Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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advice!

Hi ladies!


I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his chief (if my s.o. wants) is willing to push a package for him to become an officer. which is great and i’m proud of him, but that would extend his current contract.
i can barley handle him being deployed while i’m in school, it’s really stressful and we don’t talk for days bc he’s deployed.
i just wanted some advice on this id love him to become an officer and do what he wants/enjoys. but also when this all happens i’m still in university trying to figure things out on my behalf. i would love to travel with him and be part of that journey but also id love to continue my schooling further in the state we currently reside in.

thank you in advance!