Hi All, 

I am new to this website as well as recently married the love of my life 2 weeks ago. We have been together almost 5 year and have a daughter. 

He is currently stationed in Japan. I am however in Massachusetts... You can imagine the struggle! But he is so worth it! 

So here is questions / concerns I have in regards to being a newbie.... 

He is transferring back to the US in January and will be moving to VA. I actually want to go ahead before he comes to the US because he'll be in A school for 3 months is Portsmouth VA. Here's the questions: How long is the process to have assistance for moving? And is it possible to just move without him physically being with me? 

Thanks ladies! I really appreciate any answers I can get! 

Rachel