California_JeepHer

Female

Madera, Ca

United States

Profile Information:

A little about me:
I am a 2nd time Navy mom.
I am here to support my
Son/Daughter
Stage of (Sailor’s) Navy career?
Waiting to leave for Boot Camp
When I heard “Navy,” I...
was proud and encouraged it
Our Navy experience so far...
has been positive and maturing.

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  • belovedbyHim

    Welcome!! Please read my blog to give you an idea of what the first few weeks may look like.. First Things First-- The Quarantine Edition Up and to the Left is a link to all the Navy Lingo! It is titled Navy Speak and you can find it here. We are here to get you through the “Great Silence” of the next 4 weeks (ish) and the 8 weeks of BC (ish). You will come to learn that No News Is GOOD News and everything is Needs of the Navy. You life will be Hurry Up and Wait and it’s ok to make plans but they are subject to change until after they have happened so it’s best to embrace the Motto: Semper Gumby!! (Always Flexible!!)

    The Expected timeline will look like this
    Day 0 -- Travel, Arrival and "I'm Here" scripted phone call
    Day 1-14 -- ROM (Restriction of Movement/ Quarantine-- Lots of studying and waiting)
    Day 15-21 Arrive Onboard RTC and begin P-days (P-days- Initial Processing Days) including 2 days of P-hold (Weekend)
    Day 21-- Complete P days. (Initial PFT & Run)
    Day 22-- Begin training and mail form letter out. Look for it to arrive around 1-2 weeks later)
    All of this is assuming no exposure to COVID with additional ROM
    Training typically occurs Monday - Friday but we have heard rumors that Saturday’s are now training days as well.
    Normal PIR will be 8 Fridays after departure from Home but it can be less by 1 but it can be extended by ???? (lots!!) It just depends on how many times they get caught in the “Ring of Fire” but do not get COVID. IF they get COVID, Once they are recovered they will not be removed from training again even if they are in the “Ring of Fire”. (so there is that small silver lining if kids get sick)

    Since you have a son or daughter that is getting ready to leave for boot camp soon please sit down with them and have a real good talk about what to expect. 

    Since Covid has hit things have been all over the place - they get put in quarantine, they get out of quarantine, they get put back in quarantine. A normal 8 week boot camp can drag on much longer and it can take a huge mental toll on them. It's important that they understand THIS IS ONLY TEMPORARY! They need to be physically strong but more importantly they need to be MENTALLY STRONG! 

    Let them know that they probably won't even get a letter from home until they are at least HALF WAY through boot camp. NO you haven't forgotten about them - it just takes that long for them to train someone in the mail room so they can get their mail. The first couple of weeks they may question their decision to join - and that's normal! But they need to be strong. This is just the beginning of their Navy career and they need to learn to be FLEXIBLE. 

    Remind them they are STRONG and THEY CAN DO THIS. Before they leave ask them HOW BAD DO YOU WANT THIS?

  • Chipmunk

    California_JeepHer  - Glad to see you join the BC Mom group. I follow the new members and had a message that you had joined. Your profile says you are a 2nd time Navy Mom - is your other sailor still enlisted? Feel free to come share your past experiences and your current ones with us in the group. 

  • partyofseven

    Welcome California_JeepHer,

    We are glad you are here. Please tell your other one Thank your Sailor for their service. Glad you are here and welcome again!!!