Susan

Female

East Carondelet, IL

United States

Profile Information:

A little about me:
Mother of 3 children , the oldest going to boot camp on Dec. 6th and I’m really having a hard time coping with him leaving.
I am here to support my
Son/Daughter
Stage of (Sailor’s) Navy career?
Waiting to leave for Boot Camp
When I heard “Navy,” I...
had concerns or fears
The Navy offers opportunities that...
I hope will be beneficial for my son.
Our Navy experience so far...
is a work in progress!

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  • B'sNukeMoM⚓️MMN(Vet)

    Welcome to NAVYforMoms.com!   

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  • belovedbyHim

    Welcome!! Please read my blog to give you an idea of what the first few weeks may look like.. First Things First-- The Quarantine Edition Up and to the Left is a link to all the Navy Lingo! It is titled Navy Speak and you can find it here. We are here to get you through the “Great Silence” of the next 4 weeks (ish) and the 10 weeks of BC (ish). You will come to learn that No News Is GOOD News and everything is Needs of the Navy. You life will be Hurry Up and Wait and it’s ok to make plans but they are subject to change until after they have happened so it’s best to embrace the Motto: Semper Gumby!! (Always Flexible!!)

    The Expected timeline will look like this
    Day 0 -- Travel, Arrival and "I'm Here" scripted phone call

    Week 1&2
    Day 1-14 -- ROM (Restriction of Movement/ Quarantine-- Lots of studying and waiting) Unless they are Fully Vaccinated (2 weeks after final shot) in which case they skip straight to Week 3.

    Week 3
    Day 15-21 Arrive Onboard RTC and begin P-days (P-days- Initial Processing Days) including 2 days of P-hold (Weekend)
    Day 21-- Complete P days. (Initial PFT & Run)

    Week 4- First week of training 
    Day 22-- Begin training and mail form letter out. Look for it to arrive around 1-2 weeks later

    Week 5 -- First inspections and tests (Dental May be this week or next... Not Confirmed)(Form letter/ Personal letters usually arrive this week)

    Week 6 -8 -- More training, Drilling (Flags and Marching), Fire Fighting training, Marlinspike (Line handling- How to tie up a Ship to the Pier) and weapons lessons, Confidence chamber( May or may not be happening yet, we don’t know for sure).. Warrior training in here somewhere.

    Week 9 & 10 -- Stressful!! They have all their final inspections, PFA, Drills, BS21 and Tests. This is the lead up to the end!!


    All of this is assuming no exposure to COVID with additional ROM
    Training typically occurs Monday - Friday but we have heard rumors that Saturday’s are now training days as well.
    Normal PIR will be 10 Fridays after departure from Home but it can be less by 1 but it can be extended by ???? (lots!!) It just depends on how many times they get caught in the “Ring of Fire” but do not get COVID. IF they get COVID, Once they are recovered they will not be removed from training again even if they are in the “Ring of Fire”. (so there is that small silver lining if kids get sick)
    I'm glad to see that you are on the BC Moms page. You are among those who "Get It". 

  • belovedbyHim

    Susan -- Yes if he was unvaccinated he will have 2 weeks of ROM.  It's a lot of Sitting around and waiting.  They may or May not begin the process upon arrival.  We haven't heard any definitive answer on that. 
    I Know it's only been a day and your emotions are all over the place.  I PROMISE it Will BE OK!! I'll post later about how I fell apart when my sailor went in.  We are currently at 8 1/2 years and he's planning on staying for the full 20.  You Will find your sea legs and be able to chart a path through these turbulent waters.  We are here to guide you. We won't let you drown in your fears and confusion.