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Comment by SumiK0125 (wife of a Nuke MM) on May 20, 2010 at 4:20am

I'm soo sad...i haven't gotten a letter still.... my husband left on April 30th...how come i STILL haven't heard from him.... wish i could be in a good mood like all you ladies and be able to share....
congrats though on hearing from your loved ones!
guess i just have to keep waiting....

Comment by Nicole loves Sean (EM-N (SS)) on May 19, 2010 at 9:43pm

congrats jennifer... letter day was always my favorite day while my bf was in bootcamp... those letters will be worth more than gold to you. cherish each one.

Comment by Jennifer on May 19, 2010 at 9:19pm

I got my 1st letter from my bf today...He left for BC may 5th...I am the happiest person ever right now...He misses me so much...He said he had a panic attack his 1st night there because he missed everyone that much..He also told me he want to marry me so bad and feels he needs me to live...I dont think I have ever been so happy in my life!!!!Just thought I would let you girls know the great news!

Jenn

Comment by Emily-aaronsgirl11 on May 19, 2010 at 8:28pm

Just thought I'd share another good idea for letters-- In my letters to boot camp I would tell him about my day, including every time I thought about him, and then I'd write about a memory I had with him. For example, when we first met, our first kiss, our first real date. I'd go into detail about my thoughts and feelings on those days, and sometimes he'd write back with what was running through his head :)
When I ran out of memories, I looked to the future. I wrote about moving in with him, my dream wedding, and having little ones running around.

He loved that I thought about this stuff, and it gave him somewhere to escape to when the RDC's just wouldn't shut up :)

Comment by his girl on May 19, 2010 at 7:24pm

torn to pieces-great song... it's hard but youll get through it =] he will really appreciate it I'm sure

Comment by JENN 226 on May 19, 2010 at 4:17pm

totally off topic but I just finished writing a letter to my boyfriend and at the end of the letter I have been putting song quotes from songs that we used to sing and dance to our that we could relate to... we are both country music fans and I put at the end of this letter " The heart dont forget something like that"... tears came to my eyes :( oh this soo hard!

Comment by ariel042109 on May 19, 2010 at 3:55pm

*my boyfriend at the time. He is no longer that and I am happily married. I would not want for my friend or stranger to tell me that my husband is cheating on me. Especially if they are at A School, deployed, or just a million miles away in general. Yes, I don't believe that once a cheater always a cheater and they might be able to work things out if together. A cheating boyfriend is way different than a cheating husband and is way different if there on kids involved.

Comment by ariel042109 on May 19, 2010 at 3:49pm

A cheating spouse is totally different than a car that is on fire. Unfortunately that is the truth of it and it can't be related. As one person said... there are always 2 sides to the story, and unless Melissa viewed the cheating with her OWN eyes I wouldn't pass it on. I was told by my boyfriend that his brother was cheating on his wife. The wife and I were good friends at the time and I told her. She ended up moving from Texas back to Florida and I lost contact with her. Her husband (even though he probably really was cheating on his wife) threatened my life. Melissa is not there to hold her when she falls apart. She could very easily decide that her life has no meaning without her husband. It isn't her place.

Comment by ChucksChick (He's a Sailor!!) on May 19, 2010 at 3:04pm

If it were a stranger, then of course not, but if it's someone that you've talked to before, then yeah, i'd want you to tell me. You said that you talk to her pretty regularly so it's not like you're just some random chick on myspace or something sending her an email. I wish one of my ex-husband's friends' girlfriends had've told me what he was doing behind my back.. woulda saved me a year and a half of hell. I think that if you chose to tell her, she knows her husband.. she would know if he wasn't "acting right" and you'd probably just be confirming what she already knows. That being said, if you choose to tell her you could ruin any chance of a friendship between the two of you because some females would rather get mad at you than to believe that their husband was running around on them. I would tell.. hell, you could be saving this girl's life cause there's no telling what kind of women hes out there messing with and what they may or may not have. *shrugs* Just a thought..

Comment by Jess on May 19, 2010 at 2:52pm

when it comes to matters of the heart.Only the hearts involved need be concerned.
From experience.And of course you would want to know.But it is not our place to interfere.There are two sides to everything

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