For families and friends of Sailors who are stationed at Norfolk; for either Sea Duty or Shore Duty Sailors. Just make sure to keep OPSEC issues in mind and not disclose ship movements in advance.
Sailor in SC bought a car and got his own insurance. He is about to start Power school next week.
Norfolk sailor is adjusting to life there OK. His schedule seems to be 24hr 24hrs 8 hrs work then a day off. This last weekend he worked three 24 hours no sleep or eating them told in the afternoon to take some R&R. He went out to eat, spent his first night in his base housing. He had to report back at 5am.
Boy this sounds brutal. He was pretty pleased that he tore out all the communication off the ship and reassembled it on their barge. Ship being overhauled. He did ALL that ALL by himself. He liked being appreciated for it.
You probably read our post just below, but we would love to invite your sailors over to the house on the weekends. We have several sailors coming over regularly, so they would be in good company. :) We have lots of fun together-last weekend we watched the Olympics both days. We'd be happy to give you our phone number so you can pass it on to your sons. And if they don't have transportation, we or one of the other sailors would be happy to give them a ride. Let us know what you and they think.
@John andYvonne Wagner..Thank you so much for extending an invitation for my son to hang out with you guys. I am sure he would love too. I will in box to obtain your number.
Hey, I thought WE were the Navy's cheerleaders…then I found this! Seems we have two things in common, we're not perfect and we have a lot of enthusiasm for the NAVY! Here's the USNA Cheerleading Team ~
Hi Group, need some advice, suggestions or direction. My sons car is broke down on base, he thought it was the battery so he took it up to the local auto zone and it is not the battery so it looks like were gonna need to get it towed off the base. A simple diagnoses would kinda tell us what direction to go in. I don't want to see him spend unnecessary money that he does not have. Is there anywhere or anyone local that we can trust to do that? He just moved off base so he is having to bum a ride to get back and forth to the ship. I'm trying to help him but it is very hard living in another state. I appreciate any input that anyone has.
Hi Lori - I've asked two Navy wives who live in the area, and they're checking with their friends for a recommendation to a good auto mechanic. Just fyi, we had a bad experience with Auto Port at Little Creek base (charged $325 for a repair that they didn't do, as shown by a subsequent inspection at Firestone) and I would NOT recommend them.
OK Lori, I posted your request in this group Sailor Rescue List and here's what I got! One more thought, could it be a loose connection at the battery terminal? That happened to my son not long ago, it was a $20 fix to replace.
My son's friend Freddie Riner knows about cars and is stationed there in Norfolk. He should be able to look him up on Facebook. Here is a link to his page. https://www.facebook.com/freddie.riner?fref=ts He is a Chief and a really nice guy.
Lori, My daughter took her car to Lee's Auto Service on 837 W 44th st in norfolk. There phone number is 757-440-1053. They were reasonable and didn't fix any thing until she approved it. Hope he gets his car fixed soon and doesn't cost to much.
Hi! My husband is also on the Truman. He works as a Diesel Engineer with the Reactor department. What department will your son be joining? Although my husband hasn't been with the Truman long, he seems to be enjoying his time out to sea and with the crew. :)
There was an accident last night I heard about. Two sailors slammed a dodge charger into a barrack. A friends son was sleeping right where they hit. Lucky he was not badly hurt. Anyone hear about this?
Oh great Yovonne. He sounds a little better. Please pray that God gives me an answer to what de is ion I need to do for my 18 year old kitty. Had her since boys were two. She just diagnosed with diabetes and waiting on blood work on state of her other organs. I need to know if it is time to put her to sleep. If her kidneys are effected she will be put down. So I am actually praying god gives me that answer so there s no doubt.
I will be praying. I hate to see animals suffer and hopefully she won't. :) It sounds like the outcome will be whether or not her kidneys are affected..Or whether she suffers with the diabetes. The Lord will make it clear...
Need help. My son has been told that his enlistment paperwork is incomplete. His DIEMS (date of initial enlistment to military service?) form DD 4 is missing from his file. He has called MEPS to see if they have a copy but no help there. He doesn't know where to go now. Any ideas?
He has an admin department to assist him with this and they should be sending a message off to get this resolved. Has he spoken to them? RTC (Boot Camp) was responsible for making sure all that information was complete so the command is probably going to have to interface with RTC or Navy Personnel Command to get this resolved. This isn't a problem that he can or needs to solve as they are going to need something official to correct a DIEMS date, not just your Sailor telling them what it is. Did someone tell him to work on this or did they just tell him there was a problem and maybe they are working on it?
Dad of Sailor - from what I gathered he was told to hunt down the paperwork. I believe he was able to find it on BUPRS but have forward your comments to him if he wasn't able to locate it or has any issues. Also he is having to deal with the issue that he now owes $1,800 back because they have not been taking out for food allowance but got paid for it. Not to mention that his medical records show him with one blood type but his dog tags show another. He is really frustrated and not enjoying his experience with the Navy.
Wow, that sounds like a mess. Which has his correct blook type, his medical record or his dog tag? Does he even know? He needs to go to medical and have them redo his blood type and get the correct one in his medical record if it isn't already in there. This early in his career I would think the results from the blood type they did in bootcamp would be in his medical record.
His dog tags are not that important as I never wore them after leaving boot camp. If he ever needs them for anything he can order a new set of them from whatever command says he needs them for his assignment. Most assignments in the Navy don't require Sailors to wear dog tags.
Is he normally proactive in his everyday life or does he just let stuff happen around him? The Navy requires you be proactive and address things early yourself because in most cases there isn't anyone looking at the little details of each Sailors life as they are adults and expected to somewhat take care of themselves. If they wait for someone else to notify them of an issue it's normally too late and when they owe $1800. Most Sailors assigned to ships know they do not get BAS while assigned to a ship so if he knew this (have no idea if he actually did) he should have addressed it right away before it got to $1800. Just something to think about and maybe mention to him unless you think it would make it worse.
There is a waiver process he can request to forgive the indebtedness to the Navy, however, without knowing all the specifics I don't know if he would have a realistic shot at a waiver. He could inquire with his Chief and personnel department about a waiver and see what they say.
If his enlistment contract in his service record doesn't have his DIEMS date I don't know what they can expect him to "hunt down" as the enlistment contract is the document that goes with him from MEPS to RTC which would have that information. Does he have a copy of his enlistment contract that he got when he joined? My son kept a copy of all his paperwork, if he has that maybe they would accept that? Definitely not the right way to address this problem but if it will satisfy them and solve the issue then it would be worth a try.
Dad of Sailor - not sure which blood type is correct but I have told him to get it corrected. He is not very proactive but hope by having to deal with all this he has learned to be more aware. Thanks for all the advice.
Hi everyone .... it's been a long time since I've been on Navy for Moms I hope everyone is well My Oldest son was just deployed from ORF to Afghanistan on Feb 13 this is my first experience with deployment.. any advice suggestions would be helpful.
Hi lorriemi! I have a fantastic NavyforMoms group for you - http://navyformoms.com/group/momswithkidsiniraq ("Moms with kids in Iraq/Afghanistan"). They will greet you with open arms and provide a ton of support. I will keep your son in my thoughts, and look forward to your posting all the info about his homecoming!
Help! I've been on navymoms since my sailor was in Boot Camp. Well, now he is headed to the USS Harry S. Truman, driving his car from prototype in NY to Norfolk. He left it for 3 weeks to come home, but it started up just fine last night. He spent the night with a buddy in Saratoga Springs, and left this morning.
Soo, his car's broken down. It's stalled on him about 3 times, each time restarting, but each time running for less time, and taking longer to restart. Finally not wanting to chance it overnight, he stopped in Georgetown, Delaware and is spending the night.
Anyone by any chance know anyone in that area, or who is passing through that area?
I'm really at a loss as to what to do. Any he's only 20, so not sure he could even rent a car.
If you or a family member has AAA they will tow him and his car to his home - but not sure if there's a limit on how many miles they'll tow. I think you can call and join on the spot and they'll tow you. Our local meineke garages are open on Sunday but not sure if they are in Delaware. Sorry I know you must be worried sick for him
Don't know anyone in that area but he can rent a car through USAA's agreement with the major car rental agencies. Some of them won't even charge him a surcharge for being so young. Is he a USAA member?
Dad of Sailor - yes, he is, and that is good advice. I will pass it along. I also got in touch with the Delaware USO, another good resource.
Mommaross, thanks, I am kicking myself because I meant to sign him up for AAA. But I think the USAA towing is pretty generous. Nothing seems to be open on Sunday in that part of DE, not even an Enterprise rental, nor U-haul (for renting a tow dolly and truck).
ktrsb - I just posted your situation in the group Sailor Rescue List - http://navyformoms.com/group/sailorrescuelist. Please come join us there too. Hopefully a member is nearby and can help your son ASAP! :)
Welcome gabbyplus3! What an exciting time for your son, and for you. It's a great area to be stationed. Hopefully you can plan a visit to see him :) We're here to answer your questions and calm your nerves!
Dad of Sailor
I would add the the Sailors division along with the department as that is normally needed on Carriers to get mail to the right people.
Feb 12, 2014
sunshinefam
Feb 12, 2014
Dad of Sailor
You're welcome and good luck to your Sailor as he starts his journey aboard IKE.
Feb 12, 2014
CO-TwinSalorsMom
Welcome back Dad of a sailor, you were absent for awhile?
Feb 12, 2014
Dad of Sailor
Hi CO-Twin,
Picked up the flu two weeks ago and can't shake a nasty cough, been laying low. Hope you and your Sailors are doing well.
Feb 13, 2014
CO-TwinSalorsMom
Norfolk sailor is adjusting to life there OK. His schedule seems to be 24hr 24hrs 8 hrs work then a day off. This last weekend he worked three 24 hours no sleep or eating them told in the afternoon to take some R&R. He went out to eat, spent his first night in his base housing. He had to report back at 5am.
Boy this sounds brutal. He was pretty pleased that he tore out all the communication off the ship and reassembled it on their barge. Ship being overhauled. He did ALL that ALL by himself. He liked being appreciated for it.
Feb 13, 2014
John and Yvonne
HuffyMom23 and sunshinefam,
You probably read our post just below, but we would love to invite your sailors over to the house on the weekends. We have several sailors coming over regularly, so they would be in good company. :) We have lots of fun together-last weekend we watched the Olympics both days. We'd be happy to give you our phone number so you can pass it on to your sons. And if they don't have transportation, we or one of the other sailors would be happy to give them a ride. Let us know what you and they think.
Yvonne and John Wagner.
Feb 13, 2014
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
Best wishes to your sailor, Cheryl!
Feb 13, 2014
sunshinefam
Feb 13, 2014
John and Yvonne
sounds great! thanks for letting me know sunshinefam. :)
Yvonne
Feb 13, 2014
allie1928
Bye Cheryl....wishing your sailor best of luck at new port. Take care
Feb 14, 2014
CatMom509
Happy Valentine Friday!!
"For God so loved the world that
He gave His only begotten Son,
that whosoever believeth in Him
shall not perish, but have everlasting life."
John 3:16
Feb 14, 2014
CatMom509
DadofSailor,
Oh, may you feel way better soon!!
Feb 14, 2014
CatMom509
CO-Twin,
Glad your Sailor is on land sleeping in a real bed--he must be very appreciative of that! But YIKES that duty schedule!! Blessings to him~~
Feb 14, 2014
John and Yvonne
CatMom509,
That is the Best Valentine we could have-Jesus! :)
Feb 14, 2014
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
Hey, I thought WE were the Navy's cheerleaders…then I found this! Seems we have two things in common, we're not perfect and we have a lot of enthusiasm for the NAVY! Here's the USNA Cheerleading Team ~
Feb 14, 2014
Ellenelle
Hi Group, need some advice, suggestions or direction. My sons car is broke down on base, he thought it was the battery so he took it up to the local auto zone and it is not the battery so it looks like were gonna need to get it towed off the base. A simple diagnoses would kinda tell us what direction to go in. I don't want to see him spend unnecessary money that he does not have. Is there anywhere or anyone local that we can trust to do that? He just moved off base so he is having to bum a ride to get back and forth to the ship. I'm trying to help him but it is very hard living in another state. I appreciate any input that anyone has.
Feb 14, 2014
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
Hi Lori - I've asked two Navy wives who live in the area, and they're checking with their friends for a recommendation to a good auto mechanic. Just fyi, we had a bad experience with Auto Port at Little Creek base (charged $325 for a repair that they didn't do, as shown by a subsequent inspection at Firestone) and I would NOT recommend them.
Feb 14, 2014
Ellenelle
Feb 14, 2014
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
We have successfully used the Pep Boys on Military Blvd next to the Wal-Mart if that helps :)
Feb 14, 2014
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
OK Lori, I posted your request in this group Sailor Rescue List and here's what I got! One more thought, could it be a loose connection at the battery terminal? That happened to my son not long ago, it was a $20 fix to replace.
OK, here are the responses - Good luck!
Reply by adm402 1 hour ago
I would have him check the alternator and starter before doing anything drastic. If it starts with a jump then it is likely the alternator.
Reply by navymom3 39 minutes ago
My son's friend Freddie Riner knows about cars and is stationed there in Norfolk. He should be able to look him up on Facebook. Here is a link to his page. https://www.facebook.com/freddie.riner?fref=ts He is a Chief and a really nice guy.
Feb 15, 2014
Ellenelle
Feb 15, 2014
Soccer Mom of 3
Lori, My daughter took her car to Lee's Auto Service on 837 W 44th st in norfolk. There phone number is 757-440-1053. They were reasonable and didn't fix any thing until she approved it. Hope he gets his car fixed soon and doesn't cost to much.
Feb 15, 2014
Britt<3Corpsman Wife
Feb 16, 2014
beenerjoan
Feb 16, 2014
momofc.r.15
Hi John and Yvonne. Thank you for the invite to My Son to your home. I will relay the message to him.
Have a good day. S.
Feb 16, 2014
Jmae12
Beenerjoan-
Hi! My husband is also on the Truman. He works as a Diesel Engineer with the Reactor department. What department will your son be joining? Although my husband hasn't been with the Truman long, he seems to be enjoying his time out to sea and with the crew. :)
Feb 16, 2014
John and Yvonne
momofc.r.15,
Let us know if he wants to come over. Then we can give you our phone number so he can call us. :)
Yvonne
Feb 16, 2014
John and Yvonne
to mmofc.r.15,
Let us know if your son would like to come over . We can give you our phone number so he can call or text us. :)
Yvonne
If this message appears twice, it's because I didn't see it up here after the first time I commented. :)
Feb 16, 2014
CO-TwinSalorsMom
Feb 16, 2014
CO-TwinSalorsMom
Feb 16, 2014
Ellenelle
Thank you Soccer mom, I will check them out .
Feb 16, 2014
John and Yvonne
Tracy,
I gave Steve our cell number on Saturday....
Yvonne
Feb 17, 2014
CO-TwinSalorsMom
Feb 17, 2014
John and Yvonne
I will be praying. I hate to see animals suffer and hopefully she won't. :) It sounds like the outcome will be whether or not her kidneys are affected..Or whether she suffers with the diabetes. The Lord will make it clear...
Yvonne
Feb 18, 2014
Josh'smom
Feb 18, 2014
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
I'd call his recruiter in the morning if he has it, or see what he recommends.
Feb 19, 2014
Dad of Sailor
Josh'smom,
He has an admin department to assist him with this and they should be sending a message off to get this resolved. Has he spoken to them? RTC (Boot Camp) was responsible for making sure all that information was complete so the command is probably going to have to interface with RTC or Navy Personnel Command to get this resolved. This isn't a problem that he can or needs to solve as they are going to need something official to correct a DIEMS date, not just your Sailor telling them what it is. Did someone tell him to work on this or did they just tell him there was a problem and maybe they are working on it?
Feb 19, 2014
Josh'smom
Feb 19, 2014
Dad of Sailor
Wow, that sounds like a mess. Which has his correct blook type, his medical record or his dog tag? Does he even know? He needs to go to medical and have them redo his blood type and get the correct one in his medical record if it isn't already in there. This early in his career I would think the results from the blood type they did in bootcamp would be in his medical record.
His dog tags are not that important as I never wore them after leaving boot camp. If he ever needs them for anything he can order a new set of them from whatever command says he needs them for his assignment. Most assignments in the Navy don't require Sailors to wear dog tags.
Is he normally proactive in his everyday life or does he just let stuff happen around him? The Navy requires you be proactive and address things early yourself because in most cases there isn't anyone looking at the little details of each Sailors life as they are adults and expected to somewhat take care of themselves. If they wait for someone else to notify them of an issue it's normally too late and when they owe $1800. Most Sailors assigned to ships know they do not get BAS while assigned to a ship so if he knew this (have no idea if he actually did) he should have addressed it right away before it got to $1800. Just something to think about and maybe mention to him unless you think it would make it worse.
There is a waiver process he can request to forgive the indebtedness to the Navy, however, without knowing all the specifics I don't know if he would have a realistic shot at a waiver. He could inquire with his Chief and personnel department about a waiver and see what they say.
If his enlistment contract in his service record doesn't have his DIEMS date I don't know what they can expect him to "hunt down" as the enlistment contract is the document that goes with him from MEPS to RTC which would have that information. Does he have a copy of his enlistment contract that he got when he joined? My son kept a copy of all his paperwork, if he has that maybe they would accept that? Definitely not the right way to address this problem but if it will satisfy them and solve the issue then it would be worth a try.
Feb 19, 2014
Josh'smom
Feb 19, 2014
lorriemi navy mom x2
Hi everyone .... it's been a long time since I've been on Navy for Moms I hope everyone is well My Oldest son was just deployed from ORF to Afghanistan on Feb 13 this is my first experience with deployment.. any advice suggestions would be helpful.
Feb 20, 2014
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
Hi lorriemi! I have a fantastic NavyforMoms group for you - http://navyformoms.com/group/momswithkidsiniraq ("Moms with kids in Iraq/Afghanistan"). They will greet you with open arms and provide a ton of support. I will keep your son in my thoughts, and look forward to your posting all the info about his homecoming!
Feb 21, 2014
ktrsb CVN-75
Help! I've been on navymoms since my sailor was in Boot Camp. Well, now he is headed to the USS Harry S. Truman, driving his car from prototype in NY to Norfolk. He left it for 3 weeks to come home, but it started up just fine last night. He spent the night with a buddy in Saratoga Springs, and left this morning.
Soo, his car's broken down. It's stalled on him about 3 times, each time restarting, but each time running for less time, and taking longer to restart. Finally not wanting to chance it overnight, he stopped in Georgetown, Delaware and is spending the night.
Anyone by any chance know anyone in that area, or who is passing through that area?
I'm really at a loss as to what to do. Any he's only 20, so not sure he could even rent a car.
Feb 22, 2014
mommaross CVN77
If you or a family member has AAA they will tow him and his car to his home - but not sure if there's a limit on how many miles they'll tow. I think you can call and join on the spot and they'll tow you. Our local meineke garages are open on Sunday but not sure if they are in Delaware. Sorry I know you must be worried sick for him
Feb 22, 2014
Dad of Sailor
ktrsb,
Don't know anyone in that area but he can rent a car through USAA's agreement with the major car rental agencies. Some of them won't even charge him a surcharge for being so young. Is he a USAA member?
Feb 22, 2014
ktrsb CVN-75
Dad of Sailor - yes, he is, and that is good advice. I will pass it along. I also got in touch with the Delaware USO, another good resource.
Mommaross, thanks, I am kicking myself because I meant to sign him up for AAA. But I think the USAA towing is pretty generous. Nothing seems to be open on Sunday in that part of DE, not even an Enterprise rental, nor U-haul (for renting a tow dolly and truck).
Feb 22, 2014
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
ktrsb - I just posted your situation in the group Sailor Rescue List - http://navyformoms.com/group/sailorrescuelist. Please come join us there too. Hopefully a member is nearby and can help your son ASAP! :)
Feb 23, 2014
gabbyplus3
my son will be arriving to Norfolk next month I'm feeling nervous
Feb 24, 2014
Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom
Welcome gabbyplus3! What an exciting time for your son, and for you. It's a great area to be stationed. Hopefully you can plan a visit to see him :) We're here to answer your questions and calm your nerves!
Feb 24, 2014