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Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

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Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

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**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

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RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

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My sailor left about a month ago and i got my first call last week. But he was such a dif person. His voice sounded so different to. He is usually such a joyful and happy upbeat guy but when I talked to him he sounded so sad like he wasnt even happy to hear my voice. Is he the same guy i said yes to when he asked me to marry him? Im scared he isnt.

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Did he sound like the same person?
From my experience, my love is the same person. He is more concerned with attention to detail sort of things that he has learned like keeping his uniforms clean and neat, and more concerned with organization of all his things being a certain way. All positive changes.

When I got boot camp calls, he sounded down and out a couple times, and towards the end he was much happier! Keep in mind he is very busy...tired...and will possibly get sick at some point (like a cold). I think everyone in my husband's division was sick while they were there. They have a tough schedule so he is going to sound tired when you talk to him.
He's tired and exhausted both physically and mentally. It's a lot of stress being there.
It gets better just stay strong and send lots of letters letting him know how you miss him and love him and it also helps to count down the days together. I wrote every single day that he was there, and he said that was the best thing because he knew that I ended every single day thinking about him and our future together. Sometimes they just need the little gesture to make them feel like they are not missing out on so much that is going on while they have no access to anything. I sent the letters out twice a week, my husband was down all the time, we cried together, just keep making sure that you are telling him how much you love and miss him and that it will all be over soon. I hope that this helps you.
In a way he will be different. Between the physical and mental stress he is going through and the seperation from you and the others that he loves some things will change. What you may have heard in his voice was him trying to keep it together. Remeber, he is missing you and thinking of you also. My husband couldn't keep it together when he made his first call. His voice was horse from all the yelling and I didn't even recognize it. Your guy could have had a bad day, been hungry, lol...who knows. But what counts is that he called you.
This is a growing process for us all, not just our future sailors. The hope is that we grow towards eachother and not apart. Please don't feel insecure about his growth, remain positive, and send him your encouragment. Don't let one short phone call distort your feelings for your guy.
Hang in there, this is hard. It will be worth it to see him smiling on PIR day!

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