AECF - FCs and ETs

For families that have a loved one serving the Navy as an FC or an ET. This is the place to share and learn more about their jobs and schools.

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  • mommajilloffcsn

    Thanks Lori!  I gotta go now ladies,  talk to ya later.

  • Mary, Proud Mom of Nick

    Love DC, so much to see and do there and so much of it is FREE. First time I went there for a business convention, I was there for three days and said I must bring the family back. We went and stayed seven days and still didn't get to see everything. It really is an awesome place to visit - use the metro as much as possible, easy/clean/cheap because otherwise traffic is the PITs!
  • R'sproudmom

    Hey mommajill, we actually live in central Virginia, used to live in Va. Beach area and  have family there. Orders in Va. would be nice for this mom but, it's not about me.  Never been to the west coast and would love a reason to go there.

  • Vickyrun

    R'sproudmom, I agree it is never about us Moms. I realised that when I got The Box. My kid has disappeared! She belongs to the Navy now. I have no control, I can't change anything when she is upset with the Navy. I have to use tough love; "That is part of the job" I say.   She has got 3 years + 3 months more to go , then if she still doesn't like it she doesn't have to reenlist.

    I'm an Army brat, when she was talking about enlisting, I said #1 thing: You Obey Orders w/o question and you will be Ok.

  • Vickyrun

    yeah at what she is all upset about was made public yesterday;

    http://www.miamiherald.com/2012/02/16/2645215/us-navy-selects-destr...

    Spain!

  • Odi_Ship09_Div140

    Son made ET3 yesterday. I was so happy for him and asked nicely for a picture. When I reminded him he sent a picture of the insignia and when I asked where he was, he said behind it.  Sense of humor is good, but he knows I would love pictures.  He sounds so upbeat.

  • ProudGMBarb

    Odi....Congrats to your new ET3 !  Yes, we sure do look forward to pictures, don't we? I keep reminding our guy the same thing. I forgot....where is your son? In C school?  In San Diego? Norfolk? or out in the fleet? sorry...it's hard to keep up!

  • ProudGMBarb

    Vickyrun..is she attached to one of the four selected ships? Looks like this will take place in 2014 and 2015 ? Interesting.

  • Anti M

    Oooh, Spain.  I do like it there.  But then, I chose to visit, not be sent there far from family.  How much longer will she be on her ship?   

  • Chris, Forever Ray's Proud Mom

    My daughter is in love with a Spanish man and hopes to live in Spain (she spent a year there on study abroad) Hoping my son gets orders for one of these!

  • Vickyrun

    Yes, that is her ship; the USS Donald Cook.

    It is a small Aegis destroyer,   

     

  • Odi_Ship09_Div140

    Son is headed for C school at Fort Gordon - thanks proudgm

  • Navymom

    My daughter will be graduating A school in two weeks. She told me the put down where she wanted to be deployed. She also said A school isn't a big deal for graduation. I feel bad not being able to fly over to see her. Do they take pictures of this and post them? Also she put down San Diego for her wish list of deployment. What are the chances she will get this?
  • chew92

    My son chose Pacific fleet and got Atlantic. I think just let them choose so they feel as if they get a choice. They're in the Navy now . They will be put where they are needed.
  • Anti M

    I chose West Coast/Japan and got Diego Garcia, and that was as an ET1!

    Sand Diego is a big homeport, so chances aren't bad.  

  • Odi_Ship09_Div140

    where do I look on facebook for pics

  • ProudGMBarb

    Anyone looking for the TSC fb page, here it is:

    http://www.facebook.com/#!/TrainingSupportCenterGreatLakes

     

    Have a great weekend everyone!

  • Navymom

    Thank you everyone for the information!  It's hard to believe that my daughter has been enlisted now for 10 months!  I want everyone to know this page has been a lifeline for me.  Thank you all for helping me get through these 10 months!!!  She knows she may not get what she put down and I know her life is the Navy now ever since she signed the papers.  Will be checking the TSC facebook page for pictures.

  • Vickyrun

    That wish list is a big joke. Our kids don't have  a choice. The Navy shouldn't do that stupid wish list. Our kids need to learn right away that they will go where the Navy needs them. And when the Navy tells them to go. That is part of the job.

  • Odi_Ship09_Div140

    But you never know - what if the wish list happens to match the Navy's needs? They are told the Navy's needs come first.

  • Navymom

    Odi - my daughter is graduating A school in two weeks. Can you tell me how long your son had to wait after he graduated before he got his orders for C school? She is also an ET
  • Anti M

    Actually, it is called a dream sheet... and no, out of A school, it makes little difference.  However, they NEED to know how to fill one out when they hit the fleet, because the detailers do take it seriously as possible for the next set of orders.  They cannot always fulfill the requests, which happened to me once, but I have also as good results getting one of my three dream picks.  And the place I didn't want to go was where I met my husband and love of my life.  So we should all dream on ....

  • duhhuh58 Ship 10/Div 267

    anyone know which building the ET/FC A school class is held in?  we are surprising my daughter a day early and want to be waiting outside when she gets done with school on that thursday

  • ProudGMBarb

    Anti M...you've got the right attitude!

  • ProudGMBarb

    Ari'smom...Wait/hold times will always vary some. You could get a general idea from how long others waited, but you just never know!

    Our ET sailor graduated A school toward the end of Sept. 2011 and got his C school orders around third week in November 2011.

    Was great because he got to come home for Thanksgiving, then reported to C school on Dec. 2. Then he came home again during Christmas Standdown. It was soooo good to see him.

  • Sandy's_sailor son

    Vickyrun and Anti M. I agree. The Navy will try to give you your "dream sheet wish" but in the end. You will be assigned to where you are needed. 

    I believe that things happen for a reason Anti M. Although you didn't get the orders you would have liked. , you got your dream man. LoL

  • Anti M

    duhhuh... you may want to try and call the school.  We always had to march in formation back to the barracks.   We did not "straggle" (leave individually).   The Navy and surprises don't mix.  I assume you're retired military or you couldn't get on base, yes?

  • ProudGMBarb

    Thank goodness for Anti M !

    I forgot about them "marching" to and fro everywhere!

    Duhhuh...another thought..you can post a question about what you'd like to do on TSC FB page. They always do a great job in responding very quickly to any questions.

    Just wondering...didn't Chief Angie also post on this forum? or was it just on the GL school forum? Haven't seen anything from her on here lately, so I thought I'd ask. Anyone hear from her lately? We could always count on Anti M and Chief Angie to provide clear, accurate, and no beating around the bush answers! Love them both!

  • Anti M

    She still posts, but now she is retired Navy!

  • duhhuh58 Ship 10/Div 267

    AntiM,

    no, not retired military but i do have an id card as i take care of my 3 1/2 year old grandson with middle child is out to sea.

  • duhhuh58 Ship 10/Div 267

    i did post to the TSC page.  maybe we'll just wait outside her ship for her

  • R'sproudmom

    Helen, sounds so exciting.  We have so much to look forward to. Please keep us posted and that means pictures too.  If possible.

  • Odi_Ship09_Div140

    Arismom - son graduated mid January and got orders about a week ago - he was not expecting to hear yet but was thrilled.

  • Odi_Ship09_Div140

    Helen - what a life changing thrill!  I searched the facebook page and found A school grad to share with grandparents. Son does not realize the pics make us tear up! Now I will look for advancement pic

  • Odi_Ship09_Div140

    Helen - wow!

  • ProudGMBarb

    Helen...I've got goosebumps right along with you! Sooooo exciting!

    Love the smiling pic!  Have a wonderful reunion!

    They will love the sky diving....our sailor did it before he went to bootcamp! Just him, not us old farts...no way! We were just spectators!

  • Navymom

    ProudGMBarb
    I am guessing it will be about a month to two months before she gets her orders for C school. She did mention she is going to try and come home before she heads to C school so I'm guessing May or June. Not too far away.
  • Vickyrun

    I found this graphic, I thought it was good as the "Mom Thinks" pic is excatly the picture in my mind of what FCs do.

  • ProudGMBarb

    Vickyrun...very cute graphic!

  • ProudGMBarb

    Ari'smom... ahhh yes...May/June is just around the corner. We sure look forward to any time we can get with our sailors, don't we?!! Those few days go by soooo quickly. I feel bad for them...everyone wants a piece of them when they're home...family..friends.

    Keep us posted and let us know when your sailor receives her orders!

  • Chris, Forever Ray's Proud Mom

    Helen, nice pic, enjoy him, my son smiles now too....

    Vickyrun-too funny, forwarded it to my son for a laugh as well.

  • Vickyrun

    Good morning, Thank you.

    I emailed Chrissy yesterday , still waiting for a reply. Also still waiting to hear back from her Ombudsman. Anyone have any ideas about what I can do for Chrissy, if there is no family member able to go to Homecoming?

  • Navymom

    Vickyrun.  Love that picture.  Forwarded that to my daughter for a good laugh.

    ProudGMBarb - You are so right about sharing them when they are home.  I remember Christmas break I had to have her pencil me in between her friends and her cousins.  I hope this time she won't be as busy.

  • Anti M

    Vickyrun. .. ask her if she doesn't have duty for homecoming.  Sometimes the single sailors will volunteer to take duty so the married ones can go home with their spouses.  Everyone forgets the ship doesn't just shut down, there's always part of the crew working.  But it is good of you to try to have something nice for her.  Sometimes the USO does something for the singles too.  

  • Vickyrun

    AntiM, How do I contact the USO in Virgina?

  • duhhuh58 Ship 10/Div 267

    vicky,

    will she be coming into norfolk?  if she doesn't have duty or anyone going to homecoming i can be there friday, saturday or sunday to meet her if you want.  take her out to eat.  hell, if she has a few days off i can bring her down to my house, i live on the outer banks in nc and my house is always open to the sailors.

    carol

  • Odi_Ship09_Div140

    duhuh - what a heartwarming offer - not my sailor but thanks for reaching out.

  • duhhuh58 Ship 10/Div 267

    well, the offer stands for anyone that has a sailor in the norfolk area.  i grew up an air force brat and dad was always bring the single guys home for a good meal or just a place to hang out for awhile.  my daughter is stationed in norfolk and i'm only 1 1/2 hours south on the beach.

  • Mary, Proud Mom of Nick

    Vickyrun,
    Here's the phone # for the USO in Norfolk. Is Chrissy going to take leave once they get back to the USA? I know she must be itching to see her son.
    757-764-5232

    As Anti M was saying - the ship never shuts down, generally 25% of the crew must be on the ship at all times. So prior to returning to home port, someone makes the very unpopular decision - which duy section will have duty that day. Everyone is anxious to get away from the ship after a deployment but GENERALLY the single guys will step up and cover for the married ones. They make it up to the single guys when they get to some of the exotic ports, the married guys will take their duty.

    Our son will be 25 years old tomorrow - how the heck did THAT happen?!!! Life goes by so quickly. Happy to say in just one short week, we will be in Hawaii celebrating our birthdays together. So happy that he is taking 13 days leave while we are there so we can get some nice quality time together. He's ready for a break too, his ship just went into the yards but they have been sending him to different schools.

    Hope everyone is well and hearing from their sailors often!

    Helen, are you all packed? Your hubby is going to have some great stories to share by the time you arrive in SanDiego!
  • Anti M

    Thanks, Mary, I just got back on this morning.

    Yes, when a crew/work center is running well, they know who needs what and will work with each other to make sure everyone get a fair shake.