The purpose of this group is to allow family of new sailors assigned to school at Training Support Center Great Lakes a chance to voice questions to a Student Division Commander
Phoenixmom, if nobody steps up tor Thanksgiving next year to give you a break, you pack up your immediate family and come here to Bartow, Florida with us. That will really get your message across of needing a break.
Thank you Ima. All of us need a break now and then, keeps us charged with caring for our families. Just had another idea, maybe one day we can have a Navy Mom Tea Party, just us girls, and our sailors reunion type.
I have been absent from the site for the Thanksgiving Weekend. My son and his two sailor buddies arrived home Wednesday Night at 9:30 (two hours earlier than expected) and went back to base Sunday at about 11:00. Had a great time, and hope that girls felt at home. Only 4 1/2 weeks until Stand down!!
Phoenixmom, is there any way I can find out if my son's chit has been approved for stand down? He keeps forgetting to check on it for me. Thanks in advance.
Butterball, no, this is not something you can access. He has to do it, he's the sailor. In fact, his chain of command would give him hell if his mom called (I have some stories ...). However, if he submitted his request, chances are probable it will be approved. The staff wants the students to go home for stand down!
Thank you Anti M, I didn't want to contact anyone at A school to find out, but making plans for airport pick up needs to be approved by my Sgt. in advance. I don't want to get in in any trouble, so I thought I would ask here. Thank you again for your advice. I can always count on Navy Moms for answers.
Given the amount of chits, they may be processing them in large batches, so the timeline may be a bit longer than usual. Assume it is a positive outcome.
Butterball my son said they sent him a Email with his chit approved. he received it a few weeks ago.
By the way Good Morning Ladies hope all is well, was gone all day yesterday had a to attend a district meeting to attend, not really into big meetings but Mandatory. LOL
My son graduated from A School this morning. He's been telling me that he was going to visit a friend in Florida before coming home to Los Angeles. He's stationed in San Diego.
Are they allowed to just travel all over creation when leaving A School or do they need to go either home or the base they are stationed? I think (HOPING) it's a set up and my kids are trying to surprise me.
Yes. They can go anywhere on leave after, as long as they don't leave before they "detach" from their current duty station and they report on time to their new duty station. My husband has to write a general idea of what he's doing when he has a leave request, but no one has ever stopped him from doing anything. The most important thing for them was being able to get in touch with him. For A school specifically, we went to his family home, but we knew a small handful of people who didn't or opted for a "real vacation" instead to use their words.
It could still be a set up though. He may be counting on you thinking he absolutely could fly to Florida if he wanted. That would be such a fun surprise!
About the only place they can't go on leave is out of the country, and they can do that with written permission. They simply have to provide a general itinerary and have a contact number. He may be setting you up, or may actually be going to a friend's home in Florida.
Thanks Phoenixmom, but now I am sad, it has been longer that two weeks. Hopefully this week I will hear something and Nicole.dm I will tell him to check on the board too.
Butterball don't be sad, has he tried asking about his chit? maybe it got misplaced? has he checked his email? I'm sure there is a good reason behind it. My fingers crossed that you hear something soon.
Butterball, if it helps at all to know, they would tell him if it wasn't approved too, so not hearing anything isn't necessarily a bad thing. More than likely, someone has a tall stack of chits on their desk and only signs off on a few everyday when he/she has a spare moment. This is very common with paperwork in the Navy. It sucks, but that's the way it goes sometimes. Also keep in mind what AntiM and I said…they don't want students to stay during standown if they can help it. The more students that stay, the more staff they'll need, and I don't think any staff member would happily spend Christmas watching students shovel snow while their family is 5 minutes down the road celebrating another holiday without them, it's part of the navy life, but it still sucks, especially if it could be avoided with just some paperwork, and it means more money the Navy pays to feed/board the remaining students during those weeks. I'll keep my fingers crossed you hear something soon, but don't stress yourself out too much yet, the staff wants him to leave just as badly as you want him to come home!
Phoenixmom, Anti M, nicole.dm, talked with Vic last evening, he said chit APPROVED! I am so happppppy! Thank you for helping me through the sadness, needed the encouragement. Have a wonderful day. Christmas will be extra special, since he wasn't here for Thanksgiving. I sent he a Fakesgiving in a box. He said his roommates got a big laugh out of it.
Allison I heard last evening his chit is approved. Can't wait, making a million plans. Thank you for your encouragement, right along with Phoenixmom, Anti M, and nicole.dm, I sure needed it. I knew it would work itself out, but too anxious to wait patiently this time around I guess. Need to get my approval with my Sgt. for the time off so I don't miss anytime while he is home for Christmas.
I’ve been waiting for my son to contact me since he left bc. He has his phone but he has not called or texted me yet. Is it too much to ask for just a simple I’m good. I know in my heart he’s good and busy trying to adjust. He will only be there for a short time then it’s off to Virginia for a year. Not hearing from him is not the bad thing it’s that he stays in touch with his dad ( my ex ) before me. I feel like I’m the by the way. Anyway I just needed to vent. Thanks for being here. This helps a little. Everyone have a great and blessed day.$$$
Missingyou, My sailor calls his brother and sister before me. He also will call his grandma's and I won't have gotten a call. I send him a text every once and a while asking him to call when he has a chance. I think it is because he knows that the separation is hardest on me, and wants me to get used to not being able to talk to him all the time. He is preparing me for when he is out of contact. Stay strong.
Hang in there Bandmom and Missingyou. I know how hard the separation can be. We are all here for each other, just know that we are sending prayers for your prayers to be answered and that you hear from them soon. Have a Blessed day.
Butterball so Happy you heard the good News! Yiipppeee! My son wanted to see if he could help if he was able too anyways. But I am glad things worked out.
Bandmom and missingyou hang tight, I know that they are also taking advantage of the Night study that they have and then doing watch it tends to keep them pretty busy. Good things will come your way. Sending prayers your way.
I am so Happy it did too! I was really worried and when he texted me he said mom if she doesn't mind I can try to help he knows how important the holidays mean to families. But I will let him know. Thank You!
Love tamales! Yummy! Eat one for me. Thank you again, I am very excited that I get to see my Vic for Christmas, he has always been my Rock and Best Friend.
Sorry for coming back so late but HE DID SURPRISE ME!!
My daughter came to our house and told me someone hit the back of her Nissan Murano and when I went to check the damage the boy fell out of the trunk. LOL!!
Another question, he reports to San Diego this month and then will be sent out to meet his ship. He hasn't been given an exact date of when he will be sent out to meet his ship. Is there a way to find that out? I'm trying to figure out if we're having a early Christmas or not this year.
I would plan on the early Christmas, as there is little to no way to know when transport to a deployed ship will happen. He'll be in one of the temporary holding units, then BAM! He'll go out. You can always have two Christmases, why not?
LOL Anti M!! I'm a one and done kind of girl on Christmas. Two would kill me, between food and gifts.
I believe you're right. Better start planning now. I guess if he is still here on Christmas we can just enjoy a day of tamale's and binge watching television.
Yay! I'm so glad he ended up surprising you, how fun! I'm with AntiM, plan for an early Christmas, it's the spirit of the holiday that counts anyway :). Even if he hasn't reported to his ship by then, he could be called back early from leave or have duty or something on Christmas, so even if he did get a report date, you might not be able to count on it 100% anyway. Enjoy! I'm so happy for you!
All this talk of tamales is killing me, eat one for me too!
Another bit of good news just to keep the ball rolling, I FINALLY get to move to Europe this month to be with my husband again! After 5 months of delays and family/medical hardships, I am so happy to be reuniting with him.
How wonderful Allison, what a Merry Christmas present. I am so happy for you, I'm in tears. Keep us posted on your new journey, don't forget us. Prayers for the reunion to come quickly, safe and easy travel.
Good Morning Ladies I survived the Tamale making made 16 doz.
Mommamia I'm so excited for you, what a surprise that must of been.
Allison best wishes to you and the Journey you will be taking with your Loved one!
Butterball I am right there with you, getting the finishing touches done this weekend for his new Bedroom hope he is as excited as I am, it will be a surprise! cant wait to see my Bud!
Missingyou...I don't think it's too much. My son reaches out everyday. Sometime it's a call, but often just a text. If I don't hear from him I will send a did you have a good day message. Sometimes his short reply is all I get, but I know he is alive.
Every kid is different, I think he is more social. I think my middle one wouldn't reach out that often. You maybe need to sit down with him next time you see/talk to him and let him know that you really need a short text every few days. Maybe he just doesn't know you would appreciate it.
We can post pictures now! I'm pretty excited thinking about all the things I wanted to share. I don't have really anything to upload right now that wouldn't reveal who my husband is.
I feel like I should throw out there to be careful with this feature. Images can be searched on google, so if it's on other social media of yours, someone could pull up your pages and get to know a lot about you and your loved one depending on how much you share. What used to be loose lips sink ships is now loose tweets sink fleets on OPSEC trainings…there's a very cheesy but funny mini game on NKO for this that I'm sure most of your sailors got to play. Anyway, I'm super excited for this feature but everyone should be mindful on how pieces of the puzzle that is information you share on different platforms could be put together.
Phoenixmom
Ladies just got a glimpse of my son on this site shows all the families that were there for our Sailors that were adopted for Thanksgiving.
Training Support Center (TSC) Great Lakes - Home | Facebook
Nov 24, 2017
Phoenixmom
They also have pics on the graduation of the hull technicians
Nov 24, 2017
Butterball
Phoenixmom, if nobody steps up tor Thanksgiving next year to give you a break, you pack up your immediate family and come here to Bartow, Florida with us. That will really get your message across of needing a break.
Nov 25, 2017
Ima
I loved your response to Phoenixmom, Butterball!!!
Nov 26, 2017
Butterball
Thank you Ima. All of us need a break now and then, keeps us charged with caring for our families. Just had another idea, maybe one day we can have a Navy Mom Tea Party, just us girls, and our sailors reunion type.
Nov 26, 2017
Bandmom
Hi Ladies,
I have been absent from the site for the Thanksgiving Weekend. My son and his two sailor buddies arrived home Wednesday Night at 9:30 (two hours earlier than expected) and went back to base Sunday at about 11:00. Had a great time, and hope that girls felt at home. Only 4 1/2 weeks until Stand down!!
Nov 27, 2017
Phoenixmom
Good Morning Ladies, Thanks Butterball I may have to do that! Bandmom so Happy you had a Wonderful time.
I'm counting down the days, soon my Sailor will be home for the Holidays! whoo Hooo!
Nov 27, 2017
librarianmom
Me too! Unless there is a change in his class up date I am expecting to pick mine up on the 21st! 25 days!
Nov 27, 2017
Phoenixmom
Good Morning Ladies, hope you all have a Great Day!
Another Day closer to See my Son and You your Son/Daughter! yyiiiiippeeee!
Nov 28, 2017
Butterball
Phoenixmom, is there any way I can find out if my son's chit has been approved for stand down? He keeps forgetting to check on it for me. Thanks in advance.
Nov 28, 2017
Anti M
Butterball, no, this is not something you can access. He has to do it, he's the sailor. In fact, his chain of command would give him hell if his mom called (I have some stories ...). However, if he submitted his request, chances are probable it will be approved. The staff wants the students to go home for stand down!
Nov 28, 2017
Butterball
Thank you Anti M, I didn't want to contact anyone at A school to find out, but making plans for airport pick up needs to be approved by my Sgt. in advance. I don't want to get in in any trouble, so I thought I would ask here. Thank you again for your advice. I can always count on Navy Moms for answers.
Nov 28, 2017
Butterball
Anti M, do you happen know how long it takes to know? He submitted it a while back, and I know his Chief was on vacation last week though.
Nov 28, 2017
Anti M
Two weeks is the usual. If the chief was out, add a few days.
Nov 28, 2017
Butterball
Awesome, thanks for the information.
Nov 28, 2017
Anti M
Given the amount of chits, they may be processing them in large batches, so the timeline may be a bit longer than usual. Assume it is a positive outcome.
Nov 28, 2017
Butterball
Yes ma'am, gotcha Thank you again
Nov 28, 2017
Phoenixmom
Butterball my son said they sent him a Email with his chit approved. he received it a few weeks ago.
By the way Good Morning Ladies hope all is well, was gone all day yesterday had a to attend a district meeting to attend, not really into big meetings but Mandatory. LOL
Nov 29, 2017
nicole.dm
Nov 29, 2017
mommamia93
Okay, I think I'm being set up.
My son graduated from A School this morning. He's been telling me that he was going to visit a friend in Florida before coming home to Los Angeles. He's stationed in San Diego.
Are they allowed to just travel all over creation when leaving A School or do they need to go either home or the base they are stationed? I think (HOPING) it's a set up and my kids are trying to surprise me.
Nov 29, 2017
Allison
It could still be a set up though. He may be counting on you thinking he absolutely could fly to Florida if he wanted. That would be such a fun surprise!
Nov 30, 2017
Phoenixmom
Good Morning Ladies, Hi mommamia93 so good to hear your son is doing Great, fingers crossed he is trying to surprise you, what an awesome surprise!
Nov 30, 2017
Anti M
About the only place they can't go on leave is out of the country, and they can do that with written permission. They simply have to provide a general itinerary and have a contact number. He may be setting you up, or may actually be going to a friend's home in Florida.
Nov 30, 2017
Butterball
Thanks Phoenixmom, but now I am sad, it has been longer that two weeks. Hopefully this week I will hear something and Nicole.dm I will tell him to check on the board too.
Nov 30, 2017
Phoenixmom
Butterball don't be sad, has he tried asking about his chit? maybe it got misplaced? has he checked his email? I'm sure there is a good reason behind it. My fingers crossed that you hear something soon.
Nov 30, 2017
Butterball
I will be talking with him later today. Maybe there will be some good news, thank you for the encouragement.
Nov 30, 2017
Phoenixmom
I am sure everything will work out Butterball.
Nov 30, 2017
Butterball
From your lips to God's ears Phoenixmom. I will just wait to find out.
Nov 30, 2017
Allison
Dec 1, 2017
Butterball
Phoenixmom, Anti M, nicole.dm, talked with Vic last evening, he said chit APPROVED! I am so happppppy! Thank you for helping me through the sadness, needed the encouragement. Have a wonderful day. Christmas will be extra special, since he wasn't here for Thanksgiving. I sent he a Fakesgiving in a box. He said his roommates got a big laugh out of it.
Dec 1, 2017
Butterball
Allison I heard last evening his chit is approved. Can't wait, making a million plans. Thank you for your encouragement, right along with Phoenixmom, Anti M, and nicole.dm, I sure needed it. I knew it would work itself out, but too anxious to wait patiently this time around I guess. Need to get my approval with my Sgt. for the time off so I don't miss anytime while he is home for Christmas.
Dec 1, 2017
Missingyou
Dec 1, 2017
Bandmom
Missingyou, My sailor calls his brother and sister before me. He also will call his grandma's and I won't have gotten a call. I send him a text every once and a while asking him to call when he has a chance. I think it is because he knows that the separation is hardest on me, and wants me to get used to not being able to talk to him all the time. He is preparing me for when he is out of contact. Stay strong.
Dec 1, 2017
Butterball
Hang in there Bandmom and Missingyou. I know how hard the separation can be. We are all here for each other, just know that we are sending prayers for your prayers to be answered and that you hear from them soon. Have a Blessed day.
Dec 1, 2017
Phoenixmom
Good Morning Ladies Happy Friday.
Butterball so Happy you heard the good News! Yiipppeee! My son wanted to see if he could help if he was able too anyways. But I am glad things worked out.
Bandmom and missingyou hang tight, I know that they are also taking advantage of the Night study that they have and then doing watch it tends to keep them pretty busy. Good things will come your way. Sending prayers your way.
Dec 1, 2017
Butterball
Thank your son a million times for me Phoenixmom. I am tickled it all worked out. Should know the plane information this weekend.
Dec 1, 2017
Phoenixmom
I am so Happy it did too! I was really worried and when he texted me he said mom if she doesn't mind I can try to help he knows how important the holidays mean to families. But I will let him know. Thank You!
Dec 1, 2017
Phoenixmom
Well Ladies leaving for the Day, going to get started on my Tamales. wishing you all a great weekend.
Butterball really excited for you, counting down the days my Sailor, my Son, My best Buddy will be home for the Holidays!
Good Day Ladies!
Dec 1, 2017
Butterball
Love tamales! Yummy! Eat one for me. Thank you again, I am very excited that I get to see my Vic for Christmas, he has always been my Rock and Best Friend.
Dec 1, 2017
mommamia93
Sorry for coming back so late but HE DID SURPRISE ME!!
My daughter came to our house and told me someone hit the back of her Nissan Murano and when I went to check the damage the boy fell out of the trunk. LOL!!
I'm so happy to have him home while I can.
Dec 1, 2017
mommamia93
Another question, he reports to San Diego this month and then will be sent out to meet his ship. He hasn't been given an exact date of when he will be sent out to meet his ship. Is there a way to find that out? I'm trying to figure out if we're having a early Christmas or not this year.
Dec 1, 2017
Anti M
YAY for surprises!
I would plan on the early Christmas, as there is little to no way to know when transport to a deployed ship will happen. He'll be in one of the temporary holding units, then BAM! He'll go out. You can always have two Christmases, why not?
Dec 1, 2017
mommamia93
LOL Anti M!! I'm a one and done kind of girl on Christmas. Two would kill me, between food and gifts.
I believe you're right. Better start planning now. I guess if he is still here on Christmas we can just enjoy a day of tamale's and binge watching television.
Dec 1, 2017
Anti M
Tamales and TV sounds perfect!
Dec 1, 2017
Allison
All this talk of tamales is killing me, eat one for me too!
Dec 1, 2017
Allison
Dec 1, 2017
Butterball
How wonderful Allison, what a Merry Christmas present. I am so happy for you, I'm in tears. Keep us posted on your new journey, don't forget us. Prayers for the reunion to come quickly, safe and easy travel.
Dec 2, 2017
Phoenixmom
Good Morning Ladies I survived the Tamale making made 16 doz.
Mommamia I'm so excited for you, what a surprise that must of been.
Allison best wishes to you and the Journey you will be taking with your Loved one!
Butterball I am right there with you, getting the finishing touches done this weekend for his new Bedroom hope he is as excited as I am, it will be a surprise! cant wait to see my Bud!
Dec 4, 2017
librarianmom
Missingyou...I don't think it's too much. My son reaches out everyday. Sometime it's a call, but often just a text. If I don't hear from him I will send a did you have a good day message. Sometimes his short reply is all I get, but I know he is alive.
Every kid is different, I think he is more social. I think my middle one wouldn't reach out that often. You maybe need to sit down with him next time you see/talk to him and let him know that you really need a short text every few days. Maybe he just doesn't know you would appreciate it.
Hugs...
Dec 4, 2017
Allison
We can post pictures now! I'm pretty excited thinking about all the things I wanted to share. I don't have really anything to upload right now that wouldn't reveal who my husband is.
I feel like I should throw out there to be careful with this feature. Images can be searched on google, so if it's on other social media of yours, someone could pull up your pages and get to know a lot about you and your loved one depending on how much you share. What used to be loose lips sink ships is now loose tweets sink fleets on OPSEC trainings…there's a very cheesy but funny mini game on NKO for this that I'm sure most of your sailors got to play. Anyway, I'm super excited for this feature but everyone should be mindful on how pieces of the puzzle that is information you share on different platforms could be put together.
Dec 4, 2017