Norfolk Sailors - Family & Friends

singingbird,

Lol, yeah reading that again I can see the confusion ..my post was kind of a mess. beachmom is exactly right, that post was talking about their rotation from from their current duty assignment (sea duty) to their next duty assignment (shore duty somewhere where they don't go to sea). It isn't talking about the amount of time they will be at sea or in port during their current sea duty assignment.beachmom summed it up perfectly.

Hope A got his application figured out and you're having some communication with him.

The large ships (carriers) have chaplains, I've never been on a small ship but I wouldn't think smaller ships would have an actual Chaplain. More than likely they have a crew-member that volunteers to run services for their faith. Hopefully others here can verify that.

Smaller ships such as frigates, destroyers, and carriers do not typically have a chaplain assigned to them permanently so while they are in port or on a short trip, there is not one on board.  However they do *try* to bring one along for deployments or sometimes very long underways. My husband did his first tour on a cruiser and now is assigned to a destroyer squadron staff.. He did two deployments with the cruiser and both times they had a chaplain.  His squadron has a combination of 10 destroyers and frigates and he has spent time on many of them while at sea. So far, they have always been able to secure a chaplain for each of those destroyers and frigates for deployments but of course it depends on the availability of chaplains.  All of the ships he has gone to sea with have always had groups of various faiths on the ships so the sailors can support one another and lead different services regardless of whether a chaplain is available or not. Hope that helps :)

My son was rear ended on 64 on his way to his apartment :(  He is okay and so is the lady that hit him.  His car didn't get too much damage but you never know.  Body work is so expensive. It is a 99 Firebird so hopefully the book value is more than the cost to repair it and it won't be "totalled"!  He loves that car, it was my husband's and we gave it to Nathan after he graduated Power School. He said it helps him feel connected to us.

Colleen,

So sorry to hear about your son getting in an accident. I hope it all turns out OK.

My second son who will be in South Carolina in a month for A school would love that car. I have twins one who will be here in a month and his twin in BC now.  The one in BC has always loved cars.  When He arrived at GL he said he got to talking cars with the guy drawing his blood and the guy only halfway filled the vials so he had to do it again.  My son wrote that he took about a cup and a half. LOL  Hope all works out well and he can get it fixed.

Tonya,

What is your daughters rate on the Bush, my son arrived on the Bush a month and a half ago?

As far as the car goes, my son parked his in the ships parking lot for underway periods less than 14 days. Longer than that the NEX has long term parking for $60/month with $5 more if you want it started each month. You much pay half the total fee up front.

Any questions let me know.

Tonya,

My son is also an IT, they may be working together.

I'm not understanding when you say "she would be on the Bush 6-9 months at least twice". If she has orders to the Bush she's going to be on it every day for the next 42 months. She may only do two deployments of 6-9 months during that time but she'll spend every day on the ship and they are out to sea A LOT in between deployments. 

Someone isn't telling her the whole story if she thinks she is only going to be on the bush for 6-9 months.

Does that make sense or did I confuse you more?

She'll still need her car...when she is in port and off work she'll need to get around the base and get off the base to relax for awhile. It will be SO MUCH easier on her if she drives and can carry her belongings in her car and doesn't have to pack her sea bag, garment bag, etc. on her back all at the same time.

I assume she isn't married and will be living on the ship? If she's single she's going to be forced to live on the ship until she gets her quals and gets on a long waiting list for a barracks room (waiting list is over a year long) Her car will also allow her to have a place to store some stuff that she won't be able to fit on the ship because she is going to be so limited for space.

She WILL NOT be happy if she flys to Norfolk and leaves her car in Tampa. She'll make you drive it to her shortly after she arrives as Norfolk isn't setup conviently for those without transportation. There is next to nothing near the ships except a McDonald's  Pizza Hut, Athletic Center and a mini mart. Everything else is a ways away.

My son attempted to make it without a car but I could tell it was really affecting him being stuck at the ship all the time so I shipped his car to him from Phoenix.

Yes, I should have mentioned...she can find a place (rent) to live off the ship but the cost will be completely out of her pocket and the Navy will not reimburse her for anything as she's expected to live on the ship.

After they get all their quals they can get on a waiting list for a Navy provided barracks room so they don't have to live on the ship in port and that is paid for completely by the Navy. She'll still be working on the ship every day regardless where she sleeps at night.

My son thought about the apartment route but he felt it would eat up too much of his paycheck each month, around $400 with a room mate, so he is toughing it out on the ship FOR NOW. 

Being an IT is nice for communicating...IT's on the computer side have access to email 24/7 and can email all the time. IT's on the radio side have access to phone lines so they can call once in awhile.

We communicate daily via email while he is underway. There are pay phones on the ship that are expensive $20 for a 40 minute card that my son calls us on once in awhile.

No, there are MANY Sailors living off the ship/base that are not E5. It's not actually living off base, it's just sleeping off base as they are on the ship during the day working while in port and they live on it while underway.

My son likes having his car because it gives him a small place that he can be alone, talk on the phone, listen to music, etc. He sits in the parking lot in his car with the music on and talks to his girlfriend and us. Before he got his car he really didn't have anyplace to sit alone and relax and talk on the phone as every place is SO crowded. They don't get cell coverage on the ship (except for one small location in the hanger bay) so they have to be off the ship for decent cell coverage.

He hasn't said so yet but I think he actually slept in his car one night just so he didn't have to go back on the ship.

My son is an IT but will be on the USS Brisbane.

Tonya,

That is so common among junior Sailors, they join the Navy but don't want to go on a ship. I was in the Navy for 26 years and my son grew up in the lifestyle and he still acted like he was surprised when he got orders to a ship.

It will be tough on her at first but she'll get used to it and accept it once she is onboard and gets things figured out.

CO-Twin,

Now that is pull if you're renaming ships already...good for you. :)

Good for your son, I hope he continues to like once he arrives on board. My son loves the job he's doing and the people he's working with. He does not like the fact that he has no privacy and no room to get away from people ever. He also doesn't like the fact that his cell phone and laptop don't work on the ship.

I could see the things your son doesn't like being thing my son won't like either, he tends to be a rather private person. 

Dad you said they can call sometimes on ship phonesDo you know the case for destroyers?  Can they get packages while out to sea or deployment? How does that happen?

Destroyers have the same capability with ship phones.  And in regards to shipping packages, you can send to the ships address and it goes to a sorting center and then shipped to the ship itself.  On average it has been taking 3-4 weeks for my Sailor to receive packages.  The cost to send a USPS first class large box not matter the weight is $14.85.

singingbird,

That is great he gets to have his guitar, where the heck does he store it? My son is so limited on space that he doesn't have room for his uniforms. I don't remember it being so tight back when I was a junior Sailor but maybe it was.

My son said he was up watching flight ops the other day and there was a large school of dolphins (he said he thought there were around 30) jumping and playing in the wake behind the ship. He was excited about that.

Tonya,

She can keep plates on her car and a drivers license from whatever state you're from as long as she has an active duty ID card. Is there a particular reason you want to register it in Virginia?

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She can definitely keep Florida plates and drivers license. Who is your insurance through? Some companies that don't deal with a lot of military have trouble with insurance on cars that are garaged in a different state then where it is registered. The military friendly companies should have no trouble with this...USAA, GEICO, etc. Best to call your insurance company and ask them how to do it since she is active duty military and the vehicle is registered in FL but she'll be in VA.

There may be some circumstances where it would be advantageous to register the car in Virginia if it is cheaper than FL or if the vehicle has to be in FL for an inspection each year, etc. I don't know what the situation is with things like that with you guys, however, she can definitely drive the car in VA with FL plates and drivers license as long as she has a military ID.

Tonya M have her check rates with Nation wide. My son had Geico and one of his shipmates told him about Nation Wide and it was much cheaper rates so he changed.

My son got a very good rate with USAA and they are good with working with military situations.  He kept his home state driver's license and purchased and registered his car in Virginia, where those on active military status are exempt from the annual registration renewal fee and personal property tax, just have to present an LES each year.  He didn't know that his first year and paid it, but Virginia refunded it the following year.  Military local vehicle registration exemption  Also this Virginia DMV FAQs for Military.

Tonya M, my son had USAA and switched to Nationwide.  It was much cheaper.  He turned 24 in April and has two cars, one is a sports car.  The insurance is still cheaper.  He kept his Texas license and registration in Texas.  He's deployed right now and his car is here at our house (I get to drive it).  One friend stored his car in a storage unit, another did the lot where they start it for you.  He preferred his car to be where he knows who's watching it.  Yes, that meant that I had to drive it back to Texas but no biggie.  I got to spend a week with him before he left.  Nice trade-off. 

All this insurance talk, I have an anomaly for a kid.  He did not want to learn to drive. He is 19 and doesn't drive. He might want his bike. 

All this insurance talk, I have an anomaly for a kid.  He did not want to learn to drive. He is 19 and doesn't drive. He might want his bike. 

Then he's going to get quite the workout in Norfolk LOL  The base is huge, as is the surrounding area (adjacent Virginia Beach is Virginia's largest city) and winters get cold...much more fun when you can get around comfortably!  IMHO.

Will maybe he will figure that out, I think he hopes to not be in port much.  He will have to have someone teach him or do they have a decent bus system? 

There is no bus service to the piers for the most part. On the weekend there is a bus that returns to the pier from the main NEX but for some reason doesn't go directly from the pier to the NEX. So you can get back from the NEX on the weekend but if you want to ride a bus to the NEX you have to ride it around the whole loop which takes near 45 minutes I believe. It costs $2 to ride it and my son tried it and was able to get back from the NEX once but was never able to get to the NEX.

During the week there is nothing but taxi cabs.

Oh dear sounds to me like he better get someone to teach him driving and get a license and a cheap car.  We did get advice to get a cheap car and sell it when you have a long deployment. I don't think that sounds too logical though. How about bikes? 

I've not inquired about bikes so someone else will have to provide that information.

CO-TwinSalorsMom Ship03Div233  Drivers in Norfolk, as in most of VA (I can say this because I live inVA) are insane maniacs.  If your son can learn to drive here, I'd say he could conquer the world!