My daughter also just arrived at C School SD. I too am hoping to get out there to visit, maybe over the Christmas holiday. Any advice is welcome, figure it'll will take a few months for newly arrived Sailors to get into a routine and get to know the area.
San Diego is amazing. So much to do and see, so many choices of places to visit. Be sure your sailor knows about the MWR discounts, and the many places they can go for free.
My son is on his first deployment, could I have some ideas what to send him. He asked for snacks and treats, and are there any guide lines. Thanks in advance
geokat5, double baggie anything that may leak, melt,...it takes awhile to get there, so be conscious of things getting stale as well. I also learned form a Navy site that you have to use all 9 digits on zip codes or it will be returned. Whatever you send, he will love it!
Don't send toiletries in the same package as food items. The scents get into the food.
Use flat rate boxes, do not insure them. So not send anything valuable.
Send things which will hold up, some packages can take weeks to catch up to the ship. There are several ways to pack cookies so they won't be crumbs. although they will still eat the crumbs! Think pringles cans for holding snacks. Chocolate and other soft things get melty, save those for winter months. Powdered drink and electrolyte packs are desirable, send along a reusable water bottle too. Gum, nuts, jerky, slim jims, hard candies, dried fruit or raisins or fruit leather, granola bars, power bars, but not the kind with a melty coating. My guys liked tuna packets, ramen noodles in the cups or the kind in the square boxes, heat n eat things, and even ravioli in the pop top cans (which are a little heavy). Peanut butter and pickles come in individual plastic cups now, those can be good. Put everyting into ziplock bags, in case the package gets damaged, the things inside will be fine.
Magazines are good, I sent my nephew off the wall ones such as Smithsonian, Archaeology and Popular Science. He said everyone sent fitness/truck/hunting/sports magazines, so a change was good.
3 things i included in every box sent to my girls, chap stick, pocket size waterless cleaner and the little envelopes of drink mix to add to water. also, if he has any favorite condiments, snacks, etc. this is a good site to buy travel sizes. you can order any amount. i sent 1 daughter a bunch of packets of texas pete because she put it on EVERYTHING!
okay seasoned moms. question for you. How long does a Sailor stay at Indoc? I have read that it could be days or months until A school actually starts classes. Thanks much. What about mail? to Indoc in GL?
Thank you for your answers. In speaking with my daughter yesterday, she indicated that there are more FC's than there is demand currently - she went on to say that she thought she would be at GL for about 18 months. She also mentioned something about "long haul" FC. I know what that means for me - as in "long haul truck driving" but I haven't heard in before applied to the Navy - anyone have any thoughts on this? Thanks Much and have a good day!!
All I can think of is that the total training for FCs is quite long. It was two years before my daughter got on a ship. That is why she had to sign up for six years, orginally.
Good Morning All: does anyone know how long is ATT? Is it based on the specific time as in it lasts 4 weeks? or is it based on how quickly the student learns the material?
Thank you for the information. Right now she is still in Indoc - will she physically move to a different mailing address once ATT starts or will she keep her current location?
Vanmom2013, Your SR will most likely move ships after ATT.
FCs are currently in night school from late afternoon/early evening until approx 11pm, and are the vampires on base, not the day walkers (what my son and his buddies called each other while in school). :)
They do try to house the ATT, and A School students together by rating to not disturb each other. I understand MidRats is was the best meal of the day/night. :)
There are so many stages of the training BC to C school plus all the holds in between ( Hurry up and wait) New Moms, Don't worry so much about how long each stage is, just think of it as 2 years of college.
I am assuming that my daughter will text or call me if / when she starts ATT school. Friends and Fam want to send small items. Read where some of the sailors have started ATT this week but want to make sure I send stuff to correct address . Ugh I know she is busy and tired but I won't send anythng until I know for sure.
Two year average for schooling is the norm for an FC, some might be a tad faster or longer depending on any holds and what C school they end up at.
For any that have sailors deployed in the Middle East, I am living in fear with you. With our son having six years behind him, we have lived thru a few deployments and this is the only one that has concerned me.. It is not cool, hearing/seeing our ships on the news. May they all remain safe and come home soon.
Thanks VickiRun, I agree completely - but I am still in knots.
Kate, your son must of went in about the same time as Nick, he has been in for six years as well. I believe they are taking the 1st class test today. I know another sailor on the Stockdale, she is a different rate. I know a number of families that have already bought airline tickets for the tiger cruise - are you going to Hawaii?
Hi all,
Luv, when a ship decides to offer a tiger cruise, they send out an application (ours was 12 pages long) you must be physically healthy, pay for your food on the ship, provide your own transportation to the ship and have a sponsor. Males cannot sponsor female guests and vice versa. So if you have a son, he might ask one if his female shipmates to be your sponsor. They can only have so many tigers on board at a time so you submit an application and they select from those that met the requirements. Due to the costs - generally they can accommodate most applications. Our ship was due to meet the tigers in Hawaii and then sail for seven days back to San Diego. That is all on hold now due to Syria.
We had not planned on doing the tiger cruise, my hubby slept on a Naval ship for 10 years...he has no desire to do that again! Also our son's last ship was in Hawaii so we know there are a few folks he wants to see there so we are planning on being on the pier - whenever that maybe!
Thanks Vickyrun, I have never felt fear like I do with this deployment - so hope I am over reacting!
Kate, Jake went in four months after Nick. Depending on how long he was an FC2 will determine when he is eligible to take the first class test. There is a 36 month wait before they test.
When Nick was looking at his re-enlistment options, last year one of the FC chiefs that taught at Dahlgren while Nick was a student reached out to him and asked if he would consider moving to San Diego as he needed him for a new ship -- DDG 110. So after three years in Hawaii, he decided he was ready for a new challenge and he moved there in December, knowing they had a very long deployment planned - their maiden deployment, so new ship and shipmates too. I worry about some of the shipmates (and families) that have never deployed before - this is a tough one to get your sea legs on!
We have officially received an email from the CO that our ship's homecoming date is on hold as they have been asked to stay in the region and should the need be there - they are proud and willing to accept the task.
Just got back from spending a week with my sailor daughter and her family. Had so much fun exploring Chicago. She was able to trade a duty day with someone so she could spend time with us. She will graduate A school in November.
My daughter will finish A school for ET in November. She is working on getting a BEQ right now - do they apply for bachelor housing this far before going to C school - I don't think she even knows where she will be going yet. She currently lives ashore with her family. Would she have to do this if she is unhappy with her current roommates when she has duty?
I'm not sure what you mean with your question. I assume her family isn't moving for her C school, so that means she will reside in the barracks (BEQ). No way possible for her to "apply" for such a room until she gets orders, and then usually you just report in and get assigned a room in the BEQ. Roommates are a gamble, some are simply awful. Basically, you suck it up if they are. Honestly, a roommate swap may or may not be simple. I've been places where they allow room changes, at others, I had to request to talk to the CO (unusual circumstances). Getting permission to live ashore would only happen if her family followed her to the new school. Students rarely are given permission to rent offbase if not accompanied.
There are a very few ET C schools which are not located at big training commands, and she might be placed in something like Gateway Suites on base... but she can't arrange even that without orders.
Anti M thank you for trying to answer my question. I did not understand my daughters rant about her beq. I thought she was trying to change something with her living environment but really her rant was about her beq being slow about processing a chit. I finally got hold of her but got concerned when others started telling me their interpretation and then I couldn't get in touch with her.
Thanks for the explanation! I was very confused. Yeah, sometimes the chain of command at the BEQ can be slow as molasses when it comes to signing chits. I've had more than one get lost on someone's desk. The're supposed to be done in a certain amount of time, but people being human and fallible, can mess up. It is very frustrating.
Gasping this morning as the helicopter from my son"s ship crashed this morning with five aboard, we do not have details as of yet and can only pray that the five missing sailors are all safely retrieved.
This deployment is now 251 days old, nerves are frayed, morale is challenged and its just time for them to come home!
So very sorry MarineWife about your friend, the ship has not released the names yet but I cannot imagine the pain she is going thru.
We did get an email from the ombudsman to say all communications are cut due to the investigation. The stress has been high for many since they entered that region and this weekend certainly compounded the concerns. How sweet it will be to hear their voices or even an email from DDG 110.
Thanks for everyone's kind thoughts and prayers - the families of the missing certainly need them and I am sure the crew does as well.
Hate rumors, hearing so many different stories as to when our ships will be back. Just know a lot of disappointed families had tickets to meet the ships in Hawaii this week ---- so ready to see them again.
Wasn't talking about defining the act, talking about your speculation ... that definitely falls into OPSEC.
" I am thinking by december now given the time it takes to sail back to San Diego. Lets hope its November,"
Just don't speculate. Might seem like nothing to you, but little dabs of nothing add up. I used to have a TS clearance, the Navy pounded this into my head and heart.
A refresher:
✓ Donʼt speculate about future operations.
✓ Donʼt spread rumors about past, current or future operations or movements.
✓ Donʼt discuss deployment or homecoming dates (including Tiger or Family Day Cruises)
✓ DO assume the enemy is always trying to collect information.
Hopefully this is some awesome news we got today....Sailor should be headed to C school in either San Diego or Norfolk (I think he said)...I was so excited to hear this thinking he was headed off for 3 years sooner.....wooohoooo Now to learn about C schools...:) help??? and thanks What a whirlwind this all is
LarLar
Hello
My daughter also just arrived at C School SD. I too am hoping to get out there to visit, maybe over the Christmas holiday. Any advice is welcome, figure it'll will take a few months for newly arrived Sailors to get into a routine and get to know the area.
Jul 20, 2013
Anti M
San Diego is amazing. So much to do and see, so many choices of places to visit. Be sure your sailor knows about the MWR discounts, and the many places they can go for free.
Jul 20, 2013
Vickyrun
Good morning, TGIF! I hope you all have a nice weekend.
Jul 26, 2013
Vickyrun
Hi all, Chrissy's knee is hurting her again.
Aug 13, 2013
Odi_Ship09_Div140
sorry to hear that Vicky
Aug 13, 2013
geokat5
My son is on his first deployment, could I have some ideas what to send him. He asked for snacks and treats, and are there any guide lines. Thanks in advance
Aug 20, 2013
Chris, Forever Ray's Proud Mom
geokat5, double baggie anything that may leak, melt,...it takes awhile to get there, so be conscious of things getting stale as well. I also learned form a Navy site that you have to use all 9 digits on zip codes or it will be returned. Whatever you send, he will love it!
Aug 20, 2013
Anti M
Don't send toiletries in the same package as food items. The scents get into the food.
Use flat rate boxes, do not insure them. So not send anything valuable.
Send things which will hold up, some packages can take weeks to catch up to the ship. There are several ways to pack cookies so they won't be crumbs. although they will still eat the crumbs! Think pringles cans for holding snacks. Chocolate and other soft things get melty, save those for winter months. Powdered drink and electrolyte packs are desirable, send along a reusable water bottle too. Gum, nuts, jerky, slim jims, hard candies, dried fruit or raisins or fruit leather, granola bars, power bars, but not the kind with a melty coating. My guys liked tuna packets, ramen noodles in the cups or the kind in the square boxes, heat n eat things, and even ravioli in the pop top cans (which are a little heavy). Peanut butter and pickles come in individual plastic cups now, those can be good. Put everyting into ziplock bags, in case the package gets damaged, the things inside will be fine.
Magazines are good, I sent my nephew off the wall ones such as Smithsonian, Archaeology and Popular Science. He said everyone sent fitness/truck/hunting/sports magazines, so a change was good.
Socks.
Aug 20, 2013
duhhuh58 Ship 10/Div 267
geokat5,
3 things i included in every box sent to my girls, chap stick, pocket size waterless cleaner and the little envelopes of drink mix to add to water. also, if he has any favorite condiments, snacks, etc. this is a good site to buy travel sizes. you can order any amount. i sent 1 daughter a bunch of packets of texas pete because she put it on EVERYTHING!
http://www.minimus.biz/
Aug 20, 2013
Vickyrun
My daughter liked snacks from Nutsonline: http://www.nuts.com/
Aug 21, 2013
Vanmom2013
okay seasoned moms. question for you. How long does a Sailor stay at Indoc? I have read that it could be days or months until A school actually starts classes. Thanks much. What about mail? to Indoc in GL?
Aug 22, 2013
Vanmom2013
Thank you for your answers. In speaking with my daughter yesterday, she indicated that there are more FC's than there is demand currently - she went on to say that she thought she would be at GL for about 18 months. She also mentioned something about "long haul" FC. I know what that means for me - as in "long haul truck driving" but I haven't heard in before applied to the Navy - anyone have any thoughts on this? Thanks Much and have a good day!!
Aug 23, 2013
Anti M
Only thing I can think of is the C schools for FC are quite long.
Aug 23, 2013
Vickyrun
All I can think of is that the total training for FCs is quite long. It was two years before my daughter got on a ship. That is why she had to sign up for six years, orginally.
Aug 23, 2013
Vanmom2013
Good Morning All: does anyone know how long is ATT? Is it based on the specific time as in it lasts 4 weeks? or is it based on how quickly the student learns the material?
Aug 25, 2013
NerdyNavyWife
@Vanmom2013: My Husband is finishing ATT this week, and he is an FC. ATT for him was 10 weeks.
Aug 25, 2013
Vanmom2013
Thank you for the information. Right now she is still in Indoc - will she physically move to a different mailing address once ATT starts or will she keep her current location?
Aug 25, 2013
ellen0502
Vanmom2013, Your SR will most likely move ships after ATT.
FCs are currently in night school from late afternoon/early evening until approx 11pm, and are the vampires on base, not the day walkers (what my son and his buddies called each other while in school). :)
They do try to house the ATT, and A School students together by rating to not disturb each other. I understand MidRats is was the best meal of the day/night. :)
Aug 25, 2013
NerdyNavyWife
She will keep the same location she is at right now through ATT, but once she is done, she will comp and move to another ship for A school.
Aug 25, 2013
Vickyrun
There are so many stages of the training BC to C school plus all the holds in between ( Hurry up and wait) New Moms, Don't worry so much about how long each stage is, just think of it as 2 years of college.
Aug 25, 2013
Vanmom2013
I am assuming that my daughter will text or call me if / when she starts ATT school. Friends and Fam want to send small items. Read where some of the sailors have started ATT this week but want to make sure I send stuff to correct address . Ugh I know she is busy and tired but I won't send anythng until I know for sure.
Aug 27, 2013
Mary, Proud Mom of Nick
Two year average for schooling is the norm for an FC, some might be a tad faster or longer depending on any holds and what C school they end up at.
For any that have sailors deployed in the Middle East, I am living in fear with you. With our son having six years behind him, we have lived thru a few deployments and this is the only one that has concerned me.. It is not cool, hearing/seeing our ships on the news. May they all remain safe and come home soon.
Sep 3, 2013
Vickyrun
Honor, Courage, Commitment. Our sailors are strong , smart, well-trained, and will come home safe. Don't Fear, Light a blue candle and pray, Mary.
"Courage is being sacred to death --- but saddling up anyway" John Wayne
Sep 4, 2013
Mary, Proud Mom of Nick
Kate, your son must of went in about the same time as Nick, he has been in for six years as well. I believe they are taking the 1st class test today. I know another sailor on the Stockdale, she is a different rate. I know a number of families that have already bought airline tickets for the tiger cruise - are you going to Hawaii?
Sep 5, 2013
Vickyrun
I understand, Mary. I will keep you and your son, his ship and all our sailors in that area in my prayers.
Sep 6, 2013
Mary, Proud Mom of Nick
Luv, when a ship decides to offer a tiger cruise, they send out an application (ours was 12 pages long) you must be physically healthy, pay for your food on the ship, provide your own transportation to the ship and have a sponsor. Males cannot sponsor female guests and vice versa. So if you have a son, he might ask one if his female shipmates to be your sponsor. They can only have so many tigers on board at a time so you submit an application and they select from those that met the requirements. Due to the costs - generally they can accommodate most applications. Our ship was due to meet the tigers in Hawaii and then sail for seven days back to San Diego. That is all on hold now due to Syria.
We had not planned on doing the tiger cruise, my hubby slept on a Naval ship for 10 years...he has no desire to do that again! Also our son's last ship was in Hawaii so we know there are a few folks he wants to see there so we are planning on being on the pier - whenever that maybe!
Thanks Vickyrun, I have never felt fear like I do with this deployment - so hope I am over reacting!
Kate, Jake went in four months after Nick. Depending on how long he was an FC2 will determine when he is eligible to take the first class test. There is a 36 month wait before they test.
When Nick was looking at his re-enlistment options, last year one of the FC chiefs that taught at Dahlgren while Nick was a student reached out to him and asked if he would consider moving to San Diego as he needed him for a new ship -- DDG 110. So after three years in Hawaii, he decided he was ready for a new challenge and he moved there in December, knowing they had a very long deployment planned - their maiden deployment, so new ship and shipmates too. I worry about some of the shipmates (and families) that have never deployed before - this is a tough one to get your sea legs on!
We have officially received an email from the CO that our ship's homecoming date is on hold as they have been asked to stay in the region and should the need be there - they are proud and willing to accept the task.
Yep, hating this deployment!
Sigh
Sep 8, 2013
Vickyrun
Hi Mary, Navy Hugss to you. Hoping our brave sailors come home soon.
Sep 9, 2013
MartiB_TX
Sep 14, 2013
Vickyrun
I am glad that you had a good time, MartiB_TX
Sep 18, 2013
MartiB_TX
My daughter will finish A school for ET in November. She is working on getting a BEQ right now - do they apply for bachelor housing this far before going to C school - I don't think she even knows where she will be going yet. She currently lives ashore with her family. Would she have to do this if she is unhappy with her current roommates when she has duty?
Sep 20, 2013
Anti M
I'm not sure what you mean with your question. I assume her family isn't moving for her C school, so that means she will reside in the barracks (BEQ). No way possible for her to "apply" for such a room until she gets orders, and then usually you just report in and get assigned a room in the BEQ. Roommates are a gamble, some are simply awful. Basically, you suck it up if they are. Honestly, a roommate swap may or may not be simple. I've been places where they allow room changes, at others, I had to request to talk to the CO (unusual circumstances). Getting permission to live ashore would only happen if her family followed her to the new school. Students rarely are given permission to rent offbase if not accompanied.
There are a very few ET C schools which are not located at big training commands, and she might be placed in something like Gateway Suites on base... but she can't arrange even that without orders.
Sep 20, 2013
MartiB_TX
Sep 20, 2013
Anti M
Thanks for the explanation! I was very confused. Yeah, sometimes the chain of command at the BEQ can be slow as molasses when it comes to signing chits. I've had more than one get lost on someone's desk. The're supposed to be done in a certain amount of time, but people being human and fallible, can mess up. It is very frustrating.
I hope she gets it resolved.
Sep 21, 2013
MartiB_TX
Sep 21, 2013
Mary, Proud Mom of Nick
This deployment is now 251 days old, nerves are frayed, morale is challenged and its just time for them to come home!
Sep 22, 2013
Anti M
Oh Mary. Hugs. I hope they find them all.
Sep 22, 2013
Odi_Ship09_Div140
Mary - I have goosebumps. Any news?
Sep 22, 2013
Anti M
So far, three found alive and "stable". Still searching for the other two.
Sep 22, 2013
Mary, Proud Mom of Nick
Thanks four thoughts and prayers, this crew has been together for 252 now, this cannot be easy on them.
Sep 23, 2013
Anti M
When the news reports slowed down, I knew the Navy was talking to the families before releasing information. So sad.
Sep 23, 2013
Mary, Proud Mom of Nick
We did get an email from the ombudsman to say all communications are cut due to the investigation. The stress has been high for many since they entered that region and this weekend certainly compounded the concerns. How sweet it will be to hear their voices or even an email from DDG 110.
Thanks for everyone's kind thoughts and prayers - the families of the missing certainly need them and I am sure the crew does as well.
Sep 23, 2013
Vickyrun
Sad news, the names were released today: May they Rest in Peace.
Fallen Navy Pilots were Family Men
Sep 25, 2013
Anti M
My heart aches for these families and all their loved ones.
Sep 25, 2013
Mary, Proud Mom of Nick
Sep 29, 2013
Anti M
Do be careful with the speculation here online. Even rumor and guesses are OPSEC violations, and should be limited to private discussions.
Sep 30, 2013
Anti M
Wasn't talking about defining the act, talking about your speculation ... that definitely falls into OPSEC.
" I am thinking by december now given the time it takes to sail back to San Diego. Lets hope its November,"
Just don't speculate. Might seem like nothing to you, but little dabs of nothing add up. I used to have a TS clearance, the Navy pounded this into my head and heart.
A refresher:
✓ Donʼt speculate about future operations.
✓ Donʼt spread rumors about past, current or future operations or movements.
✓ Donʼt discuss deployment or homecoming dates (including Tiger or Family Day Cruises)
✓ DO assume the enemy is always trying to collect information.
Sep 30, 2013
Anti M
I want to add I truly appreciate your effort to be positive and helpful, and hope you understand my passion for safety and security. Thank you.
Sep 30, 2013
Vickyrun
Thanks for the reminder, Anti M., "Loose lips sink ships"
Oct 1, 2013
MyKidIsInNavy
Hopefully this is some awesome news we got today....Sailor should be headed to C school in either San Diego or Norfolk (I think he said)...I was so excited to hear this thinking he was headed off for 3 years sooner.....wooohoooo Now to learn about C schools...:) help??? and thanks What a whirlwind this all is
Oct 6, 2013
Mary, Proud Mom of Nick
266 days later - still waiting
Oct 7, 2013