receive it. We didn't find out until after we were married. I flew out after he had been in A school 2 weeks and we just went to the court house and got married. He asked his chief and all she said was I can't stop you from getting married so there was no chit or classes or anything for us but I have heard of others having to do those things. Your SR would just need to talk to his school chief and barracks chief as soon as he got there to find out protocol for that base. If you have any more questions you can add me as a friend and I'll help where I can from what just happened with me.
Dec 17, 2012
flgirltwo
Happy New Year to all. And may our Reservists stay safe!
Jan 4, 2013
cjacks
Our son, Benjamin, just signed up with the Navy Reserves. He has been in the U.S. Navy Sea Cadets for a few years and this is his next step. He begins the processing this week and will attend boot camp after he graduates in mid-May. He will continue his Criminal Justice education (has attended career center for 2 years in Criminal Justice) to get at least a 4 year degree. The Navy has been his dream for years, especially since that tragic 911 day. By joining Navy Reserves, he will be able to get his education taken care while serving his Country where needed. He scored excellent on his ASVAB and hopes to follow the MAA Navy career along side of Criminal Justice. I am SO appreciative of this site. CJ
Jan 13, 2013
flgirltwo
@zaksmom - my son has been in the reserves since end of November when he finished A school. He has yet to find a job. He's out looking as I'm writing this. It's not supposed to matter (legally) about being hired, but I'm sure that is why he's not been hired. We've witnessed some of the "clowns" that were hired for a job he'd applied for....He was much better qualified...But that's my opinion.
Jan 14, 2013
Lois C T(momma T)
Hi Moms, anyone in/near R.I. that has someone going to Chicopee Mass for drill this coming weekend, my son is in Narraganset, R.I.. and needs a ride to drill this coming weekend.
Jan 17, 2013
flgirltwo
kimbokatbo - my prayers are with you and your son!
Jan 19, 2013
NavyMomofOnly1Girl Ship 9 DIV126
To cjacks, The Navy Reserves only pays tuition after the Reservists has been deployed for at least 90 days. Otherwise, they only get a monthly allowance through the Montgomery GI Bill for select reservists. You can access info at www.gibill.va.gov. Very disappointing news when my daughter was told by her recruitor that she would have 75% of the cost of her education paid for and it wasn't true.
Jan 21, 2013
Ellen005
Hi NavyMomofOnly1girl...and everyone else...Seems like that is a common tale the recruits hear about tuition being paid for. A shame as these kids want to do the right thing and make educated decisions. My son is almost done with A school for Intelligence Specialist (IS), C school next, we hear that IS is almost never deployed. Guess tuition will never be a benefit...? Very disappointing. My son's spirits are still up, I hope they stay there.
Jan 21, 2013
cjacks
THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! I am NOT going to be one happy Navy Reserve Mama!!! I am going to follow up, but he has already sworn in...bootcamp in August and then A School for MAA after that. Thanks!
Jan 23, 2013
cjacks
Kimbokatbo - Definitely praying for not only your son but for your family. Thanks for making your needs known. cj
Jan 23, 2013
Rhody Navy Mom
Hi, my son Nick joined the Navy Reserves and left for boot camp on Wednesday, 1/23/13. He left from Boston, since we lives in RI. He also joined because of being told about the college tuition program. Anyone else in the RI area who wants to chat, I have brand new to the Navy Reserves. Thanks everyone, this website has been so helpful already!
Jan 25, 2013
Ellen005
Judy, what is your son's rate to get tagged for deployment so fat? Glad his schooling is going well, what is his degree going to be in? Does he enjoy the monthly drill he participates in?
Jan 26, 2013
Linda Rae
Regarding the tuition, the Navy recruiter strung my son along for a while saying there weren't a "good jobs" right now. Then is convinced my son that enlisting in the reserves was a great option and they had "good jobs". Since the eduction benefit was one of the reasons my son was interested in joining, I investigated and told him that the only education benefit for reserves (who aren't deployed at least 90 days) is the GI bill and it only pays about $323 per month if you're enrolled full time. He told his recruiter and his recruiter said he wasn't aware of that and he'd look into it further - what a bunch of bullsh*t! My son is at Corey in A school right now and still thinks he'll be able to go "active" if he does well in school. Well, if what I read is right, that's a bunch of bs too. I am so angry and disappointed but it's done now and was his decision.
Jan 27, 2013
kathyjune00
Linda Rae,
My son is in VA Beach, VA and is about ready to graduate A school. He was told when he signed (he signed with a bonus) that they would pay his last year of college. (He has 1 year to complete). So far he's not complained about not getting his college paid for. The Navy won't pay for the 3 he's already completed, but told him they would pay for his last year. Had your son already started college? I'm concerned now.
Jan 27, 2013
debzz3
Does anyone know when the reservists receive their w-2 and where they will be sent? Will they be sent here to their home? I have to have my daughters before I can file my own. She just graduated A-school on Friday.
Jan 27, 2013
Linda Rae
Kathyjune00
My son had 3 years of college before he joined. He wants to eventually finish his degree - not sure when. If the Navy told your son they'd pay for the last year, I hope it's in his contract.
debzz3-I haven't received my son's w-2. By law, they need to be mailed no later than January 31st.
Jan 27, 2013
cjacks
Thanks, Judy!
Jan 28, 2013
ddotstef2003
My son left for Chicago on Jan. 22. What would be his graduation date? I want to plan my trip as soon as possible. He's Division 122 (Ship 14). I appreciate your answers. Also I am not a traveler and need some advice on the least expensive, but closest hotel to the Naval Training Base. Any suggestions? Thanks.
Jan 29, 2013
momof2sailors
The last time I stayed in the Navy Lodge it was 65.00 a night. No tax.
Jan 29, 2013
ddotstef2003
Thank you all so much! I will look up the Navy Lodge. How far is it to the Navy Lodge from the Amtrak Station, which is how I plan to get to Chicago? Is there a bus available, or do I take a taxi, or is it walking distance?
Jan 29, 2013
ddotstef2003
Thank you, Betty. I will.
Jan 29, 2013
CHN-B
Jan 30, 2013
ddotstef2003
Thank you. So now it's between the Red Carpet Inn and the Navy Lodge. Of the two, which one is better?
Jan 30, 2013
flgirltwo
My son finally got assigned to a squadron this week. He'll start with them in March! Finally a little movement! AND he finds out if he has a part time job on Monday. Interview went well, just need manager there to give final approval. Of course he had a 4 day weekend! lol! So a little more waiting - but maybe life is coming together for my boy!
Feb 1, 2013
Julie "Jarrod's Mom"
Feb 6, 2013
flgirltwo
Yes! My son finally got his part time job! It took quite a while! They are still processing him. I had to laugh when they asked him if he was worried about the drug test or background check! He said Nope, the Navy checked me out real good and I'm ready to go. It took 1 day for background check! LOL! They couldn't believe it came back so quickly!
Feb 15, 2013
flgirltwo
Does anyone know how the sequestration might affect our reservists?
Feb 20, 2013
PIR012513
My sailor is currently in A school, heading home in April. Her plan was to take FTS (Full Time Support) positions as a reservist. Does anyone know how available these FTS jobs are to a Builder rate? Or how many FTS options are available on a regular basis? Thank you!
Feb 25, 2013
DsMoma
Mar 1, 2013
jaxx10
Ima reservist currently in A school as IT and to answer PIR012513 you cant go ACTIVE reservist FTS for 2 years after graduating bootcamp.
Mar 4, 2013
flgirltwo
I believe that I heard that Reservists go under a different "envelope" of money and it's different at each base to what they have to spend on Reserve training. Sure not what we were told it would be, that's for sure!
Mar 7, 2013
Debi
Hello group! I'm new to the Reserve section of this website. I have a SR who is currently at RTC who is active duty going Nuke. His twin brother just came home from MEPS today after signing his contract for Navy Reserves. His contract is for HMFM and he leaves for boot camp June 19. I'm looking forward to getting to know what there is to know about the reserves.
Mar 12, 2013
MomToSR-Roberts
Hello All,
I am a new Reserve Mom. My daughter is at RTC and has PIR on Apr 5 and will then go to A School in San Antonio at Lackland AFB. Anything specific I need to know about the Reserves or A School? Any info will be helpful :)
Mar 14, 2013
PIR012513
Hi MomToSr-Roberts
My sailor is reserves also, contact me. I've dug up some info on the topic I'd be glad to share :)
Mar 14, 2013
Rhody Navy Mom
Hi MomToSR-Roberts and PIR12513 - my son is also a Reservist. Graduating from boot camp next Friday and heading to TX for A school and then hopefully C School in CA. Any info. you can share with me would be great, new to this life! Thanks, Tammy
Mar 14, 2013
Darcy
My Son signed up for the Navy Reserves in January. He went to Boot camp 3/14/13. He is a Utilityman(UT). He wants to go active as soon as he can. We are excited for him to begin this phase in his life, it helps because he was so ready to start.
Mar 17, 2013
b26kid19(13/196)
My son leaves for bootcamp 3/26/13. I was so happy with the amount of information I found on this site. I look forward to talking with everyone in the future.
Mar 18, 2013
Mamma
My daughter is to graduate April 12th. She set me up on this site before she left. The last letter mailed asked if I had talked to other mom's so now I can tell her yes. This is my first time commenting. I am so proud of her. She will be Virginia beach for A and C school for the summer. 7 hour drive for me. Can not wait. She plans on finishing her Neuro Science degree after C school. Wondering if that will still be the plan after C school. She will be trained as an Intelegence Specialist. The last letter also mentioned she has been really sick and wont go to sick what ever because they are in the final weeks and she does not want to delay graduation. I have not had a phone call from her in over 2 weeks. I keep the phone close waiting.
Mar 24, 2013
Debi
Mamma your daughter will graduate one week before my sailor son #1 does. You probably won't get a call until the I'm a Sailor call comes after Battlestations 21. We are also in the "no call zone" now too with our divisions since they entered week 4-1 (aka hell week). I can only hope for detailed letters :) But like they keep telling us..no news is good news in the Navy :)
Mar 25, 2013
Debbie(13/140)
I am a new Navy Reserve mom:) My son is at RTC and his PIR is 4/5/2013! Really excited for his phone call, hopefully soon! He will be going to San Antonio for his A school. Learning as I go here...this website is great and appreciate any info:) Any reserve moms going to sarge's meet & greet on the 4th of April?
Mar 29, 2013
Chele ship 12 div 048
Mar 30, 2013
momof2sailors
My son is FTS stationed at Pt Mugu, CA. I have no clue as to what NACCS is. And what is sky train?
Mar 30, 2013
Chele ship 12 div 048
Mar 30, 2013
momof2sailors
My son has been in since 5/09. And was stationed in Japan. He just PCS'd back to the states back in August. He re-enlisted while in Japan and went FTS as a "AT".
Mar 30, 2013
Chele ship 12 div 048
Mar 30, 2013
momof2sailors
PCS'd means when they move from one duty station to another.
Mar 30, 2013