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  • kim_mom of sailor Div 349

    Hello all,

    Today I received my first letter from my daughter. It was great to hear that everything is going well. I have a question though...She mentions that they started with 60 girls and are down to 51. What do they do with the girls. Are they sent home, are they sent back a group. None of the moms of sons mention that their numbers are really going down. I guess I am just a little confused.
  • Who

    momofkatie,
    All divisions do not finish with the same number they started with. some get set back, some get seperated...who knows what the case may be. in coed divisions, the girls are all on one side of the hall, males on the other. so her division might have lost a few males along the way, but really shes noticing whats going on in her compartment specifically.
  • kim_mom of sailor Div 349

    Thanks Who. Maybe there are some males who have been lost as well, I guess it was just because she specifically mentioned the girls that I was concerned.
  • nicole~a sailors girl(:

    She heads to BOOT on 7/26/11 twigsmom??
    THAT'S SO AWESOME!(:
  • Anna

    dmarie,
    So good to hear from you again!!! How are you and how is your girl???

    TwigsMom,
    Congrats to your daughter!!! Was MA what she wanted. My daughter was in DEP for a year before she went to bc - the time still went by so fast!!!!

    Momofkatie,
    So glad you got a letter!! How does she sound???

    Jean,
    Hope you got your phone call!!! I don't suppose that dentist could make a house call so you could be home!!!
  • kim_mom of sailor Div 349

    Anna- she sounded great. I think she has completed one week of training now. She was DEP for about 6 months, so she was working a lot with her recruiter on PT and classwork. I don't know if that gave her some sort of heads up for what was to come, but she seems to be doing exactly what she expected to be doing. It was so nice to hear that everything was okay. I'll probably walk around with a goofy grin all day tomorrow also. :)
  • Anna

    dmarie,
    Oh wow!! Wish I could go to WA with you!!! Have a wonderful visit!!!

    Blondie,
    So glad one of those issues is resolved for the time being. Hope the other one works out as well for the young lady!!!!

    Joanne,
    Good to hear from you!! How are you??

    Jenn told me the storms last night were really bad. She said it was like 5 hurricanes right overhead. Luckily they blew over pretty quickly. Haven't heard from her yet today - not until she gets out of classes.
  • Anna

    jck,
    Love the cake - what a wonderful idea!!!

    Blondie and Joanne,
    Glad to hear from you. Sorry you have to work today!! I spent the morning bumming around Marquette!! Small place so that didn't take long!

    Blondie,
    Have a good time with the youth group!!

    Cat,
    Oh I wish I could have a house full of sailors!! Enjoy your time with them. So glad your sailor girl is back!!!!
  • tks4

    Hi ladies, I am sure I have missed alot. I have been very busy with daughter( who is in marching band) and my dad ( who had surgery on Tuesday) Even though I don't post much I love reading everyone elses.:) My dad had to have part of his lung removed and whe just found out it is cacncer. He does not smoke or drink for anyone that was wondering. Also found out he has to go back on Wednesday for the same surgery. Not much recouperating time and the first surgery was very painful. The good thing (if there really can be a good thing) we are at the Naval hospital in Bethesda Maryland. Please keep my dad in your prayers. Thanks
  • Anna

    tks,
    Glad you stopped by to check in. So sorry to hear about your Dad. I understand your point of view. My mom came down with lung cancer and she never smoked or drank either. I will certainly keep your Dad in my prayers.
    Take care and keep us posted.
  • Oneofalot

    Good Morning to Everyone.
    I had a really good time camping this weekend. It was very wet but it was actually fun even though I was with my husbands family. We had camp sites far enough away that it really did not matter. There hike that they seem to always go on was to the little town near by.
  • Oneofalot

    Yes, they had little shops and lot of little resturants. It was really cool to walk around. The problem with it was you could finish the little shops in about 1 hour and his family stayed ALL DAY.
  • Oneofalot

    No, I had to sit in the car because we had our dog with us. I did a lot of reading while waiting for them. It was sort of funny, I am not a shopper that is why I could go through the stores so fast. Plus my son was with me. We also spent a lot of time people looking and making up what they were thinking. It did pass fast when we did that. Some times we thought up funny things they were thinking by the looks on there faces.
  • Oneofalot

    It really passes the time when you do something like that.
  • Oneofalot

    I'll will be leaving early today. I have a dentist apt. to go to. They are doing a root canal on one of my back teeth. It has been bothering me for a while and he finally found that I have cracked the tooth and it probably will be way down deep. It already has a crown on it but he won't know until he gets in there. So if I am not on later you will know why.
  • Oneofalot

    I really hate dentist! So this is going to be hard. Thanks for the prayers, I'll need them. My BP goes up also. Hopefully they won't have to do the root canal and it will just be a fix the crown thing.
  • Anna

    Hello all!! Didn't get on at all during the day today. Too busy catching up from the weekend of doing nothing!!!! But it was a good weekend!!

    jck,
    I'd like to get the info about how you made that cake. I went back several pages last night and could not find any details. Just when you posted the picture after you made it. I sent a friend request if you want to send it by PM. If it's not too big of a problem. I'd like to make one for my second sailor daughter!! Thank you in advance!!!!

    Are there any moms out there that would be interested in a free two star decal, new, never used?? I have an extra one and would like to pass it along to someone who could use it!!

    Jean,
    Hope your dentist visit goes well for you!!! I have one first thing tomorrow morning!! I so dislike going to the dentist as well but I know it's something I have to take care of. Way overdue!!!! Glad you had a good camping time this weekend!!!

    Hope everyone else had a good Monday!!!
  • Anna

    Thank you jck!!! It will be awhile before I get the chance to make it, but I'll let you know how it comes out!!! I hope mine looks 1/2 as good as yours!!!!!
  • MandE'smom(Hi, I'm Mary)

    Just checking in to say hi. :) I have been MIA for a while...too much going on. At work, life has been busy and I havent been able to get over to this website...and by the time I get home, I do not want to touch the computer. :) Life is good, though!

    Just saying hi...hope all is well with all of you!
  • Oneofalot

    Good Morning/Afternoon to Everyone.
    I survived the dentist. No root canal was done only a crown prep. Thank God for that.
  • Oneofalot

    Good Morning To Everyone.
  • Oneofalot

    Glad to hear that Joanne.
  • MandE'smom(Hi, I'm Mary)

    That's great, Joanne. :) Have fun with your little one!
  • MandE'smom(Hi, I'm Mary)

    Oh...quick update...I am waiting for my "Im a sailor" call! :)
  • Oneofalot

    Yeah, you don't want to miss that call. Hope you get it soon. We got our at 1 in the morning.
  • MandE'smom(Hi, I'm Mary)

    I think I would be sick if I had to wait that long....I am aready highly anxious!
  • Oneofalot

    Oh yeah I did. I didn't want to miss that call. I know it was coming and did not want to miss it. That is the only time I had a phone in my bedroom was when she was at BC. There was other calls but those where in the day. thank God for that.
  • Oneofalot

    That really sucks. I know about those epi pens. My husband is suppose to carry one but will not do so. He is a carpenter that works outside. I just hope he never gets stung again. It was scary that last time when we found out he was.
  • Anna

    Afternoon everyone!! Hope every one is having a good Wednesday!!! If you stand on your tiptoes you can see the weekend ahead!!!!

    Blondie,
    Never thought I would say this but I wish I had my old Ohio weather right now. We only get up into the 60s most days. Sometimes 70 or 71 if we're lucky. Can't believe we are wearing jackets already!!!!

    Joanne,
    So, so very happy to hear your little one is coming home soon!!!!!! Hope you have a wonderful time together!!!!

    MandE'smom,
    Hope you get your call soon!! I got mine late in the afternoon!1 I would have been a basket case if I had to wait any longer than that. We were worried about whether she had put the name of her then-boyfriend on the visitor list as we were making plans to take him to PIR with us. I was pacing the floor that day waiting to hear from her. And I didn't have N4Ms then!!!! How ancient!!!!
  • MandE'smom(Hi, I'm Mary)

    just checking in to let all you wonderful moms know....I HAVE A SAILOR!! :)

    Thank you for all the wonderful support you have offered me during this! I will never forget it.

    Love to all of you!!
  • MandE'smom(Hi, I'm Mary)

    Thanks Blondie and Anna...and All of you!! :) Ok...off to finish packing for PIR!
  • Anna

    MandE'smom,
    I am so happy for you!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!! And have a very safe, fun, and enjoyable trip to PIR!!! Cyber hugs to you and your daughter!!!

    NavyMom,
    Yes, I understand we have a major storm coming in tonight and tomorrow. They said to expect flooding.

    Blondie,
    This is coming from the northwest. I saw where you guys have some stuff coming your way from more south. And a heat wave also!!
  • ladypinkhatter

    Hi Ladies. I am the single parent to my daughter (my only child and the only granddaughter) and she has been in BC for a week now. I was ok until I received the letter today and in the comments at the bottom of the letter, telling me how much she hates it, they cut her hair some more (which was an issue) , and nothing but sad faces. To me, this is the hard part. Knowing she's unhappy and hoping she will be ok.
  • Anna

    ladypinkhatter,
    I understand how hard this is on you!! When my daughter went through bc she had her hair cut just before she left and they cut it again once she got to bc. She said it was their way of making a statement - you belong to us now!!! Sometimes Moms get letters about how much their sailors hate it and how they made the worst decision of their life!!! Now as a Mom, we will worry about this and stew over it for weeks - partly because we won't hear from them again for that long!!! But many times, by the time you get another letter things will be better and they will be getting into the swing of things. Remember, they need a safe place to vent to, complain to, and have someone to bitch to and God knows they can't do it there!!! So they send it home to MOM!!! Just always encourage her and let her know how proud of her you are. I think bc is harder on the Moms but we will be here to help you along!!!!
  • ladypinkhatter

    Anna, THANK YOU! I needed to hear that. I think I am going to copy your post to remind me if or when I get those kind of letters. I really appreciate you starting this group. All of my friends on this website (up until now) have sons. Thank you again.
  • Anna

    ladypinkhatter,
    We have many wonderful, supportive moms on here and we will all help you along this journey. Feel free to come here when you want to share the joys and brag about your girl but also when you need to yell, cry, or tell someone how much you miss your girl!!!
  • AmeliaGrumma (RCU)

    ladypinkhatter
    My Halee knew going in it was going to be tough--but she also knew that once she gets through BC--it'll be much easier. Just remember this will make her a stronger young woman & even more prepared to face the world.

    Keeping all our SR in prayers! Good night Moms!
    Tracy
  • AmeliaGrumma (RCU)

    First letters received today! (not counting the form letter) All is well and she's counting down the days just as we are to PIR!
  • Anna

    ugh!!! Cold and rainy here today. NavyMom hope you are not getting dumped on to much with all this rain!!

    Blondie,
    Love your graphics and the prayer. Hope all our new moms are doing well and are hearing good things from their sailors now.

    MandE'smom,
    Yes, we want a full report after you get back from PIR!!!! Don't forget camera batteries!! And lots of tissues!!! If you're taking daughter's cell phone, don't forget the charger!! She'll want to catch up with all her friends. They don't get any news while in bc so they like to catch up with the outside world!!!!!

    HaleesMom,
    So happy you got a letter!!! I still have all the letters my son and my daughter sent home from bc. I love to sit and read them again!!! So glad she is handling everything well!!! Prayers that all continues smooth for her. Yeah for countdowns!!!

    Rich's Mom,
    So glad your daughter is better now. That would be such a scary thing to go through and to be on your own like that!!!
  • ladypinkhatter

    @Blondie- thank you. Beautiful prayer! I hope you don't mind but copy and pasted and will put on my desk at work.

    @MandEs Mom- happy for you and looking forward to my turn. Traveling mercies to you and your family.

    @HaleesMom- I just mailed a 5 page letter to my daughter (my first letter to her) and hoping that I receive one from her. But even if I don't, it's ok. I would rather her focus on being successful in bc or getting encouragement else where if she chooses to write someone else. She will know she always have my love and encouragement even if she doesn't send me a single letter.
  • ladypinkhatter

    @HaleesMom- however, I am glad and happy that you got letters from your daughter! And I hope my daughter is doing well like yours!
  • nicole~a sailors girl(:

    Hey ladies, I haven't been on much..fighting off a wicked cold..hoping to be over it soon. just letting you know so you didnt think i disappeared!
  • Anna

    Joanne,
    Enjoy your time with family!! Is your sailor still home?

    Blondie,
    Our high today was about 51!!! It was cold last night but I didn't even look at the thermometer!!! Still have a couple windows open but haven't turned on the heat yet!!!!

    Nicole,
    I hope you get better real soon!!! Being down sick is no fun indeed!!!

    Hope everyone has a great weekend!!!
  • ladypinkhatter

    @Blondie- love all of your graphics. I'm going to send them to my recruit and it is over 100 degrees here this weekend. I am trying to get air conditioner to blow 51 degrees...lol

    Nicole- being sick sucks..hope you get better soon. I live on Airborne.

    Friends took me out to dinner last night...that was great! This weekend will relax, clean, write my recruit, do 5k AIDs walk in 100 degree heat tomorrow, and then back to work!

    Everyone have a great weekend!
  • Anna

    ladypinkhatter,
    Wish you could warm me up a little - I don't want it this cool this early. It's 46 outside right now!!!!! (In the UP of Michigan)
  • ladypinkhatter

    @Anna- I always tell people you add clothes and etc to warm up but you can only take off so much to cool off....lol
  • julieb

    I just wanted to pass along that I found a Sailor nutcracker at Target. He had to come home with me of course! They had many different themed ones but the Sailor was awesome.
  • Anna

    ladypinkhatter,
    Yes, you are right there!! After living in GA for years I remember how much I hated the oppresive heat. I guess I'll just wrap up in my blankie!!!!!

    julieb,
    How cool - and I was just at a Target today!! I'll have to go look for the sailor nutcracker!!!!
  • Oneofalot

    Good Morning to Everyone.
    Blondie I am glad you had a wonderful weekend.
    Sorry I have not been on for a while, I have been with my mom. She was put in the hospital into ICU on Thursday and was finely transfered to Special Care Unit last night. Which means she is a little bit more stable then on Thursday. So please everyone pray for my mom to get better. Thanks.
  • Oneofalot

    Thanks. I am at work today so I will be in and out of this site all day. She was stable yesterday when I left but things can change quickly. Thanks the prayers. I will really need them for her and the family.