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Comment by SarahsMom(Ship03/Div176) on April 7, 2013 at 2:29pm

PamperedMom my daughter just went through this and left the DLI two weeks ago for a new command. She to was very upset after working so hard for eight months. She has a new opportunity with a shorter contract but was very disappointed. Failed one section of an exam by 2 points.....

I have heard other branches get training prior to arriving at the DLI and are also provided Rosetta Stone in their language so they start with a leg up.

Its such a touch school and has a high failure rate. These are some really smart kids so I know they feel really stressed when they have to struggle so hard.

ON a positive note he will get another opportunity and probably a shorter contract.

Hang in there!

Comment by PamperedMom on April 7, 2013 at 10:35am

My sailor has been struggling with his classes. He has worked very hard, hired tutors but still has difficulty. My heart is so heavy for him. He really wanted this! He has been before the review boards and is being processed for a lack of ability. Not sure what lies ahead for him...

Comment by joyce on April 7, 2013 at 7:17am

navy daughter mom - remind them that the navy tested them and thinks they are able to do this or they would not have gotten in and as i read earlier, there are study groups to join that might help.  they also survived boot camp which is difficult for some and they surrvived.  hope that helps.  my sailor just arrived late last night.praying for them all.

Comment by Aussiesmom on April 3, 2013 at 1:43pm

Hello NavyDaughter/Mom,

My son graduated from DLI in February and I remember how stressed he was at times...especially in the beginning.  IndyMom gave you some great advice.  The study groups for my son were so very helpful.

One particular conversation I remember having early on was my son telling me about "all the studying", "all that he had to do" and "all that he had to accomplish".  I could hear how overwhelmed he was.  I just reminded him that the only way to eat an elephant, is one bite at a time.  I could tell he was looking at the "BIG" picture, when what he really needed to focus on was the task at hand.  That simple reminder to take things a day at a time, seemed to really help him.  I hope the best for your son/daughter and for you as well.  Hang in there...it does get better.

Comment by IndyMom on April 3, 2013 at 12:55pm

Hi NavyDaughter/Mom.  I am a Professor in an Academic Skills Department-so I work with students everyday to develop learning skills for Reading and Writing.  I need more information as to what is specially happening to her to help.  What language, has she taken a language before, what is her learning style, what type of student was she like in High School, etc.  You can call or message me and I will give you my number.  One thing you can tell her is that if she was able to pass the DLI she has what it takes to be successful at learning a new language-so relax and try not to panic.  They have a number of services availabe to help students having trouble.  She can be setback if or maybe even go to a lower tier language if necessary.  My son has a study group he works with and is one of the top students in his class, he might be able to talk to her and give her some advice. Both of you hang in there, she got through BC she will get through this too.

Comment by NavyDaughter/Mom on April 3, 2013 at 12:11pm

Ok, so I need some help, please.  My child JUST started language class on Friday.  I got a call on Monday, my child was practically in tears.  He/she is overwhelmed already and feels like he/she will fail class and be fleeted. I got another text this morning that the last few days haven't been any better.  I tried explaining that it's just the learning curve, the first few days/weeks of anything new are going to be difficult.  Any advice or words of encourgement that you can offer would be greatly appreciated.  I just don't know what to do to help...

Comment by KC'smom on March 31, 2013 at 7:58pm

Just for an idea of what lies ahead, my son graduated in September. His classmates JUST finished their next school & I guess are ready to actually start their job. My son is 6 months behind them b/c he went to extra training for flight crew.

Comment by Lisa (A-Mac's mom) on March 31, 2013 at 7:07pm

We spent a fabulous 8 days in CA, capped off with a joyous celebration of our new CTI's accomplishments.  He got his AA degree on the same day.  How cool to have an AA issued by the United States Congress!!  I would highly recommend you guys go out early if you want to tourist with your son/daughter.  Our son flew out PCS the day after graduation.  I've heard that happens a lot.  

I'd hoped to meet the other moms from this site there.  But apparently our kids graduated at different ceremonies.  They had five graduations that day, one right after another.

On to the next chapter of the adventure! 

Comment by beckmcs on March 31, 2013 at 6:46pm

Back in Texas after a wonderful trip for DLI graduation.  Greenoak, you are so right.  Our sailors and their friends from all branches looked fabulous in their dress uniforms.  So proud!  Here's to a safe and adventurous road trip East!!!

Ducky, it is a tough, tough program and we certainly had some anxious days.  Our son tapped into the amazing support network that the instructors offer and it made a huge difference. 

Comment by greenoak on March 29, 2013 at 8:24pm

The graduation ceremony was beautiful,so proud of all the kids,they all did a great job and looked soo smart, now for some well deserved rest.

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