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Link to Navy Speak - Navy Terms & Acronyms: Navy Speak

All Hands Magazine's full length documentary "Making a Sailor": This video follows four recruits through Boot Camp in the spring of 2018 who were assigned to DIV 229, an integrated division, which had PIR on 05/25/2018. 

Boot Camp: Making a Sailor (Full Length Documentary - 2018)

Boot Camp: Behind the Scenes at RTC

...and visit Navy.com - America's Navy and Navy.mil also Navy Live - The Official Blog of the Navy to learn more.

OPSEC - Navy Operations Security

Always keep Navy Operations Security in mind.  In the Navy, it's essential to remember that "loose lips sink ships."  OPSEC is everyone's responsibility. 

DON'T post critical information including future destinations or ports of call; future operations, exercises or missions; deployment or homecoming dates.  

DO be smart, use your head, always think OPSEC when using texts, email, phone, and social media, and watch this video: "Importance of Navy OPSEC."

Follow this link for OPSEC Guidelines:

OPSEC GUIDELINES

Events

**UPDATE 4/26/2022** Effective with the May 6, 2022 PIR 4 guests will be allowed.  Still must be fully vaccinated to attend.

**UPDATE as of 11/10/2022 PIR vaccination is no longer required.

**UPDATE 7/29/2021** You now must be fully vaccinated in order to attend PIR:

In light of observed changes and impact of the Coronavirus Delta Variant and out of an abundance of caution for our recruits, Sailors, staff, and guests, Recruit Training Command is restricting Pass-in-Review (recruit graduation) to ONLY fully immunized guests (14-days post final COVID vaccination dose).  

FOLLOW THIS LINK FOR UP TO DATE INFO:

RTC Graduation

**UPDATE 8/25/2022 - MASK MANDATE IS LIFTED.  Vaccinations still required.

**UPDATE 11/10/22 PIR - Vaccinations no longer required.

RESUMING LIVE PIR - 8/13/2021

Please note! Changes to this guide happened in October 2017. Tickets are now issued for all guests, and all guests must have a ticket to enter base. A separate parking pass is no longer needed to drive on to base for parking.

Please see changes to attending PIR in the PAGES column. The PAGES are located under the member icons on the right side.

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I am a very new navy wife. My husband just left for basic 2 days ago and already I'm an emotional trainwreck (being pregnant doesn't help) I just want to know what to expect over the next 9 weeks. When I will get his adress, when will I know when he graduates. Will be in basic over thanksgiving and christmas make his time there longer? How do I cope?! Any input would be great, I'm still lost and unsure of what's going on. His recruiter is no help at all.

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Hi AshNuke Lover,

I know what you're going through. I have not seen my husband for the past 9 weeks but I will be seeing him tomorrow at graduation. You will get his address probably a week or two (the latest) in the mail. When you get his address, it will also include when his graduation date will take place. I'm not quite sure about his basic being longer due to the holidays. But if you go to Recruit Training Command page on Facebook, they have posted some information about that.

You cope by staying busy and positive! Write him letters ( I did, everyday)! Find hobbies, hang out with friends and family, just focus on staying busy. It really will help the days go by a lot smoother. Also, you'll find out what ship and division he is in when you get his address. I would then suggest you go find if a forum has been started for your husband's division (here on navyformoms.com) so you can find support with other Mom's, wives, girlfriends, etc. Cause remember they are going through the same emotions. Or you can find a PIR (MM/DD/YYYY) group that has been started (once you find out his graduation date). PIR= pass in review (graduation).

I was able to find a lot of support on here. It really helped a lot hearing from others that have recruits in basic training too.
Hope this helps! Send him news on your baby's development (Congrats!) and send him positive vibes, basic is hard for recruits especially being away from family and adjusting to the navy's ways. Hang in there!
I am in the same boat... my husband left Nov 10... missing Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years! Thanks for your advice.
Thank you Mike's Wife! I have found a "happy place" over the past month, we will have been gone a month tomorrow which just happens to my birthday. I do get sad, very sad at times, but I think part of that is my hormones haha, but anyone who says they never get sad or lonely with a loved one a boot camp is flat out lying. For christmas I am going to GL to see him, and take him and a buddy out for the day. The buddies GF happens to have become a friend of mine so she wil be joining me. I think the visit on Christmas day will help break up the next 5 weeks. I got the first call last friday and I had mixed emotions. I was so happy he called but at the same time was sad the call had to end. So many times I catch myself going to text him or call him, and I have to stop and tell myself, his phone is right here! I am surrounded by his family which has been a great support and my family, though they live far, are very supportive and it has made this time a tad easier. I have no idea what I got myself into becoming a Navy wife, and I understand its gonna get hard at times, but I have to stay positive, for the baby, and keep telling myself boot camp isn't the real navy. My husband is going to Nuke School in Charleston, and since it's so long he will be getting orders for me to come live with him, which will be nice.

Thank you again for your support, trust me I need all the advice I can get!!
I am just about 18 weeks. I find out a week from today what we are having, I am so excited!! I am excited for Charleston, I am sick of cold snowy winters! I have also been to Jacksonville and it's a pretty nice place. I have found just getting out of the house helps, from shopping to lunches and just having my mind occupied. I am trying my hardest to get through this, and I'm praying it's worth it in the end. Congrats on your #3, how far alond are you?

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