frandrea<3 Ship 12.Div 93

Female

Clearwater, FL

United States

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I am here to support my
Spouse/Significant other
Stage of (Sailor’s) Navy career?
Enlisted
When I heard “Navy,” I...
Was proud and encouraged it

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  • SailorsWife'10

    Aww, you definitely have friends and a whole support system on this site! If you ever need someone to talk to I have a great ear! It's hard at first, but it gets a lot easier!
  • SailorsWife'10

    I went with him to MEPS and was able to watch him get sworn in, than I went to the airport and waited 6 hours with him and the 5 other guys that was leaving with him. When we said goodbye I started to tear up a little bit but quickly turned away and went on my way. I didn't wait for the plane to take off because I didn't want to be an emotional wreck at the airport. By the time I got to my car I was okay, and started on my 2 hour drive back to my town. I picked up my dog from a friends, and drove home. I even thought to myself "this isn't that bad" and finally later that night I was sitting on my couch with my dog and realized oh my gosh.. I'm going to be alone every night for the next several nights, and I lost it. Andrea, I was such a bawl bag! Finally, the crying stopped and I got the "I'm here" phone call from him, and he asked me "Are you okay?" And I lost it again, he had about 2 seconds to shuffle me off the phone and later he apologized lol. It wasn't his fault, that's the way the Navy is. For the next few weeks it was the hardest, and than I found this site and it was like an angel guided me to it. Although sometimes I get sad, and yes I do cry, it doesn't hurt as bad as it did when he first left. It's definitely going to be a hard road, but I know that it's the right choice we made for us and our future family.

     

    Always know that you have a whole support system with this site! It's okay to vent to us, and you're doing the right thing by letting him think you're okay. He needs strength to make the next 8 weeks go by smoothly. Vent to me, to us on here, try not to him. :)

  • Pat L. in IL

    Hi Frandrea, You have been accepted in the group "MAS We Ship Love". This is where we keep the addresses for the groups we adopt through "Molly's Adopt A Sailor" so you should join "Molly's" too. If you go to Molly's home page, click on the discussion forum at the top of the page and then click "View all". There is a lot of information in "Are you new to Molly's Adopt A Sailor?". We are glad you have joined us and don't hesitate to send me a message with questions. Pat
  • Jake'sFiance (Ship12 Div 091)

    I got my fiance's box on Tuesday. Couldn't wait for it!! Anyway, I got his address from his recruiter. I'm still waiting for his form letter. Don't know if he's sending it to me, or to his mom. If he's sending it to me, I hope it comes today, or some time early next week. I've sent him a letter everyday since he left. Hopefully he has gotten them. I also sent him a calling card so he could call me. Can't wait to hear his voice. Can't wait to receive a letter from him. Just keep writing your letters. When you get his address, send them! Write him a lot. He'll like that :) I'm here if you need me.
  • Jake'sFiance (Ship12 Div 091)

    By the way, my fiance left from Tampa too.
  • SailorsWife'10

    That's excellent. :) If you ever need some advice of someone to talk to you can always count on me! :)
  • Jake'sFiance (Ship12 Div 091)

    I haven't gotten a letter either, or the form letter. I've sent him 11 letters already, and I hope he's getting them. It would kill me if he wrote me saying that he hasn't received anything and ask why I'm not writing, when I'am.

    I hope to get the form letter soon, so I know when the grad date is. That would make me so happy.

    Lets see if we can get letters in the mail this week. Cross your fingers!! :)

  • Jake'sFiance (Ship12 Div 091)

    AAAHHHHHH!!! I got 3 calls today!! He sounded good, and said he missed me and love me so much!! So good to hear his voice!!
  • Jake'sFiance (Ship12 Div 091)

    They were about 20min in between. He needed to get some information from me on the 2nd call. The first call was so unexpected. I looked at my cell and read "US GOVT". I freaked out lol I answered and said "Hello" he says "Hi..." and I started yelling "OMG"... My poor honey starts crying and starts asking me how I'am and that he misses me and loves me. I tell him and fine and he like shakes it off trying to act all tough and stops crying. Poor baby!! :) Told him I missed him like crazy. Second call he asked info about me. I asked him how bootcamp is. He said it's rough and tough. He said he got a calling card and stuff. Then we had to hang up. 3rd call he just called to say I love you and that he misses me, and he'll call me soon :D

     

    Call one was about a minute and half.

    Call two was 7 minutes.

    Call 3 was 1 minute.

     

    I'm so happy. Loved hearing his voice. He told me to stay strong :)

     

    So stay strong!! You'll get a call soon too. It's gonna be unexpected. You're gonna be so happy :)

     

  • Jake'sFiance (Ship12 Div 091)

    Phone is glued on me too =) Your hubby is gonna get a surprise haha! You sent 14 letters at once, he's not gonna know what to do haha! He's gonna be so happy =D

     

    I like your page by the way. Looks nice =) I haven't quite figured out how to make it all pretty. Where did you get the wallpaper for it?

  • Jake'sFiance (Ship12 Div 091)

    Center what icon photo?
  • Jake'sFiance (Ship12 Div 091)

    Aw! That's great that you got to talk to him :) Even though it was just "What" "Hello?" lol As long as you heard that "I love you" :) ... That's all I would need.

    I'm doin' alright. Still haven't gotten a letter. I'm hoping some time this week I will. It's the 3rd week his been gone this week. So we'll see.

    Stay strong :)

  • ashlove2317-GM C SCH. SAN DIEGO

    HI! Thanks for friending me! We are both wives and not mothers! This site has been my salvation during this. 

    How are you doing thru this?

  • Valarie26

    I bet you get ur letters tomorrow too! My hubby wrote his grandparents who live in FL and he sent his out sunday and they didnt get theirs today...so i bet tomorrow is your lucky day! He said the RDC's are starting to relax a bit and things are getting easier. He also said time is going by fast over their because they keep them so busy. They only get 2 hours to write on sundays and the RDC's told them they will start getting mail this week! They are working out a lot and he said he will be buff when I see him again lol They got their shots last week and the peanut butter HURTS!! He said he misses me like crazy but he's still glad he did it which makes me feel better. Let me know when you get your letters. He sent 2 to me and one to the whole family. And make sure to send your man lots of pics, thats what my hubby asked for.

  • FLA Robin ship 12 div 092

    Thanks I too hope yours comes today. It is cute his girlfriend has starting making him videos as well as writing him she says it helps her because she feels like she is really talking to him. Today has to be our day that we finally will get some news. I praying we all get letters today.
  • FLA Robin ship 12 div 092

    Well no mail for me today I hope your luck is different .. mailed several letters out today hopefully he is at least getting ours.
  • Jake'sFiance (Ship12 Div 091)

    I had the most AMAZING wake up call ever this morning. Jake called me :D Sooo good to hear his voice!! He's kinda sick, but hangin' in there. He said I got a lot of letters to read :D Cant wait!! He's gotten all of mine :) I ♥ him so much!!
  • Jake'sFiance (Ship12 Div 091)

    Yes. He said they only get to mail out on Sundays. He said I would be getting a letter once a week. He said, he puts everything he did for that whole week in that one envelope and then sends it. I wont get mine 'til next Thursday he said. But he said there's like 30 pages in that envelope lol So I'm gonna have lots of reading to do. He told me he wrote me for an hour everyday :)

     

    I'm guessing they get mail everyday since he's gotten all of mine. He told me to keep sending letters everyday ( demanded lol). He loves it! So keep sending your SR letters. He will really appreciate it. Also, you can send him little articles of his favorite things. I did with my SR and he really appreciated it :)

     

    Keep your phone on you at all times! (on loud, incase you're sleeping lol) You never know when you're gonna get that special call :)

  • momsnavyman

    no i am sorry to say no call yet, but it seems most of the moms/wifes havent got a call yet either. and i am not sure why a few have. one of the moms that her son went in the weekend before ours, she had not got a call yet either. maybe this is our week!!! 4 weeks tuesday!!! i am so happy for that.....i am doing ok, my son sent 1 letter and he didnt sound good. so since then its been rough....but then i here many other letters with the guys getting teeth pulled and being sick, sounds terrible. so i just keep hoping and praying for him to be ok. well gotta get to work. love your page. keep in touch,

     

     

  • capiana

    Nice to meet you...I love Your page...so Personal, My Heart is Blessed...just visiting it....Thank you for your comment. Joshua, adores His Grandfather, He is and always has been a strong support base for him...Love your pics...Best wishes & God's Blessings to You & Yours...Regards, Christi
  • FLA Robin ship 12 div 092

    I just got  a call from my son he sounds so good not a bad work about anything other than having problems with sit-ups other.. Wow finally I am so happy now I just hope everyone else gets a call now. He said this is the first time they have been allowed to call and he doesn't have time to write much because he is the Religious Petty Officer and spends most free time in the Church helping others. which I love to hear. Let me know how your doing..
  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    Hi frandrea My husband and ur sailor are in 2 differnt divisions but there r two divisions that are in the same room so when My husband gets to call so will your sailor. My husband is in div 094 and i havent gotten any phone calls since the im here call. So just keep praying for him to call. Thats what I have been doing.
  • Lala Ribbon Queen PIR Ribbons

    I saw you are from Clearwater, that is where my fiance is from. We went there for vacation this summer, well that area lol. Can't wait to go back and see all of his family again. Your pictures are very sweet. Good luck to you and your sailor :)
  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    Any Call yet....I am hoping that it is any day now.
  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    As soon as I get a call I will get on here and let the whole world no...trust me. Good luck and lets just hope he doesnt call during that 45 min.
  • joy4m

    sorrie i just checked my email.... well he's been there since dec 7..... according to him there isn't really much to do there... and everything is far away!!!! i think he said it takes about an hour to get to the closest mall which is only 1 story and not that many stores there.... i'm hoping he'll be done this week b4 he heads to san diego for his station..... to get liberty you have to pass some qualifications.... he says it should be within a week depending on what day he gets there.... but there is a bowling alley and pool place on base..... and he hates the cold weather out there too.... if you are planning on going to grad during rtc i suggest to bring  his phone and what ever else he might like so when he heads over there he can have it with him.... but see if you can meet him at the airport to give it to him since they aren't allowed to bring anything back to base with them.... it's been hard on me and my kids too since my husband has been gone..... but they're just glad they can video chat with him almost every day..... well hopes this helps let me know if you need any more info.... take care
  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    I got my phone call 15 mins I would say...I saw the area code pop up on my tv and I was like it's josh!!!!! I was so excited I didn't want to say goodbye.
  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    He's doing good. Bored out of his mind he said that boot camp is crazy easy. They just have to study alot and they have pt every other day. He's in good spirits knowing that we are half way through. And he misses and loves my son and I as much as we miss and love him. He wants me to keep on writing detailed letters and send photos asap.
  • Truth4Kids

    Hi Andrea,

     My son mentioned Div 93 & 94 being sponsored by Camp David. I'm pretty sure he said weapons intro & training started this week, as he was very excited about this part.

    He sounded great on the phone this Sunday!  : )  He's happy and making some good friends. Where is your guy going for A-school?

  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    How r u doing grl?
  • twogirl91

    He's in 091.
  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    I got a letter from him yesterday. The phone call helped but its still hard. 4 more weeks, I am counting down. I can't stop thinking about him.
  • diannep

    Mine was a yeoman and went to Misssissippi.  Bussed out to airport early on Sat. morning a yr ago....
  • diannep

    Don't apologize...we are on here to answer questions!  :-)
  • twogirl91

    Actually it is the year I was born, but it did work out nicely that he's in that division. lol
  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    long tie no talk...how r you holding up??
  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    Not to bad getting letters for often, hes doing good cant wait for it to be over...how is ur guy holding up?
  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    Yes I got another letter today, I now get them on monday,thursday and saturdays...you probably didnt get one today because maybe he didnt have time to hand it in or maybe he had watch when they were. My hubbys div is doing realy well he's past evrything and I believethey have gotten all but 1 flag. He is really excited about when they went to the live fire range...he says they are starting to get into the more exciting things, and that he took the pictures...I just hope he got the biggest package, but noing him he probably got the smallest or none at all, he hates his picture takein, well girly keep me updated and I will keep you updated as well, when do you drive/fly out to chicago??
  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    I'm driving and either leaving tuesday or Wednesday not so sure, I'm going with my hubby's parents, and we r leaving from ny state which should be fun.
  • joshswife (ship 12 div 094)

    i no im so excited!!!!!!!!!
  • abrock06 (USS Benfold)

    He's in Div 102 and I know! I can't believe it! But I know these last couple weeks are going to be horrible!
  • abrock06 (USS Benfold)

    I love your "you know you're missing a sailor when", it's soo true!