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All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

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**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

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RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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I am fortunate enough to have a pretty good support network. But I'm a bawling wreck. I didn't know how different or hard it would be. When it was time to say goodbye, I cried (a lot) He held it together. How in the world do you do this?

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Sorry, I can't help you. I'm crying my eyes out over the loss of my family unit. I know our daily life has changed forever and that loss I grieve. I'm very proud and 100% supportive but empty nest hurts like a witch. 

My son left on the 4th. Hardest thing I have ever gone through. I remember reading a post that said, "I'm acting like he died and he didn't, he just went to boot camp". I almost feel like I lost a part of my heart when he left. Knowing after boot he will be gone for another 6 years :(. But I am growing stronger every day! I am still a mess periodicity! I cry quiet often! Not as bad as I did the week before he left or the week after., but it is a little better day by day. You just have to concentrate on THE PIR date now. Get excited, I know I am. The sad part is I have a huge support system, but I honestly just want to deal with my emotions alone! In a room, by myself.
This site has been so amazing for me over this past couple of weeks. So much advice, encouragement! Keep up on the posts and read them. You will find comfort I promise!

Thanks Mama J . That pretty much sums up what I think and feel and how I'm dealing with this.

Thank you moms. For some reason, I feel alone. Not that my friends and family aren't supportive. But as a mom, it's just a different kind of emotion. I am Sooo proud of my son and so proud of his choice, but I miss him. Weird to be happy and sad at the same time.

I know exactly what you mean. I am lucky because my husband is very supportive and understands more than most. He is having a time of it ,too and we can both freely admit how we feel. We are very proud of our son and supported his decision while knowing just how difficult the adjustment would be. I just don't want to be an occasional mom, dang it,  I'm not tired of being a fulltime Mom.  

My son left the same day! I got the box yesterday!! this has been an emotional rollercoaster!!

Hi @froggieangel71, did you get a letter, too? Do you know what division he is in? I think I'm driving my husband and daughter nuts with my constant did you check the mail and has fed ex come by, questions.

The first 2 weeks are the busiest...The recruits are transitioning from civilians to sailors.  They are tired but they are okay. They are cut off from the outside world so that they can focus.  Think of it as high school.  Right now they are freshmen.  They are walking around in their navy sweats and haven't been issued their uniforms yet.  By the time they call you again, they will be sophomores.  They will have their uniforms and will have completed their first inspection. The next 2 weeks they are juniors and the last two weeks they are graduating seniors...Listen to their phone calls as they tell you their progress...it is amazing  

I heart you Demetris. I know this will sound strange, but since I don't have contact with my son, whenever I get any advice, feedback, information from you all, it's kind of like a lifeline. Thank you for taking the time to give your analogy.

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