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Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

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Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

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Keisha

Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3872
Latest Activity: Feb 6

I'm a Navy Wife and I created this group back when I was a girlfriend and my now husband had gone to bootcamp. Its funny because i joined this website when they had under 50 members. This website has been sooooo helpful and I met so many people on here that gave great advice. I made this group so that we could all come together and give eachother advice and share ideas. I see that this group is growing more and more by the day, Im happy to see that because so many wives/fiances/and girlfriends are clueless when it comes the military lifestyle. Not knowing what to expect and not knowing about deployments, bootcamp, duty stations, etc. I want this to be the place you all recommend because so many people on this site are knowledgeable and very helpful. Once again thanks for joining my group and i hope you get all the information you need. I dont get to log on as much as i used to but i try my best to get on here. So if u have any questions feel free to make a discussion topic and Im positive that it will get answered if not, inbox me :-) Take Care ♥

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Help needed!!

Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies

Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue

advice!

Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue

Graduation coming up

Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue

Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!

Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply

Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other.  A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue

New here!

Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies

Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue

Fiancé Advice

Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies

My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue

Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??

Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies

Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue

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Hello Everyone!

Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply

Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue

POA to get a military i.d.

Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies

Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue

sending photos

Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies

My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19.  I just received his box but no form letter yet.  As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos.  I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue

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Comment by SimplySimi23 on February 16, 2017 at 10:41pm

My SO got 4 phone calls because his division won captain's cup. I also know of some people who got a call every weekend because their sailor's division behaved very well. It definitely depends on how the division performs but you should get 3 calls at a minimum.

Comment by tatortot1107 on February 16, 2017 at 10:39pm

Michael, 

Sailors get three phone calls, "I'm here", usually a ten minute call, and the "I'm a sailor call". The timing of the ten minute call depends on the behavior and timing of other events throughout boot. They are guaranteed three calls, anything over that are earned and a privilege. 

Ani M is correct, they really have to screw up to not get phone calls. Things come up and some sailors miss call times, but usually they get to make them up later on. 

Comment by Anti M on February 16, 2017 at 9:38pm

LOL, near the NEX.  No bears!

Comment by Anti M on February 16, 2017 at 9:38pm

There usual pattern of phone calls is "I'm here", one around the third week, and the I'm a sailor call.  The third week is not a hard and fast guarantee, but they do try to get the division to the phone banks around then.  They really have to screw up not to get calls, and it is an everyone or no one thing.  They may even earn more calls, and some divisions get several.  The phone bank is bear the NEX and they can buy a calling card.  Now and then an individual will miss a call because they are at dental, or are standing a watch.  They do not get make up calls if they miss one.  The I'm a sailor call is nice and long for the most part.  

Concentrate on your letters, it takes a little while for the Mail PO to be trained, but once they are, the division can begin receiving mail around week two or three.  You may hear them ask why they aren't getting your letters, it is just that initial delay.  Mail is federal and cannot be withheld.  They are not supposed to read mail afer lights out, or write, but a few do.  Ssssh.  There are red lights on in the compartment at night, so be  sure to write in nice dark black or blue ink.  Other colors are hard to read after taps.  Again, ssssh.

Comment by Michael on February 16, 2017 at 9:29pm
That's is not 100% truth with phone calls. Phone calls are earned. When my husband was in boot camp last spring two divisions did not make there first call until week 6 because they were goofing off and falling behind. They will not reward you with phone calls if your screwing around if people in your division are screwing up its up to the others in that division to ride there asses. My husband did not call me until almost week 4 on a Wednesday and only because he needed something else mailed I got 90 seconds that was it then he called me the following Sunday and got a full 10 minutes. Phone calls are a privilege not a right as long as you behave and keep your division in check you will be rewarded.
Comment by tatortot1107 on February 16, 2017 at 8:27pm

akdell, when my fiance went through in November..we got his box about 6 days after he got to boot, the PIR letter about 10 days after and then I got his first letter about 2 weeks after he got there, and I got his first phone call 3.5 weeks after he got there and letters should get to you by wednesday or thursdays depending on where you are located. They only get to write on Sundays :) Let me know if you have any questions! 

Comment by akjanko17 on February 16, 2017 at 7:11pm
exoluxion13 my boyfriend is also at boot camp in the Great Lakes! Do you know how long it will be before they can start sending letters?
Comment by Anti M on February 10, 2017 at 11:18am

Also, while a month is a long time, check out couchsurfing too.  People just let you stay at their home for free.  I used to host travelers, but for health reasons I couldn't keep up so I quit doing it.  But check it out, even f you have to swap locations, it might be useful and fun.

Comment by Anti M on February 10, 2017 at 11:12am

While it is usually full, have him check with Navy Lodge.  Be careful of timeshare rentals, you often need to change rooms each week.  

Comment by Allison on February 10, 2017 at 8:21am
San Diego is very expensive according to our friends that just got stationed there, so I second air bnb, and don't be afraid of just renting a room with them if they're willing to let you access their kitchen. You can also ask hotels if they have a weekly rate for extended stays, but definitely make sure they have a kitchenette if you go that route.
 

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