Hi, My son leaves for a hotel near MEPS on the 19th, goes to MEPS on the 20th and then goes to the airport to go to BC.  We went to MEPS when he entered into the DEP program a few months ago.  I'm trying to decide if I want to say my goodbyes to him at our home before the recruiter takes him to the hotel or if I want to drive in horrible traffic the next day for 2 hours  and see the swearing in a…