Norfolk Sailors - Family & Friends

For families and friends of Sailors who are stationed at Norfolk; for either Sea Duty or Shore Duty Sailors. Just make sure to keep OPSEC issues in mind and not disclose ship movements in advance.

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  • Dad of Sailor

    Lol, it is a "rack" but "little slot" is a better description of it. :)  Here is a picture of my son's rack on the Bush. His is the open one on the bottom left...

  • Dad of Sailor

    They are called racks and the racks are located in the berthing compartment. Here is another of the entire rack...

  • Dad of Sailor

    The Enterprise is on the next pier over from where the Bush ties up. The Enterprise is being retired and has been inactivated and isn't going back out to sea so her friend will be in port when she gets there. There is a parking lot directly across the street from the Bush and the Enterprise.

  • navymommo

    Dad of Sailor, Thanks for the photos- just want to let you know that I didn't think they were that big.  Maybe different sizes on different types of ships?  My son on a DDG cannot roll over- his shoulders get stuck. He is a medium- large build. I don't know what the "big guys" do.

  • Dad of Sailor

    navymommo,

    The big guys hope they can get a top rack which is open and isn't enclosed on the top. Or they suffer and wish they were "little guys".

  • Helen, T-man's mom

    My son is on an LPD and they did make the racks a "little" bigger.  They are "L" shaped and have a place where you can velcro an iPad so you can look at the screen. 

    Dad ~ your son's rack looks bigger than what my son currently has. He's just happy to have a place to lay his head.  He can pretty much sleep anywhere.

  • Lauriekay1

    DadofSailor, thanks for the pics of what I will be sleeping in on the Tiger Cruise! I specifically noticed the nice porthole view, balcony, and extra pillows marked "firm", "medium" and "soft" ! Wohoo! :)
  • Dad of Sailor

    You'll really enjoy the room service. ;)
  • abuon18

    What is a Tiger Cruise?
  • Dad of Sailor

    Tonya,

    Your daughter will tell you about it and it normally happens upon return from a deployment. So after a 6-10 month deployment they allow family members to come on-board for a couple days before the ship returns to port. There are some restrictions on who can be a guest, not boyfriends or girlfriends and I don't think spouses are allowed either, at least they weren't when I was on a ship.

    If you can make it work it is a great experience to see your daughter and how she lives and works every day.

  • Dad of Sailor

    The Bush group is a bit slow...maybe we need to get it going huh?

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    WOW Dad of a sailor  Thanks for that, it sounds like something definitely to do.

  • Dad of Sailor

    Yeah, if they allowed spouses or BF and GF's it would turn into the love boat instead of a warship.

  • Lauriekay1

    Bahahahaha, DadofSailor, that's true! Our son is on the Eisenhower and we just got word the cruise is approved so we are all excited! Both his Dad and I get to go. He's former Navy (flew P3s) and is excited to spend some time on the carrier!
  • Dad of Sailor

    Laurie,

    Wow, that is awesome...very cool you both get to go. You'll love it and it is a once in a lifetime opportunity that most civilians only dream about experiencing. Gives you a good appreciation of the sacrifice those Sailors make every day for months at a time to keep the rest of us free. Seeing your son after many months away is a great benefit as well.

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    This is yours truly in a middle rack on an LHD (USS Iwo Jima).  I'm 5'7" and with my elbows bent, my fingertips are touching the rack above me!  I don't know how those with a top rack swing up into that narrow space, not to mention sleep in any of them!  The second pic is the storage space beneath the mattress.  

    I recommend that parents look into getting a "Navy rack pack" for your sailor.  Most commands allow them, but double-check.  These are curtains made just for Navy and CG ships, are darkening and have pockets sewn in for storing iPads, alarm clocks, whatever, and your sailor's last name is embroidered free.  The curtains snap into the track inside the existing curtain.  The company is woman-owned and she is terrific, tell Pat I said Hi lol She will answer all your questions.  http://www.navyrackpacks.com

  • Dad of Sailor

    The curtains are neat but I would caution any Sailor about leaving anything valuable in those pockets like an ipads or the like. Even with the Sailor asleep in the rack it wouldn't take long for the ipad to go missing. Unfortunately the Navy is not immune to theft and there are thieves in every berthing compartment. For stuff that isn't of value those curtains are a great idea.

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Anybody know what the racks are like on the USS Bainbridge?

  • Dad of Sailor

    CO-Twin,

    Small... :)

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Little slots made me laugh, thanks.  The second posted rack does not look bad.  What are they like on smaller ships?  My son's ship has 270 crew.  Will they have a bit more room?

  • abuon18

    That sounds like a really neat experience. Too bad they don't allow spouses-so it would seem only parents then? Or are other family members allowed, like siblings or children? Out of curiosity do you know why they don't allow spouses?
  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Good thing my son Twin1 is 5'8" his twin2 is 6'4" might be more of a challenge.

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Good thing my son Twin1 is 5'8" his twin2 is 6'4" might be more of a challenge.

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    @abuon18, as Dad of Sailor said earlier, if spouses/girfriends/boyfriends were allowed, the Navy ship would become the Love Boat!  :)  The Tiger Cruise is a way for family members and friends to see what life is like on a ship, not romantic reunions - those will happen in a day or two.

    This was posted for a longer-than-normal Tiger Cruise aboard USS Carl Vinson last year but should answer most of your questions (some requirements may change but the essence is there): http://www.navyformoms.com/profiles/blogs/tiger-cruise-frequently-a...  

  • Dad of Sailor

    abuon18,

    Yes, others are normally fine. Children, siblings, parents, etc. They don't allow spouses or BF and GF because they don't want the temptation of those who have been away from their loved one for 9 months. Some would not be able to contain themselves. Sex is strongly prohibited onboard Navy ships and they don't want to have to deal with those that couldn't control themselves.
  • duhhuh58 Ship 10/Div 267

    dad of sailor, while sex is prohibited it still happens while they are on deployment.

    when my daughter was on the bush her brother went down to florida for the tiger cruise.  there is a lot of paperwork that has to be done, including a physical.  and there is an minimum age.  if your sailor is a female and the person going on the tiger cruise is a male your sailor will have to get a male sailor to sponsor the tiger and visa versa. 

    they had several buses that left out of norfolk that took the tigers from this area down to mayport to meet the ship.  i don't remember how much it cost.

    but, my son loved his time on the bush, met some new friends and it was a fantastic experience.  if you can go you really should.

  • Dad of Sailor

    duhhuh58,

    I'm know it does, I spent 26 years in the Navy so I'm well aware of what goes on out there. Though, when I was in my younger years we didn't have females on ships, that was later in my career. There is no way you can lock males and females together for months at a time and someone isn't gonna find a way or place to answer natures call. 

  • Dad of Sailor

    I hope everyone has a wonderful Memorial Day weekend and gets to spend it with family and friends. Don't forget to remember those that gave their lives in service to this country so we can enjoy the freedom we have today.

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Theresa, duhhuh, beachmom76 and others in Hampton Roads, how are you doing and what's up with the approaching tropical storm??  Reading about it, and seeing that this weekend's Harborfest events are being cancelled (like the Parade of Sail) or relocated.

    I saw that USS Gunston Hall was scheduled to be open for tours June 7 - 9 as part of Norfolk's Harborfest - http://wtkr.com/2013/06/05/uss-gunston-hall-will-open-for-tours-dur...

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    *Hampton Roads and nearby areas that is :)

  • duhhuh58 Ship 10/Div 267

    Nothing but some light rain so far. Supposed to start with the real rain sometime early Friday I think. I'm not worried ain't nothing but some rain, lol
  • duhhuh58 Ship 10/Div 267

    Thanks for asking tho!
  • Jo1

    My son has just been assigned to the USS Lincoln but I hear it's going to be in dry dock for the next few years. What are the sailors life like when the ship is in dry dock and where will they live. I joined the USS Lincoln forum but it doesn't have much activity. Thanks
  • Lauriekay1

    Well Jo1 welcome to the Ike group! We always have a lot of activity...especially these days with much forthcoming excitement! As to your question, I'm thinking not many of us has much experience with that either...I do know that the ship has to be taken apart, and while in dry dock, the sailors can go on TAD on another ship being deployed. Other than that...anyone?
  • duhhuh58 Ship 10/Div 267

    @Sandra AM Mom,

    there are day cares in and around the bases.  some are base run and some are home day cares.  have your son check with the Fleet and Family Readiness they should be able to get you a list of day cares.  My grandson was with one lady that actually kept children while the parents were deployed.

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Is it true that the food is not great on destroyers? My son was told all the meat is canned!! Yuck. Surely they feed these sailors better than that.
  • Trevor's mom

    May I have suggestions on what to do for the "night before" Homecoming party? Thanks a bunch

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    What do you mean, "night before" 

  • Trevor's mom

    There is a party that the families have the night before the ship pulls in.

  • Dad of Sailor

    singingbird, CO-Twin,

    Can't comment on the destroyer food as I was never on a destroyer, however, I can say with authority the food gets worse the longer you're out to sea and the fresh stuff gets harder to come by. The food always started out fairly good and after a while you start getting all canned fruit and the like. They do get replenished at sea but how often and what they get are the big questions.

    singingbird...his scurvy comment had me in stitches, thanks for sharing. :)

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Trevor'sMom, are you planning a party, or going to the FRG night-before party and wondering what it's about?  

    If the former, some of the things the Family Readiness Groups do are a potluck dinner; a welcome-home sign-making activity; a raffle for things like a " First Date" night at a hotel plus breakfast andor dinner.  

    If the latter, you could ask the FRG what you can donate (often it's cash so they can buy tickets, hotel nights, whatever for their raffles).

  • tasstables

    Warning
    please read please pass on
    there are a lot of military families posting on face book
    my daughter is in Head quarters down in Pensacola FL
    the training she just took , they are going after ANY military
    person for posting any thing hateful, derogatory , or not nice about the military
    they are prosecuting them , kicking them out , caption mask, losing Rank ect
    the military recognize face book as a Official military page they are investigating
    over 2 million obscene comments now
    please pass this on to everyone
  • Dad of Sailor

    I would be willing to bet this has to do with all media reports of sexual assaults in the military and is focused on things that are derogatory and degrading to other people.  Unless the 1st Amendment doesn't apply anymore I don't know how they would prosecute someone for saying something "not nice" about the military.

    I think something was lost in translation somewhere along the line.

  • Dad of Sailor

    If the below warning is true, singingbird's son may be in trouble for complaining about the food on the destroyer. :)

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    I would hope it is not that fussy, the food thing. I do think it probably includes some comments and emails that circulate that are anti government, military, society. I get emails like these sometimes and see postings on FB, I choose to either unfriend those who post regularly like that or don't respond or pass these on.
  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    He hasn't been on it yet, supposed to board today.  He was told in A school that ALL meat is canned.  I can not imagine why that would be. Do they not have a freezer on board? 

  • Dad of Sailor

    It wasn't all canned when I was on a ship, I remember carrying huge cases or frozen meat during replenishment's. They have freezers but you have to remember they are storing food for 200 - 6000 people depending on the size of the ship. So, they don't have unlimited space.

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Dad of a Sailor. Thanks for that. I couldn't believe that the food offered our serving sailors would be that bad. However wasn't spam invented in WWII for the armed services? I thing my Dad told me that also commonly served on his destroyer was S___ on a shingle. Canned meat in cream sauce on toast. He used to make it for us as a fun treat. I actually bought a frozen box of it as a joke gift for Stephen when he enlisted.
  • tasstables

    The warning is true ..

    watch what is said on Face book . any anti government postings,

    I am just trying to warn people so they dont get kicked out. I dont want to see any thing happen to them

    ALL  RANKS need to watch what they say .

  • Dad of Sailor

    What the heck is that mess? Someone needs to get rid of that stuff.