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Hey all,
It has been a while. My fiancé is now in A School in good ole Pcola, Florida. Getting through basic was a challenge, but definitely worth the rewarding feeling in the end. Him and I are super excited about getting married. He already has his station orders for vA beavh which is such a blessing. My question is should we wait until he is one with A school in about 3 weeks or get married during?

Thanks!

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Because he already has orders, you will not be added to them for the move to his new duty station.  Unless you live near him in FL. it would make little sense to fly down there to marry.  If he's coming home on leave, it would make financial sense to wait until then.

A school marriages tend to be so the new spouse can move herself to the school, or to be "on the orders".  He already had orders, so too late for that, they will not change them now.

Okay! So another reason we were thinking about getting married in A school was so the BAH would go through before we moved to Virginia Beach. However, it seems as though that wouldn't be the case if we waited to get married while on leave because then he couldn't get the papers to base until he reported after his leave? He says he put in a request to talk to the chaplin two days ago so hopefully this week we will know more. As far as if we get married while on leave versus A school when moving to VA we can decide to do that on our own expense until the BAh kicks in correct? Sorry so many questions..

 

It would be quicker the sooner you marry.  And the BAH will be backdated from the day you married, not the day he gets the paperwork in (Pretty sure of that).  So whatever works financially sounds like it would be your best choice.

He should ask his personal property office there if he's eligible for a household goods move from his home of record to his new duty station.  He might be.  But he needs to ask NOW.

My sailor is going to A school in San Antonio, TX. Do you know how long it took for the paperwork to process? 

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