OCS Graduate Moms

For those who have graduated from Officer Candidate School in Newport, RI or who are currently attending there.
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  • jsefamily

    Proudmom, I just confirmed with my son that there is (I remember him mentioning that he went there). But, they really don’t have access to it until the Candio (final stage). My DS said there are some candidates for which OCS is a weight loss experience and it’s gets them in shape, and for others it isn’t as hard as they trained before going to OCS so the workouts aren’t really enough. But like resales commented, they really don’t have a lot of time for it (until the final phase).
  • jsefamily

    Darn autocorrect, that was supposed to be “redlass.”
  • jsefamily

    “Redheadlass”
  • applecrispnh

    Hi.  My son is starting his 8th week (thus not a candio yet).  He did mention going to the gym, on weekends, at least. 

  • redheadlass

    Just to let you know, the "Candio phase" is the last 3 weeks of OCS when they have more free time. 

  • Andy'sMom

    Proudmom,

    One other thing to throw into the puzzle....even when your LO reaches the Candio phase, they can still have "suprise" strength tests that can roll them.  I would recommend to stick to the schedule that they have and not add any other PT.

  • M's mom

    Aloha, Aloha Mom!    Congratulations to your daughter for accepting the challenges of OCS.  The candidates rarely know exactly when their next school will start after OCS until they get their orders closer to graduation.  They may know WHERE they will go , but not exactly WHEN.  Sometimes their next school will start the very next week after graduation. 

    I think the supply school is there in Newport, and I know some have to stay and start school the very next week!  Depends on when the school starts a new cycle.  They may have quarters for them to stay on the base while attending supply school, so she may not have room for all of her stuff anyway until she gets to her first duty station. 

    Some are sent home to work in recruiting if their school does not start for several weeks.  After OCS, my son went to Intelligence School in Virginia Beach, and he didn't receive his orders until the day before OCS graduation!  He was given three weeks to report, so he was able to fly home with us to Indiana, pack what he could into his truck, and drive to VB.  After Intel school, the Navy reimbursed him for moving all of his worldly goods to his next duty station. (He rented a trailer and hauled it all himself.) 

    So, your daughter probably won't know for sure until closer to graduation. They all have to learn early on to deal with the uncertainty, and last-minute changes to assignments, and just roll with it. 

    What island to you live on?  My hubby and I visited the Big Island last July when the lava was flowing, and took a helicopter ride right over the fissure as it was spewing. Got some great photos. Would love to visit HI more often, but it's such a LOOOONG flight from Indiana!!!

    Good luck to your daughter!

  • Aloha Mom

    Aloha! 
    We have FaceBook support OCS groups going!
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  • Ginger's mom

    Hi, my daughter arrived 7/28 and we have not heard from her as of yet.  Does anyone know how we find out her group number? 

    Thank you

  • Aloha Mom

    Aloha Ginger's Mom! 
    Please join our FaceBook group for her class for updates on her class. Also remember that no news is good news! 
    They have had a busy week, Medical Monday, Wake Up Wednesday, First Friday and Sucky Saturday. Next is Fast Cruise (Tomorrow). If she has not rolled to Holding Class, you will NOT hear from her and THIS is a GOOD thing! 
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/2337082503246319/

  • MariaP

    Hello.. My daughter started OCS Sept 8th..just got a phone call from her last night that she got rolled to H class. I was up all night learning what I can about roll backs and H class.  What happens now? Thanks..

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    MariaP - there is a Roll back discussion up above in the discussion forum - it might answer some of your questions!

  • M's mom

    MariaP:  Take a deep breath!  Being rolled to H (Holding) Class is usually only a three-week setback. Rolling at five days in, it usually means they didn't pass the first physical fitness assessment.  She will be given extra help with the physical training or whatever for the next three weeks to get her up to speed, and then she will join the next incoming class in three weeks.

    Some of the ones who roll early wind up being the leaders and top candidates in the new class they join, because they have three weeks more experience than the newbies coming in. Just keep writing her lots of encouraging letters and tell her how proud you are!  

  • Allison

    I'm sure she is stressing out right now. But try to remind her this is not a sign of failure. Many/most people go through rollbacks at one time or another. It's the Navy's way of giving her extra time to meet the requirements. Tell her to hang in there. The Navy needs strong women like your daughter. She's going to be a tremendous asset!!

  • MariaP

    Thank you so much! for all the info and support..

  • Tan’s mom

    Good evening! My son just had his swearing in ceremony today so I'm officially a Navy mom!! I have no experience being a military mom or wife. My husband was with the Air Force but we met 2 years after he was honorably discharged.

    I have a question about his flight up to Rhode Island. He starts February 9th. I was wondering if he get go up with me on the 7th (this is the 10th anniversary of my husband's death) and my daughter who lives in NYC will meet us up there so we can spend time together and honor his memory. 

    Do any of you moms know if the Navy allows this? I was told that the Navy will fly him up. I have booked a hotel for us to stay for 2 nights and I'm even willing to pay for his flight.

    Any advise is greatly appreciated. Thank you for your time. 

  • Matt's mom

    Tan’s Mom - we live in upstate New York and drive our son out the night before he was to start OCS. I don’t see why you couldn’t arrange a weekend. Have him talk to his recruiter.
  • Anna

    Tan's mom,

    My daughter went to OCS in 2012.  She arrived a few days early by car, and got a hotel room where some other new candidates were staying.  He needs to talk to his recruiter about arranging his airfare a little early but hanging out there a few days early should not be a problem.  At least it wasn't several years ago!!!!!

  • M's mom

    Welcome, Tan's mom!

    I agree with Matt's mom. He should discuss this with his recruiter, and maybe arrange a flight that is a few days early. (Unless his ticket has already been purchased for Feb 8--might be hard to get that changed.)

    Some of the candidates drive their own vehicles to OCS instead of flying, so it's possible to make one's own travel plans if they let their recruiter know.

  • M's mom

    Hello Anna,

    Seems so long ago now to say that your daughter (and my son) went to OCS in 2012!!!!!!!

    Is your daughter still flying?  I think you had written before that she was hoping to get an instructor position?  Where is she now?  Is she a LCDR yet?

    My son & wife returned from Japan a year ago, and he is now stationed at Ft Meade, MD with the U.S. Military Cyber Security Command.  They have their work cut out for them with cyber security, with a big concern being the security of the upcoming 2020 election!

    Son & D-I-L bought their first house near Baltimore and are having fun(?) remodeling it.  He earned his master's degree last fall, so he feels that he has all the boxes checked for promotion to Lt Commander this spring. (Hopefully!)  It sure is nice to have them closer to our home (Indiana) than they were in Japan!

    Are you still living the vagabond life on the road?  (I'm jealous!)

  • ProudMom

    Here is a link to a Pinterest page with Candio Box content ideas if anyone gets stuck on what to send.  Congratulations to you and your candidates.  BZ

  • MariaP

    Hello, OCS Moms:

    My daughter just graduated Jan 24th and will be attending Navy Supply Corps School this April.  Feel free to ask if any of you have any questions and I will be more than happy to help.  The best advice I can give now is to join your loved ones OCS group on FB.  Navy OCS Class ( your LO class no)  Family Friends and Support.  Very helpful and it felt good knowing that you are not alone.

    Good Luck to all your new Candidates.  Go Navy!

  • Anna

    M's Mom,

    Yes that sounds like so long ago!!!! Hard to believe Jenn is coming up on 10 years since her initial enlistment!! She didn't get the instructor position she was initially hoping for but she is back in Pensacola teaching Aviation Safety at the school here where she had her Aviation training right out of OCS.  She gets in lots of traveling as they teach this program all over.  She just came back from a trip to Japan.  Biggest problem she's ever had to deal with was the recent shooting in Pensacola.  It was at the Aviation School building.  Her and her co workers were not able to even go in that building to get their stuff out of their offices until well into January.  They are in a temp building now as the Navy will not open that old building up again.  What a sad, terrifying time for the entire aviation community here. Hubby and I are still doing our travels across the country.  We decided to come to Pensacola to stay with Jenn for the winter months and next month we're getting back on the road to head west!!!  Thinking of settling down later this year and doing single travels but having a home base to come back to.  We've been to all 48 states and took a cruise to Alaska!!  So glad to hear your son is doing well. Jenn is expecting to get her masters and is working on all those boxes as well. Her first look is 2021. Hope they enjoy their time in Baltimore!! So much there to see and do.  Have they visited Annapolis yet???

  • M's mom

    MariaP:  Congratulations to you and your new Ensign!   Now the adventure begins for her (and you!)  

    Anchors Aweigh!

  • M's mom

    Anna,

    Oh my gosh, I heard about that tragic shooting in Pensacola, but didn't mentally connect the dots that your daughter might be there.  So glad that she was not directly involved. We worry about our kids when they are deployed, as I did when my son was on a ship in the Persian Gulf for 10 months, but we assume they will be safe at the stateside bases.  Not true anymore.  So sad.

    Yes, we had several family vacations to the Annapolis/Baltimore area when our son was younger.  We took a tour of the Naval Academy when he was in high school. Saw the crypt of John Paul Jones being guarded by midshipmen.  Feasted on many blue crabs!    Have been to Ft McHenry and all the fun stuff at the harbor. 

    Son and daughter-in-law now live near Woodlawn/Catonsville on the west side of Baltimore.  They are now experiencing the "joys" of home ownership: lawn and landscaping maintenance, leaky faucets, sealing drafty windows, etc.   Things YOU no longer have to deal with on the road!   haha

  • Anna

    M's Mom,

    Yes luckily she was not at work yet that morning!!! I miss living in Annapolis and getting to visit all the historic places!!!  You're funny - we may not have landscaping issues (except ant hills and ants getting in the trailer). leaking windows when it rains and the fact that the slide outs leave good sized openings where walls don't completely seal up!!!! Talk about drafts!!!! But not every one can hitch up their home and go somewhere new so . . . . 

  • M's mom

    Anna,

    Yes, I suppose there is ALWAYS home maintenance, no  matter what kind of home one has!  

    Where do you think you might settle down and have a "home base?"    I imagine since you've been everywhere, you have a good idea of your favorite places!

  • Anna

    M's Mom,

    It's funny but we have to been to so many places that it is so hard to pick a favorite.  But we do love mountains and big bodies of water.  Hard to find those places without also dealing with lots of cold, snow, stuff like that.  So we are thinking of Asheville, NC.  Also kind of central location for all the kids, although the Navy still moves 2 of them around!!! Doesn't get a lot of snow and we found apartments that will give us a great view of the mountains without being too far away from them!!!!!

  • M's mom

    Anna,

    Asheville IS nice!   Make sure you visit Biltmore while there, if you haven't already.    I have relatives near Charlotte.

    When we were in Newport for son's graduation from OCS, we toured the Vanderbilt's "summer cottage" on the bay!  Not at all like what we call cottages here in Indiana, but I suppose compared to Biltmore, it was a shack to them!   Way bigger than our humble house, but they were roughing it in Newport!!!   haha

  • Allison

    Anna - I am so glad your daughter made it through the Pensacola shooting safely. That must have been very emotional for you!! I feel badly for the families who lost their sons. Would your daughter know of any way to send our condolences to them? Maybe a Navy office that would forward a card? I am sure they are struggling and could use some support.The months after a death can be very hard.

  • Anna

    Hello Allison!  I can ask my daughter, I haven't heard of anything myself but I will ask her.  I agree about supporting the families.  I cannot imagine their pain and anguish. I think about them every time I see the gate as I drive by.  

  • Allison

    Thanks Anna!

  • Anna

    Allison,

    I'm sending you the information in a private message.

  • Kim8

    Hello all, I have a question about the wait time to hear if you've been accepted to OCS.  (I'm new to this so sorry if my jargon is not correct.)  The officer recruiter told my son that his application was confirmed as received (ready to be reviewed) on Feb 7th so it's been a bit more than 2 weeks.  Is there an average wait time until we hear yes or no for OCS or does it depend on the community you are applying to?  He is applying for SWO if that matters.  Also, some background if it matters...my son is still home, dual processing, so if not picked up for OCS, then he will go enlisted.

  • Ging_83

    Does anyone have a son/daughter headed to class 16-20. (I am an Army mom for 7+ years, I don't know the Navy language yet).  I have questions...don't even know where to start!  Thanks!

  • Ging_83

    Thanks, offroute.mom!  Do I need to create a conversation?  I don't want to be hijacking someones thread.  I haven't quite figured out how to get to some of the conversations I've seen here.

    I have seen several "packing lists" including one from his recruiter, and they all differ a bit.  I don't want him to spend $$ and not be able to have the items he brings.  Are you able to please confirm/deny (and maybe even add to the list) what he will be allowed?

    Running shoes; 1 or 2 pair? 

    Underwear; any style/color (as long as 1 pair is white)--so are boxer briefs ok?

    Socks; I have seen SO many posts that they need Fox River or Thorlos boot socks...but no mention what color(s) and since they are not on any of the packing lists that I've seen, I don't want to spend $15 a pair if they can't have them.  Pretty sure he's set with the plain white crew ones, but do you have any insight on this?  Also, what about dress socks?

    Personal care items; How big of shampoo (his group will be in a 2 week quarantine before starting)? Should it be shampoo/body wash combo?  Most packing lists say no "aerosols" but they all mention bringing shaving cream....can this be shaving cream in a can (I kinda label that as an aerosol)?   what other items can they take (athletic tape, moleskin, etc.).

    He isn't worried about any of this, which is good...I guess!

    Thanks!

  • CindyN

    Ging-83 - My son was at OCS 5 years ago now and things change so I can't offer much advice on the packing list. I can't imagine why whey wouldn't allow moleskin but I am sure stranger things have happened. I believe my son took some but I don't know if he was able to keep it or if it got packed away with items like their cell phones, civilian clothes. So my advice is, if he wants to take some, he should. It won't take up any space in his suitcase and the worst outcome is that it gets packed away until he is done. On the white briefs, that was on the packing list when my son went. I had to run out late the night before he left to buy some because yes, he left it all for the last minute. When he got to RI, he found that he could have brought boxer briefs and he was bummed. That rule may have changed so getting info from someone more recent would be good. White uniform probably does require a least one pair that is white though.

  • Andrea S

    Ging-83 - My son was in the OCS class in Feb of 2018 so some things might have changed.  He to had a list that we tried to fill 2 days before his flight (to his defense he was assigned a class 12 days before the start date). I can respond to a few things:

    The socks : we looked for that brand high and low and could not find it.  I know he had to have some plain white and some plain black.  We ended up with thick athletic socks, just make sure they do you have any branding on them (ie: Nike, Under Armor).  We actually found some at Costco. The Navy surplus store downtown Newport has that brand if they are in Newport early.

    Next the running shoes: he brought 2 pairs (one to use and one for when they have their inspections) but when he got there they had changed it to  issuing them running shoes (new balance) so he did not use his at all.  His class was the first to do that so check and see if it is that way now.  

    As previous mom's have stated you won't hear from them for a few weeks.  My son it was the 3rd Sunday after he left that he was able to call on the weekend (it was Sunday).  So make sure you answer any numbers from Newport RI.  I was that mom that wrote from day one and he sure was glad to get letters from us by the time the could receive them.  Send pictures also that really made his day. Also, Facebook will have the class online group.  That will be the only time you will have a chance to see them for the first 8 weeks.  The last 3 weeks they get their cell phones back and then you can face time.

    I hope this helps!  

  • MariaP

    Ging-83 my daughter graduated from OCS last Jan 24th .. the best place to start is follow the Facebook page of Officer Training Command Newport. This is the official page of OTCN.  Lots of information and photos of what a candidate goes through.   Then see if there is a group for Class 15-20 and request to join because these are usually a closed group.  This will be the class before 16-20 and if you let the Admin know that your son will be in the next incoming class , they would let you join.  They do not let candidates join in this group, open only to family and friends.  Lots of information and you will get ideas of what your son will be going through when it is his turn.  Lastly, find out if there is a group for you son's class  16-20 on Facebook and make sure to join in as well.  Believe me,  knowing that I was not alone  in worrying during my daughter's stay in OCS, the support and most of all, information I got from this group was a big help.  It sure helped my husband and I.  

    Packing list, my daughter followed the list given to her by her recruiter.  No more, no less.. OCS is all about following instructions and attention to detail .  They will be provided everything they need when they get there even running shoes.. my daughter did bring a new pair of running shoes with her but did not get to use it til the end since they had to use the shoes provided to them.  We did splurge on socks which we bought in Amazon (5oxRiver M of Fen's Wick Dry Stryker Mid-Calf, Black)  it was $10 a pair I think..  

    One other thing that we sent her after she got there was a Dritz 3100 14 in 1 Measuring Gauge which we bought at Amazon as well.  this served her well during the RLP room locker personnel inspection.  

    Make sure he brings enough cash for the cab ride from the airport to Training country.  My daughter's flight arrived at 10:00 p.m. at Providence and had to get a cab ride from the airport which luckily she shared with 4 other candidates she met at the airport and they divided the 100$ fare amongst them.  she had 100$ in twenties with her when she left and that should be enough and her debit card which she was able to use when they were allowed to go to the NEX on Saturdays.  Since she had no access to her bank account during the Indoc phase, she gave me access to her account and I paid her debit card for her so she can buy what she needed at the NEX.

    Sorry for the deluge of information.. pls feel free to message me if you have other questions and i will be more than happy to help.  I have been through all the stress , anxiety and worries but I assure you , it is all worth it in the end especially for your son.  Lots of letters and I do mean a lot.. I wrote to my daughter everyday while she was there and she said the only way to describe it, it's like Christmas morning everytime she receives a letter during mail call.  good luck and Godspeed to your son.

  • JF

    Anyone here having a son/daughter in OCS 11-20?

  • Kim8

    Hi all, I started a new discussion but I think more people see comments on the wall so does anyone know the current situation with calling cards, i.e. better to get beforehand, what kind, easy enough to get at NEX so don't bother beforehand? You can answer using the discussion I started or right here I guess. The info I found on this site is from a while ago so looking for some updated info. TIA 

  • jagsailor

    HI NAVY MOMS,

    Candio phase is coming up for my son at OCS.  Any recommendations for what to include in the box?  I'm not sure where to find accurate information.  Thank for your help!

  • Kim8

    Hi jagsailor, my son is at OCS currently also (07-21). I'm guessing your son is in 06? There is a FB group for 06 & they have been having discussions about this, if you're interested here's the link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/4394018650638930 

    As far as what to include, it definitely can be confusing, esp whether food is allowed, because they have changed that back & forth over the past couple years. Currently, they are allowing treats; I have contact w/a SO in the 05 class who gave me that info. So, treat it the same as the holiday boxes. If you want to include a gift just remember that they have very limited storage space. I have seen things like a nice pen or flashlight as ideas along with more practical stuff like Fox River socks (boot & dress) & long johns. And, of course, decorating the inside of the box to celebrate their accomplishment! Hope this helps.

  • jagsailor

    Hi Kim8,

    My son is in 07.  I saw on our facebook group talk about Candio Boxes for delivery around FEb. 9th.  Thanks for the suggestions.  During the holiday stand down, I sent too many goodies and so I was just wondering what others were thinking for their Candio Boxes.  Apprectate your help

  • penelopewms

    My son was very pleased with Naval Officer cufflinks.

  • SandInMyShoes

    Hey OCS Graduate Moms...

    Two new questions!  How many Candio boxes can a officer candidate receive?   Only one? or can they receive more than one?  And someone posted something about cufflinks?  Can you elaborate on that?  Was it a OCS graduation gift?  Let me know..... my OC is a SOC!  :)

  • Kim8

    Hi SandinMyShoes,

    Congrats on your OC being in SOC phase! My son will graduate this Friday! OC's can receive more than 1 Candio box. Having said that, remember that they really don't have a lot of storage space & only 4 weeks to eat whatever goodies are in all the boxes. :) I opted to contact family & friends to send to me congratulations cards that I then included in our 1 box. I have heard of some people sending their OC an extra box for the purpose of giving to someone who doesn't get one. I didn't do that but thought I would toss that out there. The box has to be addresses to your OC & then you'd let your OC know its' purpose.

    Another idea for graduation gift is a Navy Officer Insignia Box. These boxes have little compartments to hold all the various pins, boards, etc that go on their uniforms. It gives them a place to put all that stuff when getting uniforms laundered or dry cleaned. I don't know how easily they can be found online but my husband does wood working so he made the box for our son. Here's a link to an example of such box: https://tinyurl.com/475ubpfh

    Best wishes to you!

  • ProudMom

    Naval Officer Cuff Links (Amazon) and Cadio Box Ideas (Pinterest)

  • SandInMyShoes

    Thanks Moms!!!

  • Vetta17

    Thanks and my son is in his 6th week in OCS; looking for advice on candio boxes