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**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

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**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

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My fiance graduates on sep 2 but i leave for bootcamp mon and wont grad till oct. We plan on getting married after he is done with a school. Im just worried that were not going to get married and something will go wrong or he will stop loving me. Has alot of girls stayed with there boyfriends or fiances and got married through all of bootcamp and schooling? Is it normal to feel like he doesnt love me anymore when I dont get letters that often?

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Once again you're posting the same things over and over again, except now
you're just spreading them all over these different forums.... If you're
worrying that he doesn't love you just because it takes a while to get a
letter while he's in a situation he can't control-- you might want to
rethink getting married. I'm not saying "Don't ever get married to him" just
to WAIT. If he's the one and you're going to be spending THE REST OF YOUR
LIVES together, you can wait however long for this all to blow over to make
sure he is the one. You don't want to be the ex wife or to be on your 2nd
husband later. I have seen so many people get married and divorced all in
the same year, some in the same month-- don't be one of them. Just wait.
It's only going to give you time to get to know each other again after being
thrown into such different scenarios than before.
If you're THIS insecure you need to wait. Mature a little more. Let ya'lls
relationship grow and get yourselves settled in this new world we call the
Navy. I guarantee it is something completely different than what you're
expecting. You'll see what I'm talking about in about a year.
As far as your question "Have a lot of girls stayed with there boyfriends or
fiancés and gotten married through all of bootcamp and schooling?"
One, you're in a MUCH different situation than a lot of the women on these
forums. As far as my personal experience my husband and I had little issue
as I went through boot and A-school while he was half way across the country
at his new duty station. That's 6 mo without seeing eachother. We waited till I got out to my first duty station which happened to be with him here in SD. I worked my butt off to get here but I stayed patient and we talked every day unless he was out at sea for the week.
I really am sorry i didnt mean to bother everyone. Im just really new at this and not used to be alone and just not taking it so well and over all really nervous about going in myself. Thank you for all yalls help though =]
And your right... I should really think about getting married if im worried this much. You really made me think =] But I know what we both want and I shouldnt worry. Thank you =]
I know how that goes. Almost everyone in here has had the same feelings. You just need to learn how to deal with it. And not post the same thing over and over again all over n4m.

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