Perhaps a little more information would help us to know what you are asking.
my daughter had her box and long form sent to my sister. it kinda hurt with the other moms talking about it.
I'm sorry that your sister got the box and form letter instead of you. I didn't have that experience, so I can only imagine how you feel. Hopefully, you and your sister share a good relationship and she shared your daughter's address with you. Whatever the reason, she felt that her aunt should get those and feeling hurt will not change that or mend any hurts on either side, but offering unconditional love and support will. Write to your daughter and encourage her and tell her how proud you are of her--don't mention the box and form letter.
my sister is very controling person, ,My sister didn't give me her address it is has turned out well I got a letter from my daughter and she redid and made me next of kin. her letters were very touching and I have sent two letters this week and plan on sending as many as I can. thank you for your replys. I must say this is the most supportive site. thank you
I'm glad that things are working out.
Here is the link to your PIR group.....lots of info and support and perhaps someone whose dtr is with yours!