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Help needed!!
Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies 0 Likes
Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue
advice!
Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies 0 Likes
Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue
Graduation coming up
Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies 0 Likes
Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue
Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!
Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply 0 Likes
Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other. A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue
New here!
Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies 0 Likes
Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue
Fiancé Advice
Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies 0 Likes
My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue
Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??
Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies 0 Likes
Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue
Hello Everyone!
Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply 1 Like
Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue
POA to get a military i.d.
Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies 3 Likes
Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue
sending photos
Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies 0 Likes
My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19. I just received his box but no form letter yet. As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos. I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue
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Comment by Monty's mom on May 22, 2010 at 11:48am
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Thank you Anti M for the information....
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Comment by Anti M on May 22, 2010 at 10:25am
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Melissa, if I may ask, were you married when he got his orders, or after, on leave? It doesn't make a difference, but I do give advice and you may be a person with firsthand knowledge who can help everyone later. Was his command expecting a single sailor or a married one? If you don't care to answer, that would be cool, but I think you may have some very good experience to share. Thanks.
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Comment by branbear...My SaiLor BoO on May 22, 2010 at 1:11am
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hey Melissa..I Know im kinda late on the situation but if i may ask..why are they making him get a place?
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Melissa, they can't make him live on the street! He should talk to his chain of command or the command master chief. That's ridiculous! Someone is wrong, and I doubt it is him.
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Comment by always waiting on May 21, 2010 at 11:00pm
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Melissa- Have you looked at the place that you both agreed on? I mean, in person, not just on the internet? My husband and I looked at places online and we thought one of them was the one so we hardly put any thought into anything else, but when we got there is was awful. We just moved to Norfolk, which is the only reason I'm commenting. The only place we found that was decent and had washer and dryer is in Virginia Beach, which is where we are now. I hope everything works out for the two of you and that you are able to move here before October!
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Melissa, he should talk to Navy Relief about a small emergency loan or help with the deposit. They used to do that, so maybe it will still apply. Can't hurt to ask.
Monty's mom, I have no good news for you. An E-3 or below is not authorized to take a dependent overseas. She must be command sponsored be eligible for base housing, and on base housing is not authorized for E-3 and below. She should not just go with him, the Navy Lodge won't let her stay very long. He must put in a request through his command for her sponsorship. Also, she will not get the right kind of visa to stay as a resident if she isn't sponsored by the command.
If he is E-4 or above, he'll still have to request for her to be command sponsored. I used to live in Yokosuka, the housing there took almost a year to open up. Sasebo is a small base, I don't know what the wait is, but it wouldn't be short.
My old blog on the subject:
http://www.navyformoms.com/profiles/blogs/what-is-command-sponsorship
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I'm sorry Melissa. I know how frustrating the pay situation goes. We were supposed to get paid for our move to Norfolk, its been almost a month and we still haven't heard anything. Is he looking to live on base or are you guys looking for an apartment in town? What ship is he going to be on? If he's met some of the guys, I'm sure one of them would be willing to drive him around-- I'm sure those living on the boat would like an excuse to get off and a lot of them have cars.
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Ouch....ok. Thanks
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I actually have a question for my son and his future wife....He is about to be sent to Japan for 3 years, he is planning on getting married before he goes on June 7th....my question is, how long should it take for them to get housing on base? She's wondering if she should go with him and them stay in a hotel on base, or just wait til housing comes through....I guess, it depends on how long that will be. Any idea???? Thanks
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I got mine both in the military and as a civilian going to Iran, so I was able to ask about it without being rushed. This was looooong before 1995. I think they say "penicillin" because it's easier than explaining gamma globulin to recruits in line. Too many people are allergic to penicillin, the military doesn't even use it for infections these days! I've had it in shots too, and they're "normal" shots. I don't know why the corpsman said that, verbally lazy?
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