Norfolk Sailors - Family & Friends

For families and friends of Sailors who are stationed at Norfolk; for either Sea Duty or Shore Duty Sailors. Just make sure to keep OPSEC issues in mind and not disclose ship movements in advance.

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  • Mommamac MM(CVN77)

    Our son has been in Ballston Spa for the past year. He just received his orders and will be based in Norfolk on the USS George Bush. I'm so happy that he will still be on the east coast. He's very excited about the next chapter of his Navy career.
  • Mommamac MM(CVN77)

    We look forward to visiting and any help with things to do and places to stay would be greatly appreciated. He graduates on 1/23 and has to be to Norfolk on 2/26.
  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Hi mariecb and Forever proud!  Yep, I'll be joining you here in the Norfolk group!  And I know Mommamac too - our sons are roommates in NY and now they will be roommates in VA.  Different ships but they are happy to at least be in Norfolk together ;-)

    We would have liked him to be stationed closer to home, but I guess it's not about us - the Navy has other ideas LOL.  He is taking his car.  He will fly home to CA for his 30 day leave and then he'll fly back to NY and drive to VA. 

    I'm sure I'll have lots of questions for you all - please be patient with me!

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    LoriLAB, this group on Facebook is a great place to ask questions about areas and specific locations.  You have to ask to join. Link:  Navy Home Search on Facebook

  • Yasminie5

    So my son just graduated from fort lee today. Heading to Norfolk. Missed the train. Trying to get any info of what his first days will b like
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Welcome Yasmine5!  Sorry to hear about the train :(  Hopefully your son has connected with his sponsor by now. His sponsor will take him to his housing, show him around and get him checked into his command.  It's a large base so there's a lot to see  :)

  • Yasminie5

    Thank you Marcy. Spoke with my son today. He's meeting up with friends in Norfolk. Do you think this is the best group to be in. I tried joining one for the CS but not a lot of activity. Same thing with the uss Bataan. Would love to know what goes on on a daily basis. I'm one pf those moms :) always wanting more info.
  • Holly MA Mom

    Hi Yasmine5, If you have access to facebook there's a group called Navy Families of Norfolk. It's a pretty active group.

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    You could also try his ship for a FB page. My son's shop has a marvelous FB page. there are two actually. one is families one is the official ship one and the Captain posts pictures when they are deployed or get promoted. It is wonderful.

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Yasminie5, this is a pretty active group, plus there is a lot of information permanently stored in the Discussions.  

    Often, questions you'll have won't be ship-specific; rather they will be about things like owning a car, activities for sailors, where to stay for visits to Norfolk, things like that, so yes, I think this is the best group overall.  Know that ship groups on NavyforMoms tend to go rather quiet when the ship isn't deployed.  And I personally prefer NavyforMoms to Facebook because the focus is on sharing information here and the drama is kept to a minimum LOL

    Be sure to get on the official lists for the ship's Ombudsman Team, and the Family Readiness Group.  The Ombudsman is a volunteer with a spouse on the ship, and acts as the official liaison between the command and its families.  The FRG is headed by elected volunteers with relatives assigned to the ship, and organizes events around and during deployment.  Your sailor should put you on the lists.  You can also contact the Bataan ombudsman yourself by going to this link and scrolling down to the ship name - https://www.ombudsmanregistry.org/?m=contactombudsman

    Here is a great three-minute, time-lapse video of a day in the life onboard USS Kearsarge (LHD-3), which is one of the eight total Wasp-class amphibious assault ships that are virtually identical to USS Bataan (LHD-5).  It's called "Reveille to Taps."  Fun to watch!  

  • Forever proud

    Yasminie5 my son is on the Bataan. He arrived in Norfolk in June, but they flew him out within a few days to meet the ship already on deployment. From that point we did not have contact, so I couldnt answer many questions about the first few days. With the ship going into dry dock in a couple of weeks I would guess there will be alot of hustle right now. Let me know if you would like me to hook your son up with mine. I WOULD friend you so we could PM, but I am on an ipad and for some reason PMing doesnt work on ipad
  • 1Bodyprof

    forever proud: pming works on my ipad. Is it your FB settings?
  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Holly-I sent a request to join to "navy families of Norfolk" FB page. Still waiting for a response.
  • Holly MA Mom

    B'sNukeMom, I just messaged the admin of the Navy Familiies FB page and told her who you are.  I actually had a son in Nuke school Jan-June of last year, so I'm already familiar with you, even though I mostly just kept quiet and read everything I could from the Nuke Moms group.

  • HuffyMom23

    Could anyone tell me if this sounds normal for Norfolk area?  My son got an oil change yesterday but we didn't get the name of where he went.  He is driving a 2002 Dodge Ram truck.  My husband told him it would probably be best to take it to the Dodge dealership for his oil changes.  But he pulled in to some oil change place he found instead.  With giving him a $15.00 (military) discount, his bill was like $86.00.  Now we think this seems really high.  My husband only paid $5.00 for his oil change back here when he had it.  But that was a deal he got along time ago.  Around here, they do not charge that much.  Any opinions on if he got suckered?

  • Amanda&LC+2

    I just got my oil changed last month. They charged me $40 no discounts. And they were a tire place not even an oil change place. They weren't going to do it because they said they don't do oil changes but I had to wait for a tire to be delivered so they said they would do it. I thought that was high lol because where I'm from its like $20. I hope for the price they charged him they did a lot more than an oil change!!!
  • Forever proud

    1Bodyprof it isn't FB I have problems with, it is here on N4M. I can comment on the thread, but I can't respond to PMs
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Seems a little high, especially if they gave him a "discount." My son was paying $60 for a high-mileage oil change on a 2002 SUV at Pep Boys on Military Ave and JiffyLube is the same.  Does a truck use more oil?  Wonder if they did an air filter change for your son too?  I tell my son to download the coupons on his phone  :)

  • Forever proud

    HuffyMom sounds like a rip off. I saved a conversation about this very subject. I'll dig it up and repost. and tell him to let his command know where it was. The Navy can put businesses on a list of places to avoid. I don't know if the list is mandatory or just recommended.
  • Yasminie5

    Hi forever proud mom of Bataan sailor. My guy is CS and just arrived on Saturday. I believe he's on the ship for now. And will then move to barge living. It would be great for them to meet up if possible.
  • Forever proud

    This is an excerpt from a post Marcy made back last fall. It was in answer to someone asking where to get brakes done. Original post was from even earlier, so hope the info is still accurate.

    Accurate-Tune Plus 757-226-8863, JT is the gentleman to talk to. My son had several things done there and I talked to him personally.  They also have great reviews and we were referred to them.  http://accuratetuneplus.com/

    My son also had work done by JT at Accurate-Tune.  I would recommend them also.
    ------------
  • Forever proud

    That last comment "my son also had work done there" was Marcy. I have no experience with them myself
  • Forever proud

    Yasminie5 my son is MM and just got housing in PPV so he is on the ship only during duty. I will put in a friend request for you. You can PM me any info you are comfortable with to let my son know how to find your sailor. I just won't be able to respond. Sometimes I really want to throw this ipad across the room!
  • 1Bodyprof

    forever proud: Do you have to be friends to pm on N4M?
  • Forever proud

    1Bodyprof yes
  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Thanks Holly! Much appreciated ;-)
  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Boy I want to take my car in where you go. I never paid that little for an oil change even when I did it myself in college. My car costs about $85. so I bet that is correct.

  • Holly MA Mom

    B'sNukeMom, I just heard back from the FB page admin and she said that she had just approved 2 nuke moms on the site today, so if you try to log in now, you should be able to get in.  Let me know if you can't.

  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    Also you can have him check...if he is mechanical prone like mine the base in Charleston has an auto bay where he goes and uses it to change his own oil. Then just costs filters and oil cost.

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Holly- I think I'm in now. When I search for that group I can see stuff where before I couldn't. I'm not real FB savvy Lol!
  • Holly MA Mom

    There may be a post on there asking you to tell a little about yourself.

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Hi all - Happy Monday!

    Holly - I'm not sure if I'm in it or not.  I did not get a request for any info.  I think I can see the page now but when I look at my FB groups it doesn't show it listed in my groups.  (I'm still learning how to navigate FB!).  I'll keep checking and see if things change.  If it doesn't maybe I'll PM you so I can figure it out!

    Does anyone here have a sailor on HST?  I'm looking for whatever info you might have.

    Hope everyone has a great Monday!

  • TwoForTheNavy

    Can anyone tell me how to get hold of a sailor on the Bainbridge, currently underway. The sailor's grandmother is dying but this is not his command, he's on shore duty he's on this ship to qualify it. His family does not even know the name of the Obudsman of the ship.
  • Lizb

    twoforTheNavy- contact the Red Cross they can help
  • Lizb

    Also the Facebook page or the web site for the ship should have a contact number.
  • MrsSwo

    Agree, call the Red Cross and they will find him. I found this name from a long time ago. But hopefully the number is the same or she can help you.

    Tricia Jones

    Ombudsman DDG96

    757.284.8316

  • MrsSwo

  • TwoForTheNavy

    Thank you all for the help, they were able to reach him.
  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Hi all - Happy Tuesday!  I posted a discussion above that has the info for emergency messages.  TwoForTheNavy, glad to hear that they were able to make contact with the sailor. 

    Hope everyone has a good day!

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Happy RED shirt Friday!

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    We live in CA. Sailor just finished nuke school in NY & bought a car there & registered it there (previous car was registered in CA). Now he's heading to VA. Do you think he can register his car back in CA when he's home on leave or do you think he should he keep it registered in NY? I've heard that it's a pain to register in VA.
  • pschip

    B'sNukeMoM  My son has his truck register here in Ga and he is in VA. 

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Thanks pschip - However I just realized, sailor won't be bringing his car home from NY - he'll be flying, so it won't be possible for him to register it in CA.  I guess he'll keep it registered in NY for the time being.  Oh well....

    Counting down the days until we see our sailor!

    Happy Monday all!

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    My son bought and registered his car in Virginia, no problem plus the annual registration fee is waived by providing a current LES statement.

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Thanks Marcy - maybe he'll switch the registration to VA then.  I'll pass that on to him! And nice to know they waive the fee for them too ;-)

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Got a kick out of seeing this on TV last night!  This latest Geico ad is filmed on the battleship USS Wisconsin, permanently moored at Norfolk's Nauticus museum at Waterside.  What a beautiful view of the downtown Norfolk skyline on the Elizabeth River, and it's only seven miles from the base!  

    It's also the view that Naval Medical Center Portsmouth has from directly across the river - lucky corpsmen living and working there :) 

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Thanks for sharing Marcy.  Can't wait until hubby & I can plan our first visit to Norfolk!  Sailor arrives there on 2/26..... I guess we better start saving ;-) 

    (Hubby was born in WI so he will definitely want to see this battleship.)

  • Michelle

    I need to ask about apartment applications. My son's application number is 900+ and he's discouraged that he'll never get an apartment. Does this mean there are currently 900 sailors in front of him waiting for apartments in Norfolk? Or, could it mean that they are now "serving #800"? He's really discouraged. He's sleeping on the ship with maybe 5 other sailors, with no cell service or wi fi so he spends a lot of time in his car on his phone. Thanks for the advice.
  • Michelle

    Thank you, LeeAnnNavyMom. My son's application number is 921. I'm thinking his number will not change as apartments are assigned. Rather, they probably are working on assigning application number 875 right now (just for an example). I hope there are not 920 applications ahead of his! Does anyone else know how the apartment application process works?

    He finally went to John & Yvonne's a couple weekends ago and had a great time. If he continues to do things like that it will keep him out of his car more often and not make him feel so displaced. Thank you!