Last year, I was happy to announce that my Sailor had rejoined the fleet as a Reservist. Since then, he has gotten a job he loves with our state’s 2-year college system. He places formerly incarcerated men & women in jobs following their training. And he earned an Ed.S. So what’s the problem, right? No problem, except that his superiors came to him with the proposal that he resubmit his officer packet. Again, what’s the problem? Nothing, except that he’d have to go active. Now, as we say say in the South, he ain’t no kid. And I have no intention of advising him what to do if the time comes. What do you do when you have a civilian job that you love, that gives you an office 5 minutes from your new house you just rented, and is protected by your state’s tenure policy, and then some one says, Oh by the way, you may be looking at an opportunity to live your dream.