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Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

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Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

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RTC Graduation

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

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Keisha

Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3872
Latest Activity: Feb 6

I'm a Navy Wife and I created this group back when I was a girlfriend and my now husband had gone to bootcamp. Its funny because i joined this website when they had under 50 members. This website has been sooooo helpful and I met so many people on here that gave great advice. I made this group so that we could all come together and give eachother advice and share ideas. I see that this group is growing more and more by the day, Im happy to see that because so many wives/fiances/and girlfriends are clueless when it comes the military lifestyle. Not knowing what to expect and not knowing about deployments, bootcamp, duty stations, etc. I want this to be the place you all recommend because so many people on this site are knowledgeable and very helpful. Once again thanks for joining my group and i hope you get all the information you need. I dont get to log on as much as i used to but i try my best to get on here. So if u have any questions feel free to make a discussion topic and Im positive that it will get answered if not, inbox me :-) Take Care ♥

Discussion Forum

Help needed!!

Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies

Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue

advice!

Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue

Graduation coming up

Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue

Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!

Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply

Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other.  A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue

New here!

Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies

Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue

Fiancé Advice

Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies

My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue

Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??

Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies

Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue

Tags: moving, chicago, illinois, Lakes, Great

Hello Everyone!

Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply

Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue

POA to get a military i.d.

Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies

Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue

sending photos

Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies

My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19.  I just received his box but no form letter yet.  As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos.  I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue

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Comment by Jason c. on December 28, 2016 at 12:32am
Yes I'm looking forward to that, she'll be going to San Antonio for MAA school. It'll be great once she gets her phone back, can't wait. Texts and phone calls will make a world of difference. And yes I understand that this is a good prep for when she's deployed, there will be harder times than this I know.
Comment by abuon18 on December 27, 2016 at 11:33pm
I'm sorry you aren't going to get to go for her graduation but at least you have more frequent communication to look forward to once she does graduate! She'll be able to get her cell phone & computer back that day, and as long as she is not in class, on watch or on some sort of restriction, she'll be able to use them pretty freely. And you have a visit to look forward where she'll have more time and freedom than if you were to go to her graduation anyway (unless she's staying in Great Lakes for A school-if she's going elsewhere, they typically fly them out early the next day.).
Comment by Michael on December 27, 2016 at 10:34pm
Yes Jason like they say always write. I wrote my husband everyday and our 3 year old drew a picture once a week. Some days go by no letters then one day I get 3. Just hang in there. This is the beginning of a good road of dealing when she's on deployment and on underways.
Comment by Jason c. on December 27, 2016 at 10:34pm
Yea I write her everyday and from her voicemail I could tell she's getting my letters fairly quickly, roughly one week after I send them. That's why I was confused that the one I have took 12 days to get here and now its been 17 days since she sent second one. Ill be fine, just anxious to hear her voice or read her thoughts. I won't make it to graduation though I will visit her in a school after she makes phase 3 liberties. So roughly 9 more weeks till I see her. Uuugh!
Comment by abuon18 on December 27, 2016 at 9:54pm
Hey, you're past the halfway point! That's awesome. I hope you're able to go to her graduation. I remember when my husband was in boot camp, any time I would get a letter I would read it over and over. That was 5.5 years ago now and I still have them! (And he has mine too.) I would say just keep writing to her, because even if there's delay in her sending or you receiving her letters, she really is relying on your letters to get her through these last few weeks of boot camp. I know it's hard for you to wonder when you're going to get her letter when you know she sent it, especially after just missing her call, but you just have to know that she is always thinking of you!
Comment by Jason c. on December 27, 2016 at 9:44pm
Thanx for the encouragement abuon18, no i hadn't considered that although I should have. I missed her call this past friday and now I'm just itching to get a letter, she's over 5 weeks into BC now and I did get to speak with her once and received one letter but its never enough is it?
Comment by abuon18 on December 27, 2016 at 6:59pm
Jason, have you checked the weather? I know the northeast and Midwest have already gotten hit with a few winter storms, which could be affecting mail in those areas. I wouldn't worry about it - it's on its way. But I know it's frustrating knowing it's coming and you're waiting and waiting for it - it will get to you, I promise!
Comment by Jason c. on December 27, 2016 at 6:24pm
Thanks amber, I hope thats not the case but it makes sense.
Comment by amber02888 on December 27, 2016 at 4:46pm

Jason, when my husband's division got in trouble they didn't get to send out letters or they would have very limited time to write, so I remember there was at least 1 week that nothing was sent out. I hope that helps! 

Comment by Jason c. on December 27, 2016 at 4:40pm
Thanks Michael, the first letter took 12 days to get here so I was getting confused why the very next one would take so much longer. I appreciate the response
 

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