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Join groups!  Browse for groups for your PIR date, your sailor's occupational specialty, "A" school, assigned ship, homeport city, your own city or state, and a myriad of other interests. Jump in and introduce yourself!  Start making friends that can last a lifetime.

Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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Keisha

Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

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Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors

Hello my name is Keisha and i am the creator of this group. Thanks for joining and i hope that all the advice this group gives is helpful

Please, if you no longer want to be a part of N4M's consider NOT deleting your profile as everything you have ever posted will disappear when you delete it .  You can leave a group but don't permanently delete your profile!

Location: From Atlanta, GA all the way to Cali-forn-i-a now in Washington State
Members: 3872
Latest Activity: Feb 6

I'm a Navy Wife and I created this group back when I was a girlfriend and my now husband had gone to bootcamp. Its funny because i joined this website when they had under 50 members. This website has been sooooo helpful and I met so many people on here that gave great advice. I made this group so that we could all come together and give eachother advice and share ideas. I see that this group is growing more and more by the day, Im happy to see that because so many wives/fiances/and girlfriends are clueless when it comes the military lifestyle. Not knowing what to expect and not knowing about deployments, bootcamp, duty stations, etc. I want this to be the place you all recommend because so many people on this site are knowledgeable and very helpful. Once again thanks for joining my group and i hope you get all the information you need. I dont get to log on as much as i used to but i try my best to get on here. So if u have any questions feel free to make a discussion topic and Im positive that it will get answered if not, inbox me :-) Take Care ♥

Discussion Forum

Help needed!!

Started by Nia. Last reply by Nia Sep 7, 2022. 4 Replies

Hi everyone! My name is Nia, I’m new here. I just have a question that have been giving me anxiety lately. So my boyfriend has been emailing me every morning and sometimes night overseas, and then suddenly the flow has stopped out of no where. I’ve…Continue

advice!

Started by Mykenzie Apr 1, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi ladies!I just would love some advice on this current topic my significant other and i are having currently. without saying too much he’s enlisted in the navy and i am currently a university student. his work peers really value his work and his…Continue

Graduation coming up

Started by Kelly Jan 9, 2022. 0 Replies

Hi,Im new here and I am glad that I found a group that share my confusion during new path of couple life. My boyfriend is due to graduate on the 28th and I am so sad I can't make it to see him. Mainly cause he only had two invites and family comes…Continue

Hubby shipping off to BC June 24!

Started by TARA. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 1 Reply

Hi Everyone,I am new to this group and would like to say how thankful I am for finding a community of Navy wives, fiancés and girlfriends who can lend support to each other.  A short background of our Navy journey - my guy wanted to sign up as EM…Continue

New here!

Started by Linda Jane. Last reply by Kaylee Sep 29, 2020. 4 Replies

Hi. I just joined last night. I wanted to introduce myself. I’m linda. My boyfriend is in Great Lakes now for basic training ship 02 Div 950. Then after graduation he immediately ships off to A school in SC. This is all extremely new to me and his…Continue

Fiancé Advice

Started by Lauren C. Last reply by astc Sep 26, 2019. 5 Replies

My fiance just joined the Navy and was sent off to bootcamp this week. We've been together for almost six years and we plan to get married after bootcamp is over.> I was hoping you could tell me if waiting until bootcamp is over was the smart…Continue

Good neighborhoods around Great Lakes IL??

Started by Artfulmind. Last reply by WCK110658 Jul 9, 2019. 3 Replies

Hi everyone! Hubs, baby, and I will be stationed in Great Lakes soon was wondering if anyone new of some good safe family friendly neighborhoods to rent a place? We don't mind being a half hour or so away from base. Heard the surrounding…Continue

Tags: moving, chicago, illinois, Lakes, Great

Hello Everyone!

Started by mommasett. Last reply by Anti M Mar 27, 2019. 1 Reply

Happy Hump day to all!! I am new here and I am so glad that I have found this group! I am hoping it helps in my journey with my boyfriend and understanding his Navy Life a little better. Continue

POA to get a military i.d.

Started by Hafaadai. Last reply by Ib_vv_N Feb 23, 2019. 7 Replies

Hi! My SR left for BC on 28th of Nov. I received THE BOX on Dec. 6th. Still waiting on his form letter, personal letter and DEERS. He did not leave me a POA before he left because the recruiter said we won’t really need it until he gets out of BC.…Continue

sending photos

Started by lifesimplified Feb 20, 2019. 0 Replies

My boyfriend shipped out on 2/11/19.  I just received his box but no form letter yet.  As soon as I get his address, I will be writing him daily and sending many photos.  I read somewhere on this forum that the recruits must show all photos to the…Continue

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Comment by Michael on December 27, 2016 at 4:10pm
Hey Jason mail only leave one day a week out of boot camp if I remember right it's either Saturday or Sunday, and it being Christmas it may delay it even more. If something was wrong you would know it. I know how you feel when my husband was in I get all upset not getting a letter when I lived 50 miles from boot camp but mail is very slow out of there just the way it is. One day I got 4 letters so like i said if she missed the mail truck that day the letter will wait a whole week to go out on the next run. Just how it is. Hang in there buddy.
Comment by Jason c. on December 27, 2016 at 3:56pm
Its been 17 days since my girlfriend wrote me a letter and I still haven't received it yet, is this normal? She's in great lakes and I'm in Arizona. I know its the holidays but 17 days seems really long. Any info would be appreciated
Comment by Anti M on December 25, 2016 at 10:02am

There is only one phone bank, and thousands of recruits. It is physically impossible for them all to call.   Those who get to go to a church dinner may be able to borrow a phone for a short while, but it is really random as to whether they get a chance. Be on the look out for ANY number you don't recognize.

Comment by Michael on December 24, 2016 at 9:13pm
I know my cousin last year who's PIR was the week after New Years did not call on Christmas and called us 3 days before PIR
Comment by Jason c. on December 24, 2016 at 9:07pm
I missed my girlfriends call from bc yesterday, I really hope she'll get another chance on xmas day but I'm trying not to get my hopes up. She's been in bc since Nov 21st and I've gotten one 10 minute call so far.
Comment by Michael on December 24, 2016 at 9:02pm
I am very happy for you but years past sailors did. It get to call. All depends on command and who's in charge.
Comment by Michael on December 24, 2016 at 7:30pm
Get ready for the ride of your life!!!
Comment by ArmyBrat&NavyGirlfriend on December 19, 2016 at 2:52pm
My SR got to call yesterday from BC and while I'm so glad I got to hear his voice I think it actually made me miss him more
Comment by Michael on December 14, 2016 at 7:25pm
Well I was a cop for 12 years going 82 he is lucky the cop did not take his license on the spot because I would have. The judge still can, a lawyer can only do so much. The only thing that he can have on his side is if it was raining outside because there are hundreds of caselaw cases proving that using a laser during rain can give you a inaccurate reading on the laser because rain acts like a prisim and effects the lasers accuracy. Secondly he can ask when the last time the laser was calibrated to make sure it's functioning right like it's suppose to. If a lawyer does get the speed reduced or made to another law violation like defective speedometer he will pay a hefty fine prolly $1000 or better and have to get her speedometer replaced in his car to get rid of the moving violation. Speed violations are not easy to get out of but will pay through the pocketbook. Lasers are precise and are unbeatable except in rain and calibration
Comment by fierssej on December 14, 2016 at 7:11pm

Can anyone recommend a good traffic attorney in VBVA? Hubby got clocked doing 82 coming out of the HOV towards Indian River the Sunday after Thanksgiving. His court date is 3 days after he leaves for deployment, so it's going to be held. He's underway now and can't do the research for himself

 

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