Naval Aviation

For Moms with Aviators or anyone interested
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  • Jmom

    I have been reading for awhile but never posted before.  My DS just finished his aircraft training in Virginia this week and will be heading overseas in a week and then two days after that be on a ship for several months.  Trying to help him sort what to take for the short term and what should he take with him onboard?  Not being military I am not used to this short turn around time! Luckily his Dad is retired and we are only 3 hours from him, so he will be going down to help out and pick up the Granddog who will be living with us for awhile it looks like! What an exciting time but also quite a jolt to this mama. Any avdvice is apprecitated

  • NOAM

    Hi Jmom,

    Our DS did the same thing.  Finished one week then joined a ship the next.  It's jolting for sure.  Email as often as you can knowing he cannot get them as frequently as you send them.  Know they will keep him very busy, so again you may not hear from him regularly.  Remind him to set his phone up for international so when he gets shore leave you guys can facetime and he doesn't get killed with mega-charges - was a life saver for me.  Not often enough but at least I could see his face. Get his address on the ship so you can send him stuff, and ship it as soon as he leaves since it will take a while to get there.

    Hang in there!

    PS - My DS is on his 2nd deployment and it hasn't gotten easier; we just get better at hiding it. ;-)

  • Helomom

    Hi Moms! SECNAV released the FY-19 Active Duty Line Officer Captain (O-6) Selections this morning. Our DS is on the list! I knew he would make it but it is really nice to see it actually in print! 

  • jsefamily

    Helomom, WOWOWOWOWOWOWOW!  That is so wonderful!  Congratulations to your DS and the whole family that has supported him on his military endeavors!  Fantastic!

  • CheriH

    Congrats Helomom!!!!  Quite the accomplishment!!!

  • TriciaM

    Congratulations to your DS and all of his family who helped him reach a real dream!

  • Allison

    Congratulations Helomom!

  • Helomom

    Thank you all! It’s been a long time since I snapped those Ensign bars on his shoulders at graduation. He and his family love their Navy life. As they used to say...”It’s not just a job, it’s an adventure!” (USN ad campaign from the early 90's, I believe)

  • Andy'sMom

    Congrats Helomom!

  • Helomom

    Thank you all! We are actually visiting them this weekend. He has started looking at jobs that might be coming up for his next tour in 2020. Last set of orders...

    His dad and I are still soooo excited for him. 

  • Andy'sMom

    Here is an odd question:  Has anyone had problems sending boxes using USPS Priority Mail to Pensacola?  I ask this because one of the moms whose daughter was in OCS with my son sent 2 boxes from 2 different shipping locations and both were ripped open and contents destroyed.   Also, an order from REI was shipped via USPS and it too was ripped.  Luckily the item was not compromised. She has contacted the 

    We have had problems with USPS in my area, but not as this level.  

  • Allison

    No  problems like that, but it is unusually slow to ship from New England to Pensacola by either USPS or UPS.

  • Matt's mom

    Andy’s Mom. Our son,too, is an OCS graduate in Pensacola. We have sent a few Priority Mail packages through USPS and at least one of them was totally destroyed. It was not only ripped open it was soaking wet.
  • Nancy

    Suzie, Thank you for sharing! God bless you and your family. I am thankful for the progress your family seems to be making. I hope and pray things will continue to improve. Much love and prayers!

  • Andy'sMom

    Suzie,  I'm sure this last year was a blur, but that is such good news about your DS!  I will pray that he stays in remission and that your husband will find some relief.  You have an awesome outlook.  Thanks for the positive words!

  • Allison

    Suzie, Very tough situation. We've been through cancer in my immediate family and it is very hard. My father lasted only eight months but that experience helped us know what to do when my sister had symptoms the doctors did not recognize. She survived multiple surgeries and chemo and is cancer free today. Glad to hear you've had good news about your DS. I'm sure that will help your husband in his fight, too. Sending you hugs.

  • Glenni

    Hi everybody, my son is a Midshipman third class at Auburn University in the NROTC  program. After CORTRAMID this summer, he is pretty sure he wants to fly helicopters. He has received a lot of pressure to be a Nuke, but he knows that if he doesn’t go for the interview, they can’t force him to be a nuke! He is already preparing for the aviation test. Any suggestions?

  • CheriH

    Happy Mama here!  Our DS got to do a flyover at our alma mater's football game.  A bucket item list for him and such fun to be there to see him do it.  They bring the pilots on the field after half time to introduce them; they both brought their babies on the field with them!  So precious.  My heart is full.  

  • JudyM

    Cheri, what a proud moment for you! Being a Navy Mom has many of those moments!

  • Chris

    CheriH,

    Very cool.  Several months ago my son flew from Oceana to Arlington participating in a missing man formation.  One way, @ 180 miles, was a 20 minute flight!

  • Barb

    Cheri, that's awesome, congratulations!  Our DS flew home for the weekend and landed his Super Hornet at the local airport--the local news was there, the streets around the airport were filled with people that wanted to see the jet land.  It was a really awesome weekend.  He flew over his high school football game on the way in...it was very cool.  Hoping everyone is well...wishing you and your LO's blue skies!

  • Nancy

    Cheri, Chris, and Barb, those sound like very proud mama moments! What a thrill! I hope to have one of those someday.

    I have a question regarding the selection at end of primary. Our DS has been in primary for a long time, since maybe January or February! His flights keep getting delayed due to weather or lack of planes. We kept thinking selection would be August, then realized no way, it will be September. Now he told us that most recent instructor on the flight admitted, "yeah we are slow rolling you guys out." Now I know that the Navy has its own unique time frame, hurry up and wait. But someone else indicated to us that it could have something to do with the Navy's fiscal year end and holding a group over until October. They seem to be holding everyone currently in formations. So does anyone know if the Navy's fiscal year end is September 30 and is this a possible reason for the slow rollout?

  • TriciaM

    End of Fiscal Year for the US government is Sept 30. or you can say the federal FY is October 1 to September 30. Funding for almost everything it seems has been delayed over the past several years.  example each time my son has been promoted his raises and bonuses have come much later. Some funds such as back pay for raises raises are finally paid up but late. Funds for planes. fuel , maintenance may be approved but not released on  a timely basis. Then again with sequestration many things planned  never got funded. Welcome to the Military.

  • CheriH

    Off he goes on deployment.  We did get a phone call to say good-bye.  He sounded so confident and ready.  He knows so much more this time than last.  It was so good to hear...but of course, I had a few tears.  We will see his sweet wife and 7 month old son next week.  So much to pray for!  So grateful you all are "there"  and get it.  

    There is much distraction for us however, as we are in the process of moving from Atlanta, GA to Seattle, WA.  To be closer to our daughter and her family.  The moving truck is on its way, and we are too...with an 80 lb dog in the back seat!

    Here's to hoping each one of you has a marvelous day!

  • redheadlass

    CheriH- the best to your son and his family! And to you all in your move! Welcome to the West Coast-I love Seattle! 

  • jsefamily

    Best wishes to you CheriH on your move, your trip and your DS’s deployment. So much happening in your world! You got this!
  • Helomom

    CheriH!  Welcome to the PNW!

  • kaarinac

    My DS completed his carrier quals at the end of Sept. and is finishing up his BFM now. We have a winging date of Nov. 9 and are anxiously counting down the days. It has been a long journey as my DS injured his knee and required surgery that had him med down for 10 months. The anticipation and excitement is off the charts for us and I needed to share with the community that understands! Thank you for sharing your joys and challenges with me!

  • Barb

    Kaarinac, sending you positive vibes to get through...it's quite a ride.

    CheriH, best wishes on your move and sending you warm thoughts for strength through another deployment.  

    For anyone interested in the Navy for Moms Annual Holiday Project, here are the details:  This year we will be adopting the USS Ronald Reagan (CVN76). The Reagan is forward deployed to Yokosuka, Japan and is the flagship for Carrier Strike Group Five. We will start shipping packages the week of November 18th to ensure all packages reach the command by Christmas. If anyone has questions, please don’t hesitate to ask. Oh, by the way, this is the 10th anniversary of our starting this great project⚓️⚓️

    To sign up you just have to find them on Facebook.  We did a a hundred last year and put the word out to our friends, family, teachers in the community and they did tons more!

    Have a great day!

  • JudyM

    CheriH, my best wishes and prayers for your DS's deployment. I have been through 2 and it is our roles as mothers to be supportive (and always missing them).

    Kaarinac, winging is fo much fun.  Congrats to your DS.

    It has been a while since I have posted (although I do read). DS completed two deployments and TPS. I am thankful he and wife are now in the same state as Mom, Dad, and brother. Yeah! We will spend as much time as possible with him while we can. Who knows where he will be in a couple of years.

  • CheriH

    Congrats Kaarinac!  Winging is the best!  Sounds like your DS had some major challenges to get to this point, so it will be even sweeter!

    And, Nancy, hang in there.  Everyone has a story about waiting in the aviation pipeline.  So, while it is frustrating and you wonder if they will ever make it, just realize it is very normal.  

    JudyM...TPS is quite the accomplishment.  Glad yours is closer now! DS is waiting word of his next assignment after this deployment.  He had a rush ride for Top Gun.  We will see.  

    helomom:  we will be in west seattle.  Only 1000 more miles to go. 

    We've just spent 2 days with our DIL and grandson.  They are doing well and she has good support among the squadron wives.  Plus several family trips planned in the next few months.  

    Thanks to all for your support!

  • Andy'sMom

    Nancy,  where is your DS doing his Primary?  My DS is finishing API and is heading to TX early next month.

  • Nancy

    Andy'sMom, My DS finished up primary at the end of October and was selected for helicopters, which he really wanted. He stayed in Milton for primary, and he is staying in Milton for advanced. I am told this next phase will move faster without the slow downs experienced in primary. He has been happy to stay in the same place for awhile. It will end up being almost 2 years in one place! Can't wait for winging! Hope your DS enjoys Texas! Best wishes to you and your DS!

  • kaarinac

    We just spent the weekend with our DS as he received his "wings of gold" and is preparing to head to his next assignment. We are so proud of him and his accomplishments and excited to have him stationed closer to us for the next year! Thank you for all your support and words of encouragement!

  • Helomom

    Congratulations to the moms of winging aviators. It’s such a career milestone for these officers. Now the pace quickens as there is so much to learn and so many duties to perform as junior officers to advance in the fleet. Exciting times!

    Nancy, welcome to the small but mighty community of helo moms! The adventure continues!

  • CheriH

    DS is deployed...and celebrating his 30th birthday. Comms have been down alot, so I haven't heard from him since he left. BUT...I got an email today!!! He was actually newsy and he sounds good. Does this Mama heart good. Missing him so much.

  • Barb

    CheriH, sending a hug...you just live for those little bits of communication while they are deployed.  So glad you had a moment!

    if any of you decided to do the Navy for Moms holiday project—stockings for USS Reagan—they have posted the shipping address and things need to be shipped between Tuesday and Saturday—go to the FB page to let them know how many  you will send.  (It’s a closed group so you have to ask to join)

    Hello Ladies (I don't think we have any gentleman here). I'm going to post the address today since it wouldn't be fair to expect those that are sending many many many packages to have to wait until the last minute to complete those custom forms we all love!!

    Please make sure you write Navy for Mom's Holiday Project on the outside of your packages and your contact info in your bags/stockings.

    PLEASE DO NOT MAIL YOUR PACKAGES UNTIL TUESDAY, November 20th. As I've mentioned in the past, the ships do not have storage space to hold thousands of gifts. All packages should be mailed no later than Saturday, November 24th.

    If anyone has questions, please let us know. If you haven't posted the # of stockings or bags your sending please do so asap so that I can inform the command. And as always, thank you for continuing to send holiday cheer to our sailors and Marines who aren't able to be with family & friends during the holidays.

  • CheriH

    Just got the news that DS is going to Top Gun!  I could never have imagined when I watched that movie over 30 years ago that I would have a son that would be a naval aviator, let alone going to Top Gun.  Course, I haven't been able to watch that movie since he became a naval aviator...

    So excited for him!

  • redheadlass

    Wow! Congrats to your LO! How long has your son been in the Navy as a Naval aviator?  You must be so proud! 

  • JudyM

    Cheri, awesome news. What a great opportunity for your DS.

    My DS graduated from test next pilot school in June and is now at China Lake NAWS where they are filming Top Gun 2. They are even using extras from China lake.

    Redheadlass, my DS winged in 2013, did two deployments before timing out of the squadron and getting into TPS.  Timing varies for everyone and what needs the Navy has.

  • CheriH

    JudyM...that would be cool if he was in it!  I read a book by one of the pilots who was around when they filmed the first one.  Very interesting.  

    Redheadlass...he commissioned in June 2012, winged in July 2014 and went to an F-18 squadron in February 2016.

  • Chris

    Eight Oceana based VFA squadrons are participating in a missing man formation tomorrow in Houston for GHW Bush's funeral. 30 aircraft will go to make up a 21 aircraft formation. Squadrons participating are: VFA-103 Jolly Rogers, VFA-143 Pukin' Dogs, VFA-32 Fighting Swordsmen; VFA-83 Rampagers, VFA-131 Wildcats, VFA-105 Gunslingers, VFA-31 Tomcatters, and VFA-87 Golden Warriors.
  • AeroArl

    Does anyone have any good,gift suggestions for naval aviators? My DS is a bit more than halfway through training for carrier qualification. Next up is winging and onto E2/C2 training. Anything your LO’s found helpful or fun? Also where do you purchase the gold wings for the ceremony? Thank you so much!

  • gonavymom

    Two good stores to try:  Wings in Pensacola FL, that is where I got my DS his gold wings.  The other is the Flight Deck store at the National Naval Aviation Museum in Pensacola.  Both have websites.  Some things my DS has appreciated are the gloves, kneeboards and a really nice pen that will write in any orientation such as when you are flying upside down :)

    I was in Guatemala doing medical mission work last week and when I got home found out that DS got to do the solo F18 flyover of the USS George HW Bush for the day of mourning. I missed it :(

  • AeroArl

    GoNavymom, Thank you for your suggestions!

    How exciting for your DS, sorry you missed the flyover, but I am sure there are recordings available.

  • Allison

    GoNavymom - what a thrill to have your DS participate in the flyover! sorry you missed seeing it live!
    Thanks for the store and gift suggestions.
  • Nancy

    Here's a shout out to the good citizens of Pensacola. While on the phone with DS, he said "hang on mom" and I could hear him answering a sweet neighbor lady inviting him over that evening for pork chops, mashed potatoes and gravy, etc. and when he came back on the phone, he said she does that fairly often. She has grown children and she and her husband just really enjoy doing this. Just made my heart sing. Thank you, whoever you are, for giving my DS a home cooked meal and some family fellowship. Can't wait to meet her when I go visit next month!

  • Allison

    Love this story! Thanks Nancy!

  • LoniJ

    Nancy that's wonderful. Wish I was closer to him so he could over. Every time I hear those T6 planes overhead I say a little prayer for our pilots.

  • CheriH

    Welcome Mom04...if we can answer any questions or help in any way, let us know!