Norfolk Sailors - Family & Friends

For families and friends of Sailors who are stationed at Norfolk; for either Sea Duty or Shore Duty Sailors. Just make sure to keep OPSEC issues in mind and not disclose ship movements in advance.

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  • Forever proud

    Joe&NatesMom - mine is MM as well! I've been to Norfolk several times to visit him, including for the Tiger Cruise. How about you?
  • Joe&NatesMom

    His brother went on the Tiger Cruise with him. They had a blast! We live about 5 hours from Norfolk so we have been there a few times. He got married between A school and deployment and they currently live in Sufolk...
  • Joe&NatesMom

    Help! My son's truck won't start...if he needs to get it towed, does anyone know a "honest" garage in Sufolk Portsmouth?
  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Joe&NatesMom - I don't have any recommendations (my son is pretty new there) but if you look up above Marcy posted a discussion "CAR FAQs for Norfolk sailors!...."  It has some info on repair places.  Does your son have Automobile Club for towing?

  • Joe&NatesMom

    BsNukeMoM ...How did I miss that?? Thanks for pointing the info out! Gonna start relaying info to my son...thanks again
  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Hi all - Happy Almost Friday!

    Joe&NatesMom - easy to do lol.  There's a lot of info on here & sometimes I even get confused as to what group I saw stuff in!  Just hope it helps ;-)

  • John and Yvonne

    Hi everyone! My husband and I just got back from a vacation in Hawaii, so I haven't been on here for a while. :) We had a great time and now it's back to the real world!  

  • Nereida

    My sailor is headed down to Norfolk this Sunday. He has been with us for the last 3
    weeks after finishing A school in GROTON. A heavy heart but very proud of him.
  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Hi all - Happy Friday!  Got my RED on today.

    Oh John & Yvonne - welcome back from Hawaii - I'm sure you had a wonderful time ;-)  It's been years since I've been to Hawaii - think I'd like to visit again soon!

    Welcome Nereida!  My son is fairly new to Norfolk too.  He arrived in February - so far so good!  Glad you had a nice visit with him ;-)

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

  • G-Man's Mom

    Hi everyone!  My son just got into Norfolk...well Little Creek, this week!  He is extremely excited to have this be his first permanent station!  I am so nervous, excited and happy he is loving his choice of joining the Navy!!  I hope this is the right group for me to be in?  lol  I search for a group with his squad..but could not find one.  I hope everyone has a blessed and safe Memorial Day!!

  • G-Man's Mom

    Hi Kimberly68!  My son is a GM and is assigned to Riveron squad 4.  He said he isn't on a ship...I am still learning all of this. lol  He just left a months training in MS after schooling... he loved MS much better than school.  I hope he enjoys this just as much!!  :)

  • Joe&NatesMom

    Hello G-mans Mom! My son is on the USS Bataan. He and his wife live in Sufolk and are getting used to the area. He is rate is MM and is a 3rd Class Petty Officer (hope I got that right!). This site is a wonderful world of information!
  • CO-TwinSalorsMom

    John and Yvonne. You might have bumped into my son you met in Norfolk when we were there for his twins return from Deployment. He has his first duty station in Pearl Harbor and arrived there May 15th. He is loving it so far. Likes the fresh pineapple ice cream. 

  • John and Yvonne

    CO-Twin, We may have! Saturday morning we were at Dukes on Waikiki for breakfast. And we left on a hop from Hickam on Monday the 18th! If you get a chance, you should go visit him! 

  • Angie

    Where is a safe place to live in Norfolk, my son will be scouting places next week. Any suggestions will be helpful.

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Hi all - Happy Tuesday!

    Angie - if you look above you'll find a couple of posts in the "Moving to Norfolk next month" discussion.  I posted the apartment complex where my son has lived since February.  He likes it so far!

  • seasport

    Hi all, I have been reading the comments below on places to live. My son & one of his roommates want to move from the barracks to an apartment. I was reading apartment reviews & found The Royal Mace apts. has pretty good reviews. Does anyone know if living in Ocean View is safe? The Bondale apts. seem to have pretty good reviews also. They prefer to live closer to base than Virginia Beach. We don't know the safe places to live & the places to steer clear. Any recommendations is appreciated. Also, will he still get BAS allowance?
  • seasport

    Oh, they are both E-4's so can't afford a whole lot.
  • John and Yvonne

    For all you new moms on this site who have sons or daughters stationed here in Norfolk, we'd like to let some of you know and remind others that my husband and I invite sailors over to our house on the weekends. We eat and play board games(sometimes go mini-golfing) on Saturday night and on Sundays sit down for a home cooked meal, including homemade bread and dessert! If you think they would be interested, we can pm you our cell number or we could text them and invite them over if they are ok with you giving us their cell number. Looking forward to hearing from some of you. :)

    Yvonne and John

  • Joe&NatesMom

    John and Yvonne...that is wonderful!! Thank you for doing this for our Sailors!
  • mom0717

    John and Ivonne that is so awesome! I have a sailor son who will be transferring to Norfolk before the end of the year with his new wife....sounds like a lot of fun and I am sure they would love to meet you and other sailors. Thank you so much for doing this! How wonderful of you! Could you please pm me your number and I will pass it on to them?   

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

  • Laura

    Hi Creolemommy - Your son can ask where the housing office is on base. They will be able to review the apartment lease for him to make sure that it contains the military out clause that is needed to break the lease without penalty. They also have a list of apartment complexes to avoid because of their lack of security and/or trying to stick it to the military.

    My son has been stationed in Norfolk for about 3 years and lives in an apartment complex in Virginia Beach. My hubby just got transferred to Norfolk but we are renting a house in Virginia Beach. It's about a 30-40 minute drive to base. We wanted to avoid living in Norfolk and also avoid having to take a bridge or tunnel to commute to base.

  • GMA of a Sonar Tech

    We are thinking about visiting our grandson stationed in Norfolk the beginning of Oct.  any suggestions on what to see?

  • Leach73

    GMA of a Sonar Tech -

    look above in the Discussions and click on View All.Marcy has posted a very informative piece on the Navy Lodge and what to do in the area.

    Have fun planning your trip and enjoy the time with your Sailor!

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Saw this on the Naval Station Norfolk FB page.  If your sailor needs to do any DMV stuff this could help them out!

  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Norfolk Restaurant Week kicked off today.  The info at this link includes links to about 20 of the top restaurants in the area  - good to keep in mind for visits to sailors!  http://hrscene.com/your-guide-to-norfolk-restaurant-week/

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Hi all - Happy Monday!

    Marcy - Wow!  The timing of Restaurant Week is perfect.  We fly out this Wednesday to visit our Sailor.  I'm going to forward this to him and we will have to try some of these!  Can't wait to see him - going to get a tour of the Truman, see the USS Wisconsin, going to a minor league baseball game, take a harbor cruise and of course eat some good food!  Can't wait to hug him ;-)

  • Mommamac MM(CVN77)

    B'snukemom, That's awesome your getting to visit your sailor. Enjoy your stay and if you see my sailor please give him a big hug for me.
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    B'sNukeMom, I love it! You all are going to have the best time. Sending happy thoughts to you all week!
  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Hi all - Happy Tuesday!

    Thanks Marcy!

    Mommamac - yep - we'll be spending some time with your boy too!  And I'll give him the biggest hug ever ;-)  B already said that yours will be around so we can hang out.  I'm excited to see VA but not excited for the heat/humidity lol!

    Printed our boarding passes this morning - can't wait for tomorrow to get here!!!

  • Mommamac MM(CVN77)

    B'snukemom, thank you so much. I know you guys are going to have a blast. Ours said they are planning a exciting time for you. As for the heat, just drink lots of water. Wish I could be with you all. Talk to you soon.
  • Kassie

    Hi Navy Moms,  I'm new to this group!  My son will be arriving to his base on Tues.  Just wondering how he will get to base (taxi or sponsor picks him up from airport?).  Is there anything I could be sending/doing to help him on his journey?  Let me in on the 'scoop' of what to expect!    I have so enjoyed the Navy4Moms groups and all the friends I've found on the site.  Hope I can connect to the Norfolk, VA, group soon!  Be safe!

  • Forever proud

    Kassie - welcome to the group! If your son's ship is in port, the sponsor should pick him up. When my son arrived in Norfolk, his ship was already on deployment (they flew him out to meet them later) so he sort of languished at the airport wondering what to do! Late at night. And not knowing where to go once he got to base. It was a bit of a disaster. He ended up taking a taxi and I suppose they just dropped him off at one of the gates. Hopefully your son is more organized than mine was at that time!
    He will probably stay in temporary housing for a short time before either going to his ship (or the ship's barge)to set up his quarters. If he does not want to live on the ship, he will need to ask for barracks or off base housing, but that is not necessarily immediately available.
    He will likely feel a bit lonely until he makes some friends, but there is PLENTY to do to entertain himself in Norfolk. Make sure he checks with the command "rules" of places that are off limits - establishments that tend to have trouble like fighting or ripping off naïve youngsters - and he will need a car if at all possible. A lot to think about in a new place, but that is what we are here for!
  • Kassie

    Thanks, Forever proud!  I so appreciate your info!  I wasn't sure how this all works.  My son's a little nervous about the move!  Is your son still aboard?  More questions to come.....lol  Thanks again!

  • Melinda

    My daughter and her husband are stationed in Norfolk and Oceania now. He is on shore duty and she is on sea duty. They have a one year old boy and she and I are so nervous when she has to deploy. How do mothers handle 9 month deployments with a baby? I think I would go crazy.
  • Forever proud

    Kassie - my son's ship came home in October last year and he lived on the ship for about a month while "aggressively" pursuing other housing (ie sick of the ship). He got PPV, which is kind of awesome as it is sort of a giant modern apartment complex right off base. Each apartment has two bedrooms - each of which is accessible by key card entry only - and the complexes are all male or all female. Your son will need to check with his command about his elegibility, submit the proper paperwork for his request and then show his face in the housing office often enough that they get sick of him and give him something just so they don't have to look at him anymore. Best time to get housing is when a giant ship deploys.
    Best of luck to him! And any other questions fire away!
  • Nancystj

    Just wondering if anyone else has a sailor assigned to USS Lincoln? My son is a MA there but since the ship is being overhauled he lives in Portsmouth and commutes. Just wondering if anyone else has this situation and how are their kids handling it.

  • BoyWonderMom

    Nancystj, my son is with the USS Lincoln. He was living in the barracks in Newport News for two months but now relocated to navy housing about twenty minutes away from the shipyard. He's extremely happy with his acomodations. It's a townhome, only one roommate and wifi. Which he was lacking off living in the barracks. He says the commute is less than 20 minutes and no tunnels! My son is a Nuke.
  • Nancystj

    Can I ask what kind of hours your son works? As a MA my son works 14 hour shifts 3 days on 2 off and where they put him to live is an hour commute each way. He's so exhausted. I wonder if other rates have those shifts too? He leaves for work at 3pm and returns home at 7am. On his days off he does his food shopping for the week, laundry, etc. Seems like a lot. Some of his friends in other rates seem to have much better hours. Does this sound typical?

  • BoyWonderMom

    Nancystj, wow that commute is a killer for your guy! Nukes work 12+ hours shifts 7 days a week rotating between days and nights with two days off every seven days. I guess my son is used to that schedule. He's been doing that for a while now since he was in nuclear prototype training. It's very difficult if you have to commute for one hour to go rest in the morning. He should put a request to move closer to the shipyard, even the barracks sound better than that commute.
  • Nancystj

    Actually that shift sounds like what my son will be doing beginning in August. Those are long work days, especially since they have to fend for themselves in terms of buying and preparing food, doing laundry, etc. in their free time.The drive is tough and he hopes to get moved closer but who knows.I'm exhausted just hearing about how long he works! and its so hot there!! Oh well I guess it's going to be tough for awhile. Thanks and good luck to your son.

  • John and Yvonne

    .Kassie and other moms:

    I think your sons will do fine. But I wanted to let you know that my husband and I open our home and invite any interested sailors to come over on the weekends. We feed them and play board games on Saturday evenings and on Sunday I cook a sit down meal with home made bread and dessert and we give them a place to hang out. My husband is retired Navy so we have a heart for sailors. :) If any of you are interested, I can pm you our cell number and you can let your sons (or daughters) know about us.

    Yvonne and John

  • mom0717

    hi Forever proud..I was just wondering how long it took before they flew your son out to meet his ship that was on deployment when he arrived in Norfolk? Do you know if that timeframe is typical for someone arriving in Norfolk and needing to be flown out to meet his ship?

  • Forever proud

    Hi mom0717. My kid was in Norfolk roughly two weeks before they sent him over. I don't think there is any time frame (this is what they call being on "Navy time")- it depends on things like where the ship is operating and what they are doing. It might have been a longer wait for my son, but his ship decided to come out of the Persian Gulf to poke around in the Mediterranean for awhile, providing a prime opportunity to pick him up. They saved about 300 folks from a sinking boat before heading back to the Gulf for a few more months. Can you tell I'm a Proud Navy Mom?
  • mom0717

    Thanks so much for your input Forever proud! I am super new to all this and don't really know how things work.Norfolk seems like such a big base..my son will be moving there later this year so I am trying to learn as much as I can:) Congrats for your sailor! Sounds like he is having some great experiences!
  • Marcy ~ Corpsman Mom

    Several Hampton Roads cities ranked high on this list of the best (and worst) 150 US cities for families, including Virginia Beach at #3, and Chesapeake, VA at #8.  Nice!  http://wallethub.com/edu/best-cities-for-families/4435/

  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Thanks for sharing that list Marcy.  Our sailor lives in Virginia Beach!  We live in Riverside, CA - #63 on the list.  Guess he's doing things right lol!

  • MaggieMay

    Hello everyone!  I just joined your group but am not new to the Navy.  Here's my background:  My son has been in the Navy since 2011 and has been serving on an aircraft carrier for almost three years home ported in Japan.  His ship is on it's way to the U.S. (yeah I'm super excited about that!)  My son re-enlisted this spring and once he gets to Virginia he will be going to Mississippi for advanced schooling but then his orders will take him back to the carrier so he'll be spending several years in Virginia.  I will be coming to Virginia to see the ship come in and this is my first time to see a Homecoming (never made it to Japan). As time draws closer I'm sure I will have lots of questions but right now can any of you give me advice on where to stay.  Is there any areas of Norfolk that I should avoid?  If you get a beach front hotel can you get a glimpse of the ship coming in and still have plenty of time to drive to the base?  Yes I'm totally clueless as to what to expect!  

    Thank you all for your help and I'm looking forward to being a Virginia Mom and being part of your group!

    Have a wonderful weekend!