Norfolk Sailors - Family & Friends

For families and friends of Sailors who are stationed at Norfolk; for either Sea Duty or Shore Duty Sailors. Just make sure to keep OPSEC issues in mind and not disclose ship movements in advance.

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  • TJCsMom

    Kim, my son will be on the USS Theodore Roosevelt. One thing I thought was cool, is fishing is allowed on the fishing pier, right near the boats. You do not need a license to fish on the pier. If your son could get to the NEX and purchase and rod and reel and some bait, he could fish, if he likes that kind of thing. I hate to hear that he is bored, because that was one of my fears for my Sailor.

     

  • Roses4bud

    Kim, my son is my baby and I feel for you. He has been in the Navy for a year. I wished I could be in his pocket so I can see what's going on. But you know I had to let him go. And he has been doing awesome. Now, I know it was hard for him at first. (he will never tell me) But I BELIEVE God and prayers are key. ( just saying). It was so hard for me but he has made me realized he can do very well. I am so proud of him. Keep the support and most of the love.

    !  

  • Dad of Sailor

    They never have "free flight standby" on commercial airlines. There is the Air Mobility Command which operates military aircraft that are flying around the country as part of their mission that your Sailor can attempt to get on at no cost. The problem with this is that when a Sailor is limited to 10 or so days of leave they can burn up many of those days trying to catch flights going to where they want to go as you can't make reservations on these flights.

    Again, there is no flying free on commercial flights ever and they will pay exactly what you and I pay using orbitz, expedia, etc. There is a military rate but you'll find it is often times more expensive than what you can get on the travel websites. On advantage if you pay the military rate is they will often times let you make changes to the ticket for no fee's while the regular tickets have to pay a change fee for any changes to the ticket.

    Is that what you were asking?

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    I know it seems overwhelming, but Norfolk really is an awesome place to be based and there is so much to do in the area!  My son was based in the area for his first five years in the Navy and I've visited many times.  Yes, a car is a must - but how many adults do you know with a full-time job in a large city who don't have one?  :)  The base has a class called "Car Buying Strategies" - go here and scroll down to it for the schedule:  http://www.cnic.navy.mil/content/dam/cnic/cnrma/pdfs/FFSC/Signal_Ja...  There are plenty of reputable major car dealers in the area; beware of some independent car lots such as these on Naval Station Norfolk's "Off Limits List": https://www.facebook.com/NavalStationNorfolk/posts/10150962807263494

    The Navy works closely with USAA and Navy Federal Credit Unions, so they are good to use to purchase a car, and they have car buying assistance programs too.  Once the car buying process is started, if there is any need for legal advice (this goes for housing/rental agreements too) the Navy's Legal Assistance Office is there to help at 757-341-4497. 

    Bookmark and share http://www.discovermwr.com/navalstationnorfolk/ and look at the top of the page under "Things to do!"  

    There are road races (5k and up) every weekend, it seems, a mix of Navy and non-Navy - http://www.roadracerunner.com/races/runningcalendar.aspx?state=va&a...

    And your sailor can point the car north to Washington DC (2.5 hours) and stop at Quantico and the Marines Museum on the way; rent a kayak and camper for very little from MWR at Little Creek and go south to North Carolina's Outer Banks ... so many choices.   

    The Navy's private beach at Little Creek is great and just minutes away!  Same for Oceana; and there is horseback riding next to Oceana too that is only available to active/retired military.  

    On base, Building C-9 is a great recreational center, and there is an information desk as well as a table covered with flyers for upcoming activities.  There are sailing classes offered periodically at the base marina also.

  • Dad of Sailor

    Great information Marcy, thanks for the work in that.

    One clarification on USAA and Navy Federal Credit Union...these are civilian operations and have nothing to do with the actual Navy. I had a mom message me asking who the "superior officer" was at NFCU that she could talk to about a loan her Sailor was denied. There are no military members running NFCU and your Sailor will have to apply and be credit worthy just like any other civilian financial institution. Both USAA and NFCU are very military friendly and understand military members so working with them is often easier than dealing with other financial institutions. I've banked with both of them for almost 30 years and even though I'm now retired from the Navy I still use these two solely for my banking needs.

    You as parents of Sailors makes you eligible for membership at Navy Federal Credit Union and I highly recommend you check them out as they have great financial products and their customer service can't be beat.

  • Kim~Made it to the fleet!

    Marcy...and Dad of Sailor,  All this info is so good to have.  It is overwhelming for me right now,  yes he is 20 will figure most things out himself, I can only give him advice that on certain situations that I recieve on this site.   Right now the priority is a car.  I really think once he has transportation around the base and town,  he will love it there.   Marcy,  I have been told that the Navy is great in assisting the Sailors with car buying, and yes, he does his banking through the Navy Credit Union, so we will start there.   Sheesh, overwhelming a bit right now,  but it's all new.  No different then if he was away at college with no car.  I can not wait to take a trip there to see his ship and the base...I do believe that will be very soon,  it's only an 8 hr trip for me.  Thanks again for all the info,  I will pass it all on to my Sailor! 

  • Dad of Sailor

    Navy Federal Credit Union website...

    https://www.navyfederal.org/

  • Kim~Made it to the fleet!

    Denise...My Son came home in his uniform ( he had to wear his uniform of the day off the base)  and when he went back to his duty station he wore his civi clothes.  They are told to wear civi clothes on a commericial flights,  they don't want our Sailors to stand out on flights for safety reasons. 

  • Kim~Made it to the fleet!

    Dad of Sailor- Thanks for the credit union details.  When he applies for his car loan,  we will of course check the Navy credit union for their rates..I work at the VA Medical hospital in Cleveland and belong to the credit union here and found out that their rates are sometimes way better then the average bank rates.  We will have to do our homework on that. 

  • Kim~Made it to the fleet!

    Marcy,  Thanks for all those links.  Very helpfull, especially knowing about all the cool places he can vistit on the weekends when he has his car.  My son thrives on staying busy,  so I'm sure once he has his set of wheels, he will take full advantage of all the cool things on and off base while in port. 

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Yes ditto on the info. Thanks.  I passed it along to my twins.

  • TJCsMom

    NAS Pensacola is a pretty large base, too. Getting around there was hoofing it or taxis. But my son did it for a long time. Then when I was there for his Strand graduation, we decided to just look at some dealerships and of course, that turned into buying. Thankfully, we had already done our homework on the kind of vehicle he wanted, what we could have gotten it for here at home, and he had already been to Navy Federal to prequalify for a loan. So, once we got the car down to the price we needed it to be, we bought it there. Dealing with Navy Federal for the financing and USAA for the insurance was the easiest thing and I was pleasantly surprised at how quickly and efficiently they both worked with us, even over the phone. Just a thought when you get ready to help your Sailor purchase a vehicle, check with them first. USAA also provides financing for vehicles, so check with them as well, when you’re shopping for financing. And the best part, the car payment and the ins will be deducted from his paycheck (both broken up over the 2 checks each month) before he even gets it.

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Glad to be of help! :)   Kim, you're going to love your visit there!  I didn't even mention  the Norfolk Tides (the Baltimore Orioles' AAA team) and their stadium on the Elizabeth River; or the $1.50 ferry between Norfolk and Olde Towne Portsmouth; or the wide range of festivals; or sunset cruises...etc etc!

    Dad of Sailor, yes USAA and Navy Fed are military-affiliated, but NOB does "work closely" with USAA and Navy Fed; Legal at Naval Station Norfolk has their representatives present on one of their boards, all in efforts to prevent financial abuses of our Sailors.  This is per the Chief I spoke in Legal while getting the phone number.

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    (those are all links, check them out - I wish I was there right now!)  :)

  • TJCsMom

    Marcy, thanks for all of that great information on things to do around base and the Norfolk area. I'm printing it out now. I'm putting together a folder for my son with different info that I've gathered here...this information, the maps from Dad of Sailor, and some other tidbits....for him to take with him when he leaves for NSN next week. He may never look at it, but I'll know I sent him with it. :)

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Too funny, I sent my son a 1" 3-ring binder with stuff like this when he first got there :)  

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    *Whoops!  I meant to type NOT military-affiliated about the credit unions.  So calm down Dad of Sailor LOLOL

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Just another FYI, I just got this message back about the latest "Off Limits List" - "Ma'am, I am currently updating that list as I type this -- I will provide to you as soon as it is updated."  I'll post it here when I get it!  

    BTW, does anyone else remember the first time you were called "ma-am"?  Not a good day LOL  Now I love it when a Sailor says it :)

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Yes I was 22 years old and a kid I used to babysit was working at the local grocery. I was horrified. 

  • ShortBecky

    When my son was deployed last year, he contracted for a new car while on the ship and used his deployment pay to pay it off before he got home. When he got back to Norfolk he picked up his brand new Jeep completely paid for. I am not sure how it all worked but I know that if he didn't get it all paid off he only had to finance and pay interest on what he still owed at the end of deployment. It was a ood deal for him.
  • Dad of Sailor

    Marcy, I knew what you meant. ;)

  • CatMom509

    Yea, THANKS Marcy & Dad of Sailor!!

  • Kim~Made it to the fleet!

    Shortbecky.....That is awesome your son was able to do that while on deployement.  I was going to wait till after my son's first deployement, but have realized now that he is in Norfolk, it will have to be sooner then later at this point with a car.  All the info from everyone has been so helpful.   I know my son is 20 and on his own now,  but I still feel the need to help out, this is all new to him and when it comes to finicial decisions,  I want to make sure his money is well spent and he is not taken advantage of by anyone in any way.  I guess that is what us mom's do very well...ha! 

  • Kim~Made it to the fleet!

    Marcy~  I'm called Ma'am all the time.  I work at the VA Medical Center and get that alot by my patients.  Something I do not like at my age,  but I'm used to it.  Ha 

  • LindaD

    Thank you for the warm welcome. I've joined 3 groups that pertain to my son's service right now. We are from Pittsburgh, Pa.; my son's home port will be Norfolk; he is an Engineman (Navy Snipe) assigned to the Truman.

    I'm waiting for his call to tell me when he'll be home on leave until he reports to Norfolk to go to his ship.

  • Jmae12

    Hey Linda! My husband is also a Navy Snipe of the Truman!! He will most likely be working and living with my husband! So neat!
  • Ellenelle

    Hi everyone, a lot of awesome information being discussed in this group. Thank you dad of sailor for being part of this group, your knowledge and experience is wonderful. My son has been in Norfolk a year now and has adjusted just fine, I would have been lost without Navy for Moms. My daughter is getting ready to join US Airforce this fall and I would like to know or get info on a support group that is similar to this one. If anyone knows of such page please pass it on, thanks!
  • LindaD

    Hi all, I just got the call I've been waiting for; I'm picking my son up on Friday.

  • LindaD

    Jmae12 have you joined the ship's group yet?

  • Jmae12

    Linda, are you talking about the FRG? Yes I have joined it. My husband is fairly new to the ship. He's been on it since April of this year.
  • BeachBunny

    Hello all...my sailor got his orders today...he will be heading to Norfolk for C school starting there Oct 6th...grads Pcola A school top of his class as a honor grad on Sept 9th...just thought I'd pop in here and check this group out...looks like I know several of you already....:)))

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Hello and welcome to the norfolk group, always nice to already know a few of us.This group is pretty active, friendly and helpful. Dad of a sailor has lots to help with. He recently posted two maps of base which you might find helpful.

  • Colleen in PA

    Hi LindaD, I grew up in Butler County, about 45 min north of Pittsburgh.  I now live in York co. My daughter is on the USS Gettysburg, part of the Truman strike group.  My son is on the USS Enterprise, currently being dismantled.  He lives in Yorktown as the E is in the shipyards.  My daughter's homeport is now Mayport, FL.   She was on Truman a couple weeks ago for training for the job she does on Get.   She said is is a nice ship and people are friendly and helpful.  She even talked with the admiral!

  • LindaD

    Jmae12, yes, I'll see you there too.

  • LindaD

    Hi Colleen in PA, my goodness the things we have in common: my son was a bit disappointed that he wouldn't be able to serve on Big E (he's a major trekkie), and my sister lives in Cranberry.

  • CatMom509

    HELlllooo BeachBunny!!

    Now you can explore another part of our country!!

  • NavyMom2013

    For the ships that are in dry dock, where do the sailors assigned to those ships get their mail?  The only address my son has is an FPO address and I don't think that one is what he should use until at sea.

  • Lizb

    Navymom2013 - the FPO is where I send my sons mail and he is living on the shi in dry dock.
  • Dad of Sailor

    NavyMom,

    The FPO address will always be the ships address regardless if it is in port or at sea. Use that unless your Sailor has told you to use a different address.

  • BeachBunny

    Good Morn All..

    I've been scanning this site for information on Norfolk C school, anyone know anything or where I can read up on it? Do the sailors get a "sponsor" for moving over to C school? Mine has a car, assume there will be a student parking permit like at Pcola?

    Excited about reading what some of your sailors have been doing in Norfolk...my brothers were based in San Diego I've been there many times. Norfolk sounds like it's a bigger and busier base.

  • TJCsMom

    Hi BeachBunny, my son will be attending C school in Norfolk, too. He is assigned to the G-2 Division in the Armory on the USS Theodore Roosevelt and his job requires additional training. He has already heard from his sponsor and knows where and when he is to report on NSN. He is also driving to NSN and I assume they will provide him with the necessary documents to park near his ship. He will be living on the ship once he is out of C School.

    The USS TR is new to NSN, so there have been a few videos released by the crew to help the new Sailors and crew transition to the base. You may want to check them out. I know they pertain to the USS TR, but the information about the base is good for all of the new Sailors moving there. On YouTube, search for "Theodore Roosevelt Show". There are 2 episodes. Hopefully, they will give you and your Sailor some info regarding the base. :)

  • BeachBunny

    Oh...thanks TJCsMom-my sailor will only be in Norfolk for C school until Dec. then heading to Pt Mugu in CA to his assigned squadron.....I haven't found much on C school in Norfolk yet....didn't know about sponsor for the students at this base....I'll look the videos up...thanks...:)))

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Hm, I know that a dinghy is sometimes called a dink - could that be it?

  • ChambosMom

    I just found this definition, Military for recruit in training, desperately in need of knowledge. If this is true, I would say that it was a really great compliment.
  • Dad of Sailor

    dink = fall behind or short for delinquent. Her Chief is telling someone that she is making progress ahead of what is expected of her and they won't have to worry about her being delinquent on her qualifications like a lot of Sailors are. Many don't get qualified in the specified time frame so they have to implement corrective measures for a lot of Sailors, yours seems to be self motivated.

  • Dad of Sailor

    Tonya,

    Sorry, I was dink on answering your question. :)

    Tell M good job on getting her qualifications knocked out early. 

  • duhhuh58 Ship 10/Div 267

    here are 2 sites that contain navy slang and their definitions

    http://www.hazegray.org/faq/slang1.htm
    http://goatlocker.org/resources/nav/navyslang.pdf

  • CatMom509

    Cool!  Learned another new meaning for a Navy term!  Since all our Sailors here have made it through their training, there should be no "dinks" here!

  • Dad of Sailor

    He's doing good, ready to get back in port as he doesn't love being underway. I wonder if they have ever ran into one another? I'll have to ask him about it when I talk to him next. E just got his final required qualification and he's only been there for a bit over four months. Says he has guys in his shop that have been there a year and still don't have their quals completed.

  • Proudmom

    U said what a dink does but what is a dink