BunkerQB's Posts - Navy For Moms2024-03-28T15:41:56ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBeehttps://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1927240450?profile=RESIZE_48X48&width=48&height=48&crop=1%3A1https://navyformoms.ning.com/profiles/blog/feed?user=2g9war6rjsgu6&xn_auth=noIRS SCAMS - Beware of Strange Callers.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2015-04-10:1971797:BlogPost:90133072015-04-10T17:49:27.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p><strong>PLEASE ALERT EVERYONE YOU KNOW. I JUST GOT ONE OF THESE CALLS. SHE ASKED ME TO CALL 646-543-6910 ASAP OR RISK BEING ARRESTED.</strong> See attached article from newspaper. Everyone is vulnerable. They will ask money to be wired or transferred. Or they will ask for personal information such as Social Security Number, address, etc.…</p>
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<p><strong>PLEASE ALERT EVERYONE YOU KNOW. I JUST GOT ONE OF THESE CALLS. SHE ASKED ME TO CALL 646-543-6910 ASAP OR RISK BEING ARRESTED.</strong> See attached article from newspaper. Everyone is vulnerable. They will ask money to be wired or transferred. Or they will ask for personal information such as Social Security Number, address, etc.</p>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>THE MENU BAR.</strong></span> The tabs on the menu bar just underneath the Navy For Moms masthead will take you to different areas of this site. </p>
<ol>
<li><strong>My Page.</strong> This tab will take you to your personal page. You should check this periodically (<strong>daily is best</strong>) to see if anyone has left a message on your "Comment Wall". You'll find in your welcoming message a link to our…</li>
</ol>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>THE MENU BAR.</strong></span> The tabs on the menu bar just underneath the Navy For Moms masthead will take you to different areas of this site. </p>
<ol>
<li><strong>My Page.</strong> This tab will take you to your personal page. You should check this periodically (<strong>daily is best</strong>) to see if anyone has left a message on your "Comment Wall". You'll find in your welcoming message a link to our <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/survival-guide-for-navy-for-moms-newbie" target="_blank">Survival Guide for Newbies.</a></li>
<li><strong>About Us.</strong> This section will contain Community Guidelines, OPSEC information, history of Navy For Moms.</li>
<li><strong>Members.</strong> In this section, you find icon of all members starting with the most recent. There are now over 66,000+ members. Hard to believe sometimes considering just a fraction of this member participate in any of the forum discussions, blogs, groups or chat. If you are a habitual LURKERS, get out from behind the anonymity and say something. Post comments on your groups pages. Respond to forum discussions, blogs. If you don't this site will die - that simple.</li>
<li><strong>Events.</strong> You can add an EVENT to the Navy 4 Moms calendar. Check out what is happening around the country.</li>
<li><strong>Forum</strong>. In this section, you'll find a number of categories from "General" to "How to Find Stuff on N4M" to Bootcamp" etc. Before you start a discussion, put it in the right category.</li>
<li><strong>Groups.</strong> In this section, you find all the groups that have been added from Day 1. We have tabulated a list of certain groups (those associated with PIR dates, ships). The group creator can make the group private or public. She/He can assign co admins. Within the group, there are discussions and pages for organizing information. Please do not start a separate group for a division within a PIR date. Some one will start a general group for each PIR date. Separate divisions are listed under the "Discussion Sections" (within the group) Small groups get lost in the shuffle. After you click on the GROUPS tab, you see "My Groups" in small print on upper left. Clicking on this will take you to a list of groups that you have joined. It's simple to join a group, just click on the +JOIN on the upper right.</li>
<li><strong>Blogs.</strong> Just a running stream of consciousness - you can say anything you want. Keep in mind this is a public site.</li>
<li><strong>Chat.</strong> Just like a blog but in short hand and in real time. More than one conversation may be going. People jump in and out. If you are not getting answers to questions immediately, doesn't necessarily mean no one is paying attention. SOME ONE has to look up a link or an explanation, input the information and hit return. In the meantime five to ten lines may appear. Be patient. In attempt to say the most with the least number of words, many responses may seem rude or abrupt. The responders are just regular moms - all here for the same reasons that you are - getting or giving support while their loved ones are fulfilling their military service. Think of this as a merry-go-round. It's fun when it spins fast. A real drag when it's slow. So run along side and hop on.</li>
</ol>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>YOUR STATUS BOX.</strong></span> This is located on the upper right. INBOX, ALERTS, FRIENDS, SETTINGS. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">You should look at this every time you log on.</span></p>
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<li><strong>INBOX</strong> - will show you how many messages you have from another N4M member. Only members who are friends send private messages to each other (you can send to multiple recipients). Click on INBOX, then +Compose to write and send a message.<span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><br/></strong></span></li>
<li><strong>ALERTS</strong> - Alerts are messages sent to you by Apps you or your friends have added. Personally, I don't have any apps on N4M. So I don't get any alerts.</li>
<li><strong>FRIENDS</strong> - click on this and the page will show "My Friends", "Requests Received" and "Requests Sent" - if you have a friend request, you'll see the number in parenthesis on your status box.</li>
<li><strong>SETTINGS</strong> - will take you to a section to alter the appearance of you personal page. Be sure you text and background are not the same color (for obvious reasons), don't mess w this until you feel comfortable. Here you can change your password or use name(screen name) . THIS IS WHERE YOU GO IF YOU HAVE INCLUDED <strong>YOU LAST NAME IN YOUR USER NAME</strong>. You set your email notification, your privacy setting (by making your page private only your N4M friends will be able to view it).</li>
</ol>
<p><strong>REMEMBER THESE TIPS, IT'LL SAVE YOU HOURS OF FRUSTRATION.</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>Check your personal page (MY PAGE on menu bar) regularly.</li>
<li>Check your status box (on upper right) daily.</li>
<li>If you are getting <strong>too many email notifications</strong>, you can stop that by simply clicking on "Stop Following" where ever you see it. You can go to the "Settings" section to specify your email notifications on everything. <strong>Just remember to check your page and inbox if you set it to eliminate all email notifications</strong>.</li>
<li>Email notifications are just that. When you receive a notification in your normal regular email address, you can NOT reply to the notification. You have to log on to Navy 4 Moms, click on "Inbox", click on the message then reply.</li>
<li>Do some research on your own. In <strong>Groups, Forum and in Blogs</strong>, use the <strong>SEARCH</strong> function. Just input the key words you in the topic you are interested in within the Search Box, then hit the little icon just to the right.</li>
<li>If some takes the time to writ a response, please take the time to read it. Can't remember what you said in the past - go to your personal page, just underneath your photo on the left, you'll see a groups, discussions, blogs - click on this.</li>
<li>To add a friend, click on the personal icon, then click "Add as friend" - the recipient of your request will have to accept. After you are friends, you can communicate by private message if you like.</li>
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<p><strong>Please remember we are all just moms, wives, dads, girlfriends - just human being - none of us (with a few exceptions) are paid to be on this site. You may or may not get the responses you want to hear. Depends on who is here and has time to writ out a reply. Take each response as a merely a personal opinion from that individual. You should take responsibility and do your due diligence and research the topic within Navy 4 Moms and in other site. Google the topic - you'll be surprise at what turns up.<br/></strong></p>
<p><strong>The are a number of official Navy site that you should go to on a regular basis. In particular the <a href="http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/" target="_blank">Recruit Training Command</a> site and the information in the</strong> <a href="http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/pdfs/FamilyGuide.pdf" target="_blank">"A Family's Guide To Recruit Training"</a> (This is a PDF file. Print it out. Refer to it often. This is your primary source of info.)</p>
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<p>For your convenience (and as an example) - here is a list of groups for upcoming PIR dates. Just click on the links below to go to the groups directly. Good luck to all.</p>
<p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://navyformoms.com/group/pir08152014" target="_blank"><b><font color="#242C51">PIR: 08/15/2014</font></b></a> TG 40 - ? Divisions (247 - ? & 940) more updates coming</p>
<p> <span class="font-size-2"><strong><span style="color: #888888;"><a rel="nofollow" href="http://navyformoms.com/group/pir08082014" target="_self">PIR: 08/08/2014</a></span></strong> TG 39 - ? Divisions (239 - 247, 817 & 939) updates coming<br/></span></p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://navyformoms.com/group/pir08012014" target="_blank">PIR: 08/01/2014</a></strong> TG 38 - 9 Divisions (231-238 & 938) 4 guests </p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://navyformoms.com/group/pir07252014" target="_self">PIR: 07/25/2014</a></strong> TG 37 - 7 Divisioins (225-230 & 937) 4 guests</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://navyformoms.com/group/pir07182014" target="_blank">PIR: 07/18/2014</a></strong> TG 36 - 7 Divisions (219-224 & 936) 4 guests</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://navyformoms.com/group/pir07112014" target="_blank">PIR: 07/11/2014</a></strong> TG 35 - 7 Divisions (215-218, 815, 816 & 935) 4 guests</p>
<p> <b><a rel="nofollow" href="http://navyformoms.com/group/pir07032014" target="_blank">PIR: 07/03/2014</a></b> TG 34 - 5 Divisions (211-214 & 934) 4 guests</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://navyformoms.com/group/pir06272014" target="_self">PIR: 06/27/2014</a></strong> TG 33 - 5 Divisions (207-210 & 933) 4 guests</p>
<p>LINKS that pertain to PIR.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/things-to-do-in-the-last-month-before-your-future-sailor-leaves" target="_blank">Things to Do in the Last Month Before Your Future Sailor Leaves For the RTC</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-pir-date" target="_blank">GROUPS: Listed By PIR Date </a> (PIR groups have been formed to May 24, 2013. It's current as of the date of the revision of this BLOG. We keep a listed of all the groups and this listed is updated as soon as a PIR group has been formed)</p>
<p>Your recruit would benefit by joining the site - <a href="http://www.navydep.com/forums/index.php" target="_blank">NavyDEP.com</a> created and run by Craig, a site exclusively made for recruits ONLY. Your recruit could ask questions and meet other recruits going thru the same process.</p>
<p> <strong><em>Cry but don't cry endlessly because it prevents you from savoring this special time. Watch your recruit grow up right before your eyes. It's an amazing journey. Then give yourself a well deserved pat on the back. And by all means come back here and let us all know how he/she is doing. We all just love sailor news. And lastly, if this site has helped you in your journey, please please come back and contribute. Just a comment here and there will make all the difference.</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em> </em></strong>BunkerQB</p>DON'T CLICK ON ANY OF THE LIVE STREAM LINKS from ANYONE. Opening link might infect your computer w virus.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2013-12-22:1971797:BlogPost:83122322013-12-22T18:47:19.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p><strong>LOW LIFES who have posted: LuciFranki, Alexandra Clark, sayrusbago, akzendamingo and now ducati. HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR THOSE SERVING IN THE MILITARY. </strong> Please go away and leave these moms/wives alone.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>WE WILL CONTINUE TO MONITOR AND REPORT TO THE NAVY FOR MOMS ADMIN ASAP AS SOON AS ONE OF THESE BLOGS POPPED UP.</strong></span></p>
<p><strong>LOW LIFES who have posted: LuciFranki, Alexandra Clark, sayrusbago, akzendamingo and now ducati. HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR THOSE SERVING IN THE MILITARY. </strong> Please go away and leave these moms/wives alone.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>WE WILL CONTINUE TO MONITOR AND REPORT TO THE NAVY FOR MOMS ADMIN ASAP AS SOON AS ONE OF THESE BLOGS POPPED UP.</strong></span></p>DON'T CLICK ON ANY OF THE LIVE STREAM LINKS from Alexandria Clarke. We have no way of verifying the links.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2013-11-10:1971797:BlogPost:83000862013-11-10T17:00:00.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p>We don't know if opening these links will infect your computer with some virus. Go watch these shows on your own network TV (Direct TV, Comcast, etc). Find a Live stream link directly from the source. </p>
<p>Alexandria, if you are not legit - go away. Please.</p>
<p>We don't know if opening these links will infect your computer with some virus. Go watch these shows on your own network TV (Direct TV, Comcast, etc). Find a Live stream link directly from the source. </p>
<p>Alexandria, if you are not legit - go away. Please.</p>Sooo Quiet Here.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2013-10-24:1971797:BlogPost:82707952013-10-24T03:02:09.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p>Hmm .. the only exciting blog to come along in months and I missed it.</p>
<p>BunkerQB,</p>
<p>Former Class A Helicopter Mom,</p>
<p>Now a mellow soon-to-be retiree (with any hope and if I am lucky).</p>
<p>Hmm .. the only exciting blog to come along in months and I missed it.</p>
<p>BunkerQB,</p>
<p>Former Class A Helicopter Mom,</p>
<p>Now a mellow soon-to-be retiree (with any hope and if I am lucky).</p>WE WILL NEVER FORGET.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2013-09-11:1971797:BlogPost:63961102013-09-11T19:32:46.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
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<p><a target="_self" href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974667157?profile=original"><img width="750" class="align-full" src="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974667157?profile=RESIZE_1024x1024" width="750"/></a></p>We Are All In This Together. We are all Americans.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2013-02-27:1971797:BlogPost:76411692013-02-27T01:57:01.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p>Dear MY3SONS,</p>
<p>I assume you have encountered a disagreeable episode in one of your groups. I don't see any discussion posted currently which indicate an religious bashing. If it happens in one of your groups, then contact the group creator or admin. If the creator of the group is long-gone and there are no admins, then contact Colleen, the Navy For Moms admin. There are a number of Christian based groups on this side and they are very active (Prayer Wall and Christian Chat) with many…</p>
<p>Dear MY3SONS,</p>
<p>I assume you have encountered a disagreeable episode in one of your groups. I don't see any discussion posted currently which indicate an religious bashing. If it happens in one of your groups, then contact the group creator or admin. If the creator of the group is long-gone and there are no admins, then contact Colleen, the Navy For Moms admin. There are a number of Christian based groups on this side and they are very active (Prayer Wall and Christian Chat) with many members who would welcome your participation. To the best of my recollection, we don't have many groups based on other religions. But all groups should be welcomed on this site.</p>
<p>My opinion.</p>
<p>We are all Americans - don't care where you came from, what you believe - remember where you are and the country to which you owe allegiance.</p>
<p>I don't believe we should be bashing anyone based on religion, race, gender, gay/straight, appearance, ethnicity. It is hard enough to sustain a livelihood as it is.</p>
<p>BunkerQB.</p>
<p>Note: I am being sincere. I expect the same from all responders. All responses will be published. Please do not use foul language.</p>
<p></p>Sample Form Letter. Looking for others in same Div or Ship? PIR Groups (listed to 7/19/2013).tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2012-11-19:1971797:BlogPost:67943212012-11-19T22:00:00.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>THE FORM LETTER:</strong></span></p>
<p><em>Within a week after your recruit arrives at Great Lakes, you'll get THE BOX containing his old cloths and other personal items (look for his cell phone in his shoes). Next, you'll get the form letter with four important items.</em></p>
<ol>
<li>Your recruit's <strong>SHIP # and DIVISION #</strong> (Ships which are their barracks are also named, like USS Triton, USS Reuben James. Don't confuse these with the…</li>
</ol>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>THE FORM LETTER:</strong></span></p>
<p><em>Within a week after your recruit arrives at Great Lakes, you'll get THE BOX containing his old cloths and other personal items (look for his cell phone in his shoes). Next, you'll get the form letter with four important items.</em></p>
<ol>
<li>Your recruit's <strong>SHIP # and DIVISION #</strong> (Ships which are their barracks are also named, like USS Triton, USS Reuben James. Don't confuse these with the real life actual Navy vessels in service)<br/> Just below that is his <strong>address. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">USE THIS ADDRESS FOR YOUR LETTERS.</span><br/></strong></li>
<li>Further down, you'll find his <strong>graduation date</strong>. This is his <span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>PIR (Pass In Review/Boot Camp graduation) date</strong>.</span></li>
<li>Next, you'll see the password needed to download the <strong>parking pass</strong></li>
<li>Finally, you'll see the <strong>four names (or three if there are many divisions) </strong> your recruit has listed official as his guests. (4 per recruit)</li>
</ol>
<p><em>If you are lucky, you'll find a very brief note from your recruit. There is not much room to write, so don't be disappointed. It's most important that you review the information on the <a href="http://Children%20age%202%20and%20younger%20do%20not%20need%20to%20be%20listed%20on%20the%20access%20list%20and%20will%20not%20count%20toward%20the%20maximum%20number%20of%20gue%20sts." target="_blank">Family Guide from the Recruit Training Command</a>. Print it out and make notes. <strong><br/></strong></em></p>
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<p>If you have received your form letter, find your PIR date and join one of the established groups listed below. Keep this letter in a safe place and/or scan and save on your hard disk as a backup.</p>
<p>Just click on the underlined links below to go to the groups for the PIR dates (normally a Friday). When the page opens up, join the group by click +JOIN on upper right. Good luck and thank you to all Sailor Recruits and their families.</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/pir07192013" target="_blank">PIR: 7/19/2013</a></strong> TG 36 (to be updated - Begins w Div 267?? & contains Div 936)</p>
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<p> <span class="font-size-2"><strong><span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; color: black; font-size: 10pt;"><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/pir07122013" target="_blank">PIR: 7/12/2013</a></span></strong> <span style="font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; color: black; font-size: 10pt;">TG 35 -</span></span> <span class="font-size-2"><span style="color: black; font-family: 'Arial','sans-serif'; font-size: 10pt;">9 Divisions (257-264 & 935)</span></span></p>
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<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/pir07032013" target="_blank">PIR: 7/03/2013</a></strong> TG 34 - 11 Divisions (247-256 & 934) NOTE: Wednesday</p>
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<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/pir06282013" target="_blank">PIR: 6/28/2013</a></strong> TG 33 - 12 Divisions (237 to 246 & 933)</p>
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<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/pir06212013" target="_blank">PIR: 6/21/2013</a></strong> TG 32 - 9 Divisions (229-236 & 932)</p>
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<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/pir06142013" target="_blank">PIR: 6/14/2013</a></strong> TG 31 - 9 Divisioins (221-228 & 931)</p>
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<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/pir06072013" target="_blank">PIR: 6/07/2013</a></strong> TG 30 - 11 Divisions (213-220, 812, 813 & 930)</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/pir05312013" target="_blank">PIR: 5/31/2013</a></strong> TG 29 - 10 Divisions (205-212,811 & 929) </p>
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<p><em><strong><span class="font-size-3">Looking for your alumni PIR group? Click <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-pir-date" target="_blank">HERE</a>.</span></strong></em></p>
<p><em> </em></p>
<p><strong>If you have not visited the Navy RTC site, please do so ASAP. Print out the Family Guide. This is the official word.</strong> Note the new page which was recently added with information regarding Military Personnel Attending PIR.</p>
<p><span class="font-size-3"><em><strong><a href="http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil" target="_blank">Recruit Training Command </a></strong> <span class="font-size-2"><a href="http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil" target="_blank">(clickable link)</a></span><strong><a href="http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil" target="_blank"><br/></a></strong></em></span></p>
<p><span class="font-size-3"><em><strong><a href="http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/pdfs/FamilyGuide_v27JAN12.pdf" target="_blank">Family Guide</a></strong> <span class="font-size-2"><a href="http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/pdfs/FamilyGuide_v27JAN12.pdf" target="_blank">(clickable link)</a></span></em></span></p>
<p><em>If your recruit has not left for boot camp yet, consider joining the following groups:</em></p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/bootcampmoms" target="_blank">BOOT CAMP MOMS</a></strong> (clickable link)</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/deppersinbutnotyet?" target="_blank">NAVY MEPS & DEP FAMILIES</a></strong> (clickable link)</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em>You will also learn a great deal about what your recruit will be going through by watching the videos, looking at the powerpoint presentation, diagrams and other information contain in the</em> <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/survival-guide-for-navy-for-moms-newbie" target="_blank"><span style="color: #ff0000;">N4M Survival Guide</span></a></span></strong><em><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;"> </span></strong> <span class="font-size-2"><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">(clickable link) - this guide has everything you need. You'll always be able to find it in the featured FORUM discussions.</span><br/></strong></span></em></p>
<p><em><strong><em><strong>Here is what the form letter will look like, courtesy of Denise .. a Retired Seabee mom. For your convenience, the four important areas are highlighted.</strong></em></strong></em></p>Where are all those good links?tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2012-11-08:1971797:BlogPost:74578242012-11-08T22:30:00.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<div class="xg_user_generated"><p><strong><em>Just as a reminder .............</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Looking for N4M members from the same PIR (Boot Camp Graduation) date?</em></strong></p>
<p> Click on this link: <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-pir-date" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">GROUPS: Listed By PIR Date</a></p>
<p><strong><em>Need help in preparing for attending PIR, where to stay, how to get there, ordering…</em></strong></p>
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<div class="xg_user_generated"><p><strong><em>Just as a reminder .............</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>Looking for N4M members from the same PIR (Boot Camp Graduation) date?</em></strong></p>
<p> Click on this link: <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-pir-date" target="_blank">GROUPS: Listed By PIR Date</a></p>
<p><strong><em>Need help in preparing for attending PIR, where to stay, how to get there, ordering pictures?</em></strong></p>
<p> Click on this link: <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/pirreferenceinformation" target="_blank">PIR Reference Information</a></p>
<p><strong><em>What is the site that contains all the official information?</em></strong></p>
<p> Click on this link: <a href="http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/index.asp" target="_blank">Recruit Training Command</a></p>
<p><strong><em>How do I find the RTC Family Guide?</em></strong></p>
<p> Click on this link: <a href="http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/pdfs/FamilyGuide.pdf" target="_blank">Family Guide From RTC site (pdf file)</a></p>
<p><strong><em>Are you a brand new member and your son/daughter is about to ship out?</em></strong></p>
<p> Click on these links: <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/bootcampmoms" target="_blank">Boot Camp Moms group</a></p>
<p> <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/newmomsstophere" target="_blank">New Members Stop Here group</a></p>
<p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/things-to-do-in-the-last-month-before-your-future-sailor-leaves" target="_blank">Things to Do the Last Month Before Recruit Goes to RTC</a></p>
<p> <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/extra-guests-will-no-longer-be-allowed-into-the-graduation-pir" target="_blank">Extra Guests - Will No Longer Be Allowed for PIR</a></p>
<p><strong><em>Does your recruit (a depper) need extra help and has questions?</em></strong></p>
<p> Click on this link: <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navydep.com/forums/index.php" target="_blank">NAVYdep.com</a></p>
<p> This is a site created just for the recruits.</p>
<p><strong><em>Looking for N4M members with the same rating?</em></strong></p>
<p> Click on this link: <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-navy-job" target="_blank">GROUPS: Listed By Navy Job (Ratings)</a></p>
<p> <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/ratings-a-school-locations-and" target="_blank">Ratings, A School Locations and Links to Groups</a></p>
<p><strong><em>Looking for N4M members on the same Navy vessel (ship/boat)?</em></strong></p>
<p> Click on this link: <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-name-of-us" target="_blank">GROUPS Listed By Name of US Naval Ships</a></p>
<strong><em>Do you find this site confusing? and don't know where to go?</em></strong><br/>
<p> Click on this link: <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/profiles/blogs/new-moms-please-some-time-amp" target="_blank">Please Take Some Time & Learn To Use This Site</a></p>
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<p><em><strong>ALL OF THE ABOVE INFORMATION CAN BE FOUND IN THE SURVIVAL GUIDE</strong></em></p>
<p> Click on this link: <a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/survival-guide-for-navy-for-moms-newbie" target="_blank">Survival Guide for N4M Moms Newbies</a></p>
</div>Nuke Power School - Charleston, SC. YouTube video.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2012-09-15:1971797:BlogPost:73428632012-09-15T17:44:52.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p>For those w future nukes. Great video.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mh-HXQ5r8a8">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mh-HXQ5r8a8</a></p>
<p>For those w future nukes. Great video.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mh-HXQ5r8a8">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mh-HXQ5r8a8</a></p>All about Navy For Mom GROUPS (on menu bar above).tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2012-05-15:1971797:BlogPost:70624332012-05-15T08:30:00.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p>As of May 14, 2012 we have 1440 Groups. Many (149) have fewer than 4 members. If you are thinking of starting a group, please check to see if there is an existing group with the same focus. Click on GROUPS. In the search box on the left, input keywords (for example, "Sub Mom", "Norfolk", "A School Great Lakes", "PIR June 2009"). To the right of the search box, you'll see the sort options (Most Members, Most Activity, Latest Activity, Latest, Alphabetical).</p>
<p>To start a…</p>
<p>As of May 14, 2012 we have 1440 Groups. Many (149) have fewer than 4 members. If you are thinking of starting a group, please check to see if there is an existing group with the same focus. Click on GROUPS. In the search box on the left, input keywords (for example, "Sub Mom", "Norfolk", "A School Great Lakes", "PIR June 2009"). To the right of the search box, you'll see the sort options (Most Members, Most Activity, Latest Activity, Latest, Alphabetical).</p>
<p>To start a group: </p>
<ul>
<li>Click <b>Groups</b> on menu bar, click <b>+ADD</b></li>
<li><b>Name</b>: the name should be indicative of what the group is for (or about)</li>
<li><b>Add a photo</b>: click on the photo icon, upload a file from your hard drive</li>
<li><b>Group Address:</b> this is internet address for your group. It will be something like this <br/> <a href="http://www.navyformoms/group/">http://www.navyformoms/group/</a><br/> The string of characters after "group/" is what you will enter. For example, for my local geographical group, <br/> San Francisco Bay Area Navy Families, the group address is <br/> <a href="http://www.navyformoms/group/sfbayareanavyfamilies">http://www.navyformoms/group/sfbayareanavyfamilies</a><br/> You can see it's important to have the <b>Group Address</b> and the <b>Name</b> be related (correspond to each other)<br/> <i>Note: you can change the NAME of the group any time you want but the internet address is unique and can not be changed after the fact. Changing the address for all intends and purposes is like starting a new group. All comments, group discussions, photos, members will stay with the old internet address. Some will argue, yes you can change the internet address - this is not true. What the NING programmers did last year was to redirect the new address to the old address, thus it looks like you were able to changed the address. It is better to leave it alone. THIS IS CALLED THE URL (Uniform Resource Locator). You'll see this on your browser. Look near the top of your page (typically under File, Edit, View - Mozilla Firefox or MS Internet Explorer), see the box with that begins with "www" or "http:www" ? Notice how this changes when you go from one site to another.<br/></i></li>
<li><b>Website:</b> If your group has another website, enter it here. You'll see the "http://" part again</li>
<li><b>Privacy Setting:</b> Public or Private. You can change this anything by clicking on "OPTIONS", then "Edit Group"</li>
<li><b>Features:</b> You should check Comments, Discussion Forum, Text Box and RSS Reader (if you plan on having a RSS Feed). TEXT BOX is the section located just below the description of the group and above the group discusions. Click here <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/sfbayareanavyfamilies" target="_blank">San Francisco Bay Area Navy Families</a> to see an example. I use this area for special announcement, calendars, dates, links ... anything you want.</li>
<li><b>Members:</b> Self explanatory.</li>
<li><b>Messages:</b> Check here only if you want members of your group to be able to send out group messages. </li>
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<p><strong>FINDING YOUR WAY AROUND THE GROUP'S PAGE.</strong> Using <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/sfbayareanavyfamilies" target="_blank">San Francisco Bay Area Navy Families</a> again as an example, you'll see the title and other basic information on the top. You'll also see "Options" and "Invite" on the right. Under Options, you can Edit Group, Manage Group Members, Add a Page. Below that you'll see the TEXT BOX feature (this is where I have "Bulletin Board - Announcements and Meet & Greets"). You can change the contents of the Text Box any time you like. Click on "Edit" located on the right side of text box heading. To the right of that, you'll see the icon for members of the group. Just below the member icons, you'll see the PAGES title bar with the list of pages I have added to my group's site. I use this PAGE feature as a reference section - each page can be anything. Only the title to the first 10 pages will be on display, although you can have as many as 29 pages. I have a page for link to the Survival Guide, a for the link to list of groups. To see all the discussions or pages, click "View All"</p>
<p><strong>CONTROLLING THE GROUP:</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>The member who starts the group is the creator. The creator (and only the creator) can delete the group. The creator can any number of admins. The creator or admin can suspend a member. The creator or admin can edit the group information (name, photo), edit the text box or edit the discussion display parameters. The creator or admin can add a page to the group. </li>
<li>The creator or admin (within the Options) can see when a member joined the group by clicking Manage Group Members. </li>
<li>Only the creator can delete a message posted by a member. Member of the group can delete his/her own message. An admin does not have this prerogative. </li>
<li>To send a message to the group, click on "Send Message To Group" located right above the icons.</li>
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<p><em>Note: often, you see the internet address (http://www. ... etc) when someone post a link for a group (or a blog, or a discussion). Sometimes you'll see a string of underlined words (this could be anything). When you hover your mouse over the address or string of words that has been linked with an internet address, the mouse will turn into a hand. Clicking on this will take direct you to the unique internet address where the site you wish to access resides. See the the 5 icons next to "add"? The "Link" is the create a link feature. Just highlight any string of words, click on the "link", a pop up window will occur, input the hyperlink, click "OK" - that is all there is to it. But if you read more, click on below discussion.<br/></em></p>
<p><em><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/uploading-a-photo-adding-a" target="_blank">Uploading A Photo & Adding a Hyperlink.</a></em></p>
<p>For you convenience, we have compile a list of various groups - here are some of them. These list are posted under FORUM/How To Do Stuff on N4M.</p>
<p><span class="font-size-2" style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><span class="font-size-1"><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-name-of-us" target="_blank">GROUPS: Listed by Name of US Naval Ships</a></span></strong></span></p>
<p><span class="font-size-2" style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><span style="color: #993300;"><strong><span class="font-size-1"><a target="_self" href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1927131283?profile=original">GROUPS: LISTED BY RATINGS (JOB)</a></span></strong></span></strong></span></p>
<p><span class="font-size-2" style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><span style="color: #993300;"><strong><span class="font-size-1"><a target="_self" href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1927131283?profile=original"></a><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/ratings-a-school-locations-and" target="_blank">Ratings, A School Locations and links to Groups</a></span></strong><a target="_self" href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1927131283?profile=original"> </a> <a target="_self" href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1927131283?profile=original"><br/></a></span></strong></span></p>
<p><span class="font-size-2" style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><span style="color: #993300;"><strong><span class="font-size-1"><a target="_self" href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1927131283?profile=original"></a></span></strong></span><span class="font-size-1" style="color: #993300;"><strong><a target="_self" href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1799197060?profile=original">GROUPS LISTED BY GEOGRAPHICAL LOCATION - STATE, CITY, COUNTRY, ETC. </a></strong></span></strong></span></p>
<p><span class="font-size-2" style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><span class="font-size-1"><strong><a href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974666800?profile=original">Groups: Listed by Special Interest.htm</a></strong></span></strong></span><span class="font-size-1"><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-pir-date" target="_blank"></a></span></p>
<p><strong><span class="font-size-1"><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-pir-date" target="_blank">GROUPS: Listed By PIR Date thru June 29, 2012</a></span></strong></p>
<p><span class="font-size-2">If you are a new member, this last list will be the most interesting. This is a list of existing groups associated with a PIR date. The group for PIR July 6 is forming. This list is updated as soon as a new PIR group has been formed.</span></p>
<p><span class="font-size-1"><span class="font-size-2">N4M Friends - feel free to add to this. Suggest revisions. Or even a complete rewrite - feel free to copy and paste any of the above info. </span></span></p>
<p><span class="font-size-1">BQB (semi-retired from N4M)<br/></span></p>KEEP POSTING BUT PLEASE PUT SOMETHING ON "POST TITLE" BOX.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2012-05-14:1971797:BlogPost:70609892012-05-14T19:18:15.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p>Please input something on the "Post Title" box, preferably less than 10 words; otherwise, the program simply inserts the first sentence of your blog. It gets annoying and makes it difficult to search by title in case you want to go back and find a useful blog. KEEP POSTING. Doesn't matter if no one replies. Even if one person benefits from what you wrote, it's worth the time and effort. Besides, it will benefit YOU just to writ the blog your thoughts/feelings out.</p>
<p>Please input something on the "Post Title" box, preferably less than 10 words; otherwise, the program simply inserts the first sentence of your blog. It gets annoying and makes it difficult to search by title in case you want to go back and find a useful blog. KEEP POSTING. Doesn't matter if no one replies. Even if one person benefits from what you wrote, it's worth the time and effort. Besides, it will benefit YOU just to writ the blog your thoughts/feelings out.</p>Make Your Own Invitation.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2012-04-29:1971797:BlogPost:70285662012-04-29T19:35:06.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p><a href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974667092?profile=original" target="_self"><img class="align-full" height="572" src="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974667092?profile=RESIZE_1024x1024" width="750"></img></a> Here is the back. Print them on 8.5x11 paper, fold in half.</p>
<p><a href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974667267?profile=original" target="_self"><img class="align-full" src="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974667267?profile=RESIZE_1024x1024" width="750"></img></a> <em><strong>Stephsmom & other moms with kids leaving and want to make your own invitations, HERE ARE THE MSPUBLISHER FILES. Alter them to your liking. Good luck.…</strong></em></p>
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<p><a target="_self" href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974667092?profile=original"><img width="750" class="align-full" src="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974667092?profile=RESIZE_1024x1024" height="572" width="750"/></a>Here is the back. Print them on 8.5x11 paper, fold in half.</p>
<p><a target="_self" href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974667267?profile=original"><img width="750" class="align-full" src="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974667267?profile=RESIZE_1024x1024" width="750"/></a><em><strong>Stephsmom & other moms with kids leaving and want to make your own invitations, HERE ARE THE MSPUBLISHER FILES. Alter them to your liking. Good luck.</strong></em></p>
<p><a target="_self" href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974669377?profile=original">cover%20invitation.pub</a></p>
<p><a target="_self" href="http://storage.ning.com/topology/rest/1.0/file/get/1974671284?profile=original">we%20love%20our%20sailor%20girl.jpg</a></p>Getting the hang of doing things - the Navy way.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2012-04-11:1971797:BlogPost:69877802012-04-11T19:13:52.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<div class="postbody"><div class="xg_user_generated"><p><em>Recently, a mom wrote expressing her frustration regarding members of her daughter's division who were uncooperative and as a result, the entire division had to suffer the consequences. That blog has been deleted. I would like to offer just a bit of advice to everyone with a loved one going through boot camp. ___________________________________________________________________________________________<br></br></em></p>
<p><strong>We…</strong></p>
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<div class="postbody"><div class="xg_user_generated"><p><em>Recently, a mom wrote expressing her frustration regarding members of her daughter's division who were uncooperative and as a result, the entire division had to suffer the consequences. That blog has been deleted. I would like to offer just a bit of advice to everyone with a loved one going through boot camp. ___________________________________________________________________________________________<br/></em></p>
<p><strong>We understand your frustration and it's OK to vent here (one purpose of social websites)</strong>; however, your opinion is of no consequence to the Navy. The Navy has been running boot camps for eons. They know what works and what does not work. If your daughter exhibits the same degree of frustration as you are demonstrating at this time, she may find that the Navy is not her cup of tea. And that is OK. My son chose not to re-up (loves the Navy, just ready for civilian life) despite of the Navy's best efforts to retain him (bonus, choice of shore duty location, etc). As a parent, you should look upon this as your initiation into learning to do things the Navy way. The division (as a whole) is being observed - they may be looking for leaders to emerge who can facilitate cooperation. It's a test for all of them. There will be the similar situations with more meaningful (or drastic depending upon your point of view) consequences. For example, there might a time in the future when a group of sailors who can not keep their mouths shut - and the scheduled homecoming for the ship is changed/cancelled at the last second for security reasons. More than likely the cause of the breach will be some parent, wife, girlfriend who failed to observe the OPSEC rules- who should monitor that? The Navy does not care if you have purchased airline tickets, made hotel reservations, taken time off from work. Or that your sailor is getting married, haven't seen his loved ones for months, missed the birth of his child, etc. The safety of the ship and the safety of the crew is their only concerned. Personally, as a tax payer, I have no problem with that whatsoever. That is what the officers in charge are expected to do. There will always be a few individuals who will stupidly & arrogantly ignore following the rules. At some point, others on the boat (fellow sailors, officers and right on down the line) will make their lives so miserable that they'll never act stupid again. Remember, some recruits are very, very young and are not used to being part of a big (BIG) organization yet. This IS boot camp - be patient.</p>
<p>Best of luck to all our sailor recruits. We thank you for wanting to serve our country.</p>
<p>We understand this is an emotional time for all. To all "seasoned"/"veteran" supporters - feel free to post other suggestions.</p>
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</div>COMPUTER TIPS FOR N4M NEW MEMBERStag:navyformoms.ning.com,2012-03-07:1971797:BlogPost:47523562012-03-07T06:53:29.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>FOR NEWBIES, COMPUTER TIPS - about your personal page. <br></br></strong></span></p>
<p>Click on <strong>MY PAGE</strong> tab on above menu bar - this takes you to your <strong>PERSONAL PAGE</strong>. Bet some of you didn't know your had one. You should check this once a day.</p>
<p>1) near the top, you'll see the url for your profile, it's something that starts with "http://www.navyformoms.com/profile/......" the last part is what you had input…</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>FOR NEWBIES, COMPUTER TIPS - about your personal page. <br/></strong></span></p>
<p>Click on <strong>MY PAGE</strong> tab on above menu bar - this takes you to your <strong>PERSONAL PAGE</strong>. Bet some of you didn't know your had one. You should check this once a day.</p>
<p>1) near the top, you'll see the url for your profile, it's something that starts with "http://www.navyformoms.com/profile/......" the last part is what you had input as your <span style="text-decoration: underline;">address.</span> It will be different than your screen name, if you had input something different. It's OK if it is the same. However, if you had input you <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>real name, then you should change</strong></span> because if someone click on your proflle icon, the real name will show up on the url address line. To change this, click on Setting on upper right, then click on "My Page" on the left side, scroll down to "address" - leave your screen name alone if you are happy with it. To change your screen name, click on Setting, the page to set profile features will pop up.</p>
<p>2) On your personal page - on the left you'll find the basic stuff about you (your photo, screen name, where you are from, etc). Just below that you'll see <strong>Blog Posts, Discussions, Events, Groups, etc.</strong> Next to each one, you'll see a number. This indicates how many posts you have made in Blogs, Discussions. <em><strong>If you click on either of these, it will take you to the list of comments - so there is a record of the comments you have made</strong>. </em> The number next to Events indicates how many N4M Events you have RSVPed or have been invited to. <em><strong>If you are friends with another member, you can click on Blog Posts or Discussions on her personal page and see her lists of comments she has posted.</strong></em></p>
<p>3) In the middle section of your page, you find "the activities" section such as messages from another member on your comment wall, your profile information (including photos), any apps you have added (I have a music box from PLAYLIST.COM) and details of blogs your have posted. <em><strong><br/></strong></em></p>
<p>4) On the upper right, there is your status box.</p>
<ul>
<li>Inbox - if a number is visible, then you have a private message. The number indicates how many. Click on Inbox, messages you have received will be visible. To write a message to send to your friends, click +Compose. You can send messages to multiple recipients. <em>Remember if you reply to all everyone one the original recipient list will get the message.</em></li>
<li>Alerts - message sent to you by APPS if you and your friends have added apps</li>
<li>Friends - the number in parentheses indicates that number of Friend requests you have - people waiting for you to accept their requests. Click on Friends to see a list of your Friends, Requests Received and Requests Sent.</li>
<li>Settings - the five options under Settings is on the upper left after you click Settings: PROFILE, PRIVACY, EMAIL, MY PAGE, CONNECTIONS. Here is where you go to change your profile stuff: username, photo, info, address, email notification, appearance of your page. Remember if you change the color of the font for text on the body of your page, be sure the background is dark enough for the text to be visible.</li>
<li>On the right column, you'll also see a calendar with links to upcoming EVENTS, Navy Speak</li>
</ul>
<p><em>You can set your default on email notifications (to your regular email account) by going to EMAIL. If you are going on vacation, you can stop ALL notifications - just be sure to turn them back on afterwards. Be sure to hit save after making changes. On a normal day-to-day basis, I use "Stop Following" on my groups - to not get any email notifications from activities from my groups.<br/></em></p>
<p>4) Just underneath the status box, you'll find INVITES to groups and events.</p>Keeping Your Emotions In Check.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2012-02-06:1971797:BlogPost:68389232012-02-06T07:04:31.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<div class="xg_user_generated"><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>If being able to express your emotions here helps you be more calm with your sailor recruit when he/she calls, then please by all means feel free to express yourself here. It is an open forum. I would suggest however that anyone who is overwrought take a step back, take a deep breath and find ways to get through the rough part now before that important call from your recruit comes in. The recruits are probably experiencing an…</p>
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<div class="xg_user_generated"><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>If being able to express your emotions here helps you be more calm with your sailor recruit when he/she calls, then please by all means feel free to express yourself here. It is an open forum. I would suggest however that anyone who is overwrought take a step back, take a deep breath and find ways to get through the rough part now before that important call from your recruit comes in. The recruits are probably experiencing an endeavor that is beyond anything they have ever done in their young lives. They are probably lonely, terrified, confused, may feel inferior, may feel inadequate, hoping they won't fail (so they won't be sent home), hoping they would fail (so they would be sent home), ambivalent about their decision and much more..... all this in the company of many equally baffled young men and women with no sleep and someone yelling in your face all day long.</p>
<p>You, moms don't have to apologize for being emotional. It is OK. Whether the child is 17, 23 or 27 as a mom (or dad), there will always be a part of you that will worry. Some of us worry less, some more. Some of us keep it in check better than others. That is OK.When you recruit calls, ask him to describe something that he liked about BC. Ask him about the positives. Remind him that you have read in your trusty N4M site that the first 2 weeks is just the most god awful thing on the planet. If he has made it through a week, say "Look you are half way through the very worst part, it's going to get better from this point on." I read many statements like, "I know this is the best thing for him. I am so proud of him." Come on moms, you know your child, you know what you need to say to give him encouragement, to help him confirm within himself that he has made the right choice. You want to smell his clothes to feel closer to him again, that is fine; but do not tell your recruit that right now - they wouldn't know how to wrap their minds around that vision (I am assuming here that you have not done that before). Between us moms, we understand the need.</p>
<p>New moms, this is just a gentle reminder that you have to put on a good face, be encouraging when he cries on the phone (and wails that he wants to come home), be supportive, be positive. He needs to know that you can let him go (and will always be there for him/her). YOU MUST NEVER LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU HAVE A BROKEN HEART AND WOULD LOVE TO HAVE HIM HOME SLEEPING IN HIS OLD BED.</p>
<p>I have used masculine gender for simplicity.</p>
<p>Some suggestions for getting through this:</p>
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<li>Do not neglect you family. Some of you mention having younger kids who are also having a hard time dealing with older brother/sister leaving the family for the first time. Spend extra time with the remaining kids at home. They need it.</li>
<li>Do not neglect your spouse/significant other. Share you experience. Find a new outlet for your loneliness. You husband will try to be strong - remember he too is probably missing your recruit and some just won't talk about it. You may have to pull it out of them.</li>
<li>Do not neglect yourself. This is the time to think of the next chapter in your life. If you are going to be an emptynester, start evaluating your life (in hindsight and going forward), rearrange you house, get those papers in order, find a part time job, start a scrapebook, learn a new craft (quilting, sewing, playing an instrument) .. anything</li>
<li>Develop standard "responses" as you go through being a part of the military family, you will encounter stupid comments from people - develop phrases that you can use to divert the topic, answer in such a way to discourage further discussion.</li>
<li>Find other Navy moms in your lcoal area - for a meet and greet, coffee, lunch. It will make you more sane.</li>
<li>If you are getting too involved with this site and think you have gotten addicted - don't turn on the computer every spare moment - turn it on just several times a day with time limits.</li>
<li>Stick with the reason why this site exist - to give support or get support for those involved in the Navy. This means if the subject matter starts to wonder outside of why you are here, take a step back. You don't have to read about every detail about everyone else. You are naturally going to become good friends with a few on this site. And this is good. But you don't have to be involved with everyone and everyone's business. A few tend to disclose way too much about their personal lives. Remember your recruit may be reading this, so be discreet.</li>
<li>Be open minded when you read responses to your blogs, in your discussions. I truly do not believe any one here is trying to be mean. I know a few of us (I include myself here) tend to be more methodical in nature and are borne problem solvers. We are more at home when presented with a problem because we can roll our sleeves up and find the solution and get the job done. Others are more emotionally based and are more feel better when they can share their frustrations, hurts, joys with others. That is OK too. The bottom line is life is in reality emotionally based - just in varying degrees. I firmly believe that we can all benefit from each others differences. </li>
<li>New moms, you have an obligation to be pro-active in becoming informed. The experience moms who are here on a day in and day out bases are just moms like you with disappointments, hurts, problems of their own. Please take a few minutes to acknowledge their contributions, their giving of their time, energy, knowledge and efforts. When we post a link or a suggestion, please take the time to follow up (whether this is a question posted by you or someone else). If you just surf the discussion groups and the blogs you will gain a truckload of information. It really is all here.</li>
<li>Please come back and pay it forward. This is a volunteer site. It exist because of unpaid volunteers who have devoted long hours here. Some of us are winding down and transitioning to a more passive role in the background. My sailor commitment ends next month - I have been given orders to cease and desist - LOL well, I'll have to sneak in my computer session on N4Ms.</li>
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<div class="xg_user_generated">BQB,</div>
<div class="xg_user_generated">P.S. I have sons, 27 and 23 - I have been through this ups and downs a few times. Trust me, ladies.</div>
</div>Pass In Review - Bootcamp Graduation. List of PIR Groups to February 17, 2012. Updated on 12/27/2011tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2011-12-27:1971797:BlogPost:62015112011-12-27T17:16:21.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p><strong>UPDATE: December 27, 2011</strong><strong>. </strong> Hello to all newcomers. Welcome to Navy For Moms. You should join the <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/bootcampmoms?" target="_blank">Boot Camp Moms</a> group (clickable link). We have a special group of ladies who will take you through the entire Boot Camp & PIR process. You should also review the videos, powerpoint presentations listed as reference pages (located under member icons) in the …</p>
<p><strong>UPDATE: December 27, 2011</strong><strong>. </strong> Hello to all newcomers. Welcome to Navy For Moms. You should join the <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/bootcampmoms?" target="_blank">Boot Camp Moms</a> group (clickable link). We have a special group of ladies who will take you through the entire Boot Camp & PIR process. You should also review the videos, powerpoint presentations listed as reference pages (located under member icons) in the <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/newmomsstophere" target="_blank"></a><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/newmomsstophere" target="_blank">New Member Stop Here</a> group (clickable link). Finally, keep in mind the <a href="http://www.bootcamp.navy.mil/" target="_blank">Recruit Training Command</a> (clickable link) has an official website. Most of your questions can be found within these three groups. If not, someone will be able to direct you to the right place/person to get the answer. Please take the time and effort to educate yourself.</p>
<p><strong>If you have received you form letter, find your PIR date and join one of the established groups listed below. </strong></p>
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<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/pir02172012" target="_blank">PIR: Feb 17, 2012</a> </strong> TG 13</p>
<p> <a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/pir02102012" target="_blank"><strong>PIR: Feb 10, 2012</strong></a> TG 12 - 11 Divisions (061–068, 805, 806 & 912)</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/2-3-2012-pir" target="_blank">PIR: Feb 3, 2012</a> </strong> TG 11 - 10 Divisions (053–060, 804 & 911) </p>
<p> <strong><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/pir01272012" target="_blank">PIR: Jan 27, 2012</a> </strong> TG 10 - 7 Divisions (047 - 052 & 910)</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/pir01202012" target="_blank">PIR: Jan 20, 2012</a> </strong> TG 09 - 5 Divisions (043–046 & 909)</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/pir01132012?" target="_blank">PIR: Jan 13, 2012</a> </strong> TG 08 - 7 Divisions (037–042 & 908)</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/pir010612" target="_blank">PIR: Jan 6, 2012</a></strong> TG 07 - 9 Divisions (029-036 & 907)</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/pir-12-29-2011" target="_blank">PIR: Dec 29, 2011</a></strong> TG 06 - 10 Divisions (021-028, 904 & 906)</p>
<p> NONE on December 23, 2011 per Recruit Training Command</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/pir12162011?" target="_blank">PIR: Dec 16, 2011</a></strong> TG</p>
<p> NONE on December 9, 2011 per Recruit Training Command</p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/pir12022011" target="_blank">PIR: Dec 2. 2011</a></strong> TG 03 - 11 Divisions (009–016, 802, 803 & 903) </p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="../../../group/pir11232011">PIR: Nov 23, 2011</a></strong> TG 02 - 4 Divisions (007–008, 801 & 902) <em>note it's Wednesday</em></p>
<p> <strong><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/pir11182011" target="_blank"><br/></a></strong></p>
<p><strong>Note: After the PIR date, the groups will stay intact but with the words "ALUMNI" / "GRADUATE" on Group Name. Good luck and thank your sailor recruit for his/her service to our country.</strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em><strong>Special thanks to all the "newcomers" (not green anymore) who have started PIR groups. It means so much more when you all are involved. Not only have some of you started PIR groups but you are coming back and posting responses to comments from brand new members in BLOGS, GROUPS and FORUM Discussions. <br/></strong></em></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em><strong>Furthermore, we must thank the following experienced veteran members who have been stalwarts in keeping this tradition going: FireTeamLeaderWife, diannep, Lala Ribbon Queen, lemonelephant, Betsy and others (my apologies I am forgetful this morning). </strong></em></span></p>
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<p><em><strong>Keep the following in mind whenever you log on:</strong></em></p>
<p>1. Check your personal page - click the "MY PAGE" tab on menu bar above on a regular basis. On your personal page, on the left just underneath you profile photo, you'll the words "Blog Posts" (the number of blogs you have started), "Discussions" (the number discussions you have commented on), "Event" (the number of Events you have RSVPed for), "Groups" (the number of groups you belong to) etc. you can access your groups, In the middle section, you'll find activities on groups you started and comments other members have left for you.</p>
<p>2. Check your SIGN IN/SIGN OUT box on the upper right. This a always visible on your screen to provide quick access to check your messages, friend requests and access settings (the place to go to change your USERNAME, password, profile and email settings).</p>
<p>3. To go to your groups, click "GROUPS" tab, then "My Groups" (in small letters on left) or access from your own page.</p>
<p>4. If you are getting way too many email notifications, just click "Stop Following" wherever you see it. That will start to notifications. Be careful if you use Setting/Email to control the notifications; otherwise, you won't get any and won't know if someone has sent your a friends request or if there is an important message from one of your group(s). Remember the email notifications are just that, if you get an email notification and part of a message is visible, you can't reply to that message by replying to the email notifcation. You have to log on the Navy For Moms, then click on INBOX. A link is normally provided with you notification.</p>
<p>5. For your convenience, we have other reference material in an area that is easy to. Go to <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/newmomsstophere" target="_blank">New Members Stop Here</a> and look at the PAGES (there are 10). You'll find Boot Camp videos, link to RTC, acronyms and more. </p>
<p>6. <strong>SEARCH function. This should be your best friend.</strong> You can find just anything if you use this function (for searching for members, groups, discussions or blogs).</p>
<p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">NEW added on October 5, 2011</span></strong></em></span></p>
<p>Are you getting an overwhelming number of email notifications? Just click "STOP FOLLOWING" in all your groups and whatever BLOG or FORUM Discussion you have been participating in. This won't stop all the email notifications. You'll still get one when you get a private message, when you get a friend request, when someone post a comment on your page or when you are an invitation to join a group or an event. THIS IS OK because you want to get those email notifications; otherwise, how would you know that someone has been trying to contact you.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline; color: #0000ff;"><strong><em>New added on October 30, 2011</em></strong></span></p>
<p>If you are running out of things to write about (to your recruit at BC), consider copying articles of interest on a plain paper, then on reverse side you can add your notes. Keep everything light. Don't go into heavy family issues. Stay positive. They'll be looking to you for encouragement and support. Here is a link to a discussion with a Questionaire that many have found useful.</p>
<p><a rel="nofollow" href="../../../group/octoberbootcamp/forum/topics/questionnaire-for-letter-to">http://www.navyformoms.com/group/octoberbootcamp/forum/topics/quest...</a></p>
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<p>Welcome to Navy For Moms.</p>
<p>BunkerQB.</p>Reading List For Navy Wives, Fiancees and Girlfriendstag:navyformoms.ning.com,2011-12-08:1971797:BlogPost:67070562011-12-08T07:59:00.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
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<dd><div class="description" id="desc_1971797Comment6705256"><div class="xg_user_generated"><p><b><i><u>When you are young, in love and feel that half of you is gone - some reading material - in case you can't sleep and you are missing your sailor!</u></i></b><br></br> <br></br> <b>Courtesy of Navy Aunt (AF Wife):</b></p>
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<li>Married To The Military:A Survival Guide for Military Wives, girlfriends, and Women In Uniform. <em>by Meredith…</em></li>
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<dd><div class="description" id="desc_1971797Comment6705256"><div class="xg_user_generated"><p><b><i><u>When you are young, in love and feel that half of you is gone - some reading material - in case you can't sleep and you are missing your sailor!</u></i></b><br/> <br/> <b>Courtesy of Navy Aunt (AF Wife):</b></p>
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<li>Married To The Military:A Survival Guide for Military Wives, girlfriends, and Women In Uniform. <em>by Meredith Leyva,</em></li>
<li>Hope For The Home Front by Marshe'le Carter Waddell (her husband was a Navy Seal),Military 101 (Fiction) <em>by Tynisa Gaines</em></li>
<li>365 Deployment Days A Wife's Survival Story <em>by Sara Dawalt</em></li>
<li>Home Fires Burning by Karen Houppert, That Military House- Move It, Organize It, And Decorate It. <em>by Sandee Payne</em></li>
<li>Life After Deployment- Reunion Stories/Advice by Karen M Pavlicin, Spouses Also Serve <em>by Tiffany A Booker</em></li>
<li>Today's Military Wife-Meeting the Challenges Of Service Life by Lydia Sloan Cline,The Treasure of Staying Connected for Military Couples <em>by Janel Lange</em></li>
<li>The Complete Idiot's Guide to LIfe as a Military Spouse by Lissa McGrath, Surviving Deployment <em>by Karen M Pavlicin</em></li>
<li>The Mocha Manual to Military Life <em>by Kimberly Seals_Allers with Pamela M. McBride</em></li>
<li>Separated By Duty, United in Love- A Guide to Long Distance Relationships For Military Couples <em>by Shellie Vandervoerde</em></li>
<li>When Johnny/Joanie Comes Marching Home <em>by The Revernd Dr. Lester L. Westling, Jr.(USN)</em></li>
<li>Military Spouse's Complete Guide To Career Success- Finding Meaningful Employment in Today's Global Workplace <em>by Janet I Farley</em></li>
<li>How to Survive A Move edited <em>by Jamie Allen and Kazz Regelman</em></li>
<li>Jobs and the MIlitary Spouse- Married, Mobile and Motivated for Employment <em>by Janet I Farley</em></li>
<li>A Year of Absence-6 women's stories of courage, hope and love <em>by Jessica Redmond</em></li>
<li>They Also Serve Who Sit and Wait <em>by John Milton</em></li>
<li>Navy Spouse’s Guide <em>by Laura Hall Stavridis</em></li>
<li>Help I’m A Military Spouse – How To Craft A Life For You As You Move With The Military <em>by Kathy Hightower and Holly Scherer</em></li>
<li>Going Over Board, the misadventures of a military wife <em>by Sarah Smiley</em></li>
<li>Homefront Club: The Hardheaded Woman’s Guide To Raising A Military Family <em>by Jacey Eckart</em></li>
<li>Service Etiquette 5<sup>th</sup> Edition <em>by Cherlynn Conestsco</em> (especially good for those who will be entertaining for their job or spouse’s job – FRG leaders & officer/warrant officer wives)</li>
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<p><b>For moms:</b></p>
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<li>Honor, Courage and Commitment <em>by J. F. Leahy</em></li>
<li><strong>Eagles Invades The Nest <em>by R. Lynn Green</em> (a member of Navy For Moms)</strong></li>
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</dl>Merry Christmas & Happy New Yeartag:navyformoms.ning.com,2011-12-02:1971797:BlogPost:66905942011-12-02T07:02:22.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Playlist not set to autostart. Must click start arrow.…</span></strong></em></p>
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<br></br> <a href="http://www.playlistproject.net"><img alt="Get a playlist!" border="0" src="http://www.playlistproject.net/mc/images/create_green.jpg"></img></a> <a href="http://www.playlistproject.net/playlist/21261320715/standalone" target="_blank"><img alt="Standalone player" border="0" src="http://www.playlistproject.net/mc/images/launch_green.jpg"></img></a></div>
<p><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Playlist not set to autostart. Must click start arrow.</span></strong></em></p>
<p><img style="visibility: hidden; width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="http://c.gigcount.com/wildfire/IMP/CXNID=2000002.0NXC/bT*xJmx*PTEzMjI4MDg4MDMzNTkmcHQ9MTMyMjgwODk*ODI1MCZwPTY5NDMwMSZkPSZnPTEmbz1kOTY4YTQ5NWUyMDQ*NjYyYjNj/OGI3OWRlNjExODc*NyZvZj*w.gif" border="0" height="0" width="0"/></p>
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<br/> <a href="http://www.playlistproject.net"><img src="http://www.playlistproject.net/mc/images/create_green.jpg" alt="Get a playlist!" border="0"/></a> <a href="http://www.playlistproject.net/playlist/21261320715/standalone" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.playlistproject.net/mc/images/launch_green.jpg" alt="Standalone player" border="0"/></a> <a href="http://www.playlistproject.net/playlist/21261320715/download"><img src="http://www.playlistproject.net/mc/images/get_green.jpg" alt="Get Ringtones" border="0"/></a></div>ALL ABOUT MAILING & SHIPPINGtag:navyformoms.ning.com,2011-10-10:1971797:BlogPost:65327912011-10-10T17:00:00.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span class="font-size-3" style="color: #993300;"><strong>WHAT THE INITIALS STAND FOR - NMAILING ADDRESS</strong></span></span></p>
<p>APO stands for Army Post Office and is used by Army and Air Force (generally but not always).</p>
<p>FPO stands for Fleet Post Office and is used by Navy and…</p>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span class="font-size-3" style="color: #993300;"><strong>WHAT THE INITIALS STAND FOR - NMAILING ADDRESS</strong></span></span></p>
<p>APO stands for Army Post Office and is used by Army and Air Force (generally but not always).</p>
<p>FPO stands for Fleet Post Office and is used by Navy and Marines (generally but not always).</p>
<p>DPO stands for Diplomatic Post Office.</p>
Replace the city name with APO or FPO.<br/>
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<p>The above will be followed by AA, AE, AP and a special zip code. Replace the state with AA, AE, or AP and the number you are given. AA stands for Armed Forces (the Americas), AE stands for Air Forces Europe, AP Stands for Armed Forces Pacific.</p>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Here are the prices for mailing flat rate boxes.</strong></span></p>
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<dd><div class="description" id="desc_1971797Comment4634173"><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>You can also order them from the United States Post Office online, and they will be delivered to your door<br/> <br/> Priority Mail Flat Rate Envelope $4.90 12-1/2" x 9-1/2"</p>
<p><br/> Priority Mail Small Flat Rate Box $4.95 8-5/8" x 5-3/8" x 1-5/8"</p>
<p><br/> Priority Mail Medium Flat Rate Box (FRB1) $10.70 11" x 8-1/2" x 5-1/2"</p>
<p><br/> Priority Mail Medium Flat Rate Box (FRB2) $10.70 13-5/8" x 11-7/8" x 3-3/8"</p>
<p><br/> Priority Mail Large Flat Rate Box (Domestic Addresses) $14.50 12" x 12" x 5-1/2"</p>
<p><br/> Priority Mail Large Flat Rate Box (APO/FPO Destinations) $12.50 12" x 12" x 5-1/2"</p>
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<p>There is an additional form that needs to be filled out if it is overseas. If you are sending many packages at one time, it may be a good idea to the form first: otherwise, you will have to step aside to fill them out when you turn comes up (while you are waiting in line).</p>
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<p><strong>MM3 Bunker, Queen B.</strong></p>
<p><strong>USS Mighty Mouse CVN 99</strong></p>
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<p><strong>FPO AE #####-####</strong></p>
<p>then you would fill out the form in the following manner:<strong><br/></strong></p>
<p>on name line:<em> lastname: </em> <strong>MM3 Bunker </strong> <em>firstname:</em> <strong>Queen B. </strong></p>
<p>on address line: <strong>USS Mighty Mouse CVN 99</strong></p>
<p>on city: <strong>FPO</strong></p>
<p>on state: <strong>AE</strong></p>
<p>on zip: <strong>#####-####</strong> (five digits followed by four digits typically)</p>
<p>NOTE: IF YOUR SAILOR IS IN US (LIKE GREAT LAKES, iL 60088) it does not qualify for free postage. APO and FPO are deployed overseas addresses.</p>
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</dl>EXCEL TABLE OF RATINGS (JOBS) CROSS REFERENCED WITH A SCHOOL LOCATIONS AND LINKS TO GROUPS.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2011-10-06:1971797:BlogPost:52293832011-10-06T05:30:00.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p><span style="color: #993300;"><strong><span class="font-size-4"><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/ratings-a-school-locations-and" target="_blank">RATINGS, A School Locations and links to Groups</a></span></strong> <span style="font-size: large;"><span class="font-size-4" style="color: #ff0000;"><em>Click on this to go to a Discussion by…</em></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #993300;"><strong><span class="font-size-4"><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/ratings-a-school-locations-and" target="_blank">RATINGS, A School Locations and links to Groups</a></span></strong> <span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ff0000;" class="font-size-4"><em>Click on this to go to a Discussion by</em></span></span></span> <strong><span style="color: #993300;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ff0000;" class="font-size-4"><em>lemonelephant</em></span></span></span></strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span class="font-size-4"><em>This is a fantastic Excel table with - Rates - cross referenced with A school locations and links to groups. Thank you, thank you lemonelephant.</em></span></span></span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #993300;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ff0000;" class="font-size-4"><span style="color: #339966;"><strong>The entire list of group associated with ratings can be found in this file:</strong> <strong><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-navy-job" target="_blank">Groups: Listed By Navy Job (Ratings)</a></strong></span></span></span></span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #993300;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #ff0000;" class="font-size-4"><span style="color: #339966;"><strong>Questions? Just ask. We have Angie and Craig who are our go to people with tons of experience. The more you know, the easier this journey will be.<br/></strong></span></span></span></span></p>Add Some Music ......... Relax.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2011-10-02:1971797:BlogPost:65189172011-10-02T00:07:32.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p>I added a playlist to my own page. Go to the link below and create a playlist of your favorite songs. I have multiple lists - about 10 and rotate through them periodically - I have a special one for holidays. You can set the music to start automatically when you go to MY PAGE tab on the menu bar. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.playlist.com/">http://www.playlist.com/</a></p>
<p>Here is an example.</p>
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<p>I added a playlist to my own page. Go to the link below and create a playlist of your favorite songs. I have multiple lists - about 10 and rotate through them periodically - I have a special one for holidays. You can set the music to start automatically when you go to MY PAGE tab on the menu bar. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.playlist.com/">http://www.playlist.com/</a></p>
<p>Here is an example.</p>
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<img style="visibility:hidden;width:0px;height:0px;" border="0" width="0" height="0" src="http://c.gigcount.com/wildfire/IMP/CXNID=2000002.0NXC/bT*xJmx*PTEzMTc1MTM5MTY1OTMmcHQ9MTMxNzUxMzkyMzU5MyZwPTY5NDMwMSZkPSZnPTEmbz1lMTEyOWE5OTAxZDc*ZjExYTYw/MWY5OTEwZmIzZjUxMCZvZj*w.gif"/><div style="text-align: center; margin-left: auto; visibility:visible; margin-right: auto; width:450px;"><object width="450" height="470"><param name="movie" value="http://www.playlistproject.net/mc/mp3player_new.swf"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="never"></param><param name="wmode" value="opaque"></param><param name="flashvars" value="config=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.indimusic.us%2Fext%2Fpc%2Fconfig_blue.xml&mywidth=450&myheight=470&playlist_url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.playlistproject.net%2Fpl.php%3Fplaylist%3D75309087%26t%3D1317513924&wid=os"></param><embed wmode="opaque" style="width:450px; visibility:visible; height:470px;" allowscriptaccess="never" src="http://www.playlistproject.net/mc/mp3player_new.swf" flashvars="config=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.indimusic.us%2Fext%2Fpc%2Fconfig_blue.xml&mywidth=450&myheight=470&playlist_url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.playlistproject.net%2Fpl.php%3Fplaylist%3D75309087%26t%3D1317513924&wid=os" width="450" height="470" name="mp3player" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed> </object>
<br/> <a href="http://www.playlistproject.net"><img src="http://www.playlistproject.net/mc/images/create_blue.jpg" border="0" alt="Get a playlist!"/></a> <a href="http://www.playlistproject.net/playlist/19279126283/standalone" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.playlistproject.net/mc/images/launch_blue.jpg" border="0" alt="Standalone player"/></a> <a href="http://www.playlistproject.net/playlist/19279126283/download"><img src="http://www.playlistproject.net/mc/images/get_blue.jpg" border="0" alt="Get Ringtones"/></a></div>Welcome New Members.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2011-03-01:1971797:BlogPost:35441532011-03-01T14:00:00.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p><span class="font-size-4" style="text-decoration: underline; color: #ff0000;"><strong>WHAT TO DO IF I AM BRAND NEW?</strong></span></p>
<p>You are here because you are looking for answers to questions, looking for support, looking for other members to meet who are a similar situation. Here are some suggestions:</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><span class="font-size-3">I. Find a GROUP (S) of people</span></strong></span></p>
<p>As a new member, you will many many…</p>
<p><span class="font-size-4" style="text-decoration: underline; color: #ff0000;"><strong>WHAT TO DO IF I AM BRAND NEW?</strong></span></p>
<p>You are here because you are looking for answers to questions, looking for support, looking for other members to meet who are a similar situation. Here are some suggestions:</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><span class="font-size-3">I. Find a GROUP (S) of people</span></strong></span></p>
<p>As a new member, you will many many questions. There are a number of groups that will support you through these tough weeks before, during and after bootcamp. The groups have members who are new and members with various experience levels and knowledge to help you. <br/><br/><span style="font-weight: bold;">Just click on the following links and when your are in the groups page click on "+Join..."</span><br/>1. <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/newmomsstophere">New Moms Stop Here.</a> A kind of orientation station. We'll direct you to other areas that will help you the most plus we have a panel of advisers "in house" to help you with specific questions.<br/>2. <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/bootcampmoms" target="_blank">Bootcamp Moms</a> If your SR (seaman recruit) has started bootcamp already, join this group.</p>
<p>3. <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/deppersinbutnotyet" target="_blank">Deppers/Future Sailors..In but not gone yet</a> If your recruit is waiting for bootcamp, join this group.</p>
<p>If you know the month when your recruit will be leaving, you can join a more selected group based on the month your recruit is leaving. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Once you know when our SR's PIR (Pass In Review - graduation ceremony from bootcamp) is, find the group associated with the PIR date - this will be an important group for you to join.<br/></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">LEAVING FOR BOOTCAMP LINKS:</span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavinforbootcampinmarch">1. Leaving for Bootcamp in March</a><br/><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavinforbootcampinapril">2. Leaving for Bootcamp in April</a><br/><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavinforbootcampinmay">3. Leaving for Bootcamp in May</a><br/><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavinforbootcampinjune">4. Leaving for Bootcamp in June</a><br/><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavingforbootcampinjuly">5. Leaving for Bootcamp in July</a><br/><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavinforbootcampinaugust">6. Leaving for Bootcamp in August</a><br/><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavinforbootcampinseptember">7. Leaving for Bootcamp in September</a><br/><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavinforbootcampinoctober?">8. Leaving for Bootcamp in October</a><br/><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavinforbootcampinnovember">9. Leaving for Bootcamp in November</a><br/><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavinforbootcampindecember">10. Leaving for Bootcamp in December</a><br/><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavinforbootcampinjanuary">11. Leaving for Bootcamp in January</a><br/><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/leavinforbootcampinfebruary">12. Leaving for Bootcamp in February</a><br/><br/><span style="font-weight: bold;">HOW TO FIND THE GROUPS?</span> Click on the tab GROUPS on the menu bar, then input the keyword in the search box and click the little icon just to the right. Results will be displayed. There geographically based groups, such as <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/texasmoms" target="_blank">Texas' Moms</a> or <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/sfbayareanavyfamilies" target="_blank">San Francisco Bay Area Navy Families.</a> There are groups relating to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">RATING (job specialty)</span> such as <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/seabeemoms" target="_blank">Seabee Moms</a> or <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/maamoms" target="_blank">MAA moms</a> (Master At Arms) and there are friendship/common interest groups such as <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/girlfriendsfianceswivesofsailors" target="_blank">Girlfriends, Fiancees and Wives</a> or <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/group/whatsanombudsmanandhowtocontactthem" target="_blank">What's an Ombudsman and how to contact them</a>. Once your sailor has been assigned a ship/boat - there are also groups associated with them. As of January 12, 2011, there are over 1400 groups (a group for just above anything and everything). Many contain under 10 members. Find people to share your common interest or needs. It a great way to get used to being a Navy family. Many geographical groups have Meet and Greet regularly. It's a wonderful opportunity to make new friends. There is nothing like meeting other NAVY families in person. For your convenience lists for geographical groups, ratings groups and specialty groups have been compiled and detailed in the following Forum Discussions:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-name-of-us" target="_blank">GROUPS: Listed By Name of US Naval Ship</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-pir-date" target="_blank">GROUPS: Listed By PIR Date - Pass In Review (Boot Camp Graduation)</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-navy-job" target="_blank">GROUPS: Listed By Navy Job (Rating)</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-geographical-by-state" target="_blank">GROUPS: Geographical By State</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/groups-listed-by-special" target="_blank">GROUPS: Listed By Special Interest</a></p>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span class="font-size-3"><strong>II. TIPS on How To Use This Site<br/></strong></span></span></p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">USE THE SEARCH FUNCTION</span> (to find groups, blogs, forum discussions, members). This function should be your new best friend. Before posting a new blog or forum discussion, do a search to see if there is a pre-existing thread about the subject. For example, you want to know about "the first call", click or Forum, you see a input box with a little search icon (looks like magnifying glass). Type in "first call" then click on the icon. You'll find that within Forum, there are 2000+ entries as of today. Obviously, many before you have asked about the "first call."<br/><br/><span style="font-weight: bold;">COMMUNICATING WITH OTHER MEMBERS:</span><br/>Communications is done primarily by posting comments in the groups, other members' pages, blogs and forum discussions. Members often post comments on another member's personal page (tip - you can also comment on your own personal page but use the "comment back" to reply to a comment from another member). Many members enjoy the CHAT room. The action too fast and there are multiple of conversations going so it's difficult for someone to answer your questions in a detailed fashion - be patient. <span style="font-weight: bold;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: bold;">Get in the habit of the following:</span></p>
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<li>Check your personal page. Click on MY PAGE on menubar.</li>
<li>Check on your Status Box (upper right hand corner) for private messages (Inbox), Friends (Requests), Alerts. Just underneath that, you see Invitations from other members to join one group or another or possibly an invitation to attend a meet and greet.<br/>Remember you can only get messages from your "friends" Please go the <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/categories/how-to-do-stuff-on-n4m/listForCategory">How To Do Stuff on N4M</a> for more information and to read up about private messaging, how to change your profile setting, etc.</li>
<li>Check the latest activities with the groups you belong to. You can join as many as you have time for.</li>
<li>If you are getting <span style="text-decoration: underline;">too many email notifications</span>, don't tear your hair out and don't leave your groups. <strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Simply go to each of your groups (as well as blogs and forum discussions) and click "STOP FOLLOWING" underneath the comment box.</span></strong> You can also control your notification by going to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Settings</span> (on your status box), then click on Email. From here you can determine on what occasions you would like email notificatioins. Personally, I check the following: personal message, comment on my event, comment on my page and all three under "Request and Invitations" - that is it. On the bottom you can turn off all email notifications if you are going on vacations - just remember to reset when you come back.</li>
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<p>I have written a number of Forum Discussions under the Category <a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/categories/how-to-do-stuff-on-n4m/listForCategory?" target="_blank">"HOW TO DO STUFF ON N4M?</a> Take some time and scroll the discussions, read up on the suggestions. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">PLEASE TAKE THE RESPONSIBILITY TO LEARN TO USE THIS SITE.</span> We are here to help you. It will take some time to learn how to navigate this site. We are all just volunteers with sailors of our own too. Many of our sailors are out on deployment. Some of us may not have heard from our sons/daughters for WEEKS, or seen them for many, many MONTHS. We all had to adjust, most of us did it without Navy For Moms. It will be an emotional roller coaster. So, take a deep breath, be patient, you will get adjusted too.</p>
<br/>Regards, BunkerQUEENBee<br/><br/>PIR: Places To Stay & Link To "PIR DEBRIEFING" - a very useful discussion.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2010-12-30:1971797:BlogPost:45265762010-12-30T05:04:09.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Here is a discussion with lots of useful information on PIR.</span></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/pir-debriefing">http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/pir-debriefing</a></p>
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<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">I have summarized information on where to stay:</span></strong></p>
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<p><em><strong>From Andie3 on December 14, 2010</strong></em><br></br> We stayed at the Country Inn and…</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Here is a discussion with lots of useful information on PIR.</span></strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/pir-debriefing">http://www.navyformoms.com/forum/topics/pir-debriefing</a></p>
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<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">I have summarized information on where to stay:</span></strong></p>
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<p><em><strong>From Andie3 on December 14, 2010</strong></em><br/> We stayed at the Country Inn and Suites in Gurnee. It was fabulous! They have a pool/ hot tub, a great breakfast is offered for free and different hot things every day. Gurnee is about 10 minutes from the training center and full of places to eat and shop. My son spent a ton of time at the outlet mall and Target buying boxer briefs and Starbucks! He also bought a DS for his flight to his A school. *giggle* Your son should know before hand if he is grad n go. When is his PIR? Do you have enough time to write and ask him?<br/>
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From PattiM-proud mom of sailor Alex on December 11, 2010</strong></em><br/>
Hampton Inn in Libertyville is very nice and includes morning breakfast, pool and hot tub. We had 2 Queen size beds and a pull out couch, refridge and microwave . We did not know in advance that we would have our son with us for the entire weekend, so our extra space worked great for sleeping and conversation. Libertyville has some good restaurants too and is 15-20 minutes from the base. Took the train into Chicago for sightseeing $7.00 per person for unlimited trips on the weekend( free for those in military uniform-the water taxi in Chicago took us to the Navy Pier -also free for those in uniform). We actually drove into Chicago on Sunday and parking was $14.00 for the day and traffic was no problem.<br/>
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<em><strong>From cheryllynn-proud mom of a sailor on November 4, 2010</strong></em><br/>
We stayed at the Courtyard, Marriott in Waukegan. Very nice hotel. Very helpful and pleasant employees.<br/>
Breakfast is served in the lobby area each morning. You can order buffet or menu and you have to pay.<br/>
There is a shuttle taxi service that you can sign up for at a charge of $6.00 a person each way. I think it may be a little cheaper for the Sailor. They will also bring your Sailor back to base in the evening if need be. We decided to use the shuttle in the morning to PIR, even though we had a rental car, just to get there easily and find our bearings. We did get dropped off at the opposite end of the entrance to the hall so if you go in the winter prepare for a walk to get in. Dress warm. I believe any shuttle service has the same drop off spot so you will have to walk.<br/>
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From Dillions Mom *Sailor* on November 6, 2010</strong></em><br/>
we stayed at Springhill Suites, it was very nice, clean, staff was friendly. I would not recoment taking a shuttle to the PIR, we waited for this lady to come and she drove a mini van, she didnt do it that often so she was confused where to drop us off, it was a ways from graduation and we walked completly around the base to get there. she is usually a school bus driver and her van only held 7 people at a time. if we had to do over, we would of drove.<br/>
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<em><strong>From Sassafras Proud Mom of a Sailor on November 7, 2010</strong></em><br/>
We stayed at the Days Inn in Waukegan -- which was basically an okay place to stay... clean, refrig & microwave, but no pool or spa and no great restaurants nearby and a LONG/SLOW 8 miles to the base. On the other hand, Gurnee and Libertyville seemed to have LOTS of interesting things to do. ~~~<br/>
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From Sassafras Proud Mom of a Sailor on November 7, 2010</strong></em><br/>
About accommodations: If it's in your budget ($170+ per night for 2 adults + 2 kids), this place in Gurnee looks like a hoot. <a href="http://www.keylimecove.com/">http://www.keylimecove.com/</a> They have an indoor waterpark... which we found out about on our last day in town... so I really know nothing about it other than what's on their website... still, I guaratee you, had we stayed at the waterpark hotel we would likely not have done anything but swim and play the whole weekend...<br/>
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From TRea’s Mom (ship 09 div 015) on December 6, 2010</strong></em><br/>
Just stay away from the Super 8 in the 600 block of Green Bay Road in Waukegan. The prices are reasonable, but we stayed there and it's on my list to not repeat that mistake. The cops had to be called the last night we were there for a party across the hall that got very loud and profane. Not good!<br/>
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<em><strong>Also from TRea’s Mom on December 4, 2010</strong></em><br/>
But we did come upon a couple of experiences in the Great Lakes area that I would like to pass along. First, regarding choice of a hotel, DO NOT stay at the Super 8 on Green Bay Road. We chose it first and foremost because of the price. We just couldn't afford to spend a lot on accomodations, but for what we got, it was way overpriced. The showers were terrible, not much water pressure and the water temperature was all over the scale, first hot and then cold, without touching the control. Also the shower curtain was hanging by a very loose set of screws and we had to be careful not to pull the rod off the wall. The hotel is generally rundown and they are obviously not investing anything in it. The beds were okay at best. But the worst was the very loud party that took place across the hall from my room, and I do mean loud!! There was music so loud the floor was vibrating and then the party spilled out into the hall with people yelling curse words. Finally the police were called and they arrested some people. When I talked to the hotel manager about taking something off my bill for inconvenience, he said they handled it the best they could and would not be giving any discount.<br/>
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From Joshuas PROUD MomofaSAILOR on December 16, 2010</strong></em><br/>
Hey Y'all - I've only been on here a few times since PIR (10/29/10) - I just found this discussion and didn't see any mention of the Navy Lodge - which is where we stayed. Only $65, per night NO taxes - and we had a very decent room. It's a no frills place, but we had a room with a small kitchen - stove top, microwave, coffee maker and fridge. The staff was WONDERFUL! We had arrived about an hour and a half prior to check in time, but the manager allowed us to go ahead and check in (I guess we looked as exhausted as we were after our all-nighter of driving!). It was just down the road from the graduation hall, and there was an NEX express just around the corner (They were mainly like a convenience store - with gas pumps).<br/>
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<em><strong>From Tee-1sailor’s mom on October 2, 2009</strong></em><br/>
We stayed at the Residence Inn, Waukegan. It was wonderful. We got a AAA discount so I booked a 1 br suite. Full kitchen, (everything but an oven). If you are there on Thurs. night they have a free dinner buffet, and hot breakfast every day. The staff is also very helpful with directions, etc. We told them we were going to PIR and they had a packet of information for us.<br/>
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My son wanted to mostly hang out and eat. There's a Walmart and several eating places really close. The Mall is about 20 minutes away. We went to the movies there and if you want to shop, it's nice.<br/>
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From Heloisa on July 3, 2008</strong></em><br/>
I stayed at the Quality Inn, in Waukegan. It was very nice. They let us have a room with two double beds, and when we told them we were bringing our daughter, they charged only $10 more for her to stay in the room. They also have a huge poster board in the lobby, with pictures of more than 500 Navy graduates, and a banner congratulating the graduates. The rooms are nice, and they fold the towels in the bathroom in a format of flowers. They are about 5 minutes away from the Base by car, and they offer Continental breakfast.<br/>
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<em><strong>From Sheryl on July 3, 2008</strong></em><br/>
We stayed at the Homewood suites in Linconshire last weekend. It was Very nice, totally worth it...Be sure to ask at the front desk how to get to the base taking the side road, its a very easy drive and that way you miss the tolls and all that traffic on 94!!!<br/>
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From Georgia on July 4, 2008</strong></em><br/>
I checked out a bunch of hotels when visiting my son at the Great Lakes, IL Navy base, and I found the Courtyard by Marriott Chicago Waukegan/Gurnee (<a href="http://www.marriott.com/chiwk">www.marriott.com/chiwk</a>). They are listed in the Navy brochure. It is the best hotel ever! We checked in and they gave us a ton of information about the graduation, shuttle information and a huge "Navy Family" welcome packet. It had directions to everything you could think of plus Chicago transportation info and tons of restaurants and things to do in the area. When we came back from graduation, the hotel had a huge color poster put out "congratulations graduates" with cookies and their free fresh fruit water/coffee & tea they have out every day. The staff was more than accommodating. I never travel but I felt at home with the staff and the very comfortable, clean non-smoking hotel. The hotel was not a party hotel like most hotels in the area, it was very quiet and as a single woman I felt very safe. It was very modern and more upscale than any hotel in waukegan/gurnee and has beautiful marble floors in the lobby. Anyways I just wanted to say that I really enjoyed this hotel and it you want a nice place to take your graduate back to, this is the place!<br/>
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From 209mikesmom on April 26, 2010</strong></em><br/>
Just got back from PIR this past weekend! What an experience! We stayed at the Residence inn. We had a 2 bedroom suite. It was really nice. It had a full kitchen. We were able to use points cause my husband travels a lot. We also used the shuttle service. Everything went smooth. New moms hang in there. Keep writing, they love getting letters. your turn will be here before you know it. Good luck to all of you and your sailors.<br />
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<br></br>We are asking everyone to say a prayer for the US "Darkhorse" 3rd Battalion 5th Marines and their families. They are fighting it out in Afghanistan and have lost 10 Marines in 4 days. Please re-post this. IT WOULD BE NICE TO SEE IT ......EVERYWHERE......... Even if......its only for an hour, come on guys...... show... your support. Semper Fi…
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<font size="4"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: bold;">RELOCATING</span></font>:</font> <br></br><font size="2">The period of adjustment may take weeks, months or even years. For some who can not let go maybe never. Our family moved from one country to another: different language, different foods, different laws, different culture. No money to speak of - we actually owed our sponsor $10,000 in 1957 to sponsor us to the US - had to pay all that off before moving away from a God forsaken part…</font>
<font size="4"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: bold;">RELOCATING</span></font>:</font> <br/><font size="2">The period of adjustment may take weeks, months or even years. For some who can not let go maybe never. Our family moved from one country to another: different language, different foods, different laws, different culture. No money to speak of - we actually owed our sponsor $10,000 in 1957 to sponsor us to the US - had to pay all that off before moving away from a God forsaken part of the desert to a metropolitan so my siblings and I can get an education. A few friends. No family. All we had was hope, hope for the future and the willingness to work. That was enough. Seven days after we landed in San Francisco, we took a train to our nowhere destination, arriving at 3 am. I saw my first real-life American Indian with a feather in his hat. I ran screaming to my mother's arms, "NO, NO. DON'T LET HIM SCALP ME!" (I had only seen the Hollywood version in the movies).</font> <br/><br/><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: bold;">ANYONE CAN MAKE IT:</span></font><br/>THANK YOU USA. Despite of the downturn in our economy, we (the USA) still have the greatest number of opportunities for success. I have traveled cross country a number of times - I have not found a state/city without something special - even ones without the gift of natural beauty (such as Coastal CA, Hawaii, Wyoming) - or without the vibrancy of commerce (New York, Chicago, Boston). If you have to move to a new place. Don't make yourself into a stranger in a strange land. Embrace the difference. Our sailors have this incredible opportunity as part of their job. Let them discover the world out there. Let their enjoy their travels away from home. Imagine - going to new place while getting paid for the privilege. Maybe their new perspectives will also broaden your horizons.<br/><font style="font-weight: bold;" size="3"><br/>FAKE POLITENESS VS GENUINE RUDENESS (let's have some fun with this):</font><br/>Your opinion please? Which city best exemplifies the following: Fake Politeness, Genuine Rudeness, Fake Rudeness, Genuine Politeness? Submit your entries.<br/><br/><span style="font-weight: bold;">Fake Politeness - Los Angeles, CA</span><br style="font-weight: bold;"/><span style="font-weight: bold;">Genuine Rudeness - Boston, MA</span><br style="font-weight: bold;"/><span style="font-weight: bold;">Fake Rudeness - Honolulu, HI</span><br style="font-weight: bold;"/><span style="font-weight: bold;">Genuine Politeness - Salt Lake City, UT</span><br/><br/><font style="font-weight: bold;" size="3">Please feel free to comment on anything you like. After all it's just a blog!</font><br/>P.S. @Proud Mom of J.R. (sandy), drop in more often. Merry Xmas. <br/>Deleting Your Profile deletes ALL your blogs, discussions, comments and groups (which you are the creator)tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2010-10-14:1971797:BlogPost:42710512010-10-14T17:22:40.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
Dear N4M members,<br></br>It's possible if you are stressed out to post a blog, a forum discussion or a comment which you regret posting later on. You need not delete your profile. Look for the little "x" on the upper right hand corner. Just click on that and your comment (s) will be deleted. To delete a blog or discussion, you need to open up the particular blog or discussion and click on "Delete this ..." Only the creator of a group can delete the group or a comment posted by a member of the…
Dear N4M members,<br/>It's possible if you are stressed out to post a blog, a forum discussion or a comment which you regret posting later on. You need not delete your profile. Look for the little "x" on the upper right hand corner. Just click on that and your comment (s) will be deleted. To delete a blog or discussion, you need to open up the particular blog or discussion and click on "Delete this ..." Only the creator of a group can delete the group or a comment posted by a member of the group. Admins of the group can not that delete comments posted by members or delete the group.<br/><br/>If you are the member who recently deleted your blog, we understand. Please rejoin N4M (with a different profile) and send my a friend request. I don't know of anyone nor can I think of anyone with a "golden" child - one who never gets into trouble. We all have episodes with our children - some more hair raising than others. Your son will live through this. You will too. You are not alone. Do not suffer through the coming months by self. Your friends without military experience will simply not understand. <br/><br/>BQB - you know where to find me.<br/>Computer tip for those with poor eye sight.tag:navyformoms.ning.com,2010-10-01:1971797:BlogPost:42222602010-10-01T01:24:09.000ZBunkerQBhttps://navyformoms.ning.com/profile/BunkerBee
<i><u>Computer tip for those with poor eye sight. I posted this as a comment on another blog but thought everyone should know about this.<br/><br/></u></i>Did you all know that you can "increase" or "decrease" the size of
everything on your screen, by holding down the "Ctrl" key with one<br />
finger and turning the little dial on top of your mouse? Try it. I just<br />
found out about this little trick and thought I had invented sliced<br />
bread. <br/>
<i><u>Computer tip for those with poor eye sight. I posted this as a comment on another blog but thought everyone should know about this.<br/><br/></u></i>Did you all know that you can "increase" or "decrease" the size of
everything on your screen, by holding down the "Ctrl" key with one<br />
finger and turning the little dial on top of your mouse? Try it. I just<br />
found out about this little trick and thought I had invented sliced<br />
bread. <br/>