Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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Help needed!!

by Nia

Sep 7, 2022

Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve been scared because he has depression and anxiety, and I was hoping he didn’t (you know). So any reasons why they flow of communication stopped overseas?

Also is there any way for me to contact the ships, to see if he is still present there or not?
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    RicksWifeAmber

    He's probably just in what's called River City. It's when for whatever reason Command makes the order for no outside communication. You have to remember this is not a normal job and there are going to be times when he will not be able to stay in normal contact. Just try to remain calm and know that he will be in touch.
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      gothgirlL

      Hey girl his command probably just said no communication. If itll bring you any peace, its normally reported(media is nosey, and will 100% get their hands on it) if a sailor passes in that way on a ship. It would have also been reported to his parents(or next of kin) very quickly. Sometimes command unfortunately just doesnt allow communication. Ive gone weeks without talking to my man in the past. The service out at sea is also very spotty. 

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