Are there any sailors that are moms and is enlisted and active duty? I have already taken my asvab waiting for dates for bootcamp but now I am getting cold feet. I am enlisting as active duty and going in as full time support. Any advice to help me get over this cold feet? I've been wanting to be in the military since I was 14... I am now 20.. I'm excited to join, but then there's moments like today where I'm hesitant.